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Military Families Week: Putting the Spotlight on the Sacrifices of Those Left Behind

Posted: 04/12/2011 9:40 am

Talk about letting bygones be bygones: less than a year after President Obama relieved him of his command, the White House announced Sunday that Gen. Stanley McChrystal will help supervise a new initiative designed to put a spotlight on the sacrifices of America's military families -- and the practical steps the rest of us can take to help them.

Dubbed Joining Forces, the program will be officially announced today by Michelle Obama and Jill Biden -- whose husband McChrystal famously mocked by saying, "Who's that?"

But that was then and this is now -- a time to, as the First Lady put it, "build upon our nation's great patriotism by asking all Americans to take action and ensure our military families have the support they have earned." (For more on Joining Forces, be sure to check out the "You've Got..." video on AOL, which will feature Michelle Obama and Jill Biden talking about the effort and, as Biden puts it in the video, turning our "gratitude into concrete action.")

America has been a nation at war for nearly a decade -- longer than any time in our history. But because the fighting is being done by a tiny percentage of our citizens -- all of whom volunteered -- it's been far too easy to keep their struggles at arm's length. And it's even easier to forget about the hardships endured by the families they leave behind.

That's why we are making this Military Families Week at The AOL Huffington Post Media Group. The goal is to honor our military families, remind us of their sacrifices, provide them with employment resources, and let our readers know different ways they can help.

Joining Forces hopes to inspire businesses, nonprofit groups, and faith-based communities to make an extra effort when it comes to helping military families. On our sites we'll be featuring stories all week that focus on the issues that most impact military families, including health care, substance abuse, education, mental health and unemployment.

In addition to the built-in hardships faced by military families, a sputtering economy and an extremely difficult job market create special challenges for the spouses of our soldiers. As HuffPost's David Wood reports, the average military family moves every 2.9 years, labor markets around military bases are often weak, and even if you can find work, keeping a full-time job isn't easy when you are raising a family by yourself. That's why the unemployment rate for military spouses is much higher than it is for women in civilian families.

"It is difficult -- you are constantly moving so having a career is extremely hard," says Kristy Kaufmann, the wife of an Army officer. "Sometimes you can get a job waitressing or at the Post Exchange, but for people who want more of a career, that can be challenging."

To help lessen that challenge, AOL Jobs will be running a number of stories focused on helping vets and military families find work. The section will also offer career counseling, and information on accreditation programs, returning to school, the top employers of veterans, and making the transformation from military service to the civilian workforce.

Among our other sections taking part in honoring and assisting military families this week:

  • Impact will look at the plight of homeless female vets, and feature blog posts from veterans and veteran advocates.
  • Education will explore the specific challenges faced by children of soldiers.
  • Living will feature videos and articles about mental health, substance abuse and PTSD, as well as the sleep-related problems faced often by returning combat veterans.
  • Black Voices will feature blog posts by various chapters of Tuskegee Airmen.
  • Health will survey the state of the health care provided to our military families, and offer information and resources on how they can access the programs available to them.
  • Business will look into the special problems faced by unemployed vets.
  • Tech will feature a story on a tech start-up being run by veterans.
  • Divorce will explore the reasons behind the higher divorce rates of military women.
  • AOL Latino will run a number of blog posts written by current and former soldiers focusing on issues faced by Latinos in the service.
  • We'll also feature segments of "In Their Boots," a documentary series about the profound effect the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq is having on families here at home.

And, most importantly, we'll be encouraging everyone who reads these stories to take action and get involved. All week we'll be highlighting organizations and non-profits that make it easy to give a little back to those who have sacrificed so much for us, including Challenge America, Operation Shower, Cell Phones for Soldiers, Fisher House, Operation Homefront, Soldiers' Angels, and IAVA, the USO, Hire Heroes USA, and Wounded Warrior Project.


As the First Lady said in a ceremony honoring the Military Child of the Year, "Our message is very clear: It's that every American has the ability -- and the obligation -- to give something back to our military families."

Watching the White House and Gen. McChrystal bury the hatchet and come together in the name of military families sends a clear and powerful message: taking care of those left behind is a higher ground we all should occupy. As McChrystal put it: "this is about taking care of our people."

