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The Dalai Lama Does Not Exist and Neither Do I

Posted: 05/25/10 02:32 PM ET

At Radio City Music Hall last week, His Holiness, the Dalai Lama came forth to offer Buddhist wisdom. As robed monks in red and ochre filed in to take their seats, the walls were illuminated in ochre, as if we had entered a giant, cozy cathedral of Buddhism. I was grateful to be there but even so must confess that I find it hard to get my mind around certain aspects of Buddhist cosmology.

Very clearly, the Dalai Lama is not urging the Buddhist view on everyone. In fact, he encourages people to follow their own heritage, and told us that, in a non-Buddhist country, a lecture by a Buddhist monk "looks a little strange, but may be useful."

Over the last 23 years that I've received His Holiness' teachings, they have most certainly been useful. I've valued Buddhism for its emphasis on compassion and loving kindness, its reminder that we are all interconnected, its tolerance of religious diversity, and the high value it places on all life. Science has confirmed the value of Buddhist practices: Long time meditators develop health-promoting inner calm, resilience and happiness. New research indicates that those with the ability to calm the mind can also effect material phenomena through the power of awareness.

To me all of this is Buddhism's "good news," and it certainly is plentiful.

Yet as I sat back readying myself to hear the newest wrinkle on the ancient teachings, I felt a familiar combination of dread and relief. Dread because I knew that the ultimate truth in Buddhism is that all is emptiness. And that includes me. Relief for reasons I can't quite name.

For an American, the freedom to be "me" reigns supreme. In a culture that glorifies individuality, celebrity, self-discovery and even the independence to buy a Big Mac, having it "my way," is what it's all about. Like one giant assembly line of "selfhood," our media and culture churn out icons at a steady pace, each one mirroring a common need to be recognized, respected, understood, successful and loved.

Yet when one of the most respected and enduring "icons" of our time, the Dalai Lama, teaches that according to Buddhist cosmology, fundamentally the separate self does not exist, I have to pause. What does that mean? It means at a foundational level, this world religious leader doesn't exist. And neither do you and I.

Undoubtedly, on what Buddhist teachings call the "conventional' level, when I get up every morning there I am. My self is my most familiar companion, the one who's always there, accompanying me through life. Yet on an ultimate level, that cherished self, so special, so individual, so charming, (and sometimes a real pain) -- that "me"-- is a construct, a wispy illusion, say the Buddhist teachings.

Instead of creating my own reality or being the architect of my life and destiny, I am nothing. That precious self to whom I cling and for whom I labor to make a good and worthy life, in the mirror of Buddhism face its essential emptiness. A blank void stares back at me in place of that cherished and familiar old face of mine -- my identity.

Something inside me silently screams: Say it isn't so.

Yet within also arises a sense of relief, as if welcoming the opportunity to let go of that striving to protect that self, or even to assure its spiritual evolution and good karma. Somewhere I know that this clinging to identity and to life is what prompts all of us to do the icky stuff we sometimes find ourselves doing.

It's easier to see the grasping self at work in others. Since profit-driven corporations are now people, too -- corporations who cut corners to protect their own profits, and end up polluting the waters upon which life on earth depends top my current list of self-graspers. But there are many ornery others, all with their different self agendas, and of course there are my own.

Even by writing a blog on my struggle with deep cosmology, I'm interjecting my individual selfhood into the spiritual mix.

Evolving, surviving, doing good, belonging -- psychology has taught me to gently acknowledge my self's favorite drivers, and to value the process and learning I undergo thanks to them. But Buddhism keeps reminding me of the empty resonant void beyond this striving -- a void that once frightened me, which now I resist, but which beckons somehow. Perhaps because alongside this abundant world with its cornucopia of action, even my little old self would welcome a space where emptiness carries it all.

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At Radio City Music Hall last week, His Holiness, the Dalai Lama came forth to offer Buddhist wisdom. As robed monks in red and ochre filed in to take their seats, the walls were illuminated in ochre,...
At Radio City Music Hall last week, His Holiness, the Dalai Lama came forth to offer Buddhist wisdom. As robed monks in red and ochre filed in to take their seats, the walls were illuminated in ochre,...
 
 
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06:18 PM on 07/12/2010
Over time I have learned from His Holiness that another word is just as important as “emptiness,†and that word is the little preposition “of.†Nothing is inherently “empty,†but everything is empty of inherent existence. Every thing, every phenomenon is empty of the real or absolute existence we generally ascribe to it. - from Rev. John Lundin, author of THE NEW MANDALA - Eastern Wisdom for Western Living, written in collaboration with His Holiness the Dalai Lama
10:46 AM on 07/06/2010
I don't exist, is often misunderstood. The point is "I am" is a concept, it is a construct of the mind. So like any other concept it disintegrates when it is viewed.

When the rope is seen as a rope the snake disappears automatically. Until then the snake exist and is real.

