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Rowing, or the Greatest Decision You Will Ever Make

Posted: 09/12/2012 2:13 pm

"Winning a rowing race is not like winning anything else. Here's my theory: you're facing backwards, so you're looking at the people you're beating--and there's something exquisite about that." - Hugh Laurie

I'm not sure when I realized it. It could have been during a brutally cold winter morning at 6am as I groggily made my way from my dorm to the basement of the athletic center. It also could have been during the first twenty strokes of the final race of the season, in the form of one of those sly epiphanies that always seem to occur at the most inconvenient times. Or maybe it was the accumulated reasoning of an entire year of practice, races, and beautiful St. Lawrence River sunrises.

My realization was this: joining rowing, quite simply, was the greatest decision I have ever made.

In the past few years, the media have brought rowing into the national spotlight, particularly after the US women's eight took gold in Beijing in 2008, and then again in London this summer. (Interestingly enough, our coach, Nick Hughes, taught one of the eight Olympians how to row during her freshman year at St. Lawrence.) The 2010 blockbuster The Social Network's crowning cinematographic achievement was the 90-second clip of the Winklevoss twins rowing for Harvard at the Henley Royal Regatta.

With this newfound national attention to the sport, I have thankfully received significantly fewer blank stares when I tell people that I am on a collegiate rowing team. No, it isn't like kayaking or canoeing. Yes, you do get a lot of blisters. No, you don't only use your arms. Am I going to the Olympics? Well, a girl can dream, right?

Rowers are unique in the athletic world. Perhaps the most significant difference between rowing and other sports is the coxswain, or the "little person who sits in the boat and yells at the rowers." While they are not required to be athletic, coxswains are, in the words of US rowing coach Tom Terhaar, "as integral to the boat as the rowers are... they can't do it without [him or her]."

I am a coxswain for the St. Lawrence women's rowing team, and it is this unique role that led me to the staggering, aforementioned conclusion.

Rowers do not see where they are going. They are supposed to "keep their heads in the boat", therefore placing their trust in the coxswain to steer them, encourage them, and to pinpoint errors in their technique. As the coxswain, you alone see everything that is going on both within and around the boat, and yours is the only voice that the rowers will hear.

Leadership-wise, it is possibly one of the most difficult skills to learn--how to guide and communicate with people who cannot see where they are going, who are undergoing what is essentially physical hell. It is brutal to watch, and even more painful to ask more of them when they are nearing utter exhaustion.

Yet I have been told time and time again by the rowers to demand more from them when they are fatigued. They want perfection, and they will not allow themselves to become complacent until they have achieved their goals.

Rowing is a sport that takes time. When one sets a goal to lose a few pounds and work out more, results are easy to see, often in the span of a few weeks. As for rowing, while teaching someone to row doesn't take very long, teaching someone to row effectively may very well take a few years. True rowers are not daunted by this incredibly long gap between training and results. During the long days of winter training, they are able to focus on the medal or the race that is months in the future, able to summon the image of winning at moments when being together on the water seems as distant as the moon.

In life, that ability to stay fixated on a long-term goal is often the difference between failure and success. No wonder rowers make an average income of more than 60% above the national average, according to a 2008 study by Boathouse Finder.

Being a part of the rowing team has shown me the sheer magnitude of human potential. Put a person in a boat, hand them an oar, give them a taste of what winning feels like--and soon enough, they will be practicing for five hours a day, will be getting up three hours before the rest of their campus to row in subzero temperatures, and will have the unstoppable willpower of a champion.

Rowers can do it all, and they can do it well. Joining the rowing team will be the greatest decision you will ever make, if you choose to accept the harsh realities of the sport. By doing so, you will understand the incalculable value of an indomitable spirit--and you will learn, above all, that your achievements in life are limited only by the magnitude of your drive to achieve them.

 

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04:06 PM on 09/14/2012
Nice article. It's true that what she says about the dedication of rowers can be said of other sports. There is one huge difference, aside from getting to see the people you're beating (you also get to see boats gaining on you though). If you have an itch, a bug on your nose, or sweat burning your eyes there's nothing you can do about it until the race is finished. If you're lucky, it's only a 6 or 7 minute sprint, if it's a 6K head race then have fun with that for the next 15 minutes!
01:45 PM on 09/13/2012
The greater the sacrifice...the greater the reward! Go Buffalo Bulls Rowing!!!!
01:42 PM on 09/13/2012
Great article...the greater the struggle...the greater the reward...Go Buffalo Bulls Rowing!
01:24 PM on 09/13/2012
I know a few rowers who would definitely agree with this article (written, btw, by a teammate of George Alberts, a family friend).
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12:33 PM on 09/13/2012
Rowing is so much fun. Coxswains are our gods and goddesses. We rowers love you, Amy!
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07:45 AM on 09/13/2012
Rowing was once considered an "Elite" sport. While I do feel it takes a lot of money it takes even more dedication. From the rower, coaches and parents. (On a high school level).

