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No Country for Young Women

Posted: 02/25/10 02:01 PM ET

My daughter Bret graduated from college in December as a dean's list student and a favorite of her professors because she worked hard and well, and cared about the work she turned into them. And now she is on the job market. With a major in Mass Communications (and a minor in Gender Studies), she followed in her family's footsteps with a desire to work in the Media. The girl's got game, right? She is on the verge of the American Dream -- to create her adult life with the advantages of a solid (and privileged, to some degree) childhood, education, and ability and desire to do good work. To build on this foundation and make her own fortune and mistakes, to follow her dreams, to be true to herself and her values, and to live a life that is meaningful to her.

That's the way it is, right? Or the way it's supposed to be in the United States of America. In this moment of time and consciousness, the USA is the most powerful nation on the planet -- the master of technology. Americans know no bounds, and we can reinvent ourselves both metaphorically and materially.

But Bret has one little problem. She has no health insurance.

How can that be? She was covered by our family insurance as long as we had it, and she was still eligible. After that, we bought student insurance for her. This seemed to be the most practical and cost-efficient answer in keeping her covered. It wasn't insurance like we had in the old days of terrific coverage with low deductibles, when affordable health care in the USA wasn't a long forgotten dream -- but it covered her for the basics that one needs. And she had to use it, though that turned out to be a problem. Then the company that covered her conveniently forgot to send her a bill. (What company doesn't send a bill when they want their money?) They had her street address as well as email. By the time she realized it, a month had passed and they said they couldn't cover her. That month without coverage meant they didn't have to insure her anymore -- and that other insurance companies would look at her warily. When she applied for insurance that we, her parents, would pay for until she was out of school and employed, the old "pre-existing conditions" was brought up. Nothing big -- but that didn't matter.

If for no other reason than this, healthcare legislation must be passed. How many people do you know who have been, could be, or will be denied insurance eligibility because of pre-existing conditions? Sooner or later, it's all of us. It's a good thing I live in France, where health care and its insurance are affordable--and is available to everyone. I even know some Republicans who are talking about leaving the U.S. to come here, partly for that very reason.

With the current health insurance debacle in which the U.S. has become embroiled, our country could be taking the moral high road. We could be doing the right thing. Does that phrase mean anything anymore?

We no longer look like the most powerful nation on earth -- but one of the most backward -- by not taking care of this issue and our people. It's not that we can't make sure each American is covered for his or her health care needs; apparently we don't want to. As usual, Republicans are against healthcare legislation that could relieve this gargantuan predicament that we're in, but since when have Republicans cared about the masses, the common man or woman? S.P. (I will not write her name) would still be mushing some dog team in Alaska if John McCain hadn't sold his country down the river by using her as a last-ditch effort to get himself elected. Thinking Republicans ought to be ashamed to have aligned themselves with this non-thinking Right Winger. And Democrats apparently--and as usual--don't have the balls to make sure sound health care insurance for all gets put in place. Do they? I guess we'll find out. I'd like to double dog dare them.

Roger Cohen wrote a piece in the New York Times the other day decrying our Narcissim:

Americans don't want a European nanny state -- fine! But, as a lawyer friend, Manuel Wally, put it to me, "When it comes to health it makes sense to involve government, which is accountable to the people, rather than corporations, which are accountable to shareholders."


All the fear-mongering talk of "nationalizing" 17 percent of the economy is nonsense. Government, through Medicare and Medicaid, is already administering almost half of American health care and doing so with less waste than the private sector. Per capita Medicare costs for common benefits grew 4.9 percent between 1998 and 2008, against 7.1 percent for private insurers. Why not offer Medicare as a choice -- a choice -- to everyone? Aren't Republicans about choice?

The public option, not dead, would amount to recognition of shared interest in each other's health and of the need to use America's energies and resources better. It would involve 300 million people linking arms.

Or we can turn away from each other and, like Narcissus, perish in the contemplation of our own reflections.

It has been a spectacle unbelievable to other people around the world that we Americans have violently protested against our own best interest -- to not fix our health care system and provide coverage for our citizens who need it--people like you and me and not just the poor.

