This week's Family Dinner Table Talk, from HuffPost and The Family Dinner book:
This week, the organization behind the ACT test announced plans for a new career prep assessment that starts in kindergarten.
It’s not clear yet exactly what form the system will take, but whatever the finished product looks like, it’s sure to spur a discussion about how young is too young to start thinking about college and careers.
As kids face increasing pressure to think about these things before they even reach middle school, it’s important to note that countless successful writers, actors, businesspeople and politicians stumbled upon their true passions after starting on totally different paths. Martha Stewart, for example, was a stockbroker before becoming a home-goods goddess; before she was the Barefoot Contessa, Ina Garten was a nuclear policy analyst for the White House. And Al Franken was a writer and actor for “Saturday Night Live” long before he became a senator.
In fact, people often change jobs as many as ten times in their lives -- and few end up on the career track that appealed to them most when they were five, fifteen, or even twenty-five years old. That said, of course, it never hurts to dream.
Questions for discussion:
- What do you think you want to be when you grow up? Has this changed over the years?
- Are there concrete steps you can take to get where you want to go?
- Have adults in your family ended up with the careers they thought they would have when they were kids?
In her cookbook, The Family Dinner, Laurie David talks about the importance of families making a ritual of sitting down to dinner together, and how family dinners offer a great opportunity for meaningful discussions about the day's news. "Dinner," she says, "is as much about digestible conversation as it is about delicious food."
We couldn't agree more. So HuffPost has joined with Laurie and every Friday afternoon, just in time for dinner, our editors highlight one of the most compelling news stories of the week -- stories that will spark a lively discussion among the whole family.
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