"A lot of men would say to me, 'Oh, I know my love language' -- even before they read the book," Dr. Chapman says in this clip. "They just see the five [and say], 'Oh I'm Physical Touch.' And I say, 'Well maybe, but let me ask you a couple of questions. Do non-sexual touches make you feel loved?' And they look at me like a deer in the headlights."
Watch as Dr. Chapman explains why having a Physical Touch love language doesn't always equate to sex, then tune in to "Oprah's Lifeclass" on Sunday, Feb. 10, at 9 p.m. ET on OWN to see the conversation in its entirety.
What's your love language ? To find out, click here and take Dr. Chapman's free 5 Love Languages quiz!