A meditator hears this and starts imagining himself as "i am not" this is an inherent fallacy with all enlightenment practices. The point is, one cannot imagine himself as "i am not" and thats not needed either. All that is needed is to see "I am" is a concept, thats all...Only when this happens the other state occurs. And unless this happens...the other state is a projected state from the state of "I am".

hope it is not very confusing.
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02:12 PM on 06/03/2010
Before Enlightenment, Chop Wood, Carry Water.

After Enlightenment, Chop Wood, Carry Water.

So be in the world, but not of it. Expect no reward. No Gain or Hope of Profit.

I try to pattern my life after this guy:

http://yfrog.com/3yhoteiushu0013sqj

Hotei Ushu, the Zen Sack & Stick Priest. Another example is in Hiroshi Inagaki's Samurai Trilogy of films about Miyamoto Musashi, the guy who painted the piece above. That example is Zen Master Takuan, who embodies the spirit of Hotei Ushu better than any other character I've seen.
07:18 PM on 06/03/2010
This is an interesting article about the Dalai Lama's hypocrisy from Gawker.com

'Marxist' Dalai Lama Visits New York, Denounces Capitalism (Sort Of)

'Marxist' Dalai Lama Visits New York, Denounces Capitalism (Sort Of)The exiled Tibetan spiritual leader is holding court in New York, where yesterday he said Marxism has "moral ethics" and capitalism is solely about "how to make profits." Event tickets were between $20-$60. He's holding a Twitter Q&A today, too!

His Holiness is in town on a four day visit, where he has been speaking at Radio City Music Hall and hanging out with Richard Gere. According to the AP, yesterday he told the crowd, some of who paid $700 for scalped tickets, that "still, I am Marxist," and that capitalism creates economic inequalities that are very bad. But he said Marxism only works if the regime in power is nice and doesn't abuse its authority. And then he basically said capitalism saved China. Want to make up your mind, man?
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09:24 PM on 06/03/2010
The Dalai Lama is correct that Marxism is more concerned with social justice than capitalism. That said, Marxism has one great flaw that it shares with Fascism, the belief in dictatorship. ANY dictatorship, whether of the Proletariat as advocated by the former or of an elite as advocated by the latter, is Tyranny, plain and simple.
01:07 PM on 06/03/2010
Sorry, Jesus was NOT a libertarian. He believed in free, single-provider healthcare, and covered preexisting conditions like Original Sin. He advocated wealth redistribution. ("Sell all that you own and distribute the money to the poor... Matt 19:21). He was anti-war. ("...all those who take up the sword will perish by the sword..." Matt 26:52). He was soft on crime. ("I say to you, do not resist one who is evil..." Matt 5:38) He would have opposed the so-called war on terrorism. ("Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you..." Matt 5:44) Brothers and sisters! Who is ready to love Osama bin Laden and pray for the Taliban? Brothers and sisters? Hello?? Rand Paul would not approve.
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09:26 PM on 06/03/2010
Dang, Jusus would have made a pretty good Buddhist!
07:29 AM on 06/04/2010
For a fun (but decidedly non-canonical) take on this you might like to read "Lamb" by Christopher Moore.
01:45 PM on 06/02/2010
Dear Quintus: I can't find our posts on the thread! Regarding DS, yes I have read Dreyfus's work. I was a moderator on www.e-sangha.com in the Vajrayana and meditation section. I had to work with both sides of this issue. NKT use of DS and manipulation of student teacher relationship has caused so much confusion and pain. As for Tibetan folks, not only have they been torn from their country the must still deal with the politics of the old days which are no more.

Much, Metta xox
03:08 PM on 06/02/2010
I have a feeling they were removed for some reason? If others are going to post this stuff, I think we should have an opportunity to respond to it.

I didn't know you were a moderator on e-sangha! Good for you. And for educating yourself on this issue. My appreciation for you continues to expand!
06:00 PM on 06/02/2010
Found the posts, my iphone and HP page had our comments, however this page we are one didn't refresh on my computer for some reason. No one has removed anything. Thank you for your kind comments, moderating Vajrayana folder was a trail by fire. For this reading this conversation.... Very important information. The path of awakening is dangerous, one should not drop their critical thinking skills trying to find emptiness ;-)
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08:16 AM on 06/02/2010
To Do For Saturday:

1) Walk the dogma,

2) Wash the karma...
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07:11 PM on 06/01/2010
It isn't that you don't exist, it's that your view of existence is a hard static "something" that doesn't exist. You are and all that you see is it's just not what you think it is.
05:13 PM on 06/01/2010
Since no one and no thing actually exists then neither do our deeds, those either compassionate or uncompassionate. This presents a problem with Karma too because if we do not exist then what is there to reincarnate for "balance". Even that becomes illusory - when illusion is the only thing that gets to "exist"...If ALL is an illusion then ALL is an illusion - even the pollution, even the children dying, even the corporate lying...

