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Christian Groups Take Issue With Anti-Bullying Laws

Posted: Updated: 04/06/2012 9:53 pm

Antibullying Laws

Anti-bullying legislation may seem unlikely to spark controversy, but there are groups working to overturn new laws in the name of religious freedom.

Focus on the Family is planning to counter the "Day of Silence," an annual event to protest LGBT bullying set for April 20, with its own "Day of Dialogue". The evangelical organization's aim is to muffle an effort that "crosses the line in a lot of ways beyond bullying into indoctrination, just promoting homosexuality and transgenderism."

The group has been advocating an anti-anti-bullying message for years. When a California school adopted an anti-bullying rule that mentioned gays and lesbians in 2010, backlash ensued.

"The school introduced anti-bullying lessons, but really they're teaching elementary school kids about gay marriage," Candi Cushman, education analyst for Focus on the Family, told ABC. "We think parents should have the right to teach kids about it in their own way."

In March, a Christian hard rock band delivered an unusual message to Iowa high school students at an assembly about bullying. "They told these kids that anyone who was gay was going to die at the age of 42," one parent told the La Crosse Tribune.

Socially conservative groups nationwide have lobbied state legislatures to strike down and limit anti-bullying measures, The Guardian's Katherine Stewart reports.

Last month a Christian, family-values lobbying group convinced Arizona lawmakers to kill an anti-bullying bill that it said carried a gay friendly agenda, according to the Arizona Daily Star. The state Senate's minority leader, David Schapira, blamed the president of the lobbying group for killing the bill, calling her a "legislative terrorist."

"Cathi Herrod, an unelected lobbyist, killed a bill that would protect all Arizona kids purely because of her intolerance of gay kids," he said.

Materials on the Center for Arizona Policy's site tell Christian parents that their children have the responsibility to share their faith with others, and Herrod, the center's president, wrote in a statement that she opposed the anti-bullying bill in Arizona because it encouraged LGBT tolerance.

In recent years, concerns about bullying have garnered national attention. But when you look behind the curtain at what is driving this nationwide dialogue, you find out that the groups that are pushing the "anti-bullying" campaigns are the same organizations working to redefine marriage and to force cultural acceptance and affirmation of homosexual lifestyles.

Other states have passed legislation that specifically protects religious bullies. In 2011, Michigan passed a bill with a provision that allows bullying based on "a sincerely held religious belief or moral conviction."

The law, called Matt's Safe School Law, was named after Matt Epling, a teenager who killed himself in 2002 after bullies assaulted him. The clause was removed following outrage from lawmakers and Epling's parents.

An anti-bullying bill introduced last year in Tennessee contained similar language regarding faith-based bullying:

Harassment, intimidation, or bullying prevention task forces, programs, and other initiatives formed by school districts, including any curriculum adopted for such purposes, shall not include materials or training that explicitly or implicitly promote a political agenda, make the characteristics of the victim the focus rather than the conduct of the person engaged in harassment, intimidation, or bullying, or teach or suggest that certain beliefs or viewpoints are discriminatory when an act or practice based on such belief or viewpoint is not a discriminatory practice as defined in 4-21-102(4).

This measure originally was introduced in the wake of a gay teen's suicide. Last year, the Tennessee Senate passed a so-called "Don't Say Gay" bill that would have prohibited teachers from acknowledging any sexuality other than heterosexuality to students between kindergarten and eighth grade. It was voted down in the state House.

Anti-bullying backlash doesn't only come from Christian groups. Orthodox Jewish and Christian groups came together in Toronto last year to protest an anti-bullying measure “as a vehicle to indoctrinate children into embracing a new sexual revolution.” It focused on the measure's call to establish a gay-straight alliance, and add support for students of all sexual orientations and gender identities.

“To force, especially Christian, classrooms or schools to have homosexual clubs would, of course, be an affront to their family values,” said Charles McVety, president of Christian Canada College. “And what does this have to do with bullying? Nothing.”

Besides loving thy neighbor, what does the Bible say about bullying?

“Anyone who claims to be in the light, but hates his brother is still in the darkness.” 1 John 2:9

According to the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, 9 out of 10 LGBT teens report being bullied at school and these students are two to three times more likely to commit suicide than their straight peers.

