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Why Wanting to Be Rich Is a Form of Mental Illness

Posted: 04/12/2012 3:37 pm

In modern society, we are conditioned from an early age to want things we don't need. An entire industry has been built around manipulating us into buying products we believe will make us more attractive, happier and respected. Children watch other children on TV play with newer and better toys, and they automatically want what they don't have. When adults see good-looking people driving superbly designed cars, the subconscious message is "Buy this car, and you will become more attractive." Of course if you can't afford it, implicitly you are a loser.

As we get older, the manipulation becomes more damaging -- life choices are made in order to fulfill an implanted image of what we think we should be -- we work unfulfilling jobs to pay for the products we think we must own, or worse, go into debt and spend a life time paying it off.

The cycle is vicious. As the wealth divide gets wider, those less fortunate want what the rich have. And in today's society, they can, as long as they go into debt. And that is the point -- feel inadequate because you don't make enough money, buy stuff you don't need to compete with people you don't actually know, go into debt then work all the hours God sends to pay it off. This is our definition of a functioning economy, as eloquently articulated by George Bush after the terrorist attacks on 9/11. "Go shopping," he told Americans in response to the faltering stock market. Consume and all will be well.

The desire to become rich is seen by some psychologists as a form of mental illness. Oliver James wrote a brilliant book Affluenza about the corrosive effect of capitalism on people's mental health. The desire to be obscenely wealthy, he argues, is a sickness caused by advertising and spiraling wealth inequality. And it has spread around the Western world like a virus.

And even if you do happen to be wealthy, it turns out that isn't actually all that great either.

The effects of rampant materialism are, according to research, pretty damaging to the human psyche. An international survey of over 90,000 people published in the journal BMC Medicine found a direct correlation between wealth and depression. Wealthier countries recorded higher levels of mental illness, while citizens in poorer countries were happier and better adjusted. Despite being told that being rich should make you happy, it in fact does the opposite. In Britain, mental illness levels have been soaring for years, in direct tandem with economic growth. A 2004 report by the Nuffield Foundation found that "Rises in mental health problems seem to be associated with improvements in economic conditions."

The richer we are it seems, the sadder we become.

It is no wonder, then, that so many people resort to anti-depression drugs to get them through their lives. I personally cannot count the number of people I grew up with who had everything handed to them on a plate, yet were incapable of leading normal, happy lives. Some of them turned out OK, but most now work jobs they hate in order to buy things they don't need to impress people they don't really even like.

Fighting the system is next to impossible. There are too many entrenched interests to make any sort of meaningful difference because our society is geared toward making us feel isolated, fearful and greedy. The solution? In my opinion, don't fight it, just ignore it. Turn off the television, talk to your neighbors, join a club, play a sport and interact with other human beings as much as possible. It's a lot more rewarding than buying an ipod.

Ben Cohen is the editor of the recently relaunched TheDailyBanter.com.

 

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08:48 AM on 04/15/2012
Great article Ben - I wrote something similar on the unscrupulous device advertising has played in spearheading and encouraging mass consuming behavior and persuasion, the creation of the all consuming self and people as happiness machines where we have a desire to consume beyond our needs - never fulfilled - always wanting the next development - the next evolution, messages propagated via billboards that promise a better, happier life - the idea that someone, somewhere else has it better off - so we have to consume in order to get us their, simple messages are played to our subconsciousness and our sexual desires convincing of our unsatisfaction and unhappiness. . I think it can be corrosive and damaging when we are constantly bombarded with images of luxury, constantly presented with a vision of ‘this is what you want’ and ‘this is what you should be craving’. It is never fulfilling, but it’s very difficult to let go of it because every billboard you look at, every TV channel you turn to, radio station you listen to, every hip hop track is a celebration of these ideas - image, beauty, wealth, power and status. ... There is an issue with being fulfilled, once you consume a product lead by your desires and then shortly after when it loses it's novelty or something more alluring appears this is when I believe we experience low levels of satisfaction with our lives which is what leads to this sense of anxiety and depression.
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Peter Combs
Amused by the illogical..no, NOT a Republican
03:00 PM on 04/13/2012
I suspect you'll find the ratio of wealthy happy folks and and comfortable median income earners are overall about the same.

Too much money and not enough can both get you into trouble..
02:02 PM on 04/13/2012
if wealth (those who are born into it or get it easily without killing themselves at a regular job) were so bad why arnt the wealthy throwing their money away into the streets or giving it all away and living a life of a poor person? if it is making them so unhappy? if there were noupper middle class/ rich/wealthy people who would buy your stuff? the poor don't have very much how are they going to support your business without racking up debts that hurt everyone? how are you going to build infrastructure, needed commodities or grow food if no one has any money to buy the stuff forcing the government to pay for it and tax you do death?

