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Would You Buy This for Your Daughter?

Posted: 08/12/11 01:39 PM ET

While waiting for my mom to get out of the fitting room at Target, I started looking at clothes. Seeing nothing that looked like it would fit me (unsurprisingly, since I was standing in the middle of the women's section) I started walking toward Juniors. (Juniors is generally inclusive of teens 13 through 19, although it may, depending on the store, cater more to the upper or lower wedge of that age group.) It was while walking past the Intimates aisle that I noticed every single bra on the Juniors rack was a pushup. Even a bunch marked "Sport" were, which seemed to defy the real purpose. Whether plain black or garishly multicolored, every single one was designed to create illusory cleavage. I have nothing against padded bras in general. But my immediate thought in the store was, Why the hell does a teenage girl need one?

The issue of the over-sexualizing of girls from an early age has come to the forefront with a recent news story about model Thylane Lena-Rose Blondeau posing suggestively for the cover of Vogue magazine. Over a series of photos, the ten-year-old is shown sprawled on leopard-print cushions, wearing a skimpy gold dress, stiletto heels, and posing heavily made-up, with rouge and lipstick. She's ten years old, yet she looks scarily adult in the photos.

The question is, should we be so surprised? We've had it coming for a while now. After all, we live in a culture where the walls of any Abercrombie and Fitch store are adorned with some dude's naked torso and skimpily dressed girls, where JCPenney, Macy's, and Aeropostale's websites all feature comprehensive selections of lacy G-strings and thongs on their juniors pages. "Aerie," American Eagle's undergarments line aimed at teenage girls (According to a press release: "aerie by American Eagle is a new line of intimates and dormwear designed for girls 15 to 25 years of age"), features on its homepage "Drew--Our New Pushup Bra That Adds 2 Cup Sizes," with the heading "Double Whoa." Do fifteen-year-olds really need an extra two cup sizes?

Aerie's underwear selection isn't a whole lot better, featuring lots and lots of tiny uncomfortable looking lace thongs (with the cheery slogan, "Even more cutie for your booty!")

In a nation where we're dealing with sky-high teenage pregnancy rates, where we claim to be trying to get girls to have more positive body image and value themselves based on intellect and achievement rather than looks, are these garments sending the right message?

You may pass this off as just teenagers wanting to rebel against their parents and dress skimpily, that it's an age thing, but it has a lot to do with marketing too. A deluge of undergarment advertising -- storefront posters or Times Square ads featuring young models -- has made what used to be adult lingerie acceptable, even common, wear for teenage girls.

And where there's money to be made, companies won't stop at age 13. Abercrombie and Fitch marketed a padded pushup "triangle bikini top" to girls as young as seven.

America, you're sending girls a mixed message. On one hand you're saying to have positive body image and love who we are, on the other we're being marketed makeup and clothing that obviously turns us into someone different. We're not supposed to go after boys with looks (or really show that much skin at all), yet we're being sold "boyfriend pushups," lacy thongs, and magazines like Seventeen (which is read by girls way younger than seventeen, I'll tell you) or CosmoGirl with feature articles like "476 Ways to be Irresistible."

By creating so many illusory images of physical perfection, whether on store aisles or storefront ads, magazine covers or TV shows, we speak more to the profit margins of companies than the self-esteem of today's girls. The unsaid message of that endless rack of juniors' pushup bras? No matter what size you are, it still isn't good enough.

This issue might seem trivial, but I think the battle for girls' empowerment will not only be fought in company boardrooms and campaign rallies, the sports stadium or the conference stage. It'll be fought on the magazine covers and the storefront ads, on the designer's table and a department store aisle ... where someone else is probably wondering if teenage girls really need pushup bras.

 

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While waiting for my mom to get out of the fitting room at Target, I started looking at clothes. Seeing nothing that looked like it would fit me (unsurprisingly, since I was standing in the middle of ...
While waiting for my mom to get out of the fitting room at Target, I started looking at clothes. Seeing nothing that looked like it would fit me (unsurprisingly, since I was standing in the middle of ...
 
