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Still Think Schwarzenegger's Not a Serial Groper?

Posted: 05/18/11 09:00 AM ET


He's a liar, a cheater, a home-wrecker and a predator. No, I'm not referring to the 1987 sci-fi action pic he starred in, but more likely a sexual predator. After the explosive revelation this week that former California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger fathered a love-child with a household employee about 13 years ago, it should erase all doubt about whether he in fact was guilty, as accused in 2005, of groping many women over the course of his 30-year bodybuilding and acting career.

Schwarzenegger's newest bombshell is not much of a shock in political circles, especially those out west. Rumors of affairs and children swirled around him during the 2005 campaign against incumbent Gov. Gray Davis. But those rumors were quickly dwarfed by the groping scandal in which fifteen women came forward with allegations of sexual attacks against them at gyms, movie sets, production facilities and elsewhere. Schwarzenegger and his camp vociferously denied the charges, and his wife Maria Shriver went to bat for him as well in what many experts believe was a campaign-saving defense. He went on to win the election and served two terms until 2011 when Jerry Brown became governor again after first serving in that office from 1975-1983.

So here's what happened: somewhere around 1988 Arnold had sex with the worker, Mildred Baena, now 50, and she became pregnant with his baby. She recently left the job after serving twenty years with the family. The affair, pregnancy and eventual birth of their son was kept secret from Shriver -- who was said to be pregnant with her son Christopher at the same time as Baena -- and the rest of the family until Schwarzenegger's recent revelation. He and Shriver officially announced their separation last week after twenty-five years of marriage. Apparently, this tawdry episode was chief among the reasons for the split.

It's easy to feel sympathetic towards Shriver, who's clearly dealing with a highly emotional, humiliating public scandal. No one likes to see anyone suffer like that, and my heart goes out to her and her five children. But I also can't help feeling for those fifteen women who her husband allegedly molested. Women whose reputations were attacked and whose lives were forever changed by the man Shriver so loyally defended as they both sought even more fame and power than they already had. You can't tell me that on some very visceral level Shriver did not know of or at the very least suspect the sort of lewd behavior of which Arnold was likely guilty. I'm not at all saying she's responsible for this new love-child scandal, but she certainly helped feed the beast. What goes around comes around.

 

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05:53 AM on 05/19/2011
I hope you meant 1998 instead of 1988. You confused me for a minute.
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Carl Caroli
I just don't understand people
04:22 PM on 05/18/2011
Just goes to show the extent to which the GOP political machine can protect it own, even if if it means destroying other peoples lives and reputations with lies in the process.
Jayne Stahl
Poet, essayist, playwright, screenwriter,
04:00 PM on 05/18/2011
Frankly, calling him a "serial groper" is among the best things one may say about him
03:17 PM on 05/18/2011
To me this seems like selective outrage. Does the author harbor similar feelings towards President Clinton in regards to the range of allegations made against him? What about the Kennedy's? Also sexual predator because he fathered a child with a woman other than his wife? I don't know the merit behind the groping charges, but they would seem to be unrelated to his infidelity.
05:10 PM on 05/18/2011
"I don't know the merit behind the groping charges, but they would seem to be unrelated to his infidelity." - Wrong! The behavior is all related. It stems from a narcissistic sense of entitlement.
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Jeremy Perron
08:12 PM on 05/18/2011
I am sorry Subedo but that seems like a very slippery slope. If you did A then you must be guilty of B and if you did B then you must be guilty of C. Etc, Etc.
10:34 AM on 05/19/2011
While the two COULD be related it doesn't mean that they are. I could imagine that there are men who would cheat on their spouse that wouldn't feel like they should be able to grope random women that they came across. I would say that the groping is farther down the slope than the infidelity. We have no reason to believe that the infidelity wasn't consensual. None of it makes Arnold a good guy, but a cheater isn't a sexual predator which is what the author was labeling Arnold as.
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02:11 PM on 05/18/2011
The women were free to file complaints with the police or sue at or around the time the incidents occurred, if they occurred. If they didn't, i don't have much sympathy for them.
 
(although I dont have much doubt he groped the women, the fact he had a consensual affair logically does not provide any evidence that he actually groped anyone nonconsenually BTW).
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Andy Ostroy
05:35 PM on 05/18/2011
ha...another Republican! Only one of you guys would consider a sexual act between a very powerful, rich man and his household employee "a consensual affair." The courts would call that sexual harassment.
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ranchero42
Cherished Memories? NRA'll Rifle Thru 'Em
07:56 PM on 05/18/2011
Grab that guy and give him a 'swirly!'
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Jeremy Perron
08:30 PM on 05/18/2011
So were you just as upset with Clinton in the 1990s! I mean with a intern and all. If the answer is yes than fine, but if it is no you are a little guilty of selective outrage.
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thinkingwomanmillstone
great, green, globs of greasy grimey GOPerspeak.
07:44 PM on 05/18/2011
Fifteen women did come forward. It's difficult enough in a "he said, she said" environment to prove rape let alone groping. Apologists are responsible for the cover up and the climate that allowed him to repeatedly get away with it all of these years. I couldn't care less about his consensual sex life but employer on employee predation is hardly an equal playing ground. The collusion required to cover it up and the manipulation of the public are a true measure of the man's character or rather lack of it. The harm he has done to his children(all of them) is immense. The child of his affair has to live with the knowledge that his father's career was more important than his existence. How important are family values when part of your family isn't valued enough to be acknowledged from his birth. AS acted in a self-centered cowardly way and deserves all of the negative feedback he is getting...no one of any moral fiber would defend his actions.
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SonyaInTx
Money doesn't buy class.....
01:25 PM on 05/18/2011
I really feel badly for Maria. But as Oprah asks, "What do you know now that you overlooked then?" The answer is in the very first meeting she had with Arnold in front of her mother. Arnold walked right up to her and said, "You have a great a$$". Right in front of her mother.

Dude had no class from day one.
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saultxy
01:14 PM on 05/18/2011
An apt soundtrack for this sordid saga might be the Wayne Newton hit "Danke Schoen," made immortal in Ferris Bueller's famous shower scene — the words fit the ex-Governtor nicely ... Auf wiedersehen, "Ahhnoldd," you are the WÜRST!
12:48 PM on 05/18/2011
Yup. She was used to this kind of man from her childhood. Until she became strong enough to say enough is enough! HE should have moved out. And that woman who stayed in her household, deceiving Maria along with Arnold. For her, there is a special place waiting... eternal public shame. May Arnold go live with her with the last million dollars, after Maria and the kids split their fortune five ways.