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My Favorite Black Dress: Love Story or Cautionary Tale?

Posted: 02/09/2012 7:03 pm

In honor of Fashion Week, I want to revisit one of life's eternal questions: if you have a dress you love, how often can you wear it before reaching an unacceptable number of "repeats"? And, further, what if all these repeat showings were for "important" occasions -- Thanksgiving, New Year's Eve, your sister's wedding, your college reunion, your wedding anniversary -- the kind of events that often warrant a new outfit? Is it a problem if you serially turn up in the same outfit? And is it more problematic still if you post your pictures on Twitter and Facebook, as I do?

For me, this became more than a theoretical question when I fell in love with a very simple Nanette Lepore dress (it's black Italian lace, with a hot pink slip under it, and I have added a wide black patent leather belt).

And, as you can see, I've worn it again and again and again, from the dinner I gave for Bill Maher when he was in New York to Thanksgiving in Los Angeles to the Christmas party at the White House to New Year's Eve, etc., etc., etc.

So, here is a slideshow. Tell me honestly -- is it time to finally retire this dress? And do you have any similar dress obsessions to share? And when you retire something special, do you pass it on to a friend, or hold on to it for sentimental reasons?

P.S.: One more thing in defense of returning again and again to this particular dress: it doesn't crease. You can pack it in your carry-on, take it out, and it's fresh as a daisy.

P.P.S.: Thanks to a perceptive commenter, Scottsdalebubbe, I've changed "pinafore" to "slip" in the text above.

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01:36 PM on 02/14/2012
I wear what I want and you should too. You could wear a different colored slip underneath and that would change it up but if you're comfortable with it, then why should you care what other people think?
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JC2009USA
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01:30 PM on 02/13/2012
Wow - I was expecting to see one dazzling beautiful dress and didn't....I'm not sure why you are so in love with that dress...??? There are hundreds of really pretty - little black numbers out there....so I would pick five or six new styles and wear them for a while...I would'nt get rid of this dress if you love it that much but maybe leave it in the closet for a while and when you bring it back out add a black leather jacket over it, or if possible get a couple of more slips in different colors and matching belts to change up the look...even colorful shoes to match the slip might help...to each his own...but I'm not sure this look is the best one for you...just a thought.
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jrp1947
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12:28 PM on 02/13/2012
This reminds me of the daughter in grade school who gets a fixation on one piece of clothing and won't wear anything else until she wears this one out long after her family would like to see it burned. After a while you start to turn people off and to be honest there are better styles for you to wear. To be honest that dress reminds me and probably only me of a one night red carpet affair but not for the white house or anything else. Explore the world of black dresses and you will find much better stuff that will get men's attention faster without losing any classy appeal in the process.
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practicalnomad
Life can be stressful, organization helps.
09:58 AM on 02/13/2012
She has a great sense of style and always looks great. To those who say it's easy with money....Money may allow the purchase, however, money doesn't ensure you've style.
09:44 AM on 02/13/2012
I'm sure she can afford to buy whatever she wants. I think she looks fantastic in all the pictures and saving a lot of money at the same time.
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Leon Stark
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06:40 AM on 02/13/2012
I may be a guy, but I have a suggestion. If you could find three or four similarly comfortable dresses that fit your other qualifications, you could rotate them out for different occasions. That way, people would not particularly remember what you wore when. I hope you have some accessories to change up the look with. If you can make some interesting changes, you might be able to get away with it.

Men often have two or three "mix and match" suits where the slacks match the jackets for color and style, and they can change up their look over a a number of days. If the suit comes with a vest, more pieces to change up a look with. Different shirts and ties also help.
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08:47 AM on 02/13/2012
3 or 4 ?....... Seriously?
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Leon Stark
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11:15 AM on 02/13/2012
Men's suits are always two or three pieces, therefor giving rise to six to nine different looks before at least one of them needs to be cleaned. Three or four leave something to wear while the others are being cleaned. Of course they must be smart looking, comfortable (most important), and meet all other criteria that Ms. Huffington might require for a travel dress.

My father taught me that the minimum of any garment is three, one to wash, one to wear, one to spare. With a busy professional schedule, an extra would not hurt, therefore, four outfits for travel. As men can get more wear out of a pair of suits, there can be two, leaving one to be cleaned while the other is hanging on the body.
03:00 AM on 02/13/2012
Its a "Chick Flick", Glamorous anyway She dresses,executive entertainer,creative curator,most exclusive guest of mutual proportions,extremely beautiful,extra fancy,exhilarating hostess,entrepreneur-ess extraordinaire,exceptional laureate.A wonderful operator of a most excellent establishment that has such great diversity, All could be "Happy", Hoping for a "Happy Valentines Day"
10:51 PM on 02/12/2012
It's a great dress. I suggest you have other under-dresses made in a variety of colours and keep on wearing it for the next ten years! cheers! dorothy
04:40 PM on 02/12/2012
A man wouldn't even think about this situation and they are probably more than half of your audience. Keep wearing it for as long as you can still fit into it!
03:41 PM on 02/12/2012
Dear Arianna, I love you and the work you do. The dress is beautiful, so what if you wear again? I have a Nanette Lapore black dress and I feel great in it. It is my go to black dress. If it feels great, wear it.
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lawa
row, row your boat
03:17 PM on 02/12/2012
arriana, i think the dress loves you. you look elegant,lovely, and with a "i mean business" look. keep the dress
03:09 PM on 02/12/2012
I would keep it and wear it for personal and family events, but not when you know you will be publicly photographed.
02:41 PM on 02/12/2012
If you really love the dress... love the fit and have places to go, wear it! I have dresses and suits in my closet for years that I just keep wearing, I love them and won't part with them.
01:41 PM on 02/12/2012
You should never get rid of a dress that you love for any reason unless it no longer fits.
07:38 AM on 02/12/2012
I feel that if you have a favorite dress, keep it and wear it as often as you choose.