So read the stories, watch the videos, and let's all make a difference.

 
 
 
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07:39 PM on 04/19/2011
Please also remember the families of BlackWater, Custer and Battles, etc this week.
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05:29 PM on 04/16/2011
I have come across more than enough information that indicates these service people are not doing the will of our country; I would be MOST grateful for least demands on them, and to honest, less public funds concentrated in that industry. As would a clear majority of the country. Thanks.
11:38 PM on 04/19/2011
Yup, and if there were a draft, we'd see *very* quickly just how much support exists for these "wars." Being vaguely uneasy about the existence and justifications for this seemingly permanent state of affairs would quickly change to howling outrage by the great majority of Americans. Heck, the condition of the economy may make social engineering projects in the Middle East on such a grand scale unacceptable if nothing else does.
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07:13 PM on 04/20/2011
Unfortunately, there'd also be enough people hard up for the cash... would a draft be necessary?
05:19 PM on 04/16/2011
Let's be honest, nobody cares about vets, troops, our their families. We believe in global economies, free trade, amnesty, work visas, and cutting taxes. The future we are creating is a de-industrialized America with no factory jobs, and instead jobs at McDonalds and Wallmart.
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GrammieJ
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09:56 PM on 04/16/2011
not sure where you are coming from mashtoe, but i for one appreciate our military, wish you had the same respect
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Mattjoe3
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05:13 PM on 04/16/2011
How about placing the spotlight on the unjustified and unlawful means by which these service people have been called to duty by the ruling class.

Everything else is platitudes.
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Adrian Zupp
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05:21 PM on 04/16/2011
You saved me a post. Perfectly put! Thank you.

http://adrianzupp.blogspot.com/2011/03/war-is-not-answer.html
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08:38 PM on 04/16/2011
Amen, baby...
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04:43 PM on 04/16/2011
A very nice gesture, thanks for doing this. Every bit of support helps families in real if not always visible need.
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cindywindy
02:47 PM on 04/16/2011
Reading through these posts, I can honestly say I'm shocked beyond words that there are actually people who blame our SOLDIERS' willingness to enlist for the war mongering of our nation's leaders. My 20-year-old son is leaving tomorrow afternoon for boot camp in the Army National Guard's Military Police program. He's not joining to make any kind of "political statement" or to "support our nation's wars", he's joining the military police to make a difference and protect the freedom that YOU have to sit on your computer and type such nasty drivel. I guess some people are "talkers", while other people are "doers". Honest to God, I'm totally shocked. I can't even believe there are such ungrateful people walking around in the world.
11:55 PM on 04/19/2011
Are you a doer, cindywindy? Are you enlisting? Are you currently serving?

I hope your son finds a way to make a positive difference through the military. I know lots of people who have turned their experiences in the military into really positive contributions, though none of them ever insisted that I be grateful to them or expected me not to voice an opinion contrary to the corporate interest of the people making decisions on how to deploy them. I don't think disagreeing with the government/commercial justifications for our nation-building exercises abroad tranlates to being ungrateful.
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Tom Hendricks
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01:33 PM on 04/16/2011
Speaking of employment services, will Huffington Post be hiring servicemen in need of a job on National Hiring Day? Time to match words with deeds.
National Hiring Day #3 is suggested for May 19, 2011. This is a day that corporations are encouraged to hire new employees. Corporations are called on to put patriotism first and help their country in hard times. Those corporations that cannot hire, are asked to stop firing for that month.
There has never been a time In American History where hiring people would hurt corporations less, and help the country more.
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05:30 PM on 04/16/2011
What a truly heroic effort. Great idea.
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05:31 PM on 04/16/2011
And so integrally and vastly related to what's most needed for the times.
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Tom Hendricks
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07:26 PM on 04/16/2011
Thank you. I hope it helps.
04:54 PM on 04/13/2011
DirectEmployers Association, a non-profit trade association representing nearly 600 major Fortune 1000 companies were looking more than to inspire Veteran and Military Family hiring with their newest networks aptly named www.Veterans.jobs and www.MilitaryFamily.jobs.

