Sandra -- I think that the decision that you and Jesse made to have Jesse relinquish his parental rights and allow you to adopt Louis alone, was made in haste, under terrible pressure and also out of guilt and anger.
You were FURIOUS with Jesse and probably still are -- that's completely understandable! He was a serial cheater AND liar! Plus he revealed a troubling side to himself -- his interest in Nazism -- that you were completely unaware of.
Nevertheless, no matter how bad a husband he's been to you Sandra -- you know he's been a decent, even good dad to Chandler, 15, Jesse Jr., 12, and little Sunny, 6.
You know that -- you helped him raise these children and helped him fight to get full custody of sunny.
You also went together through a four-year process to adopt little Louis. Jesse was Louis' full parent legally, as if he was his biological father. He even told People magazine in a statement -- "The love that I have for Louis cannot be put to words. Not having him around to hold has left a huge hole in my heart."