Need help? In the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255 for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline.

CORRECTION: An earlier version of this story indicated that Matt Epling was gay. He was not. We regret the error.

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03:53 PM on 06/27/2012
The so called Christians that don't even make an effort to show love to others the way Jesus did, are not followers of Christ at all.
With that said I must say- if Christians aren't allowed to push agendas in public schools, why should homosexuals be allowed? That is a lifestyle choice that should be left to the parents to educate their kids about just like religion.
Furthermore, homosexuals aren't the only ones who get bullied or have suicidal tendencies. The fact of the matter is that homosexuals should not be the focal point of anti-bullying laws because they are a small portion of the victims of bullying.
I'm not anti-gay because I say this. I have several friends who are homosexual and I care about them and believe it is my duty as a Christian to love them and not be snobby because of their lifestyle choice. No one is perfect, and I believe Christians should start demonstrating the love of Christ to other people and stop degrading them because they do things that are against your religion. Newsflash fellow "Christians" we all do things against our own religion, that was the whole point of Jesus dieing on the cross!
But Christians aren't the only ones bullying other people. Every group of people has their own set of bullies. So why don't we all stop trying to act like we are superior to one another, agree to disagree, and stop bullying each other.
07:21 PM on 10/15/2012
Sorry, it's not so much of a lifestyle choice, and the schools are promoting awareness and tolerance for people who are gay. Roughly 10-15% of any given population is gay, and suppressing someone's sexuality is deeply disruptive to both their physiological health and to their mental stability.

The fact that you believe their lifestyle is a "choice" without mentioning the duress of 'choosing' differently, means you're probably either ill-informed about what it means to be gay (or have any other primarily-sexual difference from your culture), or you're not aware as to the effects of suppressing sexuality on a human's psyche....

And you'd be well amazed how many bullies are christian, regardless of the population who is, it's still disproportionate. There's also the fact that there's a ton of religiously-motivated bullying all around the country. Between religious bullshit and nationalism/'patriotism', there's a shitton of bullying because kids are told a lot of incorrect things by their schools and parents (I couldn't tell you the number of kids who mindlessly repeat that the US is best, despite the only thing the US being best in is GDP, which also comes from a relatively low population density and massive natural resources...).

The fact that you conflate, in your writing, if not in your opinion, being gay with being imperfect is obnoxious and condescending. Might want to look at your book again, since you obviously missed the point about thoughts and actions. That's *your* book.
10:02 AM on 05/17/2012
Jesus Christ said we should be more concerned with the "plank" in our own eye than the "splinter" in our brother's eye. In other words as my grandmother said "Mind your own beeswax!"
Christians are called to love their fellow humans even if they don't love what they do. If we all concerned ourselves with correcting our own shortcomings and having compassion for fellow humans the world would be a much better place. Slander is not free speech.
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02:33 PM on 04/29/2012
Religious persecution goes back to day one of the human race. The amount of people killed by Christians, in the belief that it is the only true religion, in the last 800 years is incredible, so you would think that in this day and age we would have grown up enough to be tolerant of race, sexual orientation, religion. That to force another to believe as you do and only as you do is against the Constitution. This country was started because the 1st settlers were bullied in the old country. Will we ever learn tolerance?

