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Good For You, Bristol Palin!

Posted: 09/06/10 08:30 AM ET

Lord knows when it comes to politics I'm no fan of the Sarah Palin clan, but darn if they don't keep earning my begrudging admiration in some way or another. I admit to having spent more than a few minutes in the past year or so snickering over the ever-juicy developments of the Bristol Palin / Levi Johnston made-for-reality-TV soap opera (Playgirl? An "acting debut" advocating teen abstinence? Who could make this stuff up?!) ... but I'm cheering now for Bristol and her new gig on "Dancing With The Stars."

"I'm not the first mom to participate on "Dancing with the Stars" ... and like those who came before me, I want to set a good example for all of the amazing moms out there," Bristol told RadarOnline.com. "Yes, we can balance work and family, and we can also take on a new and exciting challenge."

Yes, we can! I was appalled by the criticism Kate Gosselin received for appearing on the show, and I'm sure Bristol is going to hear some of the same. And don't even get me started on the notion that she's somehow glamorizing teen pregnancy. What's she supposed to do -- stay home wearing a T-shirt and bare feet, bemoaning the ruination of her young life? No. She's supposed to be doing exactly what she's doing -- making the most of what is a blessing in the end, and making the most of all the opportunities that she gets.

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Yeah, yeah, I know -- it's not like Bristol is a poverty-stricken single mother pulling herself and her crack baby up by her bootstraps to cure cancer, but so what? This isn't a tale of miraculously overcoming all odds; it's a tale of a young woman who became a mom by accident and is now embracing her full life. And that is somewhat miraculous by itself, as any woman knows who has struggled post-childbirth to keep her sense of self while taking care of the children she loves. Bristol is both embracing motherhood and staying true to a person who wants to take advantage of all that life has to offer. And that's something that's hard to do no matter what kind of support you have. In Bristol's case, what life has to offer right now is a stint on the same reality dancing show as "The Situation" and "The Hoff." It's not an Ivy League education, but it sure sounds like a blast.

People.com reports that Bristol wants to make sure she sets a good example for her son, Tripp, 20 months, who "loves dancing around [and] bopping his head," she says. "I see this as something that's fun and that's positive and I'm going to be able to show my work ethic to people out there."

Bristol, who shares custody of Tripp with Levi, will be taking the baby with her to live in Los Angeles for the duration of the show. Doors are opening for Bristol because of who her mother is, but she's still going to be the one at the end of the day, alone in a new big city, with all of the responsibilities of motherhood. What an example, indeed, to set for her son! And yes, what a great example to be setting for all moms who feel like their dreams -- whatever they may be -- are destined to simmer untended on the back burners of life.

So I say ... Go, Bristol!

(Just stay away from "The Situation!")

Crossposted from BettyConfidential.com.

 

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Lord knows when it comes to politics I'm no fan of the Sarah Palin clan, but darn if they don't keep earning my begrudging admiration in some way or another. I admit to having spent more than a few m...
Lord knows when it comes to politics I'm no fan of the Sarah Palin clan, but darn if they don't keep earning my begrudging admiration in some way or another. I admit to having spent more than a few m...
 
 
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01:32 AM on 09/09/2010
Bristol can be on as many TV shows as she wants...

It's her mother who scares me. Bristol made a choice to have and keep her baby, and her mother supported that. Great. What scares me is that her mother doesn't want or - support - a world where women have a choice in that matter. I'm glad Mrs. Palin is not my mother.

I wish Mrs. Palin would follow her daughter to reality television and steer clear of politics. At least I have the choice to turn off a television.
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GeorgeBurnsWasRight
My micro-bio is running on empty.
09:26 AM on 09/08/2010
By focusing so much admiration on Bristol and Kate, Hussar seems to think that motherhood inevitably makes someone a great person who is "embracing her full life". Doesn't make any sense.
07:23 PM on 09/07/2010
Thanks for a fair and positive piece about Bristol Palin. And I challenge any of the commenters to find any evidence that Sarah Palin opposes birth control or advocates abstinence-only education. She belongs to the group Feminists for Life that advocates birth control. Just because someone believes in teaching abstinence as an option (good lord, is it that BAD to teach young kids some self-control???) doesn't mean they don't acknowledge the need for birth control. JEEZ!
02:03 PM on 09/07/2010
Firstly, 29 months after she has conceived a child, people are still talking about her parents? Secondly, it was never announced if she used birth control or a condom (which isn't anyone's business anyway) so to say she was irresponsible isn't acceptable. Lastly, why not be satisfied she is doing something that makes her happy and still being responsible as a parent? I guess young moms are supposed to be failures so we can all point and say to other teens "Is that what you want to become?" God forbid young moms balance the workload of parenting and living happily.
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05:06 PM on 09/07/2010
Actually, Levi stated shortly after the child's birth that they had used no form of contraception.
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BlackJAC
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01:47 PM on 09/07/2010
She didn't become a mom by "accident." She became a mom by her own mom's politics, specifically the belief in abstinence-only sex ed and the banning of condom possession by a minor. For want of roughly $1 worth of latex...
09:36 AM on 09/07/2010
"Yes, we can balance work and family, and we can also take on a new and exciting challenge."

