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Military Families Week: Time to Stop Keeping Their Struggles at Arm's Length

Posted: 04/11/2012 9:39 am

I'm delighted that today marks the start of the Huffington Post Media Group's second annual Military Families Week. We'll be honoring our country's military families, putting the spotlight on their sacrifices, helping connect them with employment resources, and letting our readers know how they can help.

We launched Military Families Week last year to coincide with the formation of Joining Forces, the program announced by Michelle Obama and Jill Biden to create and secure private-sector jobs for veterans returning from Iraq and Afghanistan. At the time, the First Lady said it was time to "build upon our nation's great patriotism by asking all Americans to take action and ensure our military families have the support they have earned." The goal, as Jill Biden added, was to turn our "gratitude into concrete action."

A year later, the need for action remains. America has been a nation at war for more than a decade, which only deepens our responsibility and our debt to our servicemen and women. The fighting and burden of sacrifice is being shouldered by a tiny percentage of our citizens -- all of whom volunteered -- and it's been far too easy, for far too long, to keep their struggles at arm's length. And it's even easier to forget about the hardships endured by the families they leave behind.

It's why, in December of last year, HuffPost published an e-book, Beyond The Battlefield: The War Goes on for the Severely Wounded, by HuffPost's senior military correspondent David Wood. The book is dedicated to telling the stories of the challenges faced by wounded veterans and their families that continue long after the soldiers return home.

So we are delighted that the First Lady has recorded an exclusive video for HuffPost's series "The Moment I Knew," sharing her personal story of the moment she knew she wanted to help military families. "I heard so many stories of the strength and grace, of the sacrifice and service that truly define what it means to be in a military family," she says.

And we're rolling out other features that will put the focus on soldiers and their families. We've created a slideshow of reader-submitted photos of their loved ones who have served in the military (send us your photos here). Another slideshow spotlights First Ladies who devoted energy and time to military families in need -- from Eleanor Roosevelt to Florence Harding, who was an advocate for the rights of returning World War I veterans.

All week, we'll feature blog posts that provide glimpses into the lives, stories, and struggles of those who serve -- and those who love them. Like Bianca Strzalkowski, a military wife (and Military Spouse magazine's 2011 Military Spouse of the Year) who proposes solutions to a little-discussed aspect of military life: the way military spouses often struggle to complete their educations.

We'll also feature a post from Mark Cubbedge, of the nonprofit Wounded Warrior Project, who tells the story of Corporal Anthony Villarreal, a soldier who has served two tours of duty in Iraq and one in Afghanistan, where he was badly burned by an IED. Corporal Villarreal recalls waking up in a military hospital and sensing that his wife and children were at his bedside. "But I had had surgery to replace my eyelids, so it was hard for me to look."

To coincide with Military Families Week, our current HuffPost Book Club pick is What It Is Like to Go to War, by former Marine and Vietnam veteran Karl Marlantes. It's a book about the spiritual and psychological cost of warfare on everyone -- the soldiers, their families, and society at large. To deepen the conversation, HuffPost reached out to veterans, military chaplains, and family members of those currently serving. It prompted many moving responses, like the one from Tracey Scharmann, whose husband was deployed to Iraq in 2003. In a post titled "What It's Like to Stay Home From War," she wrote: "I know what it's like to see my child win her first swim meet or dance on stage for the first time or laugh that hardy little infant laugh for the first time. I don't know what it's like not to be able to do that."

So please join us in celebrating the launch of Military Families Week. As always, use the comments section to let us know what you think.

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10:48 PM on 04/16/2012
Hi, Arianna. Thanks for doing what you can to help military families. If you really want to understand what military children go through before, during, and after the wars, you might want to take a look at "Brats: Our Journey Home," the first and only feature-length documentary about growing up military, narrated by Kris Kristofferson and featuring General Norman Schwarzkopf (both military brats) - www.bratsfilm.com. "Brat," by the way, is not a derogatory word - it's based on an historical acronym referring to British military children - "British Regiment Attached Traveler."

Growing up in a military families is a complicated, often paradoxical experience. The best way to help is to understand first. Thanks again for taking the time to listen!