At one time Christians, Jews and Muslims all lived together peacefully for the most part...then came the Crusades.
11:52 PM on 04/30/2012
oh yea, and lets not forget the Turks & the Ottomans, Bosnians & Serbs, Muslims vs everyone else. Christianity and the Crusades aren't the only ones who caused war in the name of religion, ethnicity, culture, or whatever. stop trying to paint only Christians as the bad guys. Wherever there's mistrust, misunderstanding, etc - you will find division.
04:07 PM on 06/27/2012
Christians are not the only people who persecute other people with differing beliefs. Your view is completely biased and doesn't account for the massive amounts of persecution brought on by groups other than Christians. Also, while Christians and Jews might have lived peacefully at one point. I would never say based off of what I've read in both the bible and the Qur'an that Christians or Jews have ever lived peacefully together with Muslims. And the crusades was not the dawn of all persecution. I'm not saying that Christians haven't played their parts in persecution, but I am saying that they aren't the only group of people persecuting other groups as well as not being the only ones to be persecuted themselves.
01:18 AM on 04/20/2012
Ignorance is bliss except when your some what educated and have an IQ over 120. People need to get a grip on what is important. This is the US and guess what we can choose what we want. Keep you religious radical garbage in your own camp! Jesus would be ashamed! Bunch of haters...really wake up!
04:46 PM on 04/17/2012
If your idea of free speech uses words like fag,queer,sinner, hell,freak,or any variation of these words, it is bullying.Period. And hate filled.
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03:20 PM on 04/16/2012
Speaking of hypocrites, George Alan Rekers, evangelist and junk scientist who founded the Family Research Council and board member of the National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality, was caught with a male prostitute on a trip. He hired a Rent Boy he claimed to help carry his luggage. He was busted and outed. This are the type of Christians that give other Christians a bad name and the ones we oppose.
08:18 AM on 08/22/2012
LOL...I remember when that story broke. It's a classic!
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03:03 PM on 04/16/2012
Of course, CHristianist hate groups don't like anti-bullying measures: they *are* bullies.
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02:45 PM on 04/13/2012
Again Tennessee leads the headlong rush into the fifteenth century. Denial of bullying as a method of harassing those of a particular gender or percieved gender is insane. Can't discuss alternate life styles till high school. Then they are surprised when a child commits suicide or takes a gun to school to get even....and the beat goes on...
11:55 PM on 04/30/2012
Personally, I think some topics should not be discussed at all in school. That's the parent's job to do. It's no one else's business. Private stuff needs to be kept private. there's too much "out there, in your face' in our society today, and it's wrong.
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09:58 PM on 07/10/2012
But that is just the point, it is out there and it is in your face and a responsible parent needs to give their kids guidance. You can't legislate sexual orientation and that genie is never going back into the bottle no matter how much you may wish it would.
If you have ever attended a Little League game or youth soccer, you will quickly see that many parents are ill-equipped to teach sportsmanship, much less offer intelligent guidance on sexual orientation. Their parents are often a major part of why gay and lesbian teens commit suicide. Frankly the vast majority of parents are quite uncomfortable discussing sexuality with their kids and fail miserably in that area of parenting. Be honest, ask yourself and your friends where they got most of their information on sex from. Bet you will not hear, "From my parents."
02:18 PM on 04/11/2012
It is true that true anti-bullying legislation seeks to add to what is already illegal (slander, harassment, assault, etc.), free speech that might hurt someone's feelings. --But I have it on my heart to speak on the scripture that the writer quoted.

“Anyone who claims to be in the light, but hates his brother is still in the darkness.” 1 John 2:9 --This scripture is talking to believers in Christ, about other believers. Light and dark is not representative of saved and not saved. And "brother" is meaning "another believer." Verse 12 says, "I write unto you, little children, because your sins are forgiven you for his name's sake [Jesus Christ]." And this scripture is not speaking of embracing behavior.

Matthew 22 says to FIRST "love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. And THEN to "love thy neighbor as thyself." --Notice that this does NOT say to love thy neighbor as thy neighbor loves himself.

In loving someone as I myself, I seek to give that person what I have found and find to be most beneficial to me. And on the top of my list is 1) to feed the sheep and 2) to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ. And never would I ever embrace something that my neighbor does that the bible speaks against doing. To me, that would not be loving my neighbor.

Debra...
12:40 AM on 04/13/2012
No one is asking you or anyone else to embrace the gay lifestyle. The word is 'tolerance'. You can disaprove of someone's behavior and still be tolerant of them. You can disagree with someone and still treat them humanely.These anti-anti-bullying laws are openly promoting harassment based on sexual orientation. They are saying that it is alright to demean someone and call them names. That is not at all the loving doctrine of Christ. I have read the Bible five times front and back and there are so many instances of Jesus accepting and embracing outcasts such as a prostitutes and women who were living with men they weren't married to in a time when such things were punishable by death. Jesus was kind to men with contagious skin diseases who were abandoned by their friends and family and forced to beg for food on the side of the road. Jesus constantly reached out to those in need. To the outcasts. To the misunderstood. To the BULLIED.

