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Seven Habits That Will Help You Live Longer (And Better)

Posted: 04/17/2012 9:17 am

We're all aging. And this much I've figured out: The challenge isn't how to stop it. It's how to do it.

When I turned 50 a few years ago, it became unnervingly clear that changes had to be made. Post-menopausal pounds were creeping on, my blood pressure and cholesterol levels were rising, I wasn't moving my body enough and my energy was waning. All of this was making me feel invisible, old and ready to give up -- believing aging like this was inevitable. Looking around, I saw that I wasn't the only one who felt this way. What's worse, when I envisioned what my life could be five or ten years hence, I got really scared.

That's when I took control and took action. I researched and wrote The Best of Everything After 50, and five years later, I am in -- for me -- perfect health: weight is down, health check numbers down, intake of unhealthy foods down, and my daily activity level is way up. These simple changes turned my health, outlook and life around, preparing me for the natural progression of aging.

This week I read the New York Times obituary of Dr. Lester Breslow, a public health leader whose research offered proof that people can live longer, healthier lives by changing habits. In a seminal study, Dr. Breslow followed the behavior of 7,000 people in Alameda County, CA, for 35 years. He concluded that seven simple daily health habits can predict how long people will live and how healthy they will be during their lifetime.

The study showed that following the recommended habits not only predicted lower mortality, but those who lived longer also suffered fewer disabilities. In a news release, Dr. Breslow said, "What was surprising to me was how these seven habits were so strongly predictive of mortality."

The "Seven Healthy Habits" -- as Dr. Breslow referred to his key tips -- are:

  • Don't smoke.
  • Drink moderately or don't drink at all.
  • Get a good night's sleep of seven or eight hours.
  • Exercise 30 minutes at a time, several times a week. Walking vigorously is a top choice.
  • Forget the scales. Eat moderately to maintain weight in relation to height.
  • Eat regularly, whether that's two meals a day, three or five. Whatever you do normally, keep it up because it's the regularity of life and moderation in eating, sleeping and exercising that makes all the difference.
  • Eat breakfast every day.

The statistics from Dr. Breslow's study are astounding. As The New York Times article stated:

A follow-up study showed that those who followed better habits were less likely to become disabled. Of those with four or more good health habits, 12.2 percent were likely to be disabled 10 years after the study began; those with two or three, 14.1 percent; and those with only one or no positive health habits at all, 18.7 percent. Dr. Breslow found that a 60-year-old who followed the seven recommended behaviors would be as healthy as a 30-year-old who followed fewer than three.

To Dr. Breslow's excellent advice, I would add the following:

  • Embrace your age with grace, dignity, and humor.
  • Be fearless.
  • Stay connected to friends and family.
  • Stay engaged with the world.
  • The anti-aging industry wants us to believe that we can actually turn back the clock. We can't. But what we can do is be responsible for our own health by following Dr. Breslow's simple steps to healthier living. There is no magic amulet, but there is magic in living life to the fullest, and the best way to do that is to take charge of your health -- today -- no matter what your age.

    According to The New York Times, Dr. Breslow, who lived to 97, practiced what he preached: "Dr. Breslow himself did not smoke or drink. He walked regularly, practiced moderation in all things and enjoyed tending his vegetable garden."

    Barbara Hannah Grufferman is the President of Best of Everything Media, Inc., author of "The Best of Everything After 50", a guide to positive aging, and is at work on her second book, "Fifty Rules" which will be published in late 2012. Visit www.bestofeverythingafter50.com for more tips on living your best life after 50. She can also be found on Facebook, Twitter, and Pinterest.

     
     
     

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    LynneSpreen
    Midlife Magic
    11:28 AM on 04/20/2012
    I love your attitude: "The challenge isn't how to stop it. It's how to do it." I would add, "how to enjoy it, finding the elements of aging that you appreciate." Like wisdom, peace, perspective, and all the stuff you get as a consolation prize for stepping closer to the abyss.

