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Gifts For Wife And Husband Married A Long, Long Time

11/30/2012 08:00 am 08:00:01 | Updated Dec 10, 2012

It may be better to give than to receive, but it sure can be hard to give sometimes when you've been with the same person for years -- and years. What's worse is that most people today -- living in a fast-paced, highly visual world -- have gotten pretty picky about their presents. Buying something special has become so hard, in fact, the National Retail Foundation says the most requested gift over the last five years has been a gift card.

So what do couples say when asked about their favorite gifts? Not surprisingly, people's preferences run the gamut, from fine jewelry to sexy pajamas. The common theme running through all the responses though is that putting thought into a gift still counts -- for a lot.

"As far as the best gift I've ever gotten, I'd say diamond earrings," said Sue Flaherty, a New Jersey mother of three.

For neighbor Emily Wittmann, jewelry is also the perfect present.

"My best gift? My first Tiffany blue box with a sterling bangle bracelet inside ... then a towel warmer for the shower ... and many Tiffany blue boxes thereafter," she said.

Another long-married woman said her favorite present is pretty pajamas because "I will wear them to death." She also thinks a great gift is a pair of tickets to a play or concert. "Long-term married people are at the stage where they want to get rid of stuff and not acquire more stuff," she added.

Another couple agreed that their favorite gifts to each other are great vacations. "We always agree not to give each other presents so that we can go on a big trip," said Bob Whitehead, a retired Texas businessman. But he also likes electronics. "I like anything that I'm not likely to go out and spend money on myself," he said.

New Jersey businesswoman and mother Sarah Stibbe Damaskos said that any pre-arranged evening/day/weekend out during which she doesn't have to do any of the planning is the best gift her husband could give her. "I don't want to have to make reservations or arrange a babysitter ... I just want to appear at the front door and be ready to go," she said.

East Coast real estate agent Tamima Friedman said her husband of 25 years always manages to buy gifts she actually loves. "I am passionate about our dachshunds and one year he got me a dachshund weathervane to put on our roof," she said. "And, of course, you can never go wrong with chocolate or flowers either."

Kelly McDonald said that her favorite Christmas gift was given the year she and her husband bought their first house. "I gave my husband half of the house for Christmas and he gave me half ... that was our agreement," she said. "After that we were essentially broke."

So what are some other great gift ideas for long-time partners? Check out our slideshow for 10 ideas. And please feel free to add your own gift ideas in comments.

Great Gifts For Long-Term Couples
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