Hiring companies and their jobs are the main ingredient necessary to provide viable opportunities to veterans and their spouses.

Read more here:
http://thechad.jobcentral.com/index.php/2011/04/06/getting-jobs-to-veterans-and-the-military-family/
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Tom Hendricks
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01:12 PM on 04/16/2011
Here's something that may work, work fast, help all, work outside the government etc.

There is a solution to the jobs problem and it could quickly put hundreds of thousands of people back to work. It is not pro left or right. It is not from any corporation, it's outside the government control, it's totally voluntary, and helps all with little sacrifice from anyone.

National Hiring Day #3 is suggested for May 19, 2011. This is a day that corporations are encouraged to hire new employees. Corporations are called on to put patriotism first and help their country in hard times. Those corporations that cannot hire, are asked to stop firing for that month. The day was suggested by the 18 year old Dallas art and media zine Musea.

There has never been a time In American History where hiring people would hurt corporations less, and help the country more.
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espressobeans
. . . just saying it like it is.
03:32 PM on 04/13/2011
Well, I'd rather they didn't join up in the first place, if we want to be brutally honest. Why aren't these Republicans who have to have all of these stupid wars and who have all of the power taking care of this? I'd prefer not to glorify the military. I don't believe good things come of it. Not in the big picture. Not at least in these times. Almost everybody is hurting and it's in large part because of these stupid wars.
03:12 PM on 04/13/2011
Is Gen McChrystral on the Joining Forces alone? Anyone else there?
01:53 PM on 04/13/2011
Arianna, while it is only fitting to give you thanks for focusing on military families this week, I'd like to point out that education challenges for the children of servicemen and women are only one challenge we face and it is a challenge. For those of us who's parent is killed in war we are challenged in our homes. For those of us who's parent is Missing in Action the challenge is harder to put into words. This is my experience. It is something like holding your breath while trying to go about your daily routine. Your daily routine actually becomes about holding your breath. Sometimes it's all you know to do. It's something tangible. Children of POW/MIA servicemen have gone unnoticed and have slipped through the cracks of any discussions as it appears to be the case on the huffingtonpost. We are children of waiting. Some day perhaps our society will take notice.
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2sunny
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11:50 AM on 04/16/2011
jmtheboat....I have noticed and I care about our military families waiting like dutiful patriots. I was a military wife in the 60's.
A few months back I asked HuffPost for a military page. This weeks spotlight is a welcomed focus.

I will not forgt Bowe.....
Thusday, December 9, 2010 in the Portland Press Herald newspaper, a picture and caption reads:
"This image shows a man believed to be Spc. Bowe Bergdahl, the only known American serviceman being held in Afghanistan." Where is Bowe? His American family is waiting.
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hayness
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12:16 PM on 04/13/2011
If soldiers weren't willing to fight for the interests of the rich and corporations, we would have almost no wars.
08:53 AM on 04/14/2011
Lets just hope everyone else agrees simultaneously or we are f**ked pretty bad...
ALiberalKidd
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11:26 AM on 04/13/2011
We all have heard conservatives rant over so called "welfare moms?” Well, I have noticed how many military soldiers have over-weight wives who just stay home, eat, and have baby after baby? Why do you suppose this is? And why should the federal government or citizens give these lazy wives preferential praise, treatment, and benefits over poor and hard working civilian single moms, fathers, or parents?
12:51 PM on 04/13/2011
Gee.... I don't see this at the base where I visit contantly. You must be talking about some other military base know one else is aware of. Having the word Liberal in your nick does not make you a liberal minded person........

Before you make too much of a fool of yourself.... be minded your on the Huffington Post. Most people here have at least a High School education and snicker at such comments as yours.

Your wasting your time.

Dude. You just insulted every soldier that served in combat...... that doesn't make you feel a little uneasy?
01:29 PM on 04/13/2011
I disagree. I visit bases all the time and I don't see any difference in military wives physical aspects than in the general population. Are you suggesting that military wives are on welfare?
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Lucas Prater
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11:16 AM on 04/13/2011
Bring them all home. Stop wasting human lives and our tax money on superfluous conflict.
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05:33 PM on 04/16/2011
Very smart. Too smart. Watch out ;)