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Abortion: Do As I Say, Not As I Do

Posted: 11/21/2011 9:18 am

Something is wrong with Christianity in America.

I am a pro-life evangelical who continues to witness efforts by pro-lifers that are exasperating: baby bottle campaigns orchestrated to help single moms with chump change; protesting outside of abortion clinics; attempts to change the law and alleged deceptive advertising at crisis pregnancy centers.

The problem is that all of these efforts ignore the fact that in America, Christians have more abortions than non-Christians.

In 2011, the Guttmacher Institute reported that 65 percent of women having abortions self-identified as Christian; 37 percent as Protestant and 28 percent as Catholic. A 1996 study found that 20 percent of all nationwide abortions were woman who identified themselves as born-again or evangelical Christians.

The overwhelming majority of the approximately 1 million abortions performed every year are by Christians.

Today, the Christian community has no credibility on this issue. Instead, the message being generated is, "do as I say, not as I do."

Christianity wasn't always this way. In "The Story of Civilization," William and Ariel Durant articulate that when Christianity emerged as a major religion during the Roman Empire, the same time that the Apostle Paul made his first missionary trip to Rome, it was the cultural practice to kill female babies after they were born. They wrote that 99 out of every 100 girl babies in a Roman family were killed at birth after the first girl. This was a common cultural practice for the Greeks, Assyrians, Babylonians, Phoenicians and Egyptians. In fact, the Jews and Christians were the only faith groups in the Mediterranean Basin during that period that did not practice abortion and infanticide.

What were the Jews and Christians doing about this dominant cultural practice? Were they protesting or trying to change the law? Was Paul, as a major spiritual leader, rallying new believers to change Roman policy?

What history has shown is that Christians and Jews lived faithfully to their belief and did not accept or follow the cultural norm. They focused on raising their families according to the tradition of their faith. And they took in those who were in need.

Unfortunately, that is not the case today. The church has failed to authentically witness to believers and nonbelievers through its efforts to foster positive life-affirming action. Rather than protest what others are doing, Christians must be the alternative of what they oppose. This means being "pro-life" in all areas of life -- as foster parents, as adoptive parents and caring for the single, pregnant female who has chosen to keep her child. This requires the willingness to make a sacrificial, ongoing, life-time commitment.

There is a need for this commitment. According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services Administration for Children and Families, national estimates for publicly funded foster care and adoption statistics reveal that there are approximately 662,000 children served in the system. This excludes private agency statistics. There are more children in need of a home.

Certainly, some Christians have adopted and are foster parents. Some are providing much needed aid at pregnancy centers. Yet, these efforts are disproportionate to the need.

However, if every Christian community was serious about their role in society there would be no need for the government to service these children.

It's time for Christians to get serious about what they say they believe -- to be known by the alternatives they provide to abortion, rather than by what they oppose. This necessitates that the church, both corporate and individually, offers the environment needed for women to feel loved, supported, accepted, and able to raise a child. Likewise, Christians have the greatest reason to adopt, having been adopted into God's family, they must give as they have received--generously, abundantly, and without hesitation. They have no excuse not to.

 
 
 
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07:58 AM on 12/10/2011
God...........never ever called us Christian. Names and words are very important to
God. His name is above every name that could be named.......words.

Romans. 10:9 - 10
07:52 AM on 12/10/2011
There are church attendees. And then there are people who are SAVED.
Traditionalist are not believers. They have gone to church all their lives so GOD does not even come to mind. They are just church attendees.
God......who is that?
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charlesrfd2003
Proud American who believes in the Bill of Rights
09:49 AM on 12/07/2011
The incidence of abortion is inverse to the value we as a society place on children. Unfortunately, too many so-called pro-life people seem to say, "Woman have the child." Then they would let the child starve and oppose education funding as costing too much.

As far as birth control, people who feel they have a future tend to be more careful. Developing jobs for young people is stronger than all the information programs. One does not destroy what one considers of great value. For some their children are revered above all else. Spread that and abortion rates will drop.
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charlesrfd2003
Proud American who believes in the Bill of Rights
11:01 AM on 12/07/2011
To append my comments: here is a news story in the headlines that illustrates what I said.

SAN ANTONIO (AP) A Texas woman who for months was unable to qualify for food stamps pulled a gun in a state welfare office and staged a seven-hour standoff with police that ended with her shooting her two children before killing herself, officials said Tuesday...didn't know what ...failed to provide. In addition to completing an 18-page application, families seeking state benefits also must provide documents proving their information, such as proof of employment and residency...The children were "very critical."

