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Why I Wrote Showing Up for Life

Posted: 04/24/09 03:50 PM ET

This Tuesday, my new book goes on sale. The name "Bill Gates" is featured prominently. I suspect some people, if not most people, will do a double-take. I'm used to that. I was still in my early 50s when my son "stole" my name and -- to avoid confusion with him -- I became Bill Gates Senior. (If you're thinking of naming your own child "junior," you might want to learn from my experience.)

Some people have asked me why I decided to write this book. I'm now 83 years old, and I've have had some pretty incredible experiences throughout my life. I also have a lot of ideas I feel strongly about. I had a long and satisfying career in the law before taking on the greatest career challenge of all - -trying to spend money wisely and well in order to improve the lives of people around the world. (Let me report that the upside of having brilliant bosses far outweighs the occasional awkwardness of calling your own son "boss.")

I've raised three good kids who turned out to be good citizens too. I'm proud of them -- in ways that I suspect most parents are. I wish my first wife Mary were able to see what they've accomplished and to share in the joy and satisfaction of seeing them as parents now too.

I believe there's power in sharing stories. My dad, who dropped out of school in the 8th grade to help support his family, didn't live long enough to see how our story has unfolded. And, as I enter my mid-80s, I know that I likely won't see how life unfolds for my own grandchildren as they move beyond young adulthood. I can at least help them to understand mine.

Like my son, I am an optimist. I believe in the combined power of men and women who "show up" for the people they love and the causes they believe in. I've seen the power of public will to take on and surmount great challenges and I believe our society works better when people think less about "me and mine" and more about "us and ours."

I've lived through a Depression, the second World War, and a Cold War that led us to the brink of a third -- a situation that caused people to be so afraid, school children everywhere were taught to hide under their desks. I've seen the huge progress that can be made when people invest for the common good and when bad precedent is overtaken by good thinking and public will -- perhaps with no greater example in my lifetime than the Civil Rights movement, which continues today.

I've experienced the fear of being poor, the exhilaration of working hard to build a career I loved while raising a family, and the incredible good fortune to be able to travel the world and meet people who are making the world a better place.

I've come to know many wonderful and interesting people -- from my own sister Merridy, who taught me a lasting lesson about generosity and whose own life prospects narrowed considerably because my dad didn't believe girls needed an education -- to Nelson Mandela and Jimmy Carter, the latter who introduced me and millions of other people to the importance of talking openly about "bare penises" in places where such words were never spoken In order to raise awareness of the importance of condoms in the fight against HIV-AIDS.

I've seen the parental anguish caused by the crippling effects of polio and am still hopeful that I'll live long enough to see polio completely eradicated from this planet -- due in large part to the extraordinary will and hard work of the men and women of Rotary. I'm grateful to my good friend Bill Foege, who led the successful eradication effort against smallpox and who opened my eyes to the idea that our neighbors include not just the people alive today, but those who lived before us and those who will come after and who will inherit the consequences of the decisions we make now.

I'm discouraged by a public education system where only a third of our children graduate from high school ready for college. (All of my children were college-ready, though it did take my son more than 25 years to finally collect his university's degree.) I've also seen the huge gains that can be made under the leadership of committed education reformers like Mayor Bloomberg who oversaw dramatic improvements in graduation rates in places where many people had given up. I believe one day soon the American people will recognize our public education system for the crisis it is and will insist upon and support fundamental reform.

I look forward to continuing to work hard on behalf of the causes I believe in, while enjoying the simple pleasures that come from a satisfying family and personal life anchored by my wife Mimi. And I remain dedicated to the belief that we all have a shared responsibility to one another and to the proposition that every child -- regardless of the circumstances of birth -- deserves the opportunity to lead a healthy, productive life.

 
This Tuesday, my new book goes on sale. The name "Bill Gates" is featured prominently. I suspect some people, if not most people, will do a double-take. I'm used to that. I was still in my early 5...
This Tuesday, my new book goes on sale. The name "Bill Gates" is featured prominently. I suspect some people, if not most people, will do a double-take. I'm used to that. I was still in my early 5...
 
 
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11:44 AM on 04/27/2009
Dear Mr. Gates. I'm sorry to sound cynical, but we have a public education system that works just fine for the Powers That Be. If you're one of them, then "our" children either go to private school or live in communities where the public schools are almost as good as private schools. "Our" children all go to college. What "we" don't want is all of "their" children (you know who "they" are) crowding the ladder to success and competing with "our" children using free educations that "we" paid for. I mean, what would be the logic of that, I ask you?
06:46 PM on 04/26/2009
Who said there are no heroes left. Well done sir- on so many levels...
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02:48 AM on 04/26/2009
I've have the good fortune to sit in Mr. Gates' office and talk politics and philanthropy with him and his assistant. He assisted a nonprofit I ran in the Seattle area, and he's an incredible man. I took every ounce of wisdom he imparted in those 30 minutes and became his biggest cheerleader. Though I've never met Mr. Gates' son, or his late wife, it's clear how and why Bill Gates Jr. became one of the wealthiest individuals on earth. This guy is rock steady, brilliant, and the work they do is leaps and bounds beyond what others do to help those less fortunate in America and around the world. And he was closing in on 80 when we had our conversation. Whatever he sells, I buy...
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Self Sustainability is the Future
10:56 PM on 04/25/2009
I realy appreciate the gates family efforts in the world (i.e., curing malaria). Their foundation is the best.
10:13 PM on 04/25/2009
We love the Gates family. I buy lot of Gates'products (microsoft) for your unselfishness (and quality of your products, even though many target your products).