Based on my own Christain background, there is absolutely no foundation for the belief that Jesus would have supported bullies. Christ did not teach his followers that the way to win others to the faith was through hurtful names or physical assaults. Throwing a gay boy into a locker and calling him a fag will not inspire him to follow Christ, love and acceptance will.
06:15 PM on 04/16/2012
You have a better understanding of Christ than most self-professed 'christians'. I am glad to become your first fan, and hope to see more from you.
10:29 PM on 04/18/2012
Do you also warn people that eating shellfish is an abomination? Or that men can't touch a woman who's on her period? Or that you shouldn't wear clothes of mixed fabrics? These are rules in the Bible that people have forgotten about today, and there are hundreds of others. Jesus never said one thing about homosexuality, so why is it so much more important to Christians than the hundreds of other rules in the Bible? In the world we live today, following every single rule in the Bible would be impossible. It's important that we understand that the Bible was written thousands of years ago, when the world was a very different place. It was also written in another language -- and it's been translated and retranslated and edited then edited again, and now people attempt to interpret it word for word in our current culture and language. Not only did they not have a word for homosexuality in Aramaic, but their entire concept of homosexuality was way different from ours. The idea of two people of the same sex entering into a long-term, loving, committed relationship (let alone getting married, which had nothing to do with love at the time and everything to do with practicality) would never have even entered their minds. So please, stop justifying your intolerance for homosexuality by claiming the Bible speaks against it. Either that, or go through the Bible, write down every rule that you find, and try to follow every single one.
08:25 AM on 08/22/2012
Why can't I ever get a straight answer from a Christian fundamentalist on this...the Old Testament calls everything "an abomination"; why are the millions of other Draconian laws in the Bible not enforced to the same degree as the couple of references to homosexuality?
My guess is that, since the social conservatives are in bed with fiscal conservatives, they've probably agreed to downplay the proscribed death sentence for working on the Sabbath.
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01:38 PM on 04/11/2012
I dont get it. Christians were bullied en masse when the religion first came out. They were used as human torches to light Nero's gardens why are these groups so adamant about bills which seek the rights of all peoples to live their lives unharrassed. I don't understand.
You dont have to support someone's lifestyle in order to support their right to live it. If this is how fundamentalist Christians think, they are no better than the Iranians, who they bash on other threads, for wanting to execute the Christian pastor.
02:35 PM on 04/11/2012
Then please let me try to help you "get it."

Using people as human torches and expressing one's thoughts on a topic do not compare with each other.

True anti-bullying laws seek to stop people from expressing thoughts that simply hurt some else's feelings, but do not cross over to that which is already illegal (harassment, slander, assault, etc.) Hence such laws are unconstitutional.
06:21 PM on 04/16/2012
Expressing one's thoughts on a topic and personal attack on an individual human being do not compare with each other either. No one is suggesting that the statement "i do not approve of homosexuality" should be made illegal. This is about abuse.
04:15 PM on 04/11/2012
Summed up? --Expressing one's thoughts does not equate with setting a person on fire.
11:23 AM on 04/11/2012
Because this is why Christ died: to give his followers the freedom to mock and humiliate anyone they don't like and use his name to justify their behavior.
01:10 PM on 04/11/2012
Actually, Jesus Christ died and rose from the dead so that all who believe on Him for forgiveness of sins and salvation would have eternal life with Him.

God's word teaches us followers of Jesus Christ to not be afraid and to speak truth. And I am very thankful that we live in a country that allows us to do so.

There will always be actions that are derived from a desire to mock and humiliate others (just look at your comment about us followers of Christ). And this is no matter what the doer of such actions believes or doesn't believe. But taking away free speech, is not the answer to dealing with it.

Debra...
01:46 PM on 04/11/2012
The thing is, Debra, this is America, and we've already decided that hate speech is not covered as free speech. YOu don't have the right to denigrate others for the color of their skin, for example, and I don't see Christians trying to justify such behavior. The fact that they want to be free to denigrate those whose sexual orientation they don't like is bad enough. That they want to allow their children to do it is even worse.