Children whether born or unborn are not really valued. Imagine being in desperate situation faced with an 18 page questionnaire and asked to bring many documents just to eat. Imagine what pregnant women who may be fear they could be in the same situation are now thinking when they read that story. Christians and all other persons who are well meaning need to reach out to the poor. Yes, they seem to be always with us and the work is tiring but the need is great.

There are gift trees around everywhere. Take a card and purchase the gift. Then make sure it is delivered to those who work tirelessly. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all!
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Claude Hosch
A single bracelet does not jingle
05:52 PM on 12/03/2011
Truth be told! It is past time for Christians to be the example they are to be, moving away from this "form of religion' we now embrace.
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11:33 PM on 11/29/2011
Considering that 80% of the people consider themselves Christian in some respect, those statistics mentioned are not that compelling.
Similar arguments ... Look at all those pro-military people that are not veterans. Look at all the environmentalist that have more than two kids and own large cars and houses. Look how filty the OWS people are. Generally I find this type of argument rather weak. Be careful when listening to someone who attacks the members of a group rather than addressing the merits of their issue.
Actually the support for adoption is quite strong in the churches. Unfortunately there are a lot of children that have severe enough issues that make them hard to adopt. The average parent is just not equiped to handle children with significant physical or emotional issues. Peace.
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mrld20
12:16 PM on 11/27/2011
Abortion is a fact of life... It's been around for thousands of years and will remain so... As a Quaker I'm taught to celebrate life... There are ways to reduce abortions without sacrificing a woman's right to choice...

Comprehensive sex education, birth control, and condoms are a start... If we had a uniform policy with all this I think the number of abortions would be dramatically reduced... I can't think of any woman who goes out for an abortion because she wants to kill a fetus... It's usually because she didn't have the right education or access to appropriate contraception... We add those things to the mix and abortions would be reduced...
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crydespite
no-one is ever 'just saying'
07:27 AM on 11/26/2011
The unstated premise is that this is a religious issue when in fact it is clearly now largely a political one. It is used to garner votes for candidates who, once elected, do some of the most unchristian things you could ever hope not to see, supported by pastors who know which side their bread is buttered on. It has long since ceased to have much to do with the religion (and as others have posted in response, the Bible even advocates for abortion in some circumstances).
03:46 PM on 11/25/2011
Good article. What would even be better...?......if all the small minded preachers would allow Gods spirit to come into their church.
Gods Spirit brings conviction, not condemnation.
Conviction .........is of the heart. It means...."I will not lie down and get pregnant."
05:20 PM on 11/24/2011
There is a reason why christians have more ABORTIONS . Because many believe just saying SORRY to GOD is enough !
12:21 PM on 11/23/2011
The Bible says absolutely nothing about abortion. The word isn't even in any biblical translatio­n. Of more than 600 laws of Moses, none say anything about abortion. One law about miscarriag­e even contradict­s the claim that the Bible is anti-abort­ion, stating that miscarriag­e doesn’t involve the death of a human. If a woman miscarries as the result of a fight, the man responsibl­e is supposed to be fined. Though if the woman dies, the culprit must be killed. Where do fundies get the idea the bible is anti-abort­ion?
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onionboy
Blessed are the Cheese Makers
03:23 PM on 11/23/2011
Like many of their "biblical" positions, it's all about politics.
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GDWhiteman
Christian mystic iconoclast
10:36 AM on 11/24/2011
Actually the Bible does say something about abortion. It says that, in certain cases, God says women are to be taken to church and given an abortion by their pastor. The passage I'm talking about is centered on adultery. The word "abortion" is not used. But it's quite clear the God's answer when adultery is proved to have caused a pregnancy is "abort it" using the herbal method favored at the time those verses were written.
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iknowscottyknows
05:05 PM on 11/26/2011
"The bible talks about abortion on demand by not mentioning it."

Thanks for the translation. Here's a better one.

"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you. Before you were born I set you apart." Jeremiah 1:5.
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Kenneth Knapp III
07:53 AM on 11/23/2011
The depths of Chritian hypocrisy ceased to amaze me a long time ago.
09:23 AM on 11/23/2011
I'd say hypocrisy is a human rather than a Christian failing, wouldn't you?

