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When Mitt Met Paul: "I Love You, You're Perfect, Now Change"

Posted: 08/22/2012 10:17 pm

Given the way Mitt Romney gushed when he introduced Paul Ryan as his VP pick, you'd think he'd not just found his running mate, but his soul mate as well. And what, exactly, did Romney see in Ryan that made him realize he was The One? "Paul Ryan is a leader," Romney said at a rally in Norfolk, Virginia. "His leadership begins with character and values." And also he is "a person of great steadiness, whose integrity is unquestioned and whose word is good." And also "a man of tremendous character." Indeed, Romney said he doesn't "know of anyone who doesn't respect his character and judgment."

So Romney liked Ryan for his "leadership," his "values," his "steadiness," and his "firm principles." But then, right after Ryan was picked, the Romney campaign immediately made sure that Ryan abandoned each one of those qualities. In other words, you fall in love with that special someone for his independence and fiery spirit -- and then right after the honeymoon, you try to turn him into a doormat.

What is it about the vice presidency that so diminishes anyone chosen? John Nance Garner, FDR's first number two, famously said that being vice president wasn't worth "a bucket of warm piss," but the process of diminishment occurs long before taking office. By that time, the vice president-elect is already just the shell of the leadership and ambition and confidence that led to his selection in the first place.

In the case of Romney and Ryan, the post-nuptial turnaround was no less dramatic than the buildup. Indeed, the recounting of it, in a breathless New York Times piece titled "The Courtship Before Romney Elevated Ryan," reads more like a "Vows" piece than something from the politics desk. The story of how the "blue-state governor" and the "Tea Party hero" finally came together in their "on-again, off-again five-year courtship" hits practically every convention of classic wedding toasts.

The first date when it really clicked: The courtship began "that day in early 2007," when "15 minutes turned into an hour," with the "pair of policy mavens out-geeking each other over esoterica like border-adjustable taxes."

"We went deep into the weeds," Ryan said.

They both saw something in each other:

"...in Mr. Ryan, Mr. Romney saw shades of himself: a clean-cut numbers guy who favored the cold-eyed truths of actuarial tables over ideology for its own sake. ... In Mr. Romney, Mr. Ryan saw, over time, a presidential candidate as steeped in the messy minutia of policy as he was. 'A classic executive,' Mr. Ryan said."

Still, it started slow: "Between 2007 and 2010, most of their interactions were glancing."

But they gradually got to know each other: "Over the past 18 months, with Mr. Romney emerging as the Republican Party's presidential nominee, the frequency and intensity of their communication deepened."

And the bonds of policy intimacy began to grow:

"'A lot of substance was exchanged between them,' said Tom Rath, a longtime political adviser to Mr. Romney. ... [Ryan] became comfortable enough to send Mr. Romney memos over the past few months encouraging him to focus on bolder ideas and to offer greater specificity in his proposals."

Soon, their friends began to notice that this was something special:

"'Ryan's name came up very frequently,' [said Rath]. Those guys who were traveling with Governor Romney would say, 'Oh, I know he talked to Ryan about this' or 'Ryan and he were e-mailing about that.' ... Their interactions became so commonplace that colleagues recalled spotting Mr. Ryan duck into a phone booth in the House to take a call from Mr. Romney."

"What I was very surprised by was how much he and Mitt were talking, even prior to Paul endorsing him," said Rep. Aaron Schock. "It was way beyond the perfunctory solicitations for support."

But as the relationship deepened, Ryan got cold feet: "Friends said he had wondered aloud about the depth of Mr. Romney's commitment to bold conservative ideas, asking colleagues whether he was 'wishy-washy,' as one of them recalled."

Before he was willing to go further, Ryan wanted to see a ring: "Mr. Ryan recalled that he had wanted specifics before he was willing to deliver his endorsement."

And Romney, perhaps sensing this might be The One, stepped up the plate: "Mr. Romney delivered what Mr. Ryan was seeking in a series of phone calls and meetings, determined to win Mr. Ryan over."

And it worked: "In the course of those lengthy discussions, Mr. Ryan said, 'I got a very good idea of the kind of reformer he wants to be.'"

And then, each of them just knew: "Mr. Ryan was a touchstone for Mr. Romney as he tried to ensure that his policies were in sync with the spiritual heart of the party, the House Republicans."

"'I met with Rick Perry and Newt -- all of them -- Huntsman,' Ryan said. 'I would tell my colleagues, 'Romney is the one who understands this stuff.'"

