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A Wish For All Men

Posted: 05/24/2012 1:46 pm

Here is the honest truth: I'm incredibly lucky that none of the leading men in my life have been affected by prostate cancer. I know that at the mention of prostate cancer, I may have lost half of the men who started reading this, but you can't ignore the statistics: one in six men will be diagnosed with prostate cancer in his lifetime.

Those numbers certainly got my attention as both a wife and a daughter. The good fortune of not having any of the men in my life diagnosed with prostate cancer meant that I didn't know a lot about the disease. I also quickly realized that most men don't know much about the disease either. The thought of prostate cancer immediately becomes one of those unpleasantries in life that we'd much rather ignore. As human beings, we are particularly sensitive to diseases that affect our reproductive organs for a variety of psychological and societal reasons. It is unfortunate that these sensitivities attach an unfounded stigma to a prostate cancer, particularly because there should be no shame in cancer. It is a diagnosis that no one would welcome with open arms.

In order to fight this disease, we need to know what we are up against. Men need to take stronger action in educating themselves on the disease. I can't stress enough how crucial it is to see your doctor and openly discuss any symptoms or signs, and if appropriate, screenings. A conversation now could potentially save your life later.

Conversation is what led me to become a Stand Up To Cancer (SU2C) Ambassador. Hearing from friends and family who know or have known men diagnosed with prostate cancer really brought home the notion that maybe one day my father or husband would join the statistics. And after going through what I'd mentioned above -- the shared human denial of "it won't be me," I thought -- why wouldn't it happen to me? Cancer does not discriminate. There is nothing that separates me from all of those other wives and daughters, who have seen their loved ones affected by this disease.

And so it is for all of the wonderful men in my life that I am joining the SU2C movement and raising my voice about a disease that affects more than two million American men and remains the second-leading cause of cancer death for men in the U.S. I truly believe that we can make a difference with the progress of finding better treatments and ultimately, a cure. That is my wish, and a wish I share with so many.

SU2C has collaborated with The Safeway Foundation to help raise awareness and funds in the fight against prostate cancer by designing a limited edition, reusable shopping bag available for purchase at all Safeway locations. Many of us concerned with the environment have been carrying reusable bags for some time. This isn't a new concept, but it's one that can help save lives. Here are just a few reasons this reusable bag -- embossed with the words, "It starts with a wish; it can end with a cure" -- is better than any plastic or paper bag:

  1. Your father
  2. Your husband
  3. Your brother
  4. Your son
  5. Your nephew
  6. Your uncle
  7. Your cousin
  8. Your grandfather
  9. Your best friend
  10. Your fellow man

We all have men in our lives that we would be lost without -- men who have shaped our lives, been our best friends and loved ones. So the next time you're at a Safeway store, ask about purchasing this bag, available through the month of June. It is our responsibility to be not only environmentally conscious, but conscious of our fellow man, or men.

For more information on the campaign, visit www.SafewayFoundation.org and for more information on how to get involved with Stand Up To Cancer, visit http://standup2cancer.org/

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Here is the honest truth: I'm incredibly lucky that none of the leading men in my life have been affected by prostate cancer. I know that at the mention of prostate cancer, I may have lost half of the...
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americanpatriot4ever
brings more than his fair share to the table
02:16 AM on 06/01/2012
Angie Harmon was used (taken advantage of) by some organization to promote the lie of the benefit of prostate cancer screening. I'm sure she thought that she was doing the right thing but she wasn't. The American Urological Association wants urologists to make good incomes. Prostate cancer screening accomplishes that goal. Unfortunately, it does more harm than good.
americanpatriot4ever
brings more than his fair share to the table
12:41 AM on 06/01/2012
Huffington Post readers, please be aware of this recent entry on the Huffington Post by Dr. David Katz regarding the predicament of prostate cancer screening.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/david-katz-md/psa-test_b_1547019.html
03:24 PM on 06/01/2012
From Dr. Katz's biography:

"He is a two-time diplomate of the American Board of Internal Medicine, a board-certified specialist in Preventive Medicine/Public Health, and a clinical instructor in medicine at the Yale School of Medicine. Katz is known internationally for expertise in nutrition, weight management, and chronic disease prevention."

