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Average Wedding Cost Exceeds Median Income In U.S.

The Huffington Post  |  By Posted: Updated: 05/22/2012 8:28 am

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Mark Zuckerberg just married his longtime girlfriend Priscilla Chan a day after Facebook's epic debut on the NASDAQ. But most people aren't lucky enough to pocket a few billion the same week they tie the knot. For the majority of Americans, weddings remain a major expense.

Americans spent an average of $27,021 on their weddings in 2011, according to a survey conducted earlier this year by The Knot, a wedding website. (Hat tip to CNN.) That's the first time that cost has gone up since 2008. Wedding spending was on the decline in 2009 and 2010, two years that spanned much of the Great Recession. But the price tag is creeping back up now, though it has yet to reach the 2008 level of $29,334.

Last year's reported spending increase on weddings matches up with the small jump in overall consumer spending that took place at the same time. Notably, even though spending went up last year, incomes have been steadily dropping.

Yet despite the shaky economy, Americans remain willing to spend a significant amount on their weddings -- in many cases, spending more than what an ordinary worker earns in a year. The average wedding budget in 2010 was $26,984, while the median annual paycheck was reported as $26,364 for that year.

Many couples, however, have been bypassing wedding costs in other ways -- like not marrying at all. Marriage rates have been on the decline for decades now, with a growing number of people settling into other arrangements like unmarried cohabitation, according to a Pew Research Center report from December. But in recent years, it's been suggested that the poor economy may be helping to keep marriage rates down, as young adults are taking longer to get on a solid financial footing. Between 2009 and 2010 alone, the number of new marriages dropped by 5 percent, according to the Pew Research Center.

And that's all part of a larger story -- that thanks to a poor job market, it's taking young adults longer to hit the same milestones as their parents' generation. With young men and women experiencing the worst unemployment rate in decades, more and more people between the age of 25 and 34 -- unable to afford the cost of living alone -- are moving back to their parents' homes after giving it an unsuccessful go in the real world.

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07:35 PM on 12/01/2012
Mean wedding cost is a poor indicator of how much the average couple spends on their wedding. A few very expensive weddings can throw off the mean, making it appear as if the typical wedding actually costs over $25,000. The median cost of a wedding is a better indicator. Think critically about this kind of data, especially when it comes from people who make a living off the wedding industry (i.e. The Knot).
04:16 PM on 07/27/2012
I wonder if anyone has looked to see if this is tied at all to the rising age in the couple when they're getting married. I know personally waiting to get married had a big impact on our wedding budget.

I'm marrying for the first time next week (I'm 34, the groom is 31) and because of our current more stable socioeconomic position, we're spending more money than we would have say, when we were 20 or 25. We are also lucky enough to work at good, high paying jobs and choose to have a bigger wedding in the expensive city we live in (San Francisco) so all of our (large) families and friends could attend. (which of course, adds to the costs)
01:15 PM on 06/22/2012
I went to a wedding last weekend. The venue the bride chose was a farmhouse that cost $500 per day to rent. Her dress was bought off ebay. The flowers were wild flowers picked on site and arranged in wine bottles. White christmas lights hung in the trees. Several musician friends provided entertainment. I baked and decorated 150 cupcakes for their wedding cake. The biggest expense was wine and beer, and the pizza restaurant that came and baked wood-fired pizzas on site. It was the most beautiful and special wedding I have ever been to (including my own) because all of their loved ones were pitching in to make it that way.
07:32 PM on 05/22/2012
Zuckerberg's wedding was inexpensive. It was in his back yard. They served sushi. Nothing fancy.
03:48 PM on 05/22/2012
Why compare mean wedding cost to median income? Mean income (~60k) would provide a better comparison, since it is skewed as much by big earners as mean wedding cost is skewed by big spenders.
11:56 AM on 05/22/2012
I hope these people aren't having kids. Talk about mixed up financial priorities.
11:44 AM on 05/22/2012
My favorite comedian Bill Burr:

"Half of marriages end in divorce! Would you go skydiving if they told you only half the parachutes would open? No!"

$30,000 for a party and attention, and half of the stupid couples who spend it will see it go to waste. Give me a break. You are not that special.
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Frank Torres
When I step up in the place, yo I step correct
09:54 AM on 05/22/2012
30K for a wedding? Poor young couples start their lives together in the red. Small but sweet should be the wedding of the future.

http://www.orlandopolitics.net/
04:49 PM on 05/21/2012
"Americans spent an average of $27,021 on their weddings in 2011"

Getting married in front of the JP with a couple of your freinds as witnesses is looking pretty sweet about now...one can save about $26,975...
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10:18 PM on 05/21/2012
Think of the honeymoon you can have for that...
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Jessica Ann Stallings
Alternative designer. Screw the norm.
12:49 AM on 05/22/2012
We eloped with a nondenominational priest. The paperwork, the wedding, and "reception" (dinner with a couple of friends at the Hilton, and drinks and a metal show at a local bar) cost us about $175. We had our one-night honeymoon at the Hilton a week later, which ran us about $150. We wore clothes we already had, and I wore a series of cheap rings until we could finally afford a nice one (he doesn't wear one after a bad experience in the Navy involving his hand and an ammunition pallet).