Exactly when has Bristol Palin ever had to work? Has she ever had a job? Seriously. I'm asking.
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sunnybunny
11:36 AM on 09/08/2010
She has a job right now. She's on "Dancing with the Stars". Are you not paying attention?
09:22 PM on 09/06/2010
Bristol Palin is nothing more than another little girl who made bad choices and got knocked up. Nothing admirable about that and nothing admirable about her chasing after the limelight further by taking a turn on DWTS.
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06:46 PM on 09/06/2010
"This isn't a tale of miraculously overcoming all odds; it's a tale of a young woman who became a mom by accident and is now embracing her full life"

Getting pregnant because you don't use birth control is *not* an accident. It's inevitable.

And, surprise, not everyone considers accidental pregnancy a "blessing."
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06:48 PM on 09/06/2010
Sorry, that should have read: not everyone considers teenage pregnancy a "blessing." (That's what I get for trying to do two things at once).
07:25 AM on 09/07/2010
Did she ever publicly state that she didn't use birth control? I'm just curious because I have a friend who got pregnant while on birth control. It's not 100%. I'm just wondering if this notion that she didn't use birth control a fact or do people just assume that?
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05:07 PM on 09/07/2010
Levi stated that they did not use any contraception.
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Hammerofthor
12:43 PM on 09/06/2010
Bristol has charm, integrity, optimism, and the sturdy, blue-collar work ethic of her pioneer parents, Todd & Sarah Palin.
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Semprini
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10:11 PM on 09/06/2010
So, she will quit half way through?
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bthechangeyouseek
12:01 AM on 09/07/2010
I am not seeing the integrity, the optimism, or the blue collar work ethic and don't get me started on the parents.
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warriorwoman73
04:00 PM on 09/07/2010
Neither am I. FYI - I've noticed that HammerofThor spouts the same idolizing jargon whether he's talking about Bristol or Simple Sarah, regardless of what they've said or done.
09:22 AM on 09/06/2010
OMG An article supporting a Palin. Unheard of at Huffpo
ThinkCreeps
Seriously, it's time.
05:27 AM on 09/07/2010
... and so generous to give wings to a new sarcasm fairy.
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shilparules
09:21 AM on 09/06/2010
Bristol Palin is not only a ravishing beauty with a dazzling smile and mischievous sparkling eyes; she is also a serious student of acting, music, & dance. Her road to superstardom is a brightly-lit boulevard.
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MrsOrtiz
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04:28 PM on 09/06/2010
If she's a serious student of actiing, music & dance, she must be flunking. She said herself she doesn't dance and has no coordination or rhythm. She basically played herself in one guest roll. If she has any musical talent, she's kept it well hidden. She dropped out of high school and got her GED. She's also keeping her college plans well hidden. That hardly describes a serious student.

Or did I miss the sarcasm?
05:12 PM on 09/06/2010
You might want to check your facts..she graduated with her class while taking classes online while pregnant.

In fact with a 3.495 GPA.... The money she will make from the show will buy alot of college tuition.....

http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20279197,00.html
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StillMadMatt
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01:59 PM on 09/07/2010
Ravishing beauty my butt. Dream on blind man.
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08:36 AM on 09/06/2010
Bristol Palin won't be the first offspring to use her parent's fame as a stepping stone. Just look to Hollywood (too many to mention), and other politicians kids (Megan McCain for one.) I hope she has fun on the show, but fear that no matter if she turns out to be a stellar dancer, the hatred for her mother from so many in this country will get her voted off quite early in the competition.
08:58 AM on 09/06/2010
" the hatred for her mother from so many in this country will get her voted off quite early in the competition."
No. She'll be voted off because she is:
1. not (artistically) talented nor trained.
2. a dufus
3. because even DWTS (judges) possibly has some credibility, despite deliberate production set-ups, and they won't be able to support a rank amateur against some talent; I'm sure they'll milk it for a few weeks at least and of course the rabid palin-ites will be slobbering at the bit with their desperate cries.

n.b. 'we' don't hate ex-Gov Sarah Palin; it is a true fear (read other comment: re neo fascist)
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05:27 PM on 09/06/2010
I disagree. Inho, many Palin haters will keep her there so they can continue to smirk and look down their nose at her in order to feel better about themselves (as well as give them something to blog about). They get a perverse pleasure from ridiculing the Palins.

And the show will keep her there for the ratings and a possible peek at Palin in the audience.
I think she will be a big draw.

Whichever, I give her credit for trying and wish her well.