Making affordable health care available for everyone in our country is personal to me. What about you? Are you willing to sacrifice your children?


More info:

For a great Paul Krugman column about this issue, click here.

For a Los Angeles Times piece, click here.

Beth Arnold lives and writes in Paris. To see more of her work, go to www.betharnold.com. For those interested in hiring an exceptional and bright young woman, check out @bretgraves on twitter. Or contact me at beth@betharnold.com for her info. HBO, she'd be perfect for you!

 

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07:52 AM on 02/28/2010
I am sick and tired of the status quo in which the apparent overarching concern in people's lives is whether or not they've got health insurance. I think the entire insurance business has gotten completely carried away, people could probably live much better and healthier lives if they weren't paying out 10-30% of their monthly income or more for some stupid insurance premium. I hope Congress goes through the insurance biz with a fine-toothed comb, and gets rid of a lot of problems. I haven't had health insurance ever, except for about 6 months when I was working overseas, and my employer told me I HAD to have it, and you know what? I'm still here, still above ground, still moving, still drawing air, strong pulse, and all that. It's a beautiful thing. What's more, I spend the money on something else besides supporting a business model that apparently has some problems to go with the not-inconsiderable amount of political clout they either have, or think they have. Remember what happened to GM? Part of it happened because their unionized workers were basically demanding that GM pay them full-ride health insurance. When does it stop, where are the limits on the expansion of insurance/requirements? AIG collapsed, they're an insurance company, does anyone want to hear my Allstate story? Crooks.
12:19 PM on 02/26/2010
Ms. Arnold, and daughter, Bret, please meet my friend, George Carlin:

"There's a reason they call it The American Dream [Ms. Arnold]. It's 'cause you have to be asleep to believe it."

- George Carlin

Good luck to your daughter.

And try George's, and my motto. I don't really know if it was his when he was alive, but he said it was. That was good enough for me, and I adapted it twelve or so years ago, and...seriously...no sarcasm here, it's worked like a charm! What is it? This:

"I gave up hope and everything worked out fine."
- G.C.

Goodluck. There is no American Dream. Stop believing that, and you'll have taken the first steps to curing what ails you.

Max
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Rogan
05:54 AM on 02/28/2010
Ms. Arnold seems less concerned with curing what ails her, personally, and more interested in addressing what ails the country.
11:31 AM on 02/26/2010
Most of the problems with a nationalized healthcare system revolve around how to pay for it. You can bet that people that are against a national healthcare system.....already have healthcare insurance. The question most people have about this debate is, how do you pay for it? Like many people, I already pay for my health insurance, I pay for my wifes, and I pay for my two kids insurance. So....all you do-gooders out there, why should I pay for yours ? If congress could come up with a plan that was sensible and didn't amount to yet another wealth transfer (yes healthcare has a value) there might be support for it. So far, what has been proposed is offensive.
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03:22 PM on 02/27/2010
Sounds like you are misinformed about how the proposed legislation would work. Time to study up.
11:07 AM on 03/01/2010
Maybe you can clarify what your talking about ? The House bill ?...the Senate ?....Obama's plan ?...the Republican plan ?....
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Rogan
05:57 AM on 02/28/2010
So, you'd rather let strangers die in the street, than dig a little deeper into your own pockets?

Having been stricken down with a crippling illness, myself, a few years ago, I kind of like to hear it directly, to my face, when someone like you wants to know "why should I pay for yours?" Because we're both Americans, is one reason...

And while you're answering questions directly, I'd like to know: would you feel the same way about it if you had to SEE it? If the people who die for lack of health care in this country, came over and died in your driveway, would you notice, or care, more, then? Just curious...
11:03 AM on 03/01/2010
Since we're both Americans I should pay for your healthcare ? Does that mean I should pay for your food and shelter, too ? I am virtually saying to your face, why should I pay for you ?

