I am a firm believer in building community by helping good folks get the word out about projects that they are working on. Today, I want to help spread the word about MaryAnn McKibben Dana and her new book, Sabbath in the Suburbs: A Family's Experiment with Holy Time. I have met MaryAnn a handful of times in person, but, like many relationships these days I know her mostly through online interaction and many mutual friends. I have not yet read the book, but I am intrigued even more knowing MaryAnn a little better.
Here is my "interview" with MaryAnn McKibben Dana.
Who is MaryAnn McKibben Dana?
I'm a writer, mother of three, haphazard knitter, and a slow but determined runner. I like to make lists, and muffins, and lists of muffins.
I lead workshops and retreats on various topics, and I blog at The Blue Room, which is still my favorite venue writing-wise. I'm also a Presbyterian pastor, but I think my inner child is Quaker. I'm married to a preacher's kid, which means I'm the only person in my house who isn't a PK.
Elevator speech time... what is Sabbath in the Suburbs about?
Part memoir, part spiritual reflection, part practical guide, Sabbath in the Suburbs is about our family's experience of taking a day-long Sabbath every week -- a time when we stopped all work, striving, hurrying and producing and focused on play and rest. It's about our family's cobbled-together successes and our flat-on-our-face failures. It's a book for people who sense the dysfunction in our 24-7 world but need some inspiration and some realistic help to do something about it.
I'm also told it's funny.
What inspired you to write Sabbath in the Suburbs?
Like many writers, I wrote the book that I wanted to read. There are plenty of books out there [here, here and here] about Sabbath-keeping and "finding balance." But most of them address the why rather than the how. I was fully convinced of the need for rest and play; I just couldn't figure out how to do it, what with careers and kids and errands and homework and housework, and... and... and. Not to mention the ever-buzzing smartphones, constantly demanding our attention.
What were some of the most difficult parts about writing Sabbath in the Suburbs? Exciting? Surprising?
I remember a friend saying that when you're in graduate school, guilt is an inherent part of any leisure time. Writing a book can be like that. It's always hanging over your head as something you should work on. This was especially hard for me, because I was writing a book about Sabbath and yet the writing was eating into my Sabbath time!
The most exciting and surprising thing about the process was that I actually got it done. I've been writing blogs and short non-fiction for so long that I wasn't sure whether I could pull off a project like this.
The most gratifying part is not the positive reviews, though I've gotten them [Publishers Weekly | Englewood], nor the sales figures, which are encouraging and fun to track, but the individual folks who've told me that Sabbath in the Suburbs inspired them to make actual changes in their lives. I heard recently from a woman whose husband is gravely ill. They have young children and the book helped them focus on making memories and living a life that matters for whatever time is left. Wow. If I don't sell another book, I will consider the project a success.
Knowing that they may be one in the same, who do you think your book will have the most impact upon and who might it make uncomfortable?
I have heard from many people that the book makes them squirm because it shines a light on their own dysfunctions and anxieties around how they spend their time.
It's also very real. If you like your religious leaders on a pedestal, this isn't the book for you. (My neighbor read it and said, "I had no idea you were so sarcastic!" To which I replied, "Duh...")
Might be a good book, a writing discipline or helpful snack, but could you give a quick word of advice to help aspiring writers reach their goals of actually writing a book.
I highly, highly recommend a writers' group. I can say without exaggeration that my book would not exist without the Writing Revs, with whom I've been meeting for six years. It also wouldn't be as good without their sharp eyes and wisdom.
I am as prone to monkey-mind as anyone, so I recommend the Pomodoro Technique as a way to focus. I wrote most of the book that way. And my favorite book on writing is still Anne Lamott's classic Bird by Bird. Stephen King's On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft is also great.
If you could have people connect with you on ONE of your social media platforms, what would it be?
I do tweet (@revmamd) and I'm on Pinterest (maryanndana) and GoodReads (MaryAnn_
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