He is not an oncologist, radiation oncologist, urologist, or a specialist in any kind of cancer.

The panel that recommended against the PSA test did not include a urologist or an oncologist.

The chair is a pediatrician. Working for a college with research grants from the federal government.
americanpatriot4ever
brings more than his fair share to the table
01:12 PM on 05/31/2012
For cminca;
Are you here for your unnecessary and ill-advised prostate cancer screening? Dr. Madoff will see you now.
06:10 PM on 05/31/2012
I'm a survivor of prostate cancer. I have a PSA test every three months. I was lucky. I had an aggressive cancer that went from undetectable to stage II in one year. The pathology reports showed the cancer had attempted to migrate (via blood vessels and nerve tissue) but had not gotten outside my prostate prior to surgery.

And to be clear--I had two digital exams and two PSAs before being sent to a urologist who did another digital exam before a biopsy before a diagnosis.

Based on my scores I had a 20% chance of 5 year survival with surgery alone. Less, of course, with no treatment.

The only symptom I had? I was peeing more frequently.

But you know what--don't get tested--that is your decision.

And when you're diagnosed with fatal stage IV cancer in your 50's I'm sure the fact that you were never screened will be a great comfort to your widow.

You can go to your grave proud that you saved the insurance company what-- $200?-- to give you a simple blood test.

But understand this--the panelists, the senators, the doctors, the insurance execs? They're all still going to get tested. As they work to deny insurance or medicaid coverage to people who need it--especially the at-risk AA community.

Because I never believed in WMD. And I'm smart enough to see this for what it is. Step one in the road to removing PSA screening from covered medical testing.
americanpatriot4ever
brings more than his fair share to the table
11:57 PM on 05/31/2012
You sir, are oblivious to the biologic behavior of prostate cancer. Dr. Katz said that he does not get himself screened. No matter what anyone says, you continue with your opinion as if your opinion was more valuable than Dr. Katz who devotes his life to the study of such issues. You say that you had an aggressive cancer. What was the Gleason score? That is a numerical score given to all prostate cancers by pathologists (who diagnose prostate cancer). If you don't know the answer to that critical question. Please stop posting. Also, every man who has his prostate surgically removed has at least stage II prostate cancer because that is a rule. No matter how little cancer your prostate contains, once it is removed by the surgeon you are designated as at least stage II. I'm sure that you did not know that either.
07:27 PM on 05/31/2012
I'm tested every 3 months. P-cancer survivor.

I have a check up every year. My cancer went from undetectable to stage II in one year. According to my scores, I had a 20% chance of going 5 years without a reoccurence if I was treated with surgery alone. Chemo, we believe, cut that number in half.

I had two digital exams and two PSAs before I went to a urologist. I had another digital exam before a biopsy. I wasn't diagnosed until 13 out of 13 samples came back positive.

I saw an oncologist and a radiation oncologist. My urologist and my oncologist actively recommended getting as many opinions as I needed. I was an educated consumer.

So don't get tested. You have the right to make that decision.

Unfortunately, medicaid and the insurance industries will use this finding to dismantle insurance payment for screenings. We'll go back to the old days when people were diagnosed after it was too late. Because the insurance companies will be removing the right to make that decision.

And we'll return to the days when 20K more men a year will die a slow and agonizing death from a disease that could have been stopped--if it had been caught in time.

But rest assured--the doctors on the panel, the insurance execs, and the republicans who are cutting health care to the already marginalized will still be getting screened.
01:16 PM on 05/30/2012
Not the spokes-model I would have chosen....but if you are going to have someone check your prostate, she is a great choice....
americanpatriot4ever
brings more than his fair share to the table
09:05 PM on 05/29/2012
I am providing this web address especially for the poster known as "cminca" but also for all those who are interested in why prostate cancer screening is not recommended by impartial physicians and epidemiologists (as opposed to urologists and radiation therapists who financially benefit from creating a nation of impotent and incontinent men under the guise that they are saving lives).
http://www.uspreventiveservicestaskforce.org/uspstf12/prostate/draftrecprostate.htm
02:17 PM on 05/30/2012
No urologist, no oncologists on the panel.

