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Friday Talking Points -- "Mommy Wars" Versus "War on Women"

Posted: 04/13/2012 9:43 pm

First, a happy Friday the Thirteenth to everyone.

The biggest political news this week was that Rick Santorum quit his increasingly-desperate attempt to win the Republican presidential nomination, and will soon (through clenched teeth, no doubt) be endorsing Mitt Romney as his party's standard-bearer, in the hopes of becoming the "Next Guy In Line" in 2016. Republicans almost always nominate the NGIL, so it's understandable that Rick quit before he faced the embarrassment of Pennsylvania voters rejecting him once again. Go out on a high note, instead of in disgrace -- a good tactic in politics.

Republican Allen West appears to be channeling the spirit of Joe McCarthy, stating that over 75 Democrats in the House are card-carrying "members of the Communist Party." Boy, that really takes you back, doesn't it? Nothing like some good, old-fashioned Red-baiting to get the juices flowing on the Right, eh? The problem is, these days, we're buddies with Red China (our economy would collapse without them, so who really did win the Cold War, one wonders...), we trade with the folks who beat us in Vietnam, and (other than Cuba) we have no problem with cozying up to Godless Commies around the globe. It's not exactly Dr. Strangelove times, in other words. West's comments got a hearty laugh all around (even from the Communist Party USA itself), and were quickly forgotten in a haze of Joe McCarthy and House Un-American Activities Committee jokes.

The big political distraction at the end of the week was a reopening of what used to be called the "Mommy Wars," by Democratic insider Hilary Rosen. This came about largely because the political chattering class was bored, now that their GOP nomination horserace is all-but-officially over, and they needed a new toy to blow up with metaphorical firecrackers. Of course, they leapt at the chance to do so with all the fervor of a nine-year-old with a pocketful of Black Cats and his sister's Barbie doll, heading into the woods for some pyromaniacal fun.

Now, this tempest in a teapot has many facets, most of which have been explored in great detail by others. I, for instance, am going to refrain from commenting on the Mommy War aspect itself, since I am not now (nor, in true HUAAC fashion, have I ever been) a Mommy. The entire question of staying at home to raise children versus having a career is one that I am not competent to weigh in on (if you're looking for this core discussion, please see: the entire rest of the blogosphere). But, having said that, as much as we'd love to ignore the entire subject, we're going to use it as a case study in today's Talking Points section, as an example of how a talking point can go horribly wrong.

 

Most Impressive Democrat of the Week

Both President Obama and Vice President Biden have been doing a great job in the past few days of giving rousing speeches on their economic agenda, even if not many people are paying attention at the time. Being incumbents this time around, Mitt Romney will have one advantage over the White House team, and that is he's been honing his campaign skills for a very brutal primary season which has taken up most of the last year. Obama, on the other hand, hasn't had a primary challenger to fend off, so it is good to see that he's also getting some practice rounds in on the stump. The "Buffett Rule" is not going to pass the Senate next week, but it will be a major issue in the campaign, so these early speeches may held the Obama team sharpen their message.

Hillary Clinton was impressive last week, and showed all other politicians (of either sex or party) how this whole "charisma" thing is done. These two guys started a spoof site about Hillary, it took off online, and so Clinton's staff just called the two guys up and invited them to meet her in person. Hillary even played around with putting out a real/fake message in the site's style.

Now that is class. That is also incredible political savviness. For such, Clinton is awarded an Honorable Mention this week.

In fact, in a normal week, this probably would have been enough for Hillary to pick up the coveted Most Impressive Democrat Of The Week award. But this was an extraordinary week for a few Democratic politicians.

Vermont Governor Peter Shumlin was chased by four bears around his own backyard, and emerged unscathed (Shumlin was reportedly attempting to defend his bird feeders). That's either pretty impressive or pretty reckless, depending on how the average person would see it. Or depending on the "av-er-age bear," to quote Yogi.

OK, we just couldn't resist that one, and we apologize to all concerned, especially all bears. Ahem. We'll just hand Shumlin his own Honorable Mention and move along.