Keep up the good work
Yours
08:05 PM on 04/25/2009
Dear Bill Gates Sr.

Thank you for being a great father who taught your children that great wealth should be shared. I am proud, as a fellow Washingtonian, that your values reflect the values of many here in the Northwest. You are an example to be followed.
06:23 PM on 04/27/2009
Are you aware of the investments the Foundry has with companies that create harm to the environment and local populations in many nations whose governments don't protect their citizens?

Are you aware of the high cost Microsoft's many interlocking monopolies have generated for consumers? Or did you think the Gates got wealthy by winning the lottery? Their business plan's backbone is based on monopoly profits, monopoly control, and breaking with standards so that other software cannot interoperate with their monopoly software.

Are you aware of the many legal suits that have been sought against Microsoft? [groklaw covers this well]

Microsoft could make its software more secure, but they don't. They could give users more privacy and intrude less on the users' files, but they don't. They could stop their anticompetitive practices to lock out competition, but they don't. They could stop robbing or creating barriers in front of much more innovative companies, but they don't. They could stop spreading obvious deception about quality open source software, but they don't. How could they? They'd lose monopoly profits!
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07:57 PM on 04/25/2009
There is so much power in sharing your stories of hope.

"Like my son, I am an optimist. I believe in the combined power of men and women who "show up" for the people they love and the causes they believe in. I've seen the power of public will to take on and surmount great challenges and I believe our society works better when people think less about "me and mine" and more about "us and ours."

I see this in action. We need to think of "us and ours" as the paradigm shifts.
07:53 PM on 04/25/2009
Hello Attorney Bill Gates:
I saw you on a television program a few years ago advocating higher taxes for wealthy Americans, a position I agree with because George Bush decided to start two wars and CUT taxes - while the U S Treasury has record debts and deficits.

Even though Bill Gates, Jr is the Microsoft icon with crazy money, you still hold rank on your son because he has to pay homage to his Pops. What happens when you and Bill Jr have a disagreement on a policy issue? Will Jr allow you to overrule him? The old TV show Father Knows Best comes to mind.

I congratulate you Attorney Bill Gates for being a swell and humanitarian man, and ditto for the great work that the Melinda and Bill Gates foundation does around the world. I look forward to reading your book - your prose flows across the pages.

Thanks and enjoy life.
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Konnie
Really South Carolina??
10:55 AM on 04/26/2009
my absolute favorite Mr. Gates quote from that interview was; TAXES ARE THE RENT YOU PAY TO
LIVE IN AMERICA! an excellent mantra for every citizen.
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lastmanstanding99
"THE BANKS OWN EVERYTHING!"
02:50 PM on 04/26/2009
It is a great mantra for every citizen, but the rich find there way out of paying their fair share most of the time.The lobbist pay congress and the senate to pass laws to make it all seem legal too.
06:27 PM on 04/25/2009
So what happen to the first world war,
07:44 PM on 04/25/2009
Since Mr. Gates is 83, my take is that he wasn't alive yet.
kenergy599
banned for speaking my mind
06:26 PM on 04/25/2009
Good article sir.
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digitalprophet
Cthulhu Fhtagn! Ia! Ia!
05:22 PM on 04/25/2009
Inspiring article. I give you my deepest thanks for the efforts your family is making. It makes me proud to be a parent and have the same hope for the world if we can all work together.
03:30 PM on 04/25/2009
This is a truly inspiring article, what an interesting ride your life has been. I work in the vicinity of Harrison Hospital (in the medical field). Do you ever come back this way?

You stated "....as I enter my mid-80s, I know that I likely won't see how life unfolds for my own grandchildren as they move beyond young adulthood." Rest assured, you have set an excellent foundation for them as you have for your children.
03:26 PM on 04/25/2009
New site about the book - including early reaction - is posted at www.showingupforlife.com.
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FrankenPC
02:41 PM on 04/25/2009
Bill Gates has a father? I thought he was computer generated! :D

Seriously, The Gates are truly altruistic philanthropists. Great family.
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SadButWiser
02:34 PM on 04/25/2009
Sir, you and your son are great men. You have certainly raised him well. His generosity is an inspiration to many.
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KJLSanDiego
06:12 PM on 04/26/2009
I agree! The Gate's Family's contributions could have easily gone to lavish properties and vacations, instead of to more altruistic causes. Good on them for sharing the wealth!