There are people that are dying all over the world for various reasons. I do not feel responsible for that....I do however feel responsible for my extended family, and will do everything in my power to help them. In fact, I donate to food banks, cancer hospitals, homeless shelters, and various other charities of MY choice. I don't want the government, or you, telling me which charity case I should care about.
10:13 AM on 02/26/2010
please stay in France
08:14 AM on 02/26/2010
The most incredible thing about this to me is that we do not want to provide health care to everyone as a right eliminating this worry entirely and the fact that we could do this in the most cost efficient and humane way and won't even bother to discuss it is a indication of how backward we really are.
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Beth Arnold
08:58 AM on 02/26/2010
This is the reason we must keep bringing up health care and sounding this bell of reform. Thanks for helping spread the word!
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Chauncey Zalkin
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08:02 AM on 02/26/2010
Excellent excellent excellent and the title incredibly compelling and clever. Made me stop reading about yesterday's marathon meeting and click over to you. I lived in Paris for two years (a year ago - now in Barcelona) and it completely changed my perspective. The fact that healthcare and medication is affordable, a given. Maybe France takes it too far in the other direction - everyone running around striking just to hear the sound of their own voices with no real independent action (or no real sense that they can do, change, move, progress their individual worlds on their own), but we could learn a thing or two from their approach to a basic right, namely that its a basic human right. as is education. another story. The U.S. is so smug but its really backwards in some very crucial ways. Obama really still feels like our only hope. Maybe he came too soon for some.
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Beth Arnold
09:08 AM on 02/26/2010
Really appreciate it! And I agree, Obama really still feels like our only hope. He may have come too soon for some, but if we don't act, it will be too late for so so many Americans.
06:10 AM on 02/26/2010
Thank you Beth Arnold, you are right on all accounts. Neither of my 20 something sons have access to healthcare either. It also seems that being female alone labels us as having pre-existing conditions, but people don't think about some of the simplest things like childhood asthma (pre-existing condition), etc., or the fact that people who have insurance many times don't go to the Dr. for fear that they will be dropped due to that little black checkmark that gets put next to your name each time you do go and they find something wrong.

Regarding today's summit, I appreciated the POTUS calling out Republicans on their continued bold faced lies, but I was disappointed that no one had the guts to call out many at the table that claimed that we "have the best healthcare system in the world" and remind them that we are #37 on the list. #1, best in the world, most powerful, complete falacy. I would take universal healthcare, vacations, mental health days, assistance for new Mothers and the Elderly over #37 any day. France sounds mighty good to me!

Best of luck to your Daughter, we'll keep fighting for her and my sons. If speaking out is the best we can do to make our elected officials act, then we just better keep talkin and push them into some action!
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Beth Arnold
07:05 AM on 02/26/2010
Thanks so much for speaking up! Solidarity.
05:10 PM on 02/25/2010
If her only problem is that she hasn't got health insurance, then she's got a job, which means she is well off - a lot of college graduates don't. And according to economists, they are going to be unemployed for a long time, because the gov't doesn't have enough money for a real stimulus program. However, it DOES have enough money to spend $400/gallon on gasoline, etc. in Afghanistan, where our guys are playing hide n'seek with the natives, who have NEVER threatened America. What is the Afghans' crime? They don't like the puppet gov't we have chosen for them!

This whole discussion of health insurance is diversionary, to distract the public's attention from the fact that we are spending ourselves into bankruptcy with meaningless foreign wars. There would be no health insurance problem if we hadn't run the economy into the ground with these wars.
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Beth Arnold
05:29 PM on 02/25/2010
No job yet--but interesting point.

We still must fix our health care system, even if we are engaged in meaningless wars.

Thanks for your point of view,
Beth
06:14 PM on 02/25/2010
Actually, I do not have a job. And do you not find it absolutely ridiculous that a 25 year old woman cannot get health insurance? Yes, foreign wars are obviously a problem. But the fact that the most wealthy country in the world has so many citizens that cannot get health insurance or people that are bankrupt from paying medical bills that is disturbing. We are waging a whole different war in this country. The health care debate is NOT a distraction from foreign wars, it actually is a problem that is alive and well.
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Beth Arnold
01:49 AM on 02/26/2010
Well done, Bret! That's my girl!