But this week's real MIDOTW winner is none other than the mayor of Newark, New Jersey, who heroically ran into a burning building and saved a woman's life. That is not a misprint or any sort of joke -- Cory Booker ran into the flames and hauled a woman out of a building who likely would not have made it out on her own.

There are only two things worth saying about this story, because the story simply speaks for itself. The first is to point out once again, as I have always maintained, that true heroes never call themselves such, and deny being such afterwards. Instead, he said "I did what any neighbor would do -- help a neighbor." One of the hallmarks of being a hero is always to deny it.

The second thing worth pointing out is the truly defining point of heroism, though. Booker selflessly ran towards danger to save another. That is heroism, plain and simple. He pushed aside a security detail "who tried to hold him back by his belt." Heroes don't stand around wondering what to do, or why anyone else isn't doing something. Heroes act.

Cory Booker is, without any dissention, the Most Impressive Democrat Of The Week. And a hero, to boot.

(Congratulate Mayor Cory Booker on his official Newark contact page, to let him know you appreciate his efforts.)

 

Most Disappointing Democrat of the Week

This one is pretty easy, this week. Democratic operative Hilary Rosen is, quite obviously, our Most Disappointing Democrat Of The Week this week.

The entire Talking Points section contains our full explanation of why we feel this way. It boils down to a simple fact: Rosen is supposed to be a professional at political/media communications. She's supposed to be an expert at this stuff. She gets paid money to do this for a living. She's not even some hapless politicians caught on a live microphone in an embarassing gaffe -- she's supposed to be the one training politicians not to make on-air gaffes.

In other words, she has no one to blame for choosing the wrong phrase to make a larger point but herself. For that alone -- not even for what she said -- Hilary Rosen is our Most Disappointing Democrat Of The Week award-winner.

(Contact Hilary Rosen via her company's contact page, to let them know what you think of her actions.)

 

Friday Talking Points

Volume 206 (4/13/12)

Once again, we find ourselves distracted here from larger political issues. I wrote, earlier in the week, a column which went on offense rather than defense, on how Democrats from Obama on down should start using the phrase "Reagan Rule" instead of "Buffett Rule," but it was immediately lost in the uproar. So if you're looking for a more talking-point-ey column, I'd advise reading that one instead. Because we're going to play defense here, today.

The remarks which put Democrats on the defensive were uttered by Hilary Rosen, on Anderson Cooper's political show on CNN. Here is the entire quote, when asked about why the Romney camp shouldn't be reaching out to women on economic issues:

Well, first, can we just get rid of this word war on women. The Obama campaign does not use it. President Obama does not use it. This is something that the Republicans are accusing people of using, but they're actually the one spreading it.

With respect to economic issues, I think actually that Mitt Romney is right, that ultimately women care more about the economic well-being of their families and the like. But there's -- but he doesn't connect on that issue either.

What you have is Mitt Romney running around the country saying, well, you know, my wife tells me that what women really care about are economic issues. And when I listen to my wife, that's what I'm hearing.

Guess what, his wife has actually never worked a day in her life. She's never really dealt with the kinds of economic issues that a majority of the women in this country are facing in terms of how do we feed our kids, how do we send them to school and how do we -- why do we worry about their future?

So I think it's -- yes, it's about these positions and, yes, I think there will be a war of words about the positions, but there's something much more fundamental about Mitt Romney. He seems so old- fashioned when it comes to women.

And I think that comes across and I think that that's going to hurt him over the long term. He just doesn't really see us as equal.

This was immediately truncated to the soundbite: "[Mitt Romney's] wife has actually never worked a day in her life." Her larger point was completely lost, at least to the chattering class in Washington, to focus solely on Rosen's "attack" on Ann Romney.

But, as I said, we're going to leave most of that sort of thing to others to discuss -- where on the sliding scale of "Momminess" this sort of opinion should be pegged.

Instead, I would like to go off on three separate tangents: the politics of Rosen's comment, the victimhood "card" and whether Ann Romney is politically "fair game" or not.

The politics were disastrous for the Democrats. The White House team, and Obama himself, quickly disavowed any support for Rosen's comments. Snarkmeister Jason Linkins wrote the funniest line of the week on Huffington Post, summing up this quick damage-control:

Washington, D.C.-area commuters are advised that all buses have been re-routed today to drive over Hilary Rosen, by order of the Democratic National Committee, so expect service delays.