And this:

"Siegel said the report ignores or fails to explain the dramatic decrease in deaths from prostate cancer over the last several decades.

"About 250,000 men are diagnosed with prostate cancer each year. That has stayed pretty stable. It is the death rates that have come down significantly," he says.

"In the last 30 years the deaths have dropped from 48,000 to 28,000 a year. The surgery is better. The radiation is somewhat better. But there haven't been significant advances except in some of the surgical techniques to explain this, other than screening.""

So when you or the panel manage to explain the how saving 19,940 lives (20K less the 3/1000 with fatal post treatment side effects) is not beneficial I will listen.

Remember--those are real men, with real families and real loved ones.
americanpatriot4ever
brings more than his fair share to the table
05:50 PM on 05/30/2012
The men whose lives are being destroyed by unnecessary treatment are also real men with real families and real loved ones. From the report: "The evidence is convincing that for men aged 70 years and older, screening has no mortality benefit. For men aged 50 to 69 years, the evidence is convincing that the reduction in prostate cancer mortality 10 years after screening is small to none." cminca, I am convinced by your vehement distortion of the benefits of prostate cancer screening that your son is a urologist and you want him to do well financially. No urologist wants to admit the truth about the absence of value of prostate cancer screening because to do so is financial suicide.
americanpatriot4ever
brings more than his fair share to the table
08:04 PM on 05/30/2012
Countries that don't have the resources to waste money on prostate cancer screening have also seen a drop in prostate cancer death rates. Any significant decline in prostate cancer death rates is NOT due to screening. Prostate cancer screening can explain the increase in salaries of urologists. Prostate cancer screening can also explain the rise in treatment-related impotence and urinary incontinence and the resulting depression that they can cause. Don't worry cminca, the American Urological Association is a very powerful lobbying group. They will fight hard so that their golden goose (prostate cancer screening) continues to enrich them. Scientific evidence be damned!
americanpatriot4ever
brings more than his fair share to the table
06:13 PM on 05/28/2012
I am glad to have had an opportunity to express my views and that of the impartial scientific community on the lack of value of screening for prostate cancer. As I repeatedly said, only those doctors who financially benefit from prostate cancer screening (urologists and radiation therapists) advocate for it. If as a result of my postings, some readers will do their due diligence and save their fathers, husbands, brothers, etc. from unnecessary treatment and its complications, I have done a service. To the vast majority who don't understand the difference between the value of screening for prostate cancer and the value of prostate cancer treatment, I can not help you.
11:57 AM on 05/29/2012
And if you don't understand the difference between side effects of treatment and side effects of screening--well--as a survivor I can only say that your comments have no validity.

The number of diagnosis per year has not increased after the use of the PSA tests. But the number of deaths has gone down. Why? Early detection and treatment.

My grandfather died of prostate cancer because it attacked bone before they caught it. He died a slow and agonizingly painful death. And this is what you are "glad" to condemn men to.
americanpatriot4ever
brings more than his fair share to the table
12:30 PM on 05/29/2012
Your continued willingness to opine about something you are ignorant about is amazing but unfortunately not uncommon today.  I suspect that Fox News is a role model for you.
12:09 PM on 05/29/2012
You never answered my question--