Kind regards,
Donna Musil, Executive Director
Brats Without Borders
A nonprofit founded by brats and for brats, since 1999
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Djabout Mauren
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02:39 PM on 04/15/2012
You know, I'm going to be labelled an Ahole for this. The military is a job, voluntarily chosen by those who join. I'm tired of the meme "support our troops" meme. Should they be justly taken care of? Funding for traumatic brain injuries? You bet. But this mindless support with magnets on your car doesn't mean diddly. Put your money where your flag is Republicans.
02:10 PM on 04/15/2012
What percentage of the Active military served in Iraq or Afgan. in the past 10 years and lets make it complete by adding in war fighting positions.
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02:03 PM on 04/15/2012
'Time to Stop Keeping Their Struggles at Arm's Length.' Now really, has anyone in the media or the military ever discussed that our returning Vet's only get five [5] years of health benefits? No! This is a travesty. The same Republican party that called us Patriots when we fought their illegal wars call our returning Vet's 'whiner's' because they ask for the benefits they were promised. Republicans should be God Named ashamed of themself for voting for their nefarious causes. To murder people for profit and then despise my fellow Veteran's is a crisis for the war-monger's that think that this is some how a holy war or have something to do about a religion that espouses war.
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Robert D. Stolorow
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01:21 PM on 04/15/2012
Link to a blog describing ground-breaking work in the therapeutic approach to combat-related PTSD:
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/wounded-resilient/201110/inside-the-mind-war-vet
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Kalik
My backpack is a citizen of the world.
12:06 PM on 04/15/2012
The Air Force alone is cutting 10,000 active duty personnel, ten years of war and deployments...then handed a pink slip.

http://www.usatoday.com/news/world/story/2012-02-03/Air-Force-cuts-airmen/52953456/1
03:46 AM on 04/15/2012
All these survivors (And their families) should be protesting to end these resource wars. Mrs. Celebrity Michelle Obama should be out front demanding full coverage for all veterans instead of remaining silent as the VA is gutted and veterans are ignored. These are wars of choice and have nothing to do with freedom or democracy. She is part of the problem and so is her celebrity husband. Putting the burden on the private sector is an easy out and another way to abandon the veterans. Many need physical rehab and are not getting it. Many need emotional crisis counseling and are not getting it. The private sector has been gutted by two Administrations but Obama keeps saying it's getting better and to step up and take up the slack: BS. The 99Percenters do not have the means, or the finances to save our damaged and abandoned veterans. Read the headlines. These stories may be great, but they are small stories and change nothing. End the war funding.
End the wars. Ground all drones. Charge everyone guilty of war crimes. That is what I want to be reading.
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amadeus617
11:01 AM on 04/15/2012
You mean the 2 Bush wars? Every one guilty of war crimes? Two wars charged to the American people.
01:26 AM on 04/15/2012
A big thank you to Huffington Post for highlighting our military families. The are real heroes and deserve all the love, support, and help we can give them. Mention your favorite military charity in the comments when ordering At War With PTSD: Battling Post Traumatic Stress Disorder with Virtual Reality, from Johns Hopkins University Press or Amazon, and I'll donate 100% of the author proceeds to whatever military charity you suggest. http://atwarwithptsd.com
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Willie12345
07:50 AM on 04/13/2012
I hope people recognize R. Maddow's contributions to the wounded vets. I heard she has donated more that $ 1.7 million dollars to them and has visited vets in hospital just about every other weekend for 2 years. She's quite the compassionate patriot.
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PeterNPaul
Hey NSA. I hope you are listening.
07:09 AM on 04/13/2012
It seems we are always treating the effects rather than addressing the root cause.
12:40 PM on 04/13/2012
Actually the root cause is that we don't get enough stories about the Lingerie Football League.
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BluePhantom2
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07:10 PM on 04/12/2012
Nice that Arianna is doing this. The comments are a bit shocking.
10:45 AM on 04/12/2012
What we can do is take 1/2 of the money flushed down the toilet on Illegal Aliens benefits and use it to provide for our military families in wages and benefits. E.g. - why should someone killed in the attack on the WTC receive hundred of thousands in compensation while a military spouse is given less than one hundred thousand for her spouses death. The other half can be used directly on improving troop levels thus shortening or cutting deployments, and providing ever better equipment and training. IMAO!
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roy brophy
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08:57 AM on 04/12/2012
What we can do for all families in the US is to get the hell out of Afghanistan.
I was in Vietnam in 1968 and both candidates for President KNEW, absolutely KNEW, there was no way to keep proping up the totally discredited and corrupt government of South Vietnam that we created. But neither candidate had the courage to say so and end the needless slaughter.

We find our selves inn the same position now, everyone knows that our policy is a total failure but fear of right wing war mongers keep both candidates from speaking the truth.

Support the Troops, bring them home.
07:50 AM on 04/12/2012
Gay military families are still being discriminated against. Where are our benefits? Why don't you help US? If you want to honor all military families then you would include our struggles as well.
07:42 AM on 04/12/2012
Gay military families are still discriminated against. Where are our benefits? What's your position on that Ariana? Why don't you help us? If you want to honor us, you have to do more. Stop phoning in your support!
10:40 AM on 04/12/2012
Try Denmark.