So everybody raise a glass to the happy couple! It was, to borrow a great Yiddish word that was used many times during a wedding I attended last weekend in Los Angeles, bashert -- meaning, destiny or fate, that the couple was meant to be.

Okay, you can lower your glasses now, because it turned out the honeymoon lasted until the end of Romney's introduction speech. Right after making it public in front of God, their families, and some rally-goers in Norfolk, the campaign immediately set about undermining all the qualities Romney professed to love about Ryan.

Steadiness? Well, the first thing that was required was for Ryan to, in large measure, disavow the budget that was the very thing that brought him to running-mate-consideration-level in the first place. One of Ryan's first interviews was with Fox News' Brit Hume, in which Hume, to his credit, pressed Ryan on the fact that the $716 billion that the Romney campaign claims the Affordable Care Act cut from Medicare is very similar to the proposals in the first Ryan budget.

Ryan's response: "Only President Obama raids $716 billion from the Medicare program. He cut $716 billion from the Medicare program to pay for Obamacare."

Pressed further by Hume, the man selected for his "firm principles," "values," and leadership quickly raised the white flag: "I joined the Romney ticket."

Which, translated, means: "Whatever I said before I joined the Romney ticket is null and void if Mitt doesn't like it. And besides, I let him manage the checkbook. I'm not good with all those numbers -- I'm just here to look politically pretty."

In fairness to the newly minted couple, this is hardly an exception to the rule. In 1996, Bob Dole, an unexciting establishment-approved GOP presidential nominee, needed some political pizzazz (sound familiar?). And wanted a running mate that would, as the New York Times put it at the time, show that "the Republican Party is more inclusive and moderate than it is reputed to be." And so Jack Kemp, who had spoken out in favor of affirmative action and against denying social services to illegal immigrants, was chosen. And immediately after being selected he set about "repositioning himself to try to submerge his differences with Mr. Dole on those two issues."

"You're watching a metamorphosis," Kemp said at the time. "I would be a fool to put my feet down in a position where I can't accommodate metamorphoses." Except in this case, the butterfly is metamorphosing back into a caterpillar.

Four years later, it was the same routine -- this time on the Democratic side of the aisle, where Joe Lieberman had to backtrack on his support for school vouchers to look better on the arm of Al Gore. He also had to make, as the LA Times wrote, "a conciliatory gesture to Hollywood activists rankled by his crusade against sex and violence in youth entertainment."

And in the last presidential campaign, Joe Biden had to paper over his disagreements with Barack Obama on Iraq. "Joe wanted to be the vice president or secretary of state, and for either outcome he needed to make sure he didn't contradict Obama on anything," a Biden associate told Politico.

God forbid a ticket have enough faith in the public to admit what we all know -- that running mates frequently disagree on a few issues. Yes, the media is certainly part of the problem. Any hint of daylight on any issue between a nominee and a running mate is treated as if the press has found the transcript for the 18-minute gap on the Nixon tapes.

It's a strange process for both members of the ticket -- it's not just the vice presidential nominee that's diminished by it. We've set up a system to pick our leaders in which the willingness to lose all self-respect -- to say nothing of our respect -- is one of the essential job requirements. After years of achievement and accomplishment, candidates finally get into the contest they've been working toward for most of their lives and they suddenly seem desperate, insecure, and off-kilter.

So maybe we can help by telling future vice presidential nominees that it's okay if they want to have their own opinion once in a while. The media might take to the fainting couch, but the public won't. After all, we all know what happens to most marriages when one half of the happy couple completely submerges his or her personality so soon after saying "I do." In fact, we have an entire HuffPost section devoted to it.

 
 
 
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Given the way Mitt Romney gushed when he introduced Paul Ryan as his VP pick, you'd think he'd not just found his running mate, but his soul mate as well. And what, exactly, did Romney see in Ryan tha...
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05:48 AM on 10/13/2012
Disclose your income and tax rate.Hypocrite.
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RButler
I've always wanted to have everything I wanted
10:43 PM on 08/26/2012
I caught a few minutes of Gloria Borger interviewing Romney on CNN today.  He was telling her about being a bishop or whatever in the Mormon church and how he 'had' to look after people in the congregation with difficult issues.  I immediately thought of a 'balance shaft' in a car engine.  He decided he was gonna focus on making big money to pay himself back for doing good things in his youth.  Is that how a true Christians thinks? 
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RButler
I've always wanted to have everything I wanted
10:32 PM on 08/26/2012
The first paragraph of Romney's quotes about Ryan was a real load of fertilizer, wasn't it? 

