Dear YSC:
I'm an under-40 woman living with metastatic breast cancer. I'm your demographic, the one your programs are designed to help. And you HAVE helped me-I even go to a support group for young metsters organized by a YSC volunteer. Which is why I think I'm the most disappointed in you, even more so than Stupid Cancer or F*ck Cancer, for being involved in this.
See what it says at the top of this? That's right, it says "Boobies make me smile." And of course it says it twice, because we all have two boobies. I see what you did there! Hahaha, how clever!
Oh wait, no it's not. It's actually horribly offensive.
I don't have two boobies. I only have one. They cut off the other one because it had an enormous tumor in it. And the most horrible part of that is, I'm STILL going to die of metastatic breast cancer.
There have been plenty of studies done about how the sexualization of breast cancer hurts breast cancer patients. First off, supposedly funny and edgy slogans like "save the tatas" and "boobies make me smile" trivialize a disease that kills 522,000 women and men worldwide every single year. The death toll in the US has been 40,000 per year for decades. How is the thing that kills those women supposed to be funny? How are those of us who will die of this disease supposed to feel about this joke?
Secondly, focusing on our disease originating in our breasts, rather than seeing us as whole people, dehumanizes us. And it makes women feel that if they have a mastectomy, they're no longer worthwhile, or feminine, or real women. When I lost my breast, it almost broke me emotionally. Almost. This sort of campaign brings me right back to that feeling, and it does the same for many other women who have had their breasts amputated in a desperate attempt to save our lives-because our lives are what matter, not our breasts.
Campaigns like this do real damage to breast cancer patients. And I know that you know this, because right next to where this image appears on the YSC Facebook page, you've got a video about how breast cancer surgery impacts women's feelings of self-worth.
I expect this kind of insensitivity from a porn industry executive trying to get some cheap publicity. But not from you, YSC. I expect you not to make women who have had a body part amputated feel worse about themselves. I expect you to know that this type of campaign is absolutely the worst kind of cause marketing. And yet, there is your logo at the bottom of the poster, and there's this image proudly displayed on your Facebook page.
Speaking of your Facebook page, several of us pointed all of this out to you in comments on that photo there. Let me quote your complete non-apology here:
"We apologize if this post was offensive. We would like to clarify that the "Boobies Make Me Smile" slogan is not a YSC slogan, it is the name of Spencer's Foundation. Our bracelet is called "Survivor Strength." We partner with Spencer's to promote breast health education among their young consumers and over the last 8 years have reached countless young women to empower them to be their own best health advocate. It is always our goal to inform and empower young women with breast cancer, and we're sincerely sorry if this post was insensitive."
If?!?! If this post was insensitive? If this post was offensive? It's your goal to empower young women with breast cancer, while you trivialize their disease and marginalize those of us who have lost a body part to it? Really? And how is the fact that Spencer's foundation is called "Boobies Make Me Smile" a reason not to be offended? You're telling me that you actually decided to partner with an organization called "Boobies Make Me Smile?" Are you kidding me?
I know you need money to support the important programs you run. We all understand that. But you undercut the power of those programs and the support you give to young women with breast cancer when you turn around and partner with an organization whose very name is offensive. How can we take you seriously after this? How can we believe that you really have our backs, when you turn around and throw us under the bus to make a quick buck?
I beg you, before further damage is done, to withdraw from your partnership with Spencer Gifts and give them their dirty money back. If you don't, I know an awful lot of young women who will no longer be able to support you in good conscience, myself included.
Sincerely,
Beth Caldwell