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On Nostalgia: It Doesn't Come in Cycles, and It Doesn't Mean We're Miserable

Posted: 04/23/2012 11:54 am

I have a theory, which is that you know you're growing up when you read The New Yorker for the articles and don't immediately skip through to all the cartoons. It's like a man actually reading an article in Playboy (although let's get real, who even looks at Playboy anymore?), or buying the Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition for the editorials.

But speaking of The New Yorker and growing up, that's what I want to talk about today, or something along those lines: I want to muse on Adam Gopnik's article on nostalgia and Linda Holmes' NPR blog post refuting his points.

Gopnik's thesis is that popular culture's nostalgia goes in 40-year cycles; we love Mad Men, for example, because it's set 40 years in the past. He argues that this is because the people who control pop culture are generally in their 40s and are intrigued by the time when their "parents were youthful and in love," and they were not quite born. I disagree; I'm not fascinated by the mid-'80s any more than I'm fascinated by the 1920s, and I don't see myself developing a desperate urge to make films or write stories set in the Reagan-era as I get older. While I have to wait until I'm 40 to see if this is true, Gopnik appears to be looking for a formula that doesn't exist.

Gopnik has fit his evidence to his hypothesis. For each decade, he comes up with a movie set 40 years in the past, but there are at least as many from the same decade that take place 20 years in the past. Or 10. Or 60. For example, he writes about people in the '80s being fascinated by the World War II era, citing Raiders of the Lost Ark and Empire of the Sun. What about Saving Private Ryan? Band of Brothers? Flags of Our Fathers, Letters from Iwo Jima, The Pianist, Schindler's List? Those were all set during WWII, and all made after 1997.

On NPR's Monkey See blog, Linda Holmes went after Gopnik's article and presented another view of nostalgia, one that argues that we will always look for escapes into the past because elsewhere always looks better, not because of a 40-year cycle. While I agree with Holmes that the 40-year cycle isn't true, I don't agree with her when she says, "What's eternal about nostalgia is the same thing that's eternal about travel: It will always happen, not because what's out there is so special that it will pull us out through the windows, but because what's in here is, at least some of the time, so difficult that it will push us out through the door." Nostalgia needn't be a function of present misery. It's a function of memory.

Memory allows us to romanticize a Fourth of July parade and the smell of fried clams on a beach without paying mind to how many bug bites we got or the food poisoning that followed. Our selective memory means the past stays murky, mysterious. But we needn't be unhappy now to enjoy the mystery of the "then." Holmes, before claiming that nostalgia comes from the desire to escape the present, says that the allure of nostalgia is the mystery of times past. That point I agree with; while we can revisit a place or re-watch a film, we cannot time travel (yet), so we can't check out what the past was really like. What we can do, however, is black out the bad times and let the good times glow, no matter how we feel about the present.

The murkiness means we can make the past what we want; it is dangerous, because we can look back and lament how much simpler, cleaner, better life used to be. Take Mad Men: yes, I suppose it was simpler, in terms of the punctuality of dinner, at least, when women wore aprons and men came home on the 5:40 train. But it could also be miserable, it wasn't always precise and easy, and some people (say, Sylvia Plath) couldn't handle it and stuck their heads in ovens. People drank themselves into stupors and smoked themselves into lung cancer. We have literature, films, letters, and all sorts of evidence that supports the bad as much as we have rosy memories and old soda ads that represent the good.

What Mad Men and great movies do so well is present both aspects of the era in which they are set. They don't let nostalgia block out the pain. Because the heart of the matter is that no time is better than another (well, after the invention of penicillin and indoor plumbing, that is); every era has its unhappiness, its romance, its beauty, and its messiness. And if it's a time before we were born, it's endlessly fascinating because we will never live it. It's a story; we can project our present selectively onto it. In the present the good and the bad are inextricable; we haven't distilled our experiences, so things can seem uglier and more confusing. But there's no rule that clarity comes with 40 years. Clarity can come with three years, if you have a good enough shrink. Or it can come never.

In the end, Gopnik's formula runs into too many counter-examples, and the Holmes' post, which starts out promisingly about the mystery of the past, trips on a simplistic "grass is greener" theory. There is no telling what era will capture our imaginations at any given time, and there is no reason we have to be unhappy now to want to explore or rework the past. There was just a summer night. And if it's the aromas and the fireworks rather than the bug bites and the upset stomachs we remember, who's to say that means we're miserable now? And who's to say we have to wait 40 years to find out?

 

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01:10 AM on 04/24/2012
There has been little scientific or psychological study of nostalgia, but I think you have fathomed many tangents. Happy? Sad? Too many "if's". I agree with your disagreements. I wonder if Gopnik's "fitting his evidence to his hypothesis" doesn't account for most nostalgia. I have piled up enough decades to know that memory can be very selective and distorting. For me, past times, that I recall vividly, have more impact than those same years revealed in the arts...movies, books. Covering that great distance, I am surprised that my thoughts are so closely related to yours. The only advantage of being old over being young is that one has a greater nostalgia choice...in which one has also played a part. With admiration & Brava! Nathalie
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09:55 AM on 04/24/2012
Thank you, Nathalie--I think our past times can also become our books, our movies. They get distilled to a point where they have a narrative that makes sense to us rather than the actual events.
01:30 PM on 04/26/2012
Here I am again…with a delayed ā€œNostalgiaā€ reply. You are so right, Charlotte, about ā€œour distilled books and moviesā€ that bring past events to new generations in captivating ways. They also keep those events alive for the generations that lived them, frequently offering them newly discovered information and/or added reassessments.

