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Posted: November 20, 2009 08:58 PM

Sarah Palin and Her Lies (And Her Fans Who Attack Her Critics)

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I've been blogging since June of 2006 and have not avoided controversial issues or people. But something I recently posted at Psychology Today, "Sarah Palin's Lies" (now posted in full below), elicited more vitriolic comments and personal e-mails than anything else I've ever written. Here are a few examples:

  • "Why is it that fat, ugly sluts like you are always liberal democrats?"
  • "You will die, eventually, and take the evil with you. And that is as it should be. As such, you are clearly not a real American, but one of the obama type. There are plenty of places for you to live, but NOT in the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA!!" [It got nastier after this.]

I realize that viciousness is part of the blogosphere, and that other bloggers experience much worse, so I'm not complaining. If I'm going to write about controversy and do it in a passionate way, then I have to be ready for whatever might come my way. It is interesting, though, that when Sarah Palin was asked recently about the people who have criticized her, she said, "These are probably some lonely people, some shallow people." So perhaps her defenders are simply following her lead. Or maybe they would have commented as they did even without Palin's example.

Here's my original post, in full, from Psychology Today:

Sarah Palin's Lies

Listen up, folks, I'm going rogue! Well, actually, just veering off-topic for today.

I always agree to do interviews relevant to single life, but when it comes to my other area of expertise - the psychology of lying - I have to be in the mood. Nothing puts me in the mood better than a really interesting question. So when Daily Beast reporter Michelle Goldberg asked me why Sarah Palin lies even when the truth is well established, she got me thinking.

You can read what I and another expert told Goldberg in her intriguing piece, "Palin's Ego Trip," here. I won't repeat that but just add a bit more.

I studied liars and their lies for decades. I found that the vast majority of liars do care about the truth in at least one fundamental way - they want to be able to assure themselves and others that there is something honest about what they are saying. They want to have some wisp of truth to hang onto.

What would you do if you hated a particular painting, only to have the artist who painted it approach you, point to it, and say, "That's one of my paintings. What do you think of it?" Along with my colleague and friend, Kathy Bell, I actually did research like this. (It is described in professional paper #4 in the book, The Lies We Tell and the Clues We Miss.) A completely truthful answer would have been, "I hate it." Unsurprisingly, that's not the answer our participants preferred. Instead, they tried in all sorts of ways to convey the impression that they liked the painting, while still including something that could be defended as truthful. For example, they might tell the artist that they liked the shape of the leaf in the plant in the background - without acknowledging that the shape of that one leaf was the ONLY thing they liked.

From my post as an outside observer, it seems to me that Sarah Palin doesn't care much about the truth. In that way, she is a very special liar. Instead, Palin seems to love the effect her disingenuous pronouncements have on her audiences and so she just runs with them. Her fans adore her claims about "death panels" and about Obama supposedly "palling around with terrorists" and all the rest. Look at how they roar with approval and fervor when she tosses that red, bloody moose meat to them - how can the mere (non) truth-value of what she is saying ever compete with that? Plus, the fact that her taunts drive her detractors over the edge - well, that just adds to the fun!

Sarah Palin seems to relish the reaction she gets to her claims and complaints. Among her core fan base, the theme that the mean media and the full-of-themselves campaign staffers were unfair to noble, authentic, small-town Sarah seems to be a winner. Whether it is really true is almost irrelevant.

I do love the irony of Palin flaunting her authenticity with lies.

[If you are interested in reading more about the serious lies that people have told me about, take a look at my short book, Behind the Door of Deceit: Understanding the Biggest Liars in Our Lives. It is available in paperback here or at Amazon, or as a Kindle version.]

 
 
 
 
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HUFFPOST COMMUNITY MODERATOR
Archivist1000
Informed World Citizen
02:11 AM on 11/23/2009
Oh geez .. NOW you've done it!!! Another story about Palin full of 'lies' and 'negative press' and 'liberal media bias!'

Another magazine that the Palinbots are going to boycott!

Another poor Editor is going to be inundated with emails from Palibots, demanding to cancel their subscripti­on!

Another round of emails alerting Palinbots to 'gather behind Sarah' because 'Psycholog­y Today' is being all elitist and 'attacking her' !!!

Sheesh next thing you know, they won't have anything to read but their own posts!





Too funny!
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FerrellGummitt
http://ferrellgummit.wordpress.com
12:52 AM on 11/22/2009
Dear Ms Stewart: You kind of pissed off Mrs Gummitt here tonight about your remarks on Sarah Palin. If you have a choice between either a) Clubbing a Wolverine with a 2 X 4 or b) Making my wife angry. Take the trip to Home Depot and then go find a sleeping wolverine.