Otherwise, your criticism makes you just as much a hypocrite.
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DakkonA
www.DisentangledReality.com
11:41 AM on 11/23/2011
Since your other reply is not showing up:

Actually no, science wasn't around when it was thought that the world was flat, and the anxiety/ulcers link was a common wisdom, not science. It was science that allowed us to figure out what was actually true, though. Or maybe I missed that piece of scripture which talked about ulcers being caused by a bacteria.
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Kenneth Knapp III
09:23 AM on 11/24/2011
No. The hypocrisy existing in other groups still amazes me sometimes. But hypocrisy among Christians is so very commonplace it's become the norm. I'm more amazed when a self-proclaimed Christian isn't a hypocrite. There is no hypocrisy in my previous statement. You simply understood there to be because you were putting words in my mouth. Nice try, though.
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Luuke
07:44 AM on 11/24/2011
Islam is the way forward my friend...Just try it out...There's a 30 day trial offer...Tell me how great were the choices you had there and then lets talk about Christian hypocrisy ....Your posting is so deep in hypocrisy that it's not showing
08:17 AM on 11/24/2011
Name three Islamic countries where people of other faiths are fully allowed to practice as equals to Muslims.

Here are my three for Christian nations:

Canada, USA, Sweden.
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Kenneth Knapp III
09:36 AM on 11/24/2011
How does ANYTHING I had to say have ANYTHING to do with Islam, or the lack of freedom in Muslim countries? If you are going to accuse me of something, you might try backing it up.
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White Raven
Eyeballs are tasty
06:11 AM on 11/23/2011
I'm still waiting to meet a Christian that has actually read the Bible and not just selections from it. What I mean by this is that I don't think most people who label themselves Christians really live by the ideals they say they do.

They would be far from the only demographic to be guilty of this.
09:27 AM on 11/23/2011
What is critical is the formation of and common loyalty to ideals, not that every single individual lives up to them.

If this were not so, you would not be living in the Christian West wth the ability to freely publish your thoughts.

Please point out a non-Christian civilization in the world where similar freedoms exist.
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White Raven
Eyeballs are tasty
09:35 AM on 11/23/2011
Japan.
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GDWhiteman
Christian mystic iconoclast
10:38 AM on 11/23/2011
Those freedoms exist because the founders of this nation were wise enough to specifically bar establishment of any religion as the basis for our laws and our freedoms. I would no more care to live under a Christian theocracy than any other theocracy.
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Luuke
07:45 AM on 11/24/2011
What ideals do you have for yourself and how do you live by them....would like to know to clear hypocrites from the list...
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White Raven
Eyeballs are tasty
12:17 PM on 11/24/2011
Respect and tolerance for people different from myself. Admiration for wisdom and excellence.

As for how I live by them, well...day to day.
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10:04 PM on 11/22/2011
If you want to stop abortions, endorse good sex ed. The more religious areas are more likely to teach abstinence only sex ed, which has been demonstrated to lead to far more teen pregnancies, STI's, and general ignorance about sex.
09:42 AM on 11/23/2011
Been there, done that for two decades now. In 2007, only 16.7% of abortions were performed on people less than 20 years old.

And still about one million abortions occur each year. Sound like a healthy society to you?

Your pat 'non-religioius' solution is outdated and ineffectual. Time to get out of the box and think anew.
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onionboy
Blessed are the Cheese Makers
03:29 PM on 11/23/2011
A centuries old book is thinking anew?
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10:07 PM on 11/23/2011
The more secular a society, the better the sex ed, the less the abortions. Most of Europe has significantly less abortions than us....why is that? This is true between countries and between states.

You are confused if you think we've been practicing excellent sex ed for the last 2 decades. We have never had good sex ed, but the last decade+ has been some of the worst ever.
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09:43 PM on 11/22/2011
And this is the hypocrisy of the anti-abortion christian right.
09:14 PM on 11/22/2011
Just because someone calls themselves a christian, does not mean they have a significant relationship with Christ. BIG difference.
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Kenneth Knapp III
07:56 AM on 11/23/2011
There are two problems with your statement. First of all, you don't get to judge who is a Christian and who isn't. You get to decide if YOU are a Christian, but not if anyone else is. Secondly, the churches and Christian pro-life organizations are perfectly willing to take money from those you judgmentally wouldn't call Christian, and it's bad press. You should take care of your own house first. Before you go calling out the secular world for approving of abortion, you should call out other Christians for not doing their part to make abortion unnecessary.
09:47 AM on 11/23/2011
So, using your rules for humanity, if I have personally never stopped a murder I should not condemn the practice of murder.