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12:48 PM on 04/13/2012
Good points indeed. I have had crazy success for which I am grateful, but it may be the worse addiction. It never ends you buy new cars, then it must be Range Rovers, then Bentleys. I recognized my problem, when I started planning to buy a helicopter for house to airport travel. Never complained about taxes and was big giver, but best days of my life is when we were developing scholarship program and such . I watch many people who are successful and never get a clue that their endless pursuit is why they are not happy. They are so afraid someone is trying to get their money. Just accumulating wealth is depraved.
12:39 PM on 04/13/2012
We are a very materialistic society in which greed is glorified which accounts for the superficiallty and ignorance of even our religious beliefs. Becoming rich has never appealed to me even as it gripped people within my own family and among my family friends growing up but the negative consequences of having a society where such values dominate are quite obvious to me now especially as I watch this terrible philosophy takeover completely the republican party. It is literally threatening America with permanant decline and barbarism.
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Carl Caroli
I just don't understand people
09:16 AM on 04/13/2012
People need to realize they are being manipulated. In this day and age we are constantly being bombarded with messages of inadequacy, in an effort to make us buy junk just to impress our peers. It really doesn't take much self reflection to acknowledge it, and once acknowledged, it really doesn't take to much effort to stop it. But thought and vigilance is required, something Americans are not very good at.
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KarmaPatrol
Riverboat Gambler, satellite whisperer. Independe
09:05 AM on 04/13/2012
If anyone has the desire to get rich, watch spouses, family, or business associates kill each other for money in "Power, Privilege, and Justice" by Dominick Dunne on CNN (usually shooting, stabbing, poisoning, or bludgeoning the other over some floozy). Many wealthy individuals get neurotic about their money. Don't worry about the govt, worry about everyone else. That's why every study on the wealthy has most leading modest church-going lives (wealth may be different than simply high income btw). Of course, there's high price call girls, or call-trans, ....or gigolos, I guess. There is a study out saying happiness money-wise tops at $70,000 a year; I could stand a little happiness right now.
07:57 AM on 04/13/2012
As a Business Marketing Professor, this is exactly what I share with my students. The ultimate focus is helping people to, at the very least, understand the cycle that we as consumers participate in. We are bombarded with external noise that often prevents us from identifying what's really important. Good Post!
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DJ Jaffe
Founder, Mental Illness Policy Org.
06:59 AM on 04/13/2012
So the desire to be poor is a sign of good mental health?
http://mentalillnesspolicy.org
12:22 AM on 04/13/2012
Being rich is fun, what planet are you from.
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Cleanerman
09:06 PM on 04/12/2012
I especially love the notion of turning off the television. I only use my television as a monitor. I am happy with internet and netflix, pandora, etc. For me, reading the news online is more palatable than listening to the incessant TV news entertainment shows. And, no commercials for me! As for the rich, sadly, I think many lower income folks are so obsessed with them--it is another reason the poorer will vote against their own interests. The rich are by many, placed on a pedestal.
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spinotter11
Spinning through life and trying to understand it.
07:43 PM on 04/12/2012
Never mind the damage to the human psyche - how about the damage that the human race is wreaking on the biosphere?
02:17 AM on 04/13/2012
As it turns out... that's not even the rich people's fault. The majority of damage is done by poor people who don't have any choices because their survival depends on harming their environment.

The latter, of course, is also not the poor people's fault. It is, however, the poor people's tragedy... the rich won't care about the destruction of the environment.
07:42 PM on 04/12/2012
The increasing prevalence of Compulsive Financial Acquisitiveness Disorder may be a serious issue.
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TaiJi2
06:57 PM on 04/12/2012
"our society is geared toward making us feel isolated, fearful and greedy."

Contemporary American interpretations of the concept of "freedom" are incompatible with the idea of a society. The rest of the civilized world seems to have no problem building free societies - just us.
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01:48 PM on 04/18/2012
Where is this "free society" that you speak of (I'm not being sarcastic...just curious)?

Also, do they have more, or less, immigration than the U.S. (assuming that people seek freedom (in large part), this could be a good indicator)?

(simplied, I admit)

Be Well.
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BigBearcatBill
This is the real Bearcat - a Binturong
06:26 PM on 04/12/2012
One main cause of the disparity today and the class warfare it is causing is the unavoidable access and exposure of young folks to see so much info about the world, much of it distorted and erroneus all from thei IPod, computer, TV from the many more shows than 30 years ago, all in such a short time that they can't filter out the bad things from influencing them and "conditioning" their attitudes. A poor kid in a poor family can see tons of video/info on the life of luxury they must start thinking everyone is entitled to if they just plug away or worse yet just barely get out of high school. No they need to put that vision way back in their memory or toss it because first they need to just focus on school and then work later, then start seriously looking at all the goodies of luxury life when they start having a chance to actually earn and pay for them, which ain't happening until they get a good carerr goin. This process will no doubt need to work hard for about 15 to 20 years to become successful at even a working class/lower middle class career and still need to save a lot of money for many years to get a house with a couple cars and all the nice furnishings (now we are looking at a period of 25 -30 years)