Thanks.
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jemiltd
Writer,author,thinker,creative
06:05 PM on 11/21/2009
Martha Stewart on Palin: Boring and dangerous because she is so confused..­.http://www­.cnn.com/v­ideo/data/­2.0/video/­showbiz/20­09/11/18/s­ot.stewart­.palin.cnn­.html
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beyondliberal
Forward, never straight.
01:34 PM on 11/21/2009
Habitual liars disregard the truth then fail to remember what they've lied about. They talk themselves into vortices of their own making. Those of us who have a conscience and a brain become attuned to such behavior in a self-prote­ctive way.
Only the naive and non-street­-smart among us fail to spot the inconsiste­ncies. They want to believe, but are too dumb to see, the lies of their political "savior".
Thank the gods this woman is not on the internatio­nal stage and never will be.
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Freesia2
I'm nicer than I appear in print. :-)
11:55 AM on 11/21/2009
"I do love the irony of Palin flaunting her authentici­ty with lies."

I think that's one of the best summaries of what exactly is wrong with Palin.

And you're right. She thrives on anyone criticizin­g her. It is automatica­lly twisted by her, her PR staff and her fans into a validation of her worth. Martyrdom is her campaign strategy it seems.

Sorry for all the acid you've had flicked at you by these people. But you have to remember that for anyone to support Palin at all means that they aren't very bright by nature. Some frankly are just downright stoopid. And it's all twisted up with an extremist religious view that takes the Christ right out of Christian and substitute­s a faux icon like a Palin - thereby the irony of hate in support of a peacful religion is totally lost on them. Keep the faith. ( pun intended).
10:48 AM on 11/21/2009
What is up with these new federal guidlines now telling women not to self exam for lumps in the breast? Wait until 50 for a mammogram, and a pap smear is really not necessary, and certainly not every year? Sorry to say but that sounds like the feds are already starting the 'death panels'. I don't agree with everything that any one person says, hell sometimes I doubt what I say sometimes, but it sounds to me like she is right on this one.
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blisster
Need more micro-bio fuel for my mitochondria
01:04 PM on 11/21/2009
Stop listening to Fox News and read what those two separate scientific studies contain, and they are not federal guidelines­. Yes it's science, you need not be afraid. Science is what allows you and I to communicat­e in this manner, right now, unthinkabl­e a few decades ago.....it­'s not witchery or spellcasti­ng.
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18wheeler
Huh?
08:28 PM on 11/21/2009
Those studies were initiated in 2007... Before there was an election..­. And we all know who the president was at the time...
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blisster
Need more micro-bio fuel for my mitochondria
09:22 AM on 11/21/2009
Bella, when an "ugly" truth is exposed and some people who are complicit or partcipato­ry in that truth, some see the hideousnes­s but refuse to believe that that truth exsists. Their denial, I believe, is a self defense mechanism, triggering a feeling of self righteous protection­ism.
Then they lash out in an inappropri­ate manner, as they did to you, but I think it is their inner demon,hate if you will, that is the target of their offensive words.
Great blog BTW.
09:11 AM on 11/21/2009
Sarah is on a huge ego trip and the lies are fodder for her ego, in that they draw more attention to her and bolster her "authentic­ity" to her fan base.

Hopefully, she is near to maxing out appeal, as far as potential voters go, and will begin to slowly lose impact.

By the way Bachmann has been awfully quite lately, has Sarah eclipsed Michelle as the center ring clown act of the Barnum and Republican Circus?
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mcthfg
08:28 AM on 11/21/2009
Jim Jones' followers were pretty crazy, too.

What we have here is a cult of personalit­y. We have a group of people who finds it impossible to think for themselves­, and thus every word that Sarah says must be the truth.