Your "faith" doesn't give you the right to denigrate others. Seriously -case closed. I can't believe anyone is even arguing this point.
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hiitsjoan
08:28 PM on 04/10/2012
Does that mean we can legally bully Christians?
08:58 PM on 04/10/2012
lol... Just read through this blog, and you'll find the answer to that question. --But I'll answer it right here for you.

If that which you call "bullying" is really nothing more than speech that might be seen as hurtful, absolutely yes you can. But, if it crosses over to that which is already illegal (harassment, slander, assault, etc.), then no.
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Louise Aloft
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11:52 AM on 04/13/2012
bullying may be conceived as 'hurtful speech' by adults, but for kids it's not the same. do they even know when they cross the line into harassment and slander?
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Fenrir Lokison
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06:46 PM on 04/10/2012
I am a believer and I too sometimes don't get Christians...

While we should fight to make sure we can say what is sin and what is not sin, we should NOT be fighting anti-bullying laws, as long as there is a clear distinction.

For example, while freedom of speech should support "This is why homosexuality is wrong and here is where I get my scriptures for my statement and belief and here are the consequence." But, not a band going to a high school to tell youngsters that they are going to die at 42 if they are homosexuals...That to me is bullying.

And we wonder why we aren't seeing the results we want? Its because we are the one's setting ourselves up for failure. But, you know what? The Bible says we would.
07:59 PM on 04/10/2012
The reason Christian groups (one of which I am part of) oppose anti-bullying laws is because true anti-bullying laws DO seek to take away basic freedom of speech to say how we believe about something.

Anything that crosses over to true harassment, slander or assault is already illegal.

And the bible does not say that we Christians will set ourselves up for failure. It actually says that we are more than conquerors in Christ.
04:59 PM on 04/10/2012
Groups like Focus on the Family are so desperate to control the cultural flow and to "champion religious freedom" that they adopt an absolutely passionate stance of sacrificing kids (GLBT kids, incidentally). Yet one of their stated goals is to protect kids. So it's more important to create and support bullies in the name of religion than it is to stop it (which apparently isn't religious enough for them). And they wonder why, with their destructive need to spread obscure theology, that they're called fundies derogatorily. Their apparent goal is to create special rights for the religious, to exempt them from the standards of social respect. Focus on the Family and groups like them have to be the most ignorant and two-faced people when they start asserting what they call "religious freedom".
05:59 PM on 04/10/2012
That is simply not true.
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Fenrir Lokison
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06:47 PM on 04/10/2012
Actually, if you understand humanity, you will see, even those with good intentions many times do cross the line and what should be an intent becomes a force for control.
04:25 AM on 04/10/2012
what are you talking iam a christian for 40 years and i have been more than bully ,i have had my work not promote me to another job ,because they say i sold religion.i have people talk and make fun of me all the time at my work .i have had people not want to sit with me at lunch time.i have had people call me bad names.i have people hate me and yet i have did them no wrong but tell them JESUS loves them.my life has been in danger many times,people tried to hurt me .they make fun of us in the newpaper online.yes if i shut up there no problem.but people died to give us freedom.i love all people.and yet they hate me.
12:57 PM on 04/10/2012
That's right. Great post!

Those of us who follow Jesus and let our light so shine among men, are persecuted. As a matter of fact, THAT is what they are trying to do with true anti-bully laws, is to bully us into the closet with our light. True anti-bully laws ARE bully laws.
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Fenrir Lokison
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06:51 PM on 04/10/2012
While I do agree with some of your statement, because I have been a believer since I was 15...The fact of the matter is, sometimes we do seek to overpower, when all we are to do is inform.

I do agree that there should be anti-bullying laws, as long as it encompasses even the bullying of those who have a religious background. Even God forbids the bullying of others. Jesus Christ never bullied anyone. He told it like it was and what it was going to be and that was it. If you accepted or not, that was on you. And this is how we should be.
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hiitsjoan
08:25 PM on 04/10/2012
Wah wah wah wah wah.....Christianity has more influence in this country's laws and social structure than is Constitutionally legal, and here you are whining like little bitches about being "persecuted." Guess what - not being allowed to force your dogma on other people is *NOT* "persecution."
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Louise Aloft
no man is an island
11:55 AM on 04/13/2012
it sounds like you were harassing people.