    Good health resounds from your words, Barbara. You set a great example for us.
    http://anyshinything.com/2012/01/27/getting-old-is-a-privilege/
    11:08 AM on 04/18/2012
    I would like to see less about focusing on turning back the clock and more on embracing our age through conscious living. There is no need to make aging a negative but to get the most out of life as we age we need to actively make choices that are healthy. Today our choices can make a huge difference as to how much we are able to participate in life and these choices are not only impact our later years- many children's lives are being limited before they reach the age of being an adult because of poor food and lifestyle choices.
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    Barbara Hannah Grufferma
    author, The Best of Everything After 50
    01:32 PM on 04/18/2012
    Dear Jewels99 . . . you are so right! I completely believe in embracing your age, whatever it is, and when I turned 50, I made up my mind to live a full, engaged life.
    Sounds like you've chosen the same path . . .
    All best,
    Barbara
    06:41 AM on 04/18/2012
    Yes! Brilliant advice. Spot on. And I love your additions. As someone coming back from ME, I now have far more energy in my 50s than I did for most of my 30s. I'm loving being in my 50s. For one thing, I don't waste my energies like I did in my 20s and 30s - and especially not on trying to please. Hurrah for maturity! We should celebrate more often.
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    Barbara Hannah Grufferma
    author, The Best of Everything After 50
    01:34 PM on 04/18/2012
    Dear Juliet . . . so glad you liked this post! For sure, one of the best things about life after 50 is the understanding that the only one we need to please is . . . yourself. I wasted too much psychic energy when I was younger worrying about what others thought. It's been enlightening and freeing . . .
    All best,
    Barbara
    01:08 AM on 04/18/2012
    Awesome!
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    susantolles
    Founder, Flourish Over 50
    10:22 PM on 04/17/2012
    Great advice, Barbara! I love being at the age when I don't obsess over my size, or what anyone else thinks of me. I am self-confident, I have energy and creativity, and I am living life with more zest than ever before! I must agree with Sally--don't forget the chocolate! True beauty comes from within. You bring out the best in us!
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    Barbara Hannah Grufferma
    author, The Best of Everything After 50
    01:35 PM on 04/18/2012
    Dear Susan . . . not a day goes by when I don't pop a piece of organic dark chocolate in my mouth (and kale, too!!).
    Thanks for reading and commenting,
    Barbara
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    caroldoyel
    Founder, Editor-in-Chief LivingBetterat50+
    11:52 AM on 04/17/2012
    Great advice Barbara- To embrance aging with grace & dignity. As a woman 50+ I've come to understand that beauty is more than skin deep; the characteristics or essence of a woman is where true beauty is found! Thanks for another great article!
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    Barbara Hannah Grufferma
    author, The Best of Everything After 50
    01:37 PM on 04/18/2012
    Dear Carol . . . being as fit as possible is one of the secrets of aging well! Too many men and women over 50 think it's "too late" . . . but it isn't. Far from it . . . and if you feel good, you look good, and if you look good, you embrace your age with gusto!
    All best,
    Barbara
    10:59 AM on 04/17/2012
    Interesting article, especially the issue of the importance of breakfast. I cannot imagine my day without my two early morning cups of tea with meditation time, plus training. Plenty of sleep, YES! I do Ironman training, which I guess is not exercise in moderation, but I love it so I guess that offsets the negative the the peak training excess. Great article. Tx! -k aka FitOldDog
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    henriette and hube
    my goal is to live each day
    10:37 PM on 04/17/2012
    FitOldDog, I think the Ironman training is great. I lift weights, yoga and pushups and walk as well.
    It's great to do what you love as long as you are healthy.

    fanned for being a fit old dog:-)
    09:57 AM on 04/17/2012
    You are so encouraging, Barbara, as you help aging be less scary and more embraceable to so many of us! Knowledge is such a powerful tool, and by providing straightforward information you help us use it and benefit from it. Thank you! I shall think of all this as I go outside for my morning run. The only thing not mentioned was the benefits of eating (dark) chocolate!
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    Barbara Hannah Grufferma
    author, The Best of Everything After 50
    01:39 PM on 04/18/2012
    YAY! I also did my morning five mile run, with walk breaks, and feel fantastic. Hmm . . . maybe it's time for that chocolate!
    Thanks for reading and commenting,
    Barbara
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    Carole Mallory
    journalist,movie critic
    09:57 AM on 04/17/2012
    good article. bravo...need to watch the diet, but i have every thing else in check and work hard at it
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    henriette and hube
    my goal is to live each day
    10:39 PM on 04/17/2012
    Carole, I agree this is a good article. I've also noticed that women actually become more beautiful as they mature. Have you noticed this? I think there is a certain amount of freedom that comes with aging and that much of this beauty comes from within.
    06:49 AM on 04/18/2012
    Yes, I totally agree that women become more beautiful as they mature. The portrait of a woman that really took my breath away was a woman in her 90s who was part of an advertising campaign. I must try and find her again. Youth is a blank slate that doesn't yet know itself: age is the life we have lived. That is where true beauty lies.