1. "You can totally wear that dress again!" But after seeing 14 other women wear it at the same time, I'd actually rather burn it.
2. "You don't want to upstage the bride." Will deviating from the gold jewelry, nude pump, and pink manicure dress code really detract from the bright white bundle of tulle standing on the alter? Will it?!
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