Heh. But even with all the loud disavowals, Democrats may have been hurt politically by this kerfluffle. Up until this point, the "War on Women" charge was resonating very effectively throughout the electorate. The only counter to it that Mitt Romney had managed to come up with were some very misleading statistics which weren't exactly doing him much good. Now, however, Mitt can stand up for Moms across America, and champion the conservative feminist backlash position of "stay-at-home Moms." It was like a gift from Heaven for Romney, and you can bet he will exploit it for all its worth.

The most interesting thing to watch in the debate was the speed of both election teams in jumping all over the issue. Ann Romney was on Fox News so fast it made your head spin. Barack Obama himself weighed in on the issue before the news cycle was half over. In other words, both campaigns are already well in gear for the general election. This sort of dueling-statements thing will happen on many other distracting non-stories over the course of the campaign, and both sides can feel good about the fact that nobody on either side seems to be letting the grass grow under their feet -- both candidates' teams seem fully up to speed.

The ironic thing for Democrats is that Republicans have, by now, perfected a tactic which used to be the sole purview of Democrats: playing the "victim" card. The politics of victimhood goes back (on the Democratic side) to the 1970s and 1980s (some might even argue the 1960s), and it used to confound Republicans no end, because they just didn't have any sort of effective response that didn't somehow come off coldhearted and mean. Long about the 1990s or 2000s, Republicans finally figured out how to turn the victimhood charge back on Democrats and manufacture their own faux outrage. Here's a quick example: "Democrats are unfairly playing the 'race card,' why are they discriminating against me in such a racist fashion?"

So now we find ourselves in the showdown: "Mommy Wars" versus the "War on Women." Which phrase will resonate more politically is anyone's guess at this point. I'm betting on the War on Women, since it has more factual legislative ideology (concrete laws Republicans are attempting to pass) behind the slogan (such as the war on Planned Parenthood, just to name one). The Mommy Wars springboarded off a comment by one Democrat who isn't part of any campaign, and who was repudiated by most other Democrats immediately, which doesn't seem like it'd have any staying power, but in today's political world, who really knows?

Now, a word here about the predicament Hilary Rosen finds herself in. While it's hard not to sympathize with anyone who is caught up in the "Gotcha!" game the media plays of ignoring your main point in favor of obsessing over one phrase you used, at the same time it is also hard to extend such sympathy to such a political/media insider. Rosen makes money advising politicians on communications skills -- in her own online bio, she calls herself: "A nationally recognized strategist who skillfully navigates the intersection of communications, media and politics in Washington DC." CNN lists her as a "CNN Contributor," which I assume means she also makes money by being an on-air Democratic strategist. To put it another way, she's supposed to be a professional at opinionating on national television. The problem with this job is that you have to also be interesting and entertaining at political commentary, or else you don't get asked back very often. Which can lead to saying things you might regret later, when removed from any context.

I'm certainly no on-air expert myself. If I regularly appeared on television spouting political opinions, there is a near-certain chance that eventually I would say something really stupid which would come back to haunt me. I can state this certainty would likely approach 100 percent, the more I was on television. I'm a writer, and used to going back and editing (most) stupid things out of what I write. Unedited -- and most likely in search of a cheap laugh -- I would doubtlessly screw up sooner or later. So it's hard for me to moralize too much about others' lapses, knowing this sort of thing.

Rosen did have a good point to make, and when you edit out the one line everyone's focusing on, she did a reasonably good job of making that point: being married to Mitt Romney and raising five children is a lot different than many women's experiences. It was another way to paint the Romneys as horrendously out of touch with the average middle-class American. But the point was lost in the fracas (even though Rosen did try to steer the conversation back to it, right before she offered up an apology for her original gaffe), and now it'll be hard to make any sort of similar point in the future -- at least about Ann Romney -- because the Rosen quote will always be brought up by the other side.

Which brings me to my final point: is Ann Romney a valid target for political commentary? President Obama and his First Lady unequivocally said "No," but then you'd expect them to. As far as they're concerned, spouses and children of politicians are always off-limits.