So, I choose now to exist - because I see it is the only way to even try to achieve balance... If I exist then so does everything else and I can then, and only then, make some kind of difference in me - and the world.
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01:21 PM on 06/01/2010
Where you seek it, it will never be. This is the dharma.
squat6971
59 *was* divine -- 60? not so much
10:28 AM on 06/01/2010
Very nice, folks, but you're still all full of hoohah.
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joe757
12:01 PM on 06/01/2010
Perhaps, but it's the civil kind so rare in today's toxic environment.
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09:30 PM on 06/03/2010
Some will look at the way and take it and keep it.
Some will see the way and take it then lose it.
Some who see the way , will laugh out loud at it.
If this does not happen, IT is NOT the way.
relevancematters
You're so full of what's right, you can't see what
07:15 PM on 05/31/2010
It is a testament to Buddhist practice that this thread is so incredibly free of petty and hate-filled replies. I am myself a Christian with tremendous respect for Buddhist teachings. You never see this level of kindness and collective consciousness on the threads pertaining to Christianity. How sad that Yeshua, the soul of kindness, should be cursed with such a following!
11:27 PM on 05/31/2010
But are those who call themselves 'Christians' actually following the true teachings of the Teacher Yeshua? His only commandment to us, in John 15:10-12 is the same as the teachings of this teacher, the Dalai Lama, 'that your joy may be full, you must love one another, as I love you.' Loving compassion and tolerance are the core of the real teachings of Jesus/Yeshua. Those who divide and dither over this religion or that religion, are not following Jesus's teaching, and so can they be truly called followers....His admonition of 'sell all you have and follow me' was not about material things, though they too may have been sold, but to release all that we value in the way of our 'seeing' and how we perceive our selves and 'others'...to truly love your neighbor as yourself, because your neighbor truly is your self, the same as you, in every way...and who is our neighbor? Everyone...In Jesus's gift to us, called 'A Course in Miracles' he reminds us: 'When everyone is welcome to you as you would have yourself be welcome to your Father, you will see no guilt in you. For you will have accepted the Atonement, which shone within you all the while you dreamed of guilt, and would not look within and see it. ' (Text, Ch. 13, Section X 'Release from Guilt'pg.263-264.)
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03:57 PM on 05/31/2010
If you want others to be happy, practice compassion.
If you want to be happy, practice compassion

~The Dalai Lama
03:46 PM on 05/31/2010
The idea of Buddhism is that One attempts to watch the mind stream and correct incorrect perception that are based upon illusions, i.e.Any thought,action or deed that stems from one or all of the Three Poisons, Anger, Jeaulously,Greed is doomed to failure and suffering due to one's own coveted views
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02:42 PM on 05/31/2010
“Instead of creating my own reality or being the architect of my life and destiny, I am nothing. That precious self to whom I cling and for whom I labor to make a good and worthy life, in the mirror of Buddhism face its essential emptiness.â€

This is very dangerous ground you are treading on. We are not nothing; we are everything. We are the expressons of that that is that can only express itself within its own infinite self. Even infinite self is misleading because it is not a self or an it, it is unknowable as infinite cannot be known.

The buddhists fail to see the other half of this unknowable most call God; the dynamic side that manifests infinite expressions of its unique self. Buddhism is a religion and like all religions it has its dogma.

But it is a religion worth researching as it deals with consciousness and teachs compassion. Few in the world understand compassion as compassion is rare very rare. How much compassion existed in america after 9/11.

The words “I am nothing†is so misleading it is the ultimate in ignorance. this is what happens when followers try to teach a master’s teachings. We see this in christianity, buddhism, hinduism, and islam teachings.

This I am nothing phase can lead to a buddhist monk stating human life is not only worthless but disgusting which I have read in a buddhist book written by buddhist monk with a phd in buddhism.
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09:48 AM on 05/31/2010
I used to be enamored by Buddhism too. And, indeed, it is quite harmless, compared with monotheistic religions. But I soon came to realize that the the goal of Buddhism too is self-serving: To rid one's mind of illusions of permanence in order to reach personal enlightenment. So people sit for hours and days and years in order to reach this goal. Of course it is a very difficult pursuit, but so is helping poor children.
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02:47 PM on 05/31/2010
well stated.

been there like you.

thought I found the perfect religion but it was like others a religion and self serving and also has its dogma.

I decided to belong to no religion as all have their dogma.

but one can advance in love and intelligence with any religion if they study the universe and not become religious.

religious dogma is alive and well in all aspect of our lives. politics, economics, educations, etc.

as a side note I also work with low income children. interesting.
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03:44 PM on 05/31/2010
I think a good religion would be reading one book on spirituality or mythology a month. It would greatly enrich a person's spiritual life without having to cloister themselves away, or indoctrinating them with some particular ideology. I am a Weekend-Warrior Meta-Mystic, the one true religion.
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12:50 PM on 06/01/2010
Definitely! And a good way to learn piano would be to take one half hour class every month from a different teacher and never practice. Also.