 
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05:53 PM on 08/25/2011
my mom was a Hippie and she taught us (sister & I) to make our own clothes. we were raised wearing boys' clothes because they didn't shred when we ran through the brush, or dug mud pits, or played outside with the chickens. when we got old enough to be tired of Oshkosh and Buster Brown's, she took us to the fabric store and had us look at clothing patterns. to this day I'm utilitarian when it comes to clothing.

also, one thing that people DON'T cover in addressing thongs and underwire bras, is that they aren't healthy. they force your body to do things it's not designed to do: thongs prevent *it* from breathing, causing infection; and underwire bras can actually create cysts and plugged sweat glands from the constant pressure. in other words, these garments can be as unhealthy in the physical sense as they are in the psychological.

that said, my mom always bought me bras with extra "reinforcement," after she noticed grown men checking out her 11-year-old's "headlights." i am eternally grateful to her for that.
02:19 PM on 08/23/2011
I myself have never felt the need to wear a push-up bra. It's ridiculously hard to find a normal, non-pushup bra now, which I find extremely sad since people are supposed to be happy with themselves. I wear makeup occasionally. I care about how I look. But I don't think that teens should wear pushup bras to make themselves "irresistible" to the opposite sex--ugh, you're still in middle or high school. Focus on studying instead of being sexy.

Be happy with who you are. But please don't use makeup or push up bras to do that.
05:49 PM on 08/22/2011
Good for you! I think you should dress sensibly and for comfort when you are in school walking from classroom to classroom. Pick friends that reflect your ideals and values and just let it go. You can't determine what others wear or buy or what stores sell.
02:28 PM on 08/21/2011
a push up bra for a seven year old? no. I really dont think many 7 year olds are actually really interested in being uncomfortable to look good unless others persuade them that it is needed but from like 12 and up, whether you instill good beliefs and values in them or not, girls are going to care how they look. I was wearing makeup and underwire (no pushup) bras at 12. that doesnt mean im going to become a teen mother and start sleeping with boys in 7th grade. it boosted my confidence. and yes, i knew there was more to life then just good looks, i was also very concientous about doing good in school, sports, and being a nice person. i think adolescents should be able to use certain products if they choose, but if i had a teen i would never allow them to get plastic surgery until tht and i would educate them about body image issues.
02:37 AM on 08/20/2011
Oh and want to talk about the sky rocket in teenage pregnancy. When history had girls marrying as soon as they hit puberty and its was embarrassing if you weren't married by 20. Talk about sending the right message... when was the right message ever being sent? Who's sending it now? And im 23 I never got any messages and so can I blame these older generations? I mean you were responsible for my generation. Why didnt I get a message? People are responsible for their own choices and actions. We can only blame society for so long unless of course we kill someone because we learned how to in a video game or from google, then its entirely our own fault not societies.
02:25 AM on 08/20/2011
I wish I could record for you HOW MANY mothers a day tell me how amazing our store is because I bra selection is so appropriate. I feel like those of you attacking this bra clearly havent even given American Eagle a chance. And those of you writing how girls who are modest grow up to be classy. What girls with larger breasts arent modest therefore cant be classy? You do realize its a proven fact that women and girls of all ages "dress up" to impress other woman not men. So maybe the problem here is woman being overly judgmental of other woman not the bras AEO sells. And if your daughter makes the decision to purchase a bra that adds 2 cup sizes you cant throw that on society as sexualizing them. Its also on parents. Because lets be honest here when has society NOT sexualized woman? Name a time frame. I'm an anthropology major and I study cultures and societies from current to extinct and woman were always being sexualized so dont act like this is something new. Its not something thats going to change either so instead of attacking an amazing company that treats its employees incredibly well, has great quality clothing, amazing customer focus and gives back to the country its named after how about we all be the change we want to see in the world and make it a better place to live in by improving ourselves rather than throwing stones.
02:23 AM on 08/20/2011
Half of the bras at the store are padded and the other half unpadded. Now if you look at Aeries main competitor in bras and undies its victorias secret. Lets discuss the sexualization there, well for one EVERYTHING besides the pink line looks like lingerie even if its for everyday. And the pink line isnt any better. These 5 for 25 undies have more sexual innuendos on them than I can even count. And the PINK line of yoga pants has words written across the butt, now where does that direct your eyes too? Sorry but the answer to that is not your daughters smile. I've been associated with several companies who I believe over sexualize anything and everything- Abercrombie who has porn for marketing and Forever 21 who sell "micro minis" for 6.50. And a girl alone at the mall with friends can afford Forever's micro mini spandex skirts not a 50$ bra. The majority of Aeries current line of undies is made up of maybe 10% thongs. So anyone attacking our undies and bras needs to maybe walk into our store and educate themselves. cont'd...
02:22 AM on 08/20/2011
Anyone who is under the false impression this bra is for 15 yr olds really needs to delve deeper into their research of the American Eagle brand. Now you can say Im bias because I am an employee of theirs but Im biased because the other companies I've worked for. Now as an Aerie employee I can tell you for a fact that the LARGE majority of people buying Drew are in fact in their 20s. And most teen girls who come shopping usually do so with a parent so any attempt they make to purchase this bra is shut down by good parenting. And for those who come without parents, WELL, this bra is 50$, how many 15 yr olds can afford that? From dealing with teen customers I can tell you they prefer quantity over quality therefore unless they are with their parents they really dont purchase much from Aerie. Any of you who've actually purchased bras from our store wouldnt be so angry. One of our best selling bras is a full coverage bra, unpadded, called Katie and before the drew we recently introduced a bra with EVEN more coverage called the Sofie also unpadded. cont'd...
12:51 AM on 08/19/2011
"Would you buy this for your daughter?" HELL NO! jeez!
10:45 PM on 08/18/2011
I've been wearing push up bras basically since i've been wearing bras.. my mother being a smaller woman had always worn them and therefore didnt see anything wrong with me wearing them. I continue to wear them. I dont wear them for any "sexual" reason I simply wear them because I always have and they are comfortable to me. I honestly dont see the big deal in what a kid wears under their clothes so much as what they are wearing over them..it's the low cut tops and booty shorts I see 10 year olds wearing that disturbs me.
07:19 PM on 08/18/2011
Yes, You are the parent, but when you go out to buy a bra for your 12 year old, and all they HAVE is push-up, padded, or push-up AND padded, it's pretty hard to choose.
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10:43 PM on 08/17/2011
Hmmm, well when I was 12 a good friend showed me her new training bras...and I just had to have some too, I felt like it was some right of passage I wanted to experience too.