I thought to myself as I read those descriptions of Ryan, "How can he so easily say that ****?".

I've heard similar things said about some people who really deserved those praises but not Paul Ryan, for heaven's sake.    Whatever agreed upon reality I thought I had with most of humanity is slipping fast.  And, it's not me.  Romney has gone mad. 
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hammerhead6154
Republican Bar Laying In 6 Inches Of Mud
09:56 PM on 08/26/2012
In my long history of voting, I have never seen a faker and pathetic candidate than Mitt Romney!
11:56 AM on 10/13/2012
And we can trust you are not biased. Now we can all sleep better:)
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04:48 PM on 08/26/2012
Are you surpised? it is exactly the same all over CORPORATE America...managers are promoted to the next level because they have great ideas but mostly they are the brown-nosing, younger versions of their protege - the boss...then as soon as they get on the next rung of the ladder they are forced to conform, be silent, tow the company line and fall into line with the same ole policies..anyone whose worked for a Fortune 500 company knows that 99% of these corporations haven't changed anything significant in their management processes or corporate culture in over 20 years. It is pathetic that the job of President might go to a pair of empty suits.
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MmeFlutterbye
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07:47 PM on 08/26/2012
Fanned Anyone who has ever been out in the white-collar workforce knows the truth of what you say.
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CB5
We do not want to repeat 2010 in 2014! VOTE:)
03:04 PM on 08/26/2012
Write on, Ms. HP !
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B Campbell
It's all over except the shouting ...
02:57 PM on 08/26/2012
What I find interesting is that psychologists have found that people, when looking for their partner, look for the strengths that they themselves lack, This will balance them out.

"His leadership begins with character and values." And also he is "a person of great steadiness, whose integrity is unquestioned and whose word is good." And also "a man of tremendous character." Indeed, Romney said he doesn't "know of anyone who doesn't respect his character and judgment."

Romney knew he needed someone with those qualities to make up for his lack of "steadiness, whose integrity is unquestioned and whose word is good" etc ... yada yada yada. It's the first time he has shown any introspection.
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B Campbell
It's all over except the shouting ...
02:44 PM on 08/26/2012
Excellent observation and TRUTH!
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fapescia
02:32 PM on 08/26/2012
The National Review and the Weekly Standard created the cult of Ryan. That cabal also got us unto Iraq, if anyone has any doubts about their judgement.
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fapescia
02:28 PM on 08/26/2012
The best way to desfcribe what the Romney team has done to Ryan is to say that he is now hosebroken.
RobertReport
ex mia sententia
02:07 PM on 08/26/2012
As I understand it, Paul Ryan was David Koch's choice. Allegedly the Koch's are buying this election and much money was supposed to ride on choosing Ryan. Romney did not disappoint. Apparently what we are seeing is Romney's way of controlling Ryan and it suggests that Ryan was not Romney's first choice but MONEY rules especially with Romney.
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anitaroosevelt
want some Ayn Rand with those fries?
05:53 PM on 08/26/2012
Fanned. My thoughts exactly. Never ever underestimate the machinations of the kochbros imperialism.
11:33 AM on 08/26/2012
This happy couple is headed nowhere but divorce court. Recriminations are gathering and beginning to hover over the horizon, till the right moment comes, which is the day after they lose the election.
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fjpoblam
¿did I say something?
10:31 AM on 08/26/2012
When the lyin' Ryan met the RawMoney: "Will you still love me...tomorrow?"
05:10 AM on 08/26/2012
Arianna why have we not had a build a candidate yet, we could actually put features along with attitudes to it, this could be interesting? :- (())
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03:10 AM on 08/26/2012
Arianna, this is really rich. You see I remember the day when you broke onto the national scene. You were conservative and farther right than Ryan. Your critique made me laugh outloud.
11:30 AM on 08/26/2012
People do evolve even if a few refuse to believe in evolution. The years do not pass in vain; and with wisdom and experience, scales seems to fall from loaded eyes. New arrivals looking for acceptance always try to overdo, the accepted act du jour, in order to be accepted and fit in.
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05:59 PM on 08/26/2012
Super. People do evolve. Some devolve. If a lib changes position it is evolving. If a conservative changes position it is flip-flopping. Once you remove the negative and hypocritical labels of change maybe more will.
Eric4969
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01:11 PM on 08/26/2012
Cool LEts See those Articles and Links ::) What No Links or Articles to BAck your Thoughts up with hhhhmmmmmmmm
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03:35 PM on 08/26/2012
Eric. Your youth is not an excuse for not knowing history.