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Inspiration From Generation-Y

Posted: 08/08/10 12:10 PM ET

At the end of a recent interview I did for an article on Gen Y, the twentysomethings of today, the reporter said to me, "Out of all the people I interviewed, you are the only one who had anything positive to say about this generation." That comment inspired this post. Today's twentysomethings are often labeled as entitled, immature, needing constant validation, self-absorbed, lacking a work ethic and respect for authority. While there is some truth to those stereotypes, too much focus in being put on what's wrong with Gen Y rather than leveraging what is so great about this global generation who are evolving far beyond their labels.

At 33 I am on the cusp of being a Gen Y but fit more into the category and shared characteristics of Gen X. However in my work as an author, life coach/counselor and speaker primarily dedicated to supporting people during their twentysomething decade, I see that there is a lot more to Gen Y than they often get credit for. It's time to highlight the positives that this generation brings to our society. Hopefully these insights may change your perception of your Gen Y employee, child or colleague. And give twentysomethings encouragement to disprove some of your less desirable stereotypes.

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Gen Xers and boomers often get frustrated that Gen Yers want to actually like the work they do. Older generations can be a little sour about the fact that they had to climb the corporate ladder without any sprinkle of passion. You can often find bitter boomers lecturing about how they had to pay their dues. As more opportunities and types of businesses have come of age, so has