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Do Only Religious People Have a 'Calling'?

Posted: 01/24/11 10:14 PM ET

In a recent interview with BBC Radio 4, musician Jack White (of the White Stripes and other bands) reflected on his "calling."

"I was thinking at 14 that possibly I might have had the calling to be a priest," said White. "Blues singers sort of have the same feelings as someone who's called to be a priest might have."

That he connected his sense of a calling to a career in ministry isn't surprising. The word "calling," or "vocation," has explicitly religious roots; derived from the Latin vocare, or "to call," the terms originated in the Catholic Church as a way of referring to the inclination for a religious life as a priest, monk, or nun. During the Protestant Reformation, Martin Luther broadened the term beyond ministry to include work that serves others, but still couched it in a religious framework.

Today, "calling" has become common currency in the American parlance, its meaning expanded to refer to the realization of an individual's passion or drive. Though the term has long had religious associations, it is used just as often to refer to secular work as it is religious.

Still, there's something more to a calling -- something almost otherworldly. When you hear the word, what do you think of? It's usually something that defines a life, something all-consuming, something special. Few people who work in customer service, for example, would describe their work as a calling -- thinking back on my years of hunching over a humid sink and mopping greasy floors while working as a dishwasher, I sure wouldn't, anyway.

So, in my mind, a calling is more than a job; it's something that matters to you, drives you, inspires you. It's what gets you out of bed in the morning. Often, it's a hybrid of the personal and the professional -- work you bring your full self to, work that blurs the lines, work you can't "clock out" of. Almost always, a calling is something you can't not do. And while the term may have religious roots, there are certainly many atheists -- myself included -- who feel this way about their work.

Recently, I was asked by What's Your Calling? to describe my calling. What's Your Calling? is a campaign that grew out of a PBS documentary film called The Calling, which followed seven young people as they embarked on a career in religious ministry. What's Your Calling? functions as a web series that explores both secular and religious notions of calling. So far, they've interviewed incredible people from all over, from the founder of FunnyOrDie.com to a renowned slam poet, the creator of homeless advocacy project invisiblepeople.tv to the people behind SoulPancake.

When asked by What's Your Calling? to explain my calling, I told a story.

I described my conversion to evangelical Christianity at eleven years old and how, later, I became disillusioned with the church after years of wrestling with my sexual orientation and the claims of that faith community. Angry at religion, I didn't want anything to do with religious people. But in college, while doing my weekly volunteer shift with the Campus Kitchens Project, I was forced to challenge my universal aversion to religion and religious people.

Now, I firmly believe that my calling is to help bridge the divide between the religious and the nonreligious -- to encourage people of all different walks of life to come together and share their stories with one another, so that they may come to understand one another better. I'm writing a book on my experiences with religion, with the hope that it may serve as an invitation for others to share their stories, too.

Back when I was a Christian, I thought for a time that I was called by God into ministry. When reflecting on my calling, one of my favorite quotes was by a theologian named Frederick Buechner. He said: "The place God calls you to is where your deep gladness and the world's deep hunger meet." It was a beautiful framework for vocation, but once I stopped believing in God, I didn't know how I fit into it.

Now, it's clear. A calling blossoms when you see a need in the world that aligns with your passions, and you dive into addressing it head first. This can happen whether you're an artist or a social worker, whether you're young or old, and whether you believe in God or not.

Today, I feel called by community, called by my Humanist values, called by my passion for hearing people share their stories, and called by the profound gap I see between the religious and the nonreligious to work to build up positive communities for the nonreligious, to give back to those in need, and to bridge the religious-secular divide. I may not believe in God, but this work is my calling.

Whether you're an atheist, religious, or somewhere in between: What's your calling?

 

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In a recent interview with BBC Radio 4, musician Jack White (of the White Stripes and other bands) reflected on his "calling." "I was thinking at 14 that possibly I might have had the calling to be a...
In a recent interview with BBC Radio 4, musician Jack White (of the White Stripes and other bands) reflected on his "calling." "I was thinking at 14 that possibly I might have had the calling to be a...
 