Do you go to a vet because all doctors are crooked?
03:16 PM on 05/28/2012
1 inb 6 get is but it starts harmless and only 1 in 16 become any kind of a problem. Many doctors say it is mislabeled when called a cancer. But 1 in 6 probably gets more contributions.
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misterzook
03:04 PM on 05/28/2012
My father was very recently diagnosed with advanced stage 4 prostate cancer, his PSA scores were close to 200 and his Gleason score was 9 and the cancer has spread to his lymph nodes and bones. I am so sad and upset because this could have been prevented. You see, he went to one of these Doctors that believe that men past a certain age do not need to have their PSA levels check very often. If you go to a Doctor that believes this stop going to him, period. ALL men past 45 should have their PSA levels checked yearly.
02:05 PM on 05/28/2012
Thank you Ms. Harmon, for using you popularity to help in pushing men to get their needed testing and screening for prostate cancer. I do believe another aspect of your situation would help in getting men to the doctor for testing would be taking advantage of your husbands popularity as well. Many men either do not know or have forgotten that you are aka Mrs. Jason Sehorn, former NY Giants star cornerback, that would carry weight with some men.
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ddoddr9623
estamos dando mas
01:39 PM on 05/28/2012
I get checked every year during my physical. It's really no big deal and brings peace of mind. Everybody over 50 should at least have a yearly physical. Your not a kid anymore, be a man and face up to it.
12:45 PM on 05/28/2012
Thank you Angie for being concerned and helping to get the word out. As a prostate cancer survivor (6 years) I appreciate your efforts. I think that many people, both men and women, believe that no one really dies from prostate cancer because something else will kill you first. I was 63 when I was diagnosed and I felt that I could not take the chance that something else would come along and do me in first.
11:44 AM on 05/28/2012
This is a qoute from AmericanPatroit4ever......
Men can help the economy by getting screened for prostate cancer: the lab that does the PSA blood test makes money; the urologist makes money by biopsying your prostate; the pathologist makes money by looking at the biopsies; the hospitals, urologists, and radiation therapists will make money...

NOW...I was 49 yrs old excellent healthwent to Doctor for Check up/Blood test..DRE normal..PSA cam back little high...antibiotics...PSA still high..NOW Urologist...DRE Normal..PSA test again a little bit higher..Sonogram/Biopsies...Sonogram normal...Urologist not sure what to say now...BUT Biopsie shows PROSTATE CANCER now....What the most Important thing "AmericanPatroit4ever" left out was ....I GET TO LIVE AN MAKE MONEY. GOD BLESS
americanpatriot4ever
brings more than his fair share to the table
12:36 PM on 05/28/2012
I am sincerely happy that you will be making money and paying taxes. It does not change the SCIENTIFIC FACTS that screening for prostate cancer does not save lives. The value of screening for any type of cancer has to be based upon scientific evidence. Screening for colon cancer is undoubtedly valuable. Unfortunately, the FACTS do not support the value of screening for prostate cancer. All of the heartwarming stories of survival by posters on this site will not change that fact. If you are not knowledgeable about the principles of cancer screening and epidemiology, you have no business opining about its value.
09:44 PM on 05/28/2012
SOOOO...Your one of those so called "EXPERT'S" ???????...WOW its ok to test for other "Cancer's" BUT not "Prostate" ??? Since again YOU seem be the so called "EXPERT"... Please explain your "OPINION" to ....Telly Savalas...Merv Griffin...Dan Fogelberg...Bill Bixby...Jerry Orbach...Frank Zappa...Earl Woods...Dennis Hopper etc.
To all the other's with "Cancer's" WHY they shouldn't be TESTED...DUE TO MONEY and not your "Theories".GOD BLESS
11:59 AM on 05/29/2012
You can say it over and over--" It does not change the SCIENTIFIC FACTS that screening for prostate cancer does not save lives."

but it doesn't make it true.

Any more than saying "WMD in Iraq" made that true.
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lagik
11:43 AM on 05/28/2012
i asked my doctor that with all of this medical technology that we have today,
if their is a better method than a finger in the rectum?
the Doctor asked if I wanted a second opinion?
I answered "no!"
the Doctor answered jokingly was " I was going to give you 2 fingers!"
1 of 6 odds for prostate cancer is worth a finger once a year!
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bilhee
09:09 AM on 05/28/2012
Hi Angie

Thanks..We prostate cancer survivors appreciate your help. What you can do is contact the idiots who want us to stop using the PSA test (combined with a DRE) to diagnose the possible onset of prostate cancer As you know this group is the same group who wants to eliminate mammograms. At least with breast cancer you can do self exams. Ask your male friends how in the world they would do self exams of their prostate. Remember, there are no symptoms until it has metastasized and is then basically incurable
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TooLooze
Someone should do something about all the problems
06:40 PM on 05/27/2012
Thank you, Angie!