But are they? Or should they be?

My own feeling is that wives, husbands, children and other extended family members make this choice themselves. Family members are campaign props -- this is just a fact of American political life. Family members are going to appear on stage with their candidate. But even this doesn't make them "fair game," politically. To put it another way: Sarah Palin was right to complain about attacks on her children and husband, even though she dragged them on stage as often as she could manage. Todd Palin, or even Bristol, never became political spokesfolks until after the 2008 election, at least that I recall. Making them off-limits, politically, right up to that point.

But after the election, Bristol Palin astonishingly started taking money to be a spokesperson for abstinence, because there was some group out there willing to pay her to be a "bad example," and she was willing to tell her story and make lots of money doing so. This immediately made her a valid political target on the entire sex/sexual hypocrisy issue.

Amy Carter, likewise, became fair game to go after when she started getting herself arrested to protest apartheid.

This isn't a perfect yardstick. There are grey areas, I should mention. Right now, Mitt Romney's sons fall into this grey area, and so I have to give them the benefit of the doubt and declare them off-limits. Mitt's sons have indeed acted as official campaign spokespeople (such as traveling to U.S. island territories in an effort to whip up primary votes), but mostly off the national stage, as surrogates for Mitt. To me, this walks up to the line of being a "public political figure" in your own right, but doesn't actually cross it.

Ann Romney, however, I would call "fair game." At least for the past month or so. Up until this point, she was not a valid political target, however, as she had limited herself to mostly appearing on stage in front of crowds, and occasionally introducing her husband in the adoring language that only a spouse can truly get away with. Again, to me, this walks up to the line, but doesn't actually cross it into "fair game" territory.

But once Mitt realized he had two big problems, Ann began taking on a bigger role. Mitt's problem is he is not so good at the whole "human being" thing (which most political people call "charisma"). He's not the guy most voters would pick to "have a beer with," to put it another way. Then, a few weeks ago, the Republican anti-women's-rights campaign became a major issue and -- coincidentally -- his poll numbers among women voters went over a cliff. So Mitt had a problem connecting to average voters, and an even bigger problem connecting to women voters.

This is where the Romney campaign sought to re-define Ann. She became Mitt's go-to "consultant" on women's matters, and she started giving her own speeches. Putting Ann in the spotlight, the campaign figured, would "humanize" Mitt.

But what it also did was make it entirely fair and reasonable for Mitt's opponents to bring Ann into the political conversation. She is now (or was, three days ago) "fair game."

To the Democrats' dismay, however, the first person to take on Ann's new persona happened to be Hilary Rosen. And her effort backfired in an enormous way. The Right began howling that Rosen was attacking "stay-at-home-Moms" and conservatives' beliefs that choosing motherhood over a career is a valid (indeed, "the correct," to listen to them) lifestyle choice for any American woman to make. Rosen's point about how Ann Romney had the luxury of making this choice, knowing that her family would not suffer financially as a result, was entirely lost.

What else is likely lost is the chance to ever contradict Ann Romney in any way for the entire rest of the campaign. Barack Obama immediately jumped into the fray (which was the right thing to do -- get your response out as fast as possible) and declared Ann Romney and the Romney boys off-limits for Democrats. Period.

This will free the Romney campaign up to deploy Ann in whatever fashion they choose, full in the knowledge that she will be completely immune to any official contradiction from the Obama campaign whatsoever. That is a very large price to pay, when the general election campaign is less than a week old.

I think Ann Romney isn't going to get all that much traction out of keeping the pressure up on the "Mommy War" front. I think that women who see things through this lens are already likely going to be voting for Mitt this year. Independents will either ignore the whole fray, listen to what both sides are actually saying, or seriously compare the life Ann Romney has led with their own (and draw their own conclusions). So I really don't think this is all that big a weapon in the larger "War on Women" theme which is going to run throughout this entire campaign. I could be wrong about all of that, but that's how I feel at the moment.

