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"Sleeping Naked After 40:" How One Woman Reinvented Herself At 50

Posted: 04/20/2012 4:28 pm Updated: 04/23/2012 4:32 pm

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"The turning point happened in my kitchen. But it wasn't when I was cooking, eating or washing dishes. What happened in the kitchen actually took place in my head and changed my life forever and for the better."

So begins Rosie Battista's story of how she completely transformed herself at the age of fifty from a self-proclaimed "fat head" (always thinking and feeling fat, hating her body and tolerating life) to a competitive bodybuilder, finally comfortable in her own skin, and competing onstage alongside her 20-year-old daughter.

For Rosie, a closet full of beautiful vintage clothes that used to fit was a constant reminder that she had fallen into a rut, and she was not living her life as the person she wanted to be. She was teaching fitness and weight loss for a living, but she was 35 pounds overweight. She was selling her house in a bad market, she had just ended a committed relationship and her business was on shaky ground. And though she often spoke to her kids about her dreams of becoming a bodybuilder, she never acted on them. Even when her kids encouraged her to "just do it" the odds simply seemed insurmountable.

Then one day, something clicked for her and Rosie decided to reinvent herself and achieve her dream. It wasn't easy and there were many tears along the way. There were feelings of dread and despair. She had to battle her own internal voices of fear and doubt who repeatedly told her she was too old, hormonal and menopausal to ever reach her goals. But it was sheer determination and inspiration that kept her going. And the mother of three, who was about to turn fifty and was 35 pounds overweight, kept moving forward.

Today, Rosie is a successful author of several books, a weight loss specialist, a nutrition and lifestyle coach and a figure (bodybuilding) competitor. She now writes, teaches, coaches and competes from a place of confidence, strength and happiness. She went from being a "fat-feeling, frumpy, fifty-year-old" to a "fabulous, focused, confident fifty-year-young woman" who is now so comfortable in her skin that she sleeps naked every night and she loves it. And now she wants to share what she has learned.

This is her story:


To learn more, visit Rosie's web site.

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09:12 PM on 06/20/2012
What!? Are there people that do not sleep naked? www.myagelessliving.com
07:50 PM on 05/01/2012
I cried watching this Rosie... you are amazing and you told your story in such a heartfelt way! You should be so proud! XO Karen
07:10 AM on 05/01/2012
You look beautiful Rosie !!! You sure are an inspiration this brought me to tears. Because Ive changed my life too and its all thanks to you Rosie !!!
12:24 PM on 04/30/2012
Rosie, you rock! You're totally beautiful...
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what fresh hell is this?
01:25 AM on 04/29/2012
I don't care whether you are a size zero or a 20, clothing is pinch. It is 1:21, and we just got home from a dinner party and to take off my clothes and jump into bed was heavenly. Had a great night out, but let's face it, something is always tugging or pinching or encroaching.

I now vacuum and clean the house naked, and then jump in the pool or the shower, why get 4 more articles of clothing dirty....however, thank god i have remarkable hearing, because I have had to do a few covert op crawls behind the boxwood hedges when the pool guys show up a day early....Don't worry, we can't see our neighbors...on either side....
09:31 PM on 04/26/2012
You are truly amazing and inspiring! Thank you!!
11:13 PM on 04/25/2012
I spent 20 some years in the Military, Way too many Briars to lie down naked! not to mention poison ivy . Would have been nice to have had a bed. LOL
08:02 PM on 04/25/2012
I'm a 69 year old MAN who has slept in the nude since I was 20. I insist that any woman I am involved with does the same. Some are reluctant at first, but once they have tried it, find that they enjoy it very much. I read somewhere (I think it might have been in an earlier HuffPost) that people who sleep in the nude are (1) more ready for sex , (2) more sexually active, and (3) have better overall relations with their mate. Even if every encounter does not end with sex, the intimacy of mutual nudity is much more fulfilling and easier to experience when skin touches skin. At night when both people are asleep, there is still a connection between them that can't be explained but will be experienced.

Physical appearance does not necessarily plays a huge roll in this, either. The meer idea of mutual nudity in bed knocks down barriers and allows for a more open relationship. I have never understood why anyone would want to wear anything to bed...UCK!!!
07:44 PM on 04/25/2012
....dear rosie.. send me your phone number.... i sleep necked, too... we have a lot in common....!!
07:35 PM on 04/25/2012
And this is a newsworthy story because?
07:10 PM on 04/25/2012
And? why is that a news headline?
06:59 PM on 04/25/2012
I have slept nude since 1977 and am now widowed and a 66 year old woman. I love the freedom of movement. I like it for the comfort not any kind of looks. Geez!
07:45 PM on 04/25/2012
....me too... would love to sleep next to you!......
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06:37 PM on 04/25/2012
Hope she doesnt get skid marks on her sheets.
berrygal66
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06:31 PM on 04/25/2012
Did we need to know that she sleeps naked?
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05:57 PM on 04/25/2012
I would still rather have her 20 y o daughter!