Our son asked to join his high school rowing team freshman year. I knew little about rowing. Our high school has a competitive rowing (club) and we said sure. Albeit his boat was never the best he gained a sense of belonging and was dedicated to the sport and all it entails. Our daughter joined the team two years later and is the bow of her quad. Our program sculls (two oars, no cox) as a freshman team her boat won every race locally, Stotesbury (largest high school regatta in the world) and Cities and PSRA nationals.
Sophomore year they were the Varsity Quad. Their dedication, athletic skills and sheer respect for one another and the sport allowed them to win Stotesbury again, and place 13th and Youth Nationals in TN and two days later fly to England to compete in the Women's Henley and the Royal. (think facebook scene) At 16 this group of four girls have done more, seen more and rowed hard. Without the dedication of the coaches, parents and team they wouldn't be complete.
So proud of our high school Conestoga Crew Club! Go Stoga!
11:20 PM on 09/12/2012
Also not to be a contrarian, but, I didn't think the coxswain acutally physically rowed the boat? If that is the case,how do you develop blisters?
11:23 AM on 09/13/2012
More often then not, at least I have found this true with the team I am on, the coxswains do land practices with the rest of the team and also practices on the water when another coxswain can sub in for them
10:12 PM on 09/12/2012
This is for all my lovely crew girls. I know you'll appreciate this one.
09:46 PM on 09/12/2012
Thanks for the well-written article. I'm sure other sports have similar fans, but as a former rower, I too have memories that I will forever be grateful for (both good and bad) and will never leave me. The combination of sheer pain, camaraderie, and unforgiving technical demands of the sport was a life-changing experience.

Regarding a previous comment, no doubt there can be dark sides to mixing athletics and academia. Some involve allowing talented athletes to skate through college with phony courses for the sake of selling tickets to games. Others involve expensive equipment (which is frequently donated by well-to-do alumni) and a bias toward higher-achieving, middle-class public high school students like me. I think colleges should be scrutinized for their balance and diversity of opportunity.
08:47 PM on 09/12/2012
It's a massive stretch to say that being a coxswain is similar to being a rower - sure you're a part of the organization, but it's not all that difficult. When I began rowing I coxed for a couple of years while I bulked up, and then I began rowing competitively. By the end of my third row of competitive rowing I had permanently dislocated my knee, dislocated both shoulders, severely torn my shoulder and suffered from numerous shin splints. Simply put, rowing was the absolute worst decision I ever made. Furthermore, in all my years of coxing and rowing I never spoke to a rower who had never been injured in some way - nearly all had bloodied hands, cut up legs, shin splints, back problems, or other far more serious injuries. The sport is one of the most excruciating and intense activities in the world, and it's honestly a terrible decision for nearly everyone. Yes, I enjoyed it for a while, but looking back on what I've been through - six surgeries and 5 years of physical therapy - the rush of slicing through the water on a fancy Empacher single wasn't worth the pain. Any run-of-the-mill "sport is a metaphor for life college admissions essay will find half a dozen reasons why a sport has completely changed their life, when in reality twenty years from now they'll look back and realize that it was an activity that occupied time and, in some cases, was good for their
10:00 AM on 09/13/2012
what the hell kind of rowing were you doing? holy ... you sound like you were rowing through a physical war or something. You did all that to yourself after only three rows? ("By the end of my third row of competitive rowing...")

Clearly you were doing something wrong.
09:11 PM on 09/13/2012
It was meant to say three years.
10:27 AM on 09/13/2012
To your first comment, the sport may not be as dangerous or as physically detrimental to a coxswain, but they are still there with you, every stroke of every day. They can go through the triumphs, and also anguish at the pain of losing, especially if they feel as though they could have done more, said more, said less, steered a better course, etc. Seems pretty short-sighted to me.

To your other arguments, the fact that you had so many injuries seems to speak more to how you were coached and trained. Dislocated knee? Should not happen in rowing where there is a finite arc of motion for your knee. Dislocated shoulders? Would mostly come from a lack of strength elsewhere and is probably come as a result of compensation at the expense of your shoulder/lats. Bloodied hands, cut up legs (I assume you mean track bites...), etc are somewhat inherent in the sport. You should not row if you do not like callouses on your hands, you should not play soccer if you do not like ankle injuries, and you should not play basketball if you like your knees. To say that rowing was the worst decision you made simply for the physical aspects leads me to believe you only focused on the physical aspects, instead of absorbing the immense psychological gains that can be made in such a sport where the motion is fixed, the practices are many times mundane, and the glory fleeting.
06:51 PM on 09/12/2012
Not to be contrarian, but rowing also is one of the more "elite" sports out there. You have to be a member of a fairly large or wealthy institution for you to have access to all the prerequisites of the sport. Boats are extremely expensive. I rowed at the collegiate level myself, so I can attest to the strong will of most of the successful competitors. But I can also point out the huge proportion of members of the team who went to well-endowed private schools. I would not be surprised if a portion of the 60% higher earnings facing college rowers is not in part accounted for by the socioeconomic status of those rowers.

Just thoughts.
08:39 PM on 09/12/2012
These days rowing for a school or a team is not as limited as it once was. There are so many opportunities for rowing in college especially if you are a woman. I was once a junior rower and my teammates were all from different socioeconomic backgrounds. It is true there is still a stigma that rowing is for the wealthy and high class but there are so many opportunities to row whether you are wealthy or not.
10:19 PM on 11/07/2012
why especially if you are a women?
09:00 PM on 09/12/2012
false
09:49 AM on 09/13/2012
Not false
05:52 PM on 09/12/2012
This is all nice and good but anyone who has ever had an organized sport play a large part in their lives can recite a litany of similar thoughts.
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04:59 PM on 09/12/2012
The row machine in the gym is good enough for me. No bad weather, no getting criticized on technique, just an LCD screen with numerous displays that will let me know if I'm slacking off.
01:33 AM on 09/13/2012
but you will never enjoy the beauty and freedom of being out on the water, nor will you know those perfect moments when the entire crew swings together and the boat flies across the water
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09:15 AM on 09/13/2012
I live on the lakefront so that's no problem. Also if I were rowing I couldn't see the unison as it happened. In any case I always encourage people to be active, so whatever floats your boat, so to speak.