The Obamas decided to take the moral high road and declare wives and children off-limits. This may pay off for them later, because they will be able to call on Mitt Romney to denounce any attacks leveled at Michelle Obama. First Ladies can indeed be political targets, but usually this is restricted to their chosen issues -- and Michelle trying to keep kids healthy and fighting hard for military veterans doesn't really present many opportunities. But Barack can cut off any such talk before it has a chance to spread, thanks to his reaction to this controversy.

But what this means is that both Michelle Obama and Ann Romney may enjoy a certain immunity for the rest of this election cycle. Whether this was worth it or not remains to be seen.

 

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nypoet22
Psychology Ph.D., Civics Teacher, Songwriter
04:29 PM on 04/17/2012
as i said over at www.chrisweigant.com - rosen's mistake wasn't that she went after ann romney, it's that she tried to walk back her comments instead of doubling down. the romneys have no business speaking for homemakers either.
07:01 AM on 04/16/2012
There is no MOMMY WAR! End of story. There was a comment made that Mittsy Romney should talk with someone other than his rich wife, if he wants to know the concerns of American women. Hillary Rosen stated a fact...Ann Romney has never "worked" a day in her life. I suppose people like the Romney's might consider telling the nanny what she needed to do with the children on any given day, telling the maid to clean the guest room, or the cook what to prepare for dinner....but those aren't things the majority of women in this country consider "work".

No one really cares if Ann Romney chose to stay home (which I understand she really didn't do very often) and "raise" her children (which she didn't do either - that has been done by various nannies).. Good for her. It's too bad more women in America don't have that opportunity. Most would jump at the chance.

At last count, there have been ZERO bills proposed that would target someone like Ann Romney's right to make that choice. There have been 1100 proposed -all by Republicans - that would strip a woman's right to choose what she can or can't do with her own body. Do we need to say anything else?
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Gold Standard = four paws and a tail
05:16 AM on 04/15/2012
If I go to a company picnic and say my husband would be a great department head, does that make me fair game to the management of his company? Moreover, does it make my kids fair game if they say the same thing?

In corporate culture, obviously not. Except for the fact an employee has them, spouses and children are complete nonentities. If that weren't so, you couldn't get anyone to work for a company except those who didn't mind throwing their family down the word-chipper.

This is also one of the main reasons overall we have a very poor quality legislators. Anyone who runs has to have an iron ego for starters and it only goes downhill from there. People who truly care about their families, and whose spouse doesn't also have a burning desire for fame, simply don't run for office--any office.

I have a neighbor who is moderate, knowledgeable and a born mediator. He has been in a non-paid appointed position in the county for a decade, has done a superb job and would be a perfect county council candidate. He wouldn't run if you paid him a fortune because he would never subject his family to the kind of abuse they would have to take during a campaign and thereafter from political operatives of the opposite side just waiting to "get him."
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openmissoula
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12:23 AM on 04/15/2012
There were other ways that Ms. Rosen and Democrats could have made clear that GOP policies generally treat women as though they should work for compliments.
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sobaytransplant
Obama WINS - just as we knew he would.
12:01 AM on 04/15/2012
I have to agree that Jason Linkins DID in fact write the funniest line of the week with that one! I literally laughed out loud!
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08:07 PM on 04/15/2012
sobaytransplant -

Yeah, he almost always gets a laugh out of me with his columns, but this one was above even his normal high standard.

:-)

-CW
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flacpa
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09:29 PM on 04/14/2012
I can't take it anymore. OMG someone questioned Ann Romney's bona fides to talk about women's issues? Everyone is so outraged that she is questioned. Give me a break.

Who here remembers the attacks on that "angry black woman" Michelle Obama 4 years ago. Where was the Republican outrage with that code that basically called her the "N" word. You know it was OK to do because she would influence the President. So why is Ann ROmney off limits

And at this moment I am hearing an interview with one of Mitt's sons. Of course he defends his mom. As a good son should. He defends that his mother made the choice to be a stay at home mom. Fine but understand a couple of points

Most people today can't afford to make that choice or even have that choice. Next CHOICE. How dare they defend a woman's right to choice. We all know they don't truly trust women to make choices about health care or anything else. So CHOICE? That is the last thing the Republicans should fall back on. How dare they. Have they no decency.
08:14 PM on 04/14/2012
Three things about communism:
Man exists for the state - Obama sure wants everything to be "fair" and "share the wealth"; higher taxes for those who make over $250 k while the 46% who don't pay taxes are ok
The social order is important - DOJ taking sides with minorities, Obama calling out the Supreme court not once but twice
The individual has no rights that the system is bound to respect - Invidual mandate, religious rights, Fairness doctrine, 2nd amendment

Sorry but this is not 100%, but if Obama is elected again, I will sure nuff be able to add to the list.

