By Leigh Newman
Here are the ways we silently -- and secretly -- discourage ourselves from doing the things that would make us the happiest.
1. We focus on the positive.
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2. We make up logical-yet-illogical rules.
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3) We call the correct wrong (or right) best friend.
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4) We surrender to who we were.
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Leigh Newman is the books editor of Oprah.com and the author of the memoir Still Points North.
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