The revealing script of the recent film ā€œThe King’s Speechā€ certainly added facts to my recollections.. I was still in school, living with grandparents when Edward V111 resigned. At my grandfather’s bidding, I sat beside him on a footstool near the radio, listening to the inauguration speech of the new King of England. He spoke so well. No one was aware then of his stuttering problems.

And I am still reading previously unknown stories pertinent to WW2. Artdaily, as recently as April 7 and 17, 2012, has two such stories: Exhibition of ā€œViolins of Hopeā€ 18 newly found and restored instruments played by inmates of concentration camps; Pages discovered from U.S.Army publications for WW2 survivors to read.

Keen interest in new presentations of a past historical event can set off recollections for some older people, but I think their nostalgia would come from the memory of their own version of that actual happening and their reaction. That is their reality.

Nathalie
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07:49 PM on 04/23/2012
Blogger: There is no telling what era will capture our imaginations at any given time, and there is no reason we have to be unhappy now to want to explore or rework the past.

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That's true enough. There are lots of people who like exploring the past without necessarily being unhappy in the present: civil war enacters, Ren Faire folks, and so on.

But it's also true that there is a lot of unhappiness in the present. Look (for example) and the fact tht one in four American women is taking some sort of psychological meds, or that as a nation, we've ingested so much Prozac that it shows up in our sampling of our water supply.

Or, look at the obsession with happiness that you see on Huffpo - or the soon to be released "killer app" called "GPS for the Soul" - or the divorce rate that is hovering near 60% when you combine the stats from first, second and third marriages.

These are all signs of pretty widespread unhappiness - and no doubt they drive some of (or a lot of) the nostalgia.
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10:01 AM on 04/24/2012
That's a good point, but I don't think this era is any more unhappy than past ones. While there's the evidence that you suggest, like Prozac in the water supply, I don't think we're worse off now than we used to be. Perhaps that the divorce rate is higher means people are acting on their unhappiness in marriages and getting out, rather than staying put in bad ones the way they used to. I think that's a whole different debate, but that lamenting the present as being more unhappy than the past isn't something we can ever really know.

I do, however, agree that there is a function of escapism, as Linda Holmes writes in her piece, that can drive us to find past eras to immerse ourselves in. I just don't think that's the sole reason for our fascination with the past.
07:00 PM on 04/23/2012
I try not to let myself think about the past too much because instead of making me happy, many times it leaves me sad because I miss people and places that seem to now seem to only live in memory. I love those memories (I guess making me nostalgic?) but I've found staying in the present can be equally and enjoyable, and without the sense of loss.
03:29 PM on 04/23/2012
I agree with all your points, especially that the other two commentaries on the subject lack an essential piece of this complicated topic. The only topic I take slight issue with is the Mad Men reference.
To me, Mad Men has taken an entirely unique stance on nostalgia, particularly this season. They seem to be keying in on the idea that nostalgia gives an almost completely false sense of the past, and that falling into that way of thinking is dangerous. The problems of people in the year 2012-bad marriages, unfulfilling jobs, generally feeling trapped in one's own life-were ever present in the 60s as well. Though they may take on a different look (do people really go to Howard Johnson's or eat canned beans any more?), the ideas are still the same.
The danger of longing for the past is that we all become Roger Sterling, tripping on LSD and waxing poetic about Ford Model-Ts. How quickly he forgets that the time he's longing for was equally unhappy for him, just in a different way.
Perhaps all nostalgia really is, is a way for us to feel a misery that is merely different than the one we're feeling now.
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Charlotte Wilder
09:35 PM on 04/23/2012
I think you bring up a really interesting point; the misery of the past can be as good as the happy times because it's all faded and romantic. It is, as you say, different. For Roger, his life with Mona was miserable when he was in it, but now he can see it more clearly and realize that perhaps it's what he wanted all along. Thanks for reading, I really appreciate your thoughts!
01:30 PM on 04/23/2012
Nostalgia is a complex topic. The notion of it working in 40 year cycles is, I agree, artificial; and I also agree that it is not necessarily an escape from an unpleasant present. To me the feeling is similar to the one I have walking along a street in a foreign city and acknowledging that everyone I pass has a complex life I dont, and wont, know anything about. It can be a place as well as an era - but it is always the road, for whatever reason, not taken. The life you missed, the person you didn't know, the clique you weren't in, the reunion you missed - they all fill you with a bittersweet sense of loss.
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Charlotte Wilder
09:36 PM on 04/23/2012
I think that's so true; what we don't know, whether it's a city, a person, or an era, will always be intriguing because we can fill in the blanks with our own projections. What you wrote above is a really beautiful way of framing a complex subject.
01:26 PM on 04/23/2012
Well argued and well written -- couldn't agree more.
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Charlotte Wilder
09:36 PM on 04/23/2012
Thank you so much for reading!