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Choosing to Represent

Posted: 05/22/2012 8:54 pm

I attended a DCCC Women's Power Luncheon today with House Democratic Leader Nancy Pelosi in celebration of her 25 years of service. Congresswomen Karen Bass and Jackie Speier were there to introduce all of us at the well-attended event to 9 strong women Congressional candidates from across the country. And after listening to each one of them speak about their individual campaigns, backgrounds, and reasons for taking on such challenges, I can report first-hand that all nine of these women are strong. They have drive, and they are committed. They have chosen to put themselves on the line, to be of service for you and me. It is a difficult, time-consuming job to be in public service, especially, I would say, for women, as they are very much in the minority. Yet all of these women are determined to do so.

Congresswoman Lois Capps (CA-24) and Congresswoman Betty Sutton (OH-16) are both already members of Congress who are currently engaged in campaigns. They're both slogging it out in difficult, but they say winnable campaigns so they can represent us.

The new candidates currently campaigning for seats are: Ann Kirkpatrick (AZ-01), Julia Brownley (CA-26), Chief Val Demings (FL-10), Lois Frankel (FL-22), Gloria Romero Roses (FL-26), Pam Gulleson, (ND-AL) and Shelley Adler (NJ-03).

I encourage all Democrats to support them, even if these ladies don't happen to be in your city or state. The issue is not just about taking back the house, which of course, is ultimately the goal. It is about electing more women into office -- especially now, when the stakes are so high. A few more women might bring civility back to Washington. Something certainly must.

Congress is nowhere near balanced, and therefore, our voice, the woman's voice, which is critical, is not being sufficiently heard. Congress has 535 voting members. The House of Representatives has 435 members; 76 of them are women. The Senate has 100 members; 17 of them are women. You see? No balance. By the way, there were plenty of men at this luncheon today. One very special man, Astronaut Mark Kelly was there, and along with his courageous wife, Gabby Giffords, former Congresswoman from Arizona, took to the stage to introduce House Democratic Leader Nancy Pelosi. The standing ovation Gabby Giffords and Mark Kelly received, was well-deserved.

Mark gave a moving, powerful speech about Nancy Pelosi, and the extraordinary gains she has made during her 25 years of service, while Gabby stood by him, nodding in agreement, and smiling her brilliant smile. He noted that eventually they both hope that Gabby will be the one delivering these speeches, but for now, he is her stand-in. Quite a stand-in; he commanded the final flight of the Space Shuttle Endeavour. Mark spoke about how important it is for women to have a voice in the policies and practices of our government -- of our country. But he knows better than most what a sacrifice some women make to serve our country. He also knows that his wife is a role model for all of us, because she is not a quitter. She is determined to regain her strength and her health, and fights for it every day. At one appropriate point in Mark's speech, when he quotes her battle cry of "fight, fight, fight," she raised her arm and punched the sky three times. And we all recognized that this gesture was dramatic. It took her months of physical therapy to regain much of her movements and strength, and it is an ongoing process.

When House Democratic Leader Nancy Pelosi came up on stage, it was clear that she also has learned the battle cry, and isn't about to forget it anytime soon. Nancy was preaching to the choir, of course. She had us at "hello." But after she told us some personal recollections about the courage of Gabrielle "Gabby" Giffords, and the resolute loyalty of her husband, and reinforced what we had already surmised about the new candidates we met, she shared a couple of memorable quotes with us. The first one is courtesy of Thomas Edison and goes like this:

We often miss opportunity because it's dressed in overalls and looks like work.
And finally, she wrapped up her remarks by sharing a portion of a prayer that was written, in part, for her.
A person dies, and goes to Heaven to meet with God. God asks him, 'Where are your wounds?' The person looks at himself, confused, and replies, 'What wounds, I have no wounds!' God says, 'Was there nothing worth fighting for?'

Getting more women into Congress is worth the fight. Taking this opportunity, even though it's dressed in overalls, and looks like work, is still an opportunity. This is not just a woman's issue. Getting more balance, civility, and cooperation into our government is a human issue.

And P.S. Women do a lot more than make cookies and wear cute panties, although we do that too.