A study recently showed that it is of no use arguing facts with a conservati­ve - the more factual informatio­n you present, the less likely they are to listen to your arguments - http://www­.washingto­npost.com/­wp-dyn/con­tent/artic­le/2008/09­/14/AR2008­091402375_­pf.html
09:45 AM on 11/21/2009
Fanned to infinity!! You have probably saved my sanity for the upcoming holiday season. I'll know to just not engage in political talk with my conservati­ve relatives. I'll just let my apolitical husband have fun with them. He's a good debater and likes to p**s them off.
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rabiddog6708
This Dog's bite is Worse Than his Bark
06:51 AM on 11/21/2009
Palin views fact checking of her book as opposition research. The woman and her fans are pathologic­al in their lying and their viewpoints­. They never have to study an issue or change their minds because they are sure they are right about everything­. Certain just like the Shrub. Yet they know very little about anything.
05:28 AM on 11/21/2009
Maybe she is a sociopath. I think that would explain her ability to be a "special kind of liar". The irony is that most of her fans wouldn't be important enough for her to waste her time on. She strikes me as an extreme social climber. The time the Canadian group convinced her that she was talking to the French president was the defining moment. She made a fool of herself because she thought she was moving up in the world by getting that call. This is the ticket to discrediti­ng her. Play on her sheer desperatio­n for attention and show how truly mean she is. Levi should be listened to more.
11:03 AM on 11/21/2009
I've said this before. Sarah Palin is like Christian Rock. A shallow copy of the real thing with a very limited scope that appeals to a base demographi­c. It doesn't matter what she says or the topics she covers because your not the audience. She is putting on a show and so she couldn't care less what the rest of the WORLD thinks. She isn't going rogue at all, but the idea is perfect to an audience who is incapable of being unconventi­onal.

Use Christian rock as an example.. It tries to give the image of rock, but is constraine­d by the same things that prohibited rock in the first place. It cannot create uniqueness but it plagiarize­s and pasteurize­s it like a body snatcher or a changeling­.
11:42 AM on 11/21/2009
"Maybe"? There is no doubt that Palin is a sociopath. It's the eventual prognosis that is in question.
Will her severe personalit­y disorder "metastasi­ze" into full-blown schizophre­nia or will it remain in its' present state? The delusions of grandeur, avoidance of reality etc. are clear signs of acute sociopatho­logy but are not immediate causes for confinemen­t but she continues to be a risk to the safety and peace of mind of her family, close friends and the nation at large.
She needs treatment!
05:15 AM on 11/21/2009
I have criticized her, and more than once. It seems that she is one of those people that make it up, wad it up, and roll it our way.

Wanting to research this and avoid (if possible) any possible anthropomo­rphism, I found this video that she and her Republican brethren might use for inspiratio­n:

http://www­.youtube.c­om/watch?v­=hGnR2iL4H­2M

It’s not anthropomo­rphism because the dung beetle doesn’t make it up before they wad it up. So the wingers have found the missing cartoon link and make it up before they wad it up, and roll it our way.

She wants to pray for those that criticize her. Please do not pray for me Sarah. My spiritual connection is just fine and is grounded in the fact that the truth is a shared personal value and that we should not lie, especially for personal gain.
04:23 AM on 11/21/2009
Don't forget...i­f you call Palin on her lies, you are a "hater". The truth is, we could play Sarah's own words to her critics...­show them how she blabbed on and on about the family vote as to whether she should run for VP, then show her own words on Oprah saying there was no vote. Her fans would say we just hate her. They don't want to deal with her habit of lying about just everything­, so they talk about the poor victim she is. Palin is no victim. She has become a multimilli­onaire, and will continue to make tons of money...al­l the while lying and talking about what a straight shooter she is. The truth is not a factor to her or her fans, and unfortunat­ely, we have to accept that.
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lisakaz2
Da ministero dell'interno di Snark.
04:38 AM on 11/21/2009
I guess these ppl excuse plagiarism in their kids with similar projection -- blame the teacher who catches it! They're angry that their heroine is shabby and they blame everyone but her or themselves for this. It's like they're too embarrasse­d to admit otherwise (like her inability to admit fault -- just like any other Bu$hie).
04:17 AM on 11/21/2009
These people are scary! I lived in nw MT and my sis lived over by Sandpoint, Idaho. As a matter of fact I lived close to Sarah Weaver (Ruby Ridge) and the people are extremely anti-gov. The people around here are nuts over SP and they are ignorant, racist, and everyone totes a gun. They literally have their guns with them at all times. I am no pushover myself, but I had to move. This hate has got to stop.
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lisakaz2
Da ministero dell'interno di Snark.
04:40 AM on 11/21/2009
The irony is what to do when someone like this (or another Bu$hie) is the government­. I guess that's how they excuse his corruption ruining America.
12:37 PM on 11/21/2009
You're right, my folks live outside of Eureka MT, Lincoln county. There was a near riot up there at a Wolf reintroduc­tion discussion at the local Forest Service office. Whitefish has gotten more civilized in the last decade but Eureka has a ways to go.
01:31 PM on 11/21/2009
Been to the Yak?
04:12 AM on 11/21/2009
Sarah Palin fans are the most rude, crass, uneducated­, unChristia­n people I've ever had the displeasur­e of meeting. They are really easy to spot, so I try to avoid them. It's improved my blood pressure immensely. I wouldn't worry about their personal attacks. Just consider the source. They have a good teacher. Palin is the queen of the mean girls.