...so I went home and told my mom, and she laughed at me. : P

One, she said I had no boobs and what was there to train. >.<

...two, she honestly didn't believe in bras.

My mother thought bras made breasts not work for themselves, that the chest muscles just atrophied...because the bra didn't make them work for the perk. >.>

...she said only women with actual boulders, needed over the shoulder boulder holders.

Then she walked away laughing.

Years later in my 20's, I ran into the same friend and we decided to dress up and go out that night...she unleashed her girls, and gravity took over.

We had ended up the same "bra size" after all those years, but hers looked a tad different.

Now in my forties I still don't own a bra, I will wear tops with the built in little shelves...or a nude colored tank to tame nipplage and visibility when needed, but will likely never own a bra.

They are seriously not comfortable to me.

...so, if I had a daughter, unless she was ultra endowed.

No, I wouldn't buy her a bra.
05:28 PM on 08/17/2011
The issue is not trivial and it is not simple teenage rebellion. Rebellion is when you go a different way than your parents. This over-sexualization of girls is driven entirely by the marketing / advertising industries and is enabled and encouraged, if indirectly, by the 30 and 40 year old women whose daughters it is aimed at.

Look at how you follow the question of whether we should be surprised. Everything you list as a contributing factor is simply another advertising campaign. The entire phenomenon was created by the responsiveness of 30 to 40 year old women to the advertisements when shopping for their girls.
03:53 PM on 08/17/2011
The teenage set is probably thrilled by this new invention. If I had a small chest at 15, I probably would have bought it too. Most girls at 15 are pretty developed anyway, and if they aren't, well, that's probably all they will have the rest of their life unless they gain weight. I don't think that this is too much of an issue, because that's how 15 year olds are. They are concerned with how they look. I'm pretty sure in the 50s that wearing make-up drew the same type of anger from mothers and fathers alike. Just make sure you teach your kids to be responsible and to learn how to kick ass and take names.
03:47 PM on 08/17/2011
We reject our youth, by wanting them to grow up too soon. We reject our aged, by holding on to our youth. We do this artificially--padded bikini tops for 7 year olds, botox for 30 somethings. All the while losing our preciously few moments of life. Let us embrace, not reject, all stages of life--for ourselves, our children, our parents and our world!