 

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Kara Kramer
01:32 PM on 05/23/2012
I actually don't bake cookies OR wear cute panties.
I dislike frills and I can bake a cake, bread, muffins, but for some reason, I can't bake a cookie to save my life.
And most women I know can't bake at all, although a lot of them do wear lingerie.
Otherwise, good post.
11:47 AM on 05/23/2012
I worry about people who need to list their degrees behind their name. It demonstrated a good deal of insecurity.
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Kara Kramer
01:18 PM on 05/23/2012
I worry about people who find the sight of other people's degrees worrying. It demonstrates a good deal of insecurity.
08:32 AM on 05/23/2012
Women in power will benefit both MEN and women. Look at any country that is totally male dominated, like in the middle east. They are ALWAYS horrible places to love for both men and women. Everyone will benefit from womens empowerment.

And I must agree that the line at the end about "panties and cookies" smacks of apology for being a strong woman. An attempt to show any threatened people that you are still a good woman who knows how to please and do as she is told. It's good to like these things, but the need to mention such personal and unrelated matters in an article about politics just screams "apology"
nothingchanges
too soon old, too late smart
08:20 AM on 05/23/2012
Personally what I would like to see is more honest, middle class, average Americans as representatives in congress, regardless of gender.

I won't live to see that day.

Without campaign finance reform, I don't believe it is possible for an "honest" person to get elected in America anymore.

If you aren't willing to sell out to corporate backers, you don't get the money needed to run a successful campaign.

Congress works for the 1%, the ones that got them into office.

Our "representative" government no longer works, because only those with corporate backers get elected.
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rothomaha
The Truth will out
08:05 AM on 05/23/2012
Cheryl: The problem in this country is not that we have too few women in Congress, but that we have too many corrupt, graft-taking cynics there. If there is a need to prove the point that women can be as evil and cynical as men, I'd point to Brewer, Palin and Bachmann as obvious examples, but there are many, many more. The fact that they are all Repugs says nothing - given the opportunity, no matter the political affiliation a woman will grab a $100K check as quickly as any man! What we really need in Congress is a group of highly-principled people, with a willingness to listen to others' opinions and take from them what is good and constructive to benefit The People, even if they do not agree with the overall message. We need true public servants, no matter their gender, color, race,creed or religion. They simply DO NOT EXIST in today's DC!
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kella
12:24 PM on 05/23/2012
We have more of a handful of dem witches. Women are by nature less likely to commit sexual or vicious crimes; but power, greed, brainwashing by a pair of pants and mass hysteria can turn them into vicious human beings as bad as men.
02:02 PM on 05/23/2012
I totally agree with what you said but you lost me when you used the term "Repugs" because this is exactly the thing that tears us apart. By painting with such a broad brush, you immediatley alienate those who really are good people and want whats best but just may have a different view then you do. There are good and bad, reasonable and unreasonable, worthy and unworthy on ALL sides.
05:00 AM on 05/23/2012
Where'd that last line come from? Great article, very on point that we need more women involved in the decision making process and in office, and then you close with cookies and panties. Why even mention that?
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Christine Pelosi
Author, Campaign Boot Camp 2.0
11:06 PM on 05/22/2012
What a powerful post! So sorry to miss this inspiring event yet you made me feel as though I was there. Time for Democratic women to "fight fight fight!"
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BillZBubb
Cogito ergo sum. Cogito.
10:56 PM on 05/22/2012
We do need more women representing us in congress, but we need to make certain they aren't women like Bachmann and Hutchinson.
02:06 AM on 05/23/2012
So what you mean is, we don't want any women who we disagree with. Just left wingers. Is that it?
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BillZBubb
Cogito ergo sum. Cogito.
08:02 PM on 05/23/2012
What I mean is women who truly support women's interests. That leaves out ALL republican candidates.
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lilibosse
City Council Member, Beverly Hills
10:10 PM on 05/22/2012
love this my amazing friend cheryl! obviously i can truly relate to it being that i am the only woman on our city council. you are true inspiration dressed in beauty inside and out..once again, thank you for leading women to places within themselves they didn't know they had....