 
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StevieRayB
Occupy the Future
01:49 PM on 02/09/2011
Chris Stedman, thanks for your writing. As a fellow atheist, I enjoyed it very much and completely agree. Perhaps a calling can be as simple at finding what you are good at. If you do it well, and people like and need your work, now you have a solid vocation that you can build a life on. What's better than that? Not much !!
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shatner99
04:22 PM on 01/30/2011
This is all so Oprah. Come on people. No one has a calling. We just want to feel greater than we are. This is so self-centered.
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PeteLeS
11:11 AM on 01/30/2011
I believe the term "Calling" has been hijacked by religion's. I believe it goes back to the very instinctual obligation to sustain the species. A survival instinct that compells us to try (at least) to leave the species a little better than when we were born into it. I don't think it has anything to do with religion.
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
05:33 PM on 01/31/2011
I agree in part with what you say, but as a person who looked at what people often are at the age of six I decided I did not want to spent 50 or 60 years in a world with these type of people. I have heard there are many children, some as young as four who put themselves through the self checkout line. One study said 4,700 in one year from four to twenty-four years of age. Fortunately as a child I started opening a Bible and reading about what God did not like and what he did like and I concluded God did not like these people either, so I dicided to try to help Him get people to be what he wants them to be. He does not want Santa Claus believers, or people who like lies. So you could say in a way I heard him saying "HELP I don't want to let them go on their way to destruction !" I did not hang up on Him, but answered the call.
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leyvadaniel
God is not a conservative
11:28 AM on 01/29/2011
I believe everyone has a calling, but Christians are called to pay special attention to the calling and words of those considered "unworthy" or "sinners", because, in tradition, the leastinteresting, or the least pius, can be the choosen by God. Being a Christian or being a "righteous" person doesn't guarantee anything, for it is only by grace that we are called.
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
05:17 PM on 01/31/2011
Having listened to God's Word all the way through many times I know there are many places that say if you do not have the right works to go with your faith one is only professing with the lips while the heart is far away. Try John 14:12 to see what believing means according to Jesus.
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leyvadaniel
God is not a conservative
02:41 PM on 02/02/2011
Only God knows, anyone trying to speak on God's behalf is committing several sins. By grace only, for it is up to God only to decide. You haven't been paying attention.
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11:47 PM on 01/27/2011
No. But eligious narcissists deny everyone else that dignity.
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Elijah A Alexander Jr
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03:34 PM on 01/27/2011
Chris,
After following my calling as the prophet Elijah who precedes civilization's end, I'm revealed that every act of all man is their calling. Life is learning existence through experiencing every iota via reincarnating on earth.

Everything on earth happens in a cycle which happens exactly the same way through two different civilizations and short transition periods between them. During the transitions the earth rejuvenates itself appearing as just created so every ghost will have the opportunity to experience the opposite of everything they had previously sown by the being they incarnate as.

One's ghost enters earth as the first life type eating other lifes, being eaten and interacting with different lifes reaping and sowing or establishing karma for a predetermined time. They incarnate as that life then moves to the next establishing and paying off karma for another predetermined time until it become man. During man's last incarnation we begin a metamorphosis, Christians call "new birth," which upon completion makes us "holy ghost, angels or eternal beings."

Only after becoming the eternal being does the ghost began to remember events from their previous lives, every language, different abilities, and some events. Sometimes remembered events of past lives causes one to foretell events and prophesy future ones before becoming an eternal being. Thus, every action of every life is the calling of that life.
11:51 AM on 01/27/2011
Progressive forward thinking people are more important to the world than Jesus right now. Wasn't it John Lennon who said "A good liberally based government is bigger than Jesus". That's because it helps more people that way.
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ochowalo8
08:47 PM on 01/27/2011
who are these progressive forward thinking people?? Can you please, at least, name one? And is there any place in this world that is "a good liberally based government is bigger than Jesus?"

hmmm...
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ochowalo8
01:49 AM on 01/27/2011
my definition of calling: each time i get selfish and become self centered person and only thought about to BENEFIT myself or only me... events happen to lead me back to my God and i start thinking about what I can do to HELP others.. or to do a cause to benefit them...

we're all here to HELP.. we're all here to make a difference. and i'm pretty sure a lot of y'all have thought the same thing... isn't that the reason why you're reading this section anyways? because you CARE.. and you would like to make a difference.

yes, that's my calling....
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UniversalStop
05:43 PM on 01/26/2011
I have a calling to find a fella like this.

That's an appropriate use of the word, no?
01:04 PM on 01/26/2011
The author is taking a historically loaded word out of context and applying new meaning. It is a "calling" because a higher power literally implores a person to enter a life of ministry. Absent the presence of a higher power, there is no divine voice to call a person to do anything. It is just human emotion and empathy that leads a person toward a life of service.

And there ain't nothin' wrong with that.
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MohammedAbbasi
Co-Director, Association of British Muslims
12:38 PM on 01/26/2011
we all have a calling regardless of our labels - the calling is for us to develop our LOVE for each other and grow strengths and help others grow theirs
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wakeupyouall
11:34 AM on 01/26/2011
We are born all to have a calling in this world. We are the creation becoming aware of itself and we all have special gifts that need to be developed and nurtured to add to the glory of this creation.
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JayMonaco
11:01 AM on 01/26/2011
Honestly, I am called to be the next dictator.
ladyearth
Give birth to your dancing star
09:54 AM on 01/26/2011
No matter what jobs I have held in my life, I have felt the calling to allow the awareness of the presence of God.
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w84it
08:52 AM on 01/26/2011
Chris, you are an atheist and I believe you have a "calling" to bridge the gap between the religious and non-religious.

To me, a "calling" is another way of asking "what was I meant to do with this life?" or "what would I like to do with my life right now?" Some people search for it and find it. Some people think they will never find it. Some people will discover it was right before them all the time.


Nobody can ever tell us what our calling or vocation is. It's something we have to discover for ourselves.