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Why We Like People Who Share Our Taste In Music

Posted: 08/11/11 09:21 AM ET

When you're at a party and you meet new people, you'd like to have some way to get to know about them quickly. You can try to talk about sports with people, but not everyone follows sports. You can try to talk about politics, but those conversations can get heated quickly.

Instead, people often ask others about music. Finding out the music that someone else likes seems to give you a lot of information about them, quickly. A study by Peter Rentfrow, and Sam Gosling published in Psychological Science in 2006 found that college students getting to know each other over the Internet are more likely to ask about music preferences than about all other categories of conversation topics combined. This research also found that knowing someone's music preferences allowed students to do a reasonable job of predicting some of the new person's personality characteristics and values. Personality characteristics are the basic dimensions of behavior along which people differ. Values are beliefs and goals that influence how people approach the world.

On top of that, when we find out that someone shares our musical interests, that increases how much we like them. This idea was explored in a paper by Diana Boer, Ronald Fischer, Micha Strack, Michael Bond, Eva Lo, and Jason Lam in the September, 2011 issue of Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin.

In one study, they asked fans of metal or hip-hop music to evaluate descriptions of people who either shared their musical taste, had a different music preference, or had no stated music preference. The participants were asked how much they thought they would like this person. They also rated how similar they thought this person was to them along a variety of personality characteristics and values.

Unsurprisingly, people expressed that they liked a new person better when finding that they shared the same musical taste than when they did not. The amount that someone felt that they would like the new person was based strongly on how much they thought the new person would share similar values rather than similar personality characteristics.

This effect was also observed in a study of college roommates in Hong Kong. In this study, college students who had been rooming together for a few months were asked about music preference, how much they liked each other and a variety of questions about similarities in values. Music preferences predicted similarities in values, which in turn predicted how much the roommates liked each other.

This research suggests that we often ask people about their musical preferences because musical taste serves as an easy indicator of whether we are likely to be similar to new people in ways that will influence how much we like them.

In the end, of course, we can't know from this research whether music influences values or values influence the music people like (or both). That is, people may generally spend time with others who share their values. In these social settings, music is often shared, and the music you hear affects what music you like. So, sharing values could cause music preference.

But the opposite could also be true. Music expresses values. Lyrics have social messages. In this way, listening to particular musical styles could affect people's values. But that is a topic for future research.

 
 
 

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When you're at a party and you meet new people, you'd like to have some way to get to know about them quickly. You can try to talk about sports with people, but not everyone follows sports. You can t...
When you're at a party and you meet new people, you'd like to have some way to get to know about them quickly. You can try to talk about sports with people, but not everyone follows sports. You can t...
 
 
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10:27 AM on 09/07/2011
The magic of the musical note... I'm so fortunate to share the same taste in music with my son.
Life would not be worth living without music and beauty.
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ttrexxx
leave if you can't handle it
06:45 AM on 08/14/2011
music speaks to us.. the mess.is shared
04:36 AM on 08/14/2011
Music has always been my "drug" of choice.....starting with classical (#1choice) then....folk....60's rock....early motown....blues....classic jazz....bluegrass....traditional country.....different kinds of music for my different moods and at the same time, a fountain of youth.
01:41 AM on 08/14/2011
FOO FIGHTERS!!!!!
12:50 AM on 08/14/2011
i think it goes way deeper than this article suggests. if someone doesn't like the same music as me i feel they can't possibly understand me.. it is not just a category of my favorites, music lives in me & i think the people that understand that understand each other..
04:37 AM on 08/14/2011
I agree!
12:33 AM on 08/14/2011
EBM!
11:41 PM on 08/13/2011
We olster's refer to him as loui. I love him too
11:02 PM on 08/13/2011
I love BOTH kinds of music...Country AND Western!!!!!
01:34 AM on 08/14/2011
No thanks to both. They make my ears bleed.
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07:10 AM on 08/14/2011
YEE-HAW !!!
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10:17 PM on 08/13/2011
Everything except Hawaiian.
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brooklyncitizen
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10:17 AM on 08/13/2011
I listen to just about everything if it is good- from Bollywood music to Tracy Chapman to Mos Def to Patsy Kline and Bach Bach Bach and most opera.....if it is good I will listen to it and buy it.

My day to day staple is always jazz.
06:25 PM on 08/12/2011
I guess I am one of the solitary ones then. Right now I am listening to Mozart piano concerto #22.
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brooklyncitizen
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10:14 AM on 08/13/2011
I LIKE you already : )
06:36 AM on 08/14/2011
Me too ... you and your Mozart Piano Concerto are developing a fan base here ...
jhNY
Mercy.
02:39 PM on 08/12/2011
This explains alot of why I have so few friends. I love Charley Patton and Lemon Jefferson and Bix Beiderbecke and Louis Armstrong, yet even fellow musicians often cannot get past the lousy recording quality and tracking noise...
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06:12 PM on 08/12/2011
Louis Armstrong was, in my opinion, one of the most innovative jazz musicians that ever lived!

F&F
jhNY
Mercy.
11:46 AM on 08/13/2011
We are of one mind on that subject. Plus, he has perfected an ultimate kind of human magic-- even on recordings made 80 years ago, he is alive inside them, vitality and heart intact, or at least that's how it seems, impossible though that actually is.
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Roseberry
The neutrinos ate my homework.
01:12 PM on 08/12/2011
All I know is, if I meet a guy who says he loves country music, I generally head in the other direction. Nothing personal. I'm just sparing you a lot of time, my friend!
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07:28 PM on 08/13/2011
ditto that !!
01:40 AM on 08/14/2011
well said!!!!
05:38 AM on 08/12/2011
Now that I think about it, all of my best friends, and my lovely partner included, have very similar tastes in music. I'm also their #1 music dealer who gets them addicted to new things. It's really difficult to hang out with someone who listens to music I don't like for long periods of time. Some music is really unbearable. I'm not sure what our collective taste says about us - it ranges from really crazy metal to indie to hip hop to psych rock, classic rock, classical, all kinds of electronica and old rap.
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Champagne - King of Wines and Wine of Kings
10:07 PM on 08/11/2011
Well I am in trouble since my preferences run to 70's era light rock i.e. ELO, Little River Band, Hall & Oates and disco!
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01:21 PM on 08/12/2011
I'm sure there's someone out there for you...
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07:08 AM on 08/14/2011
I doubt it.