As far as Obama speaking out against Ms Rosen; this was no take down of Rosen, this was telling the media to leave Michelle alone. Why? Because she will be campaigning and to add to your arguement, she is fair game. Obama knows this and he wants the press to back off. And beside the next day all the other Dem strategist took up the slack. And you forgot Chelsey and the continued hands off approach the bent to left media still has in place with her even though she campaigned for her mom; just in case you forgot about this.
jdwright62
Will the caterwauling never stop?
07:50 PM on 04/14/2012
1. Hillary Rosen is almost as big a nobody as I am, the GOP's "Mommy Wars" issue is already on life support, and it will expire shortly after the Sunday gabfests have bored everyone to death with it one last time.

2. The families of Presidents and presidential aspirants are off limits until that moment in time when someone decides they are not off limits and is able to create a feeding frenzy among the pundit class.

This is how the rule works in practice. Ann Romney has become a vital part of the campaign to explain that Mitt Romney is not actually like the guy that Mitt Romney really is. Because she may be the only thing that can stop Mitt from dying the death of a thousand self-inflicted cuts, she will be considered "off limits." Otherwise, it wouldn't be fair.

Michelle Obama will continue to be vilified endlessly by right wing media outlets for everything from the color and cut of her dress to the playlist on her Ipod. Therefore, the punditry will decide that, because people are writing such awful things about her she is not off limits because (to repeat) all of those nasty things are actually being said about her by someone. Otherwise, it wouldn't be fair.

I know what you are thinking, Chris: "Look, jd, there's absolutely no logic in anything you just said. It seems kind of like circular reasoning." My response: "Exactly, you're finally starting to get it."
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08:04 PM on 04/15/2012
jdwright62 -

No, actually what I was thinking (from your first point, onwards) was "this is hilarious, in a scary sort of way, because it is so true..."

:-)

Also, because I read this comment right after watching the Sunday gabfests kick it around once again.

Seriously, though, I would also cite as example how Michelle was treated in 2008, versus the hands-off stance the media took toward Cindy McCain. Cindy had all sorts of things in her past that the media completely ignored.

-CW
jdwright62
Will the caterwauling never stop?
08:55 PM on 04/15/2012
Glad you got something out of it. I actually had forgotten about the double standard in effect in 2008. Thanks for the reminder.
Mildmannered
"Be excellent to each other"
07:45 PM on 04/14/2012
Mitt Romney In 1994: 'Now Mom And Dad Both Have To Work Whether They Want To Or Not'

1994 --Obviously, it is all Obama's fault.
jdwright62
Will the caterwauling never stop?
07:37 PM on 04/14/2012
cw--

Where did whimsical Chris from last week go? Not that this week's entry is entirely grave, but it is sadly lacking a bit of the light-hearted and fanciful touch that was so in evidence last week. Perhaps it's me. I'm feeling a bit grumpy due to being ruthlessly lambasted on this very site by certain folks who are extremely disgruntled with me for declaring my lack of adoration for Eliot Spitzer.

Perhaps that bad taste in my mouth is still lingering, but I gotta say, I am getting really tired or the word "kerfluffle," okay? It's like I see it nine times a day or at least imagine that I do. Could we just put in on the bench for a while and replace it with something else that will eventually become annoying? And could we do the same for "boomlet," another one that I'm beginning to despise but perhaps it's been retired already and replaced by something equally Tom Brokawian, i.e., to be uttered with the trace of a smug superior smile on one's face, followed by a plug for "The Greatest Generation" and a healthy serving of contemptuous disdain for all of the contemporary have-nots. I know. I'm free associating here, but bear with me, I have a couple of points but I've exceed my 250 word allotment.
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07:59 PM on 04/14/2012
jdwright62 -

Aha! Now this is the kind of comment I can sink my metaphorical teeth into.

