So you want a dream life? Here's how to manifest it...

So you want a dream life? Here's how to manifest it...
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You want the house, the partner, the kids, the job, the relationships, the family, the friends, the holidays, the car, the other cool stuff?

Well.... You've got to do something about it then.

You will NEVER get it if you spend all your energy wishing and wanting and lamenting the lack of all these things. NEVER.

Or if by some odd chance you DO, you will NOT be happy about it.

Because your head will still be in that space of wishing, wanting, and lamenting.
So therefore....

If you want that dream life, then you're going to have to shift something in your head. And once that happens, then you need to actually do something to get it. THEN it's yours.

So how do you make that shift in your head?

How do you switch from wishing, wanting, and lamenting, to not needing at all, but simply enthusiastic about the prospect that will without doubt come to you?

It's a funny thing, putting all this trust in the Universe. You've got to be fully aligned with the outcome. You've got to not only want the final Thing, but you've got to want the process to get it.

You know the saying, "It's about the journey, not the destination."

That means you've got to be aligned with the journey. You've got to want the journey. Not through sufferance in order to reach your desired outcome. You've got to want the journey because you fully 100% love the journey.

So you want to get that dream house? (I do!) Well, you've got to love the process of getting it. You've got to enjoy looking around the areas that you are interested in. You've got to enjoy fixing up your current place in order to get ready to move. You've got to therefore have that gratitude for your current place. And you've got to come to the conclusion, at an internal level, that it doesn't matter where you live - you'll always be home.

And as you're doing all that - all that mind shifting, internally - THEN your vibe changes. Your vibe changes to be no longer from a place of neediness, lack, and resentment about your current place etc. Your vibe becomes positive, grateful, peaceful, and hopeful.

THEN you are ready to move. You can take the aligned action such as looking for that property, checking out the local shops of the areas you're interested in, talking to real estate agents in the area.

And then once you move, you'll be happy. Not because you moved, but because you already were happy. Now that happiness is simply enhanced.

What else might you want to manifest?

A car? A partner? Lots of money?

Go about it the same way.

You've GOT to get that INTERNAL stuff SHIFTING. You've GOT to change your VIBE about it so that you may feel joy in the process.

Nobody likes a needy person. You don't. I don't. The Universe doesn't. Your dream life doesn't.
Change your vibe from neediness to radiance. Then you can get what's yours.
:)

Anna Shelley is an intuitive mindset coach who helps you figure out exactly who you are and what you stand for so that you can pave your own path to create and live your Crazy Big Dreams in alignment and flow.
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