I too get frustrated with non-issues in the media, and hate it when it sucks me in as well. My posted goals as a commentator on my website state that I'm supposed to ignore the day-to-day idiocy and see the bigger picture, and I utterly failed to do so this week. But sometimes the heat and noise gets so frenzied that I feel like I'm hosed either way: ignore it, or rant about it.

Sigh.

As for "kerfluffle" -- really? We had a lively debate last week here about the less-common "hoop-te-do" which was informative and entertaining (I learned, I laughed...). I'll try to hit the thesaurus in future, as I didn't know kerfluffle was all that common. Thanks for pointing it out.

I don't believe I've ever used "boomlet" but could be mistaken about that.

Rant on, even in 250-word bites. Moderation seems a tad bit slow today, but I'll check back for future comments....

:-)

-CW
jdwright62
Will the caterwauling never stop?
12:42 PM on 04/15/2012
Right. I've never read "boomlet" in your columns. Personal rant. It was really big when the GOP was going through its "front runner of the week" contest. Everybody and his brother had a "boomlet."

I think I read that "kerfluffle" has had more currency in Great Britain in the past but it has now migrated across the pond and lodged itself in the American vocabulary. Maybe it's not the word itself as much as the fact that we just seem to have too darn many kerfluffles to distract us from, say, the pernicious effects of big money and Wall Street influence peddling on Congress and the democratic process.

As to my feelings about Tom Brokaw and "The Greatest Generation," whether you are interested or not, those are based on the my parents' and grandparents' struggles during that time in a part of rural West Virginia where the depression came and has never really left. I certainly admire and respect that generation, and in some ways I nostalgically wish I could have been part of it, but I am also far less inclined than Brokaw and others to discount the efforts and accomplishments of other generations of struggling "have nots." In short, I think Brokaw his personal feelings, and a somewhat overly romanticized view of that period, cloud his literary judgment.
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SmileAndActNice
Utilitarianism, the -ism that works.
07:11 PM on 04/14/2012
Chris,

One of the biggest dis-advantages the Romney campaign has is how out of touch they are with the common man.

How can it possibly be the least bit disappointing to have this highlighted, underlined, and clarified?

Do you have any idea how insulting it is for someone who has struggled to have a pretty-pretty princess make vapid claims that she *understands* what they are going through?

I'm an odd duck. I was raised in a wealth bubble but left it. At 16. My parents were going to send me on the debutante circuit and I wanted to study engineering. They refused to send me to college and their net worth made me ineligible for aid. They also wouldn't cosign loans. I had to divorce them.

I left with several of the assets they were using me as a tax shelter for and didn't know I'd found the account numbers to. Hey, it was legally mine and I had two more years of high school to get through plus college.

It took years of total immersion with completely burned bridges giving me no path of retreat to even begin to grasp how different my perceptions of the world were from everyone elses.

Anne Romney doesn't have a prayer of either "getting it" or convincing people that she 'gets it'. The more she flails around trying the worse it'll be for them.

Rosen just hit a PR goldmine for the DNC. THANK HER.
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12:17 PM on 04/15/2012
Oh no, didn't you hear? She's the "most disappointing Democrat of the week." The chattering class Has Spoken.
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07:57 PM on 04/15/2012
SmileAndActNice -

You may well be right. I was monstrously wrong about reading the contraceptive debate, and I could be just as massively wrong about this one, as well.

Your story is certainly an interesting one. I've long believed that people that grow up in "a wealth bubble" have no concept of how the 99% live, or what their struggles are like. They grow up in the tony neighborhoods, they go to prep schools and Ivy League colleges, and they simply never meet people (for the most part) whose circumstances differ greatly from their own. This leads to an extremely warped worldview, at times.

Ann Romney (and her husband) certainly sound like they fit this mold. The Democrats' smartest tool to use against them in the campaign is the "out of touch" label.

Rosen's comments were trying to point this out. The distraction that followed certainly was amusing for the political consultants and chattering class, but (like the contraceptive debate) the greater lasting effect may be that people start to look at both Romneys as even more out of touch. It's not that Ann stayed home, it's the servants in that home (to put it another way). This underlying impression could, as you suggest, feed into the whole "out of touch" picture, and wind up helping Dems among women voters.

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DoTheMath
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05:42 PM on 04/14/2012
If you look at Rosen's whole statement, the one over-quoted sentence barely fits its own context. Rosen is pointing out how absurd it is for Mitt Romney to act like his wife is an expert on women's economic concerns since Ann Romney clearly does not share our economic concerns.

She's not talking about whether Romney works outside the home or not. She's talking about whether Romney is -- or ever has been -- concerned about making ends meet.

Instead of bashing Rosen for including that one sentence, why aren't we spreading the spotlight on that sentence just a little bit wider to draw attention to the point Rosen was really making?

Women are concerned about the economy, but the fact that Ann Romney is a woman does not mean she "feels our pain." Mitt's effort to convince us that he understands women's economic concerns because his wife has briefed him on the issue just proves how clueless he is about women and about all of us who struggle to make ends meet.
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09:17 PM on 04/14/2012
I don't know where to start. You make so many excellent points.

Let me start by saying I am a man, I have a terriffic wife and the best teenage daughter, even if that part may be an oxymoron.
I can see and understand the struggles of a working mom, single or otherwise as well as those of a single dad, working or otherwise. I don't need my wife to brief me on it. I see it, empathize and I also know my wife knows my struggles as we both try to support our family and provide the best future for our child.

So Mitt why does Ann have to explain it to you? Isn't understanding peoples struggles part of being..oh I don't what to call it..ummmmmm oh yes..a person. And if you need briefings on this you certainly don't posess the compassion and humanity to be President or any other public office
DoTheMath
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09:18 PM on 04/15/2012
Thank you, well put. Congrats on your lovely family. You're right; we deserve human leaders -- people who understand and care about our concerns and how government policies affect us.

"Conservatives" would probably counter with some catch phrases, like "unsustainable entitlements" and "bleeding heart liberals," but I'm not making a point now about what the policies should be. I'm just saying, like you did, that the people who make decisions that affect our lives should be aware of our struggles and how their policies affect us.
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06:30 PM on 04/15/2012
DoTheMath -

That's exactly why I included the entire transcript of what Rosen said. Too many others were taking one remark completely out of context. I try to always provide full transcripts in these cases rather than just the soundbite, because so often the larger point gets ignored (see snarky comments at beginning about a 9-yr old with Black Cats in his pocket).

-CW
DoTheMath
We're outspent, but they're outnumbered
08:06 PM on 04/15/2012
Thank you for including the context and responding to comments. If more journalists were as conscientious as you, we'd be better informed and, therefore, better off in general.
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05:32 PM on 04/14/2012
Nothing backfired. the howls of paid talking heads are meaningless.

What matters is the reaction on the street.

And Rosen's words resonate powerfully with normal people. People who hear the distoreted version and then read what she actually said go, "Oh. Well, shes right".

The Romney campaign put Ann in a position where it is the RESPONSIBILITY OF JOURNALISTS TO VET HER.

Wanting to know what qualifies her to speak for women's economic concerns is the basic duty of the fourth estate. It is what journalists should be doing. Failing to point out that its very hard to be an expert in the economy when you've never participating in it is the only thing any pundit has to be ashamed of.
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04:01 PM on 04/14/2012
I'm not a "mommy" because I'm a guy. But what about those moms that are "mommies" as well as "daddies"? And what of those "mommies that have jobs as well as being "mommies". And what of the "mommies" that don't have nannies, cooks and maids, to help them "mommy"?
I 'm not here to "judge" Mrs. Romney and her "way" of "mommying", but I am hard pressed to compare "her mommying" to the "average mom's mommying"!!!
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03:48 PM on 04/14/2012
Many points to ponder, although I mostly agree with you I hope the Reagan / Buffet rule takes fire in Congress. The War On Women by the righties is real while the Mommy Wars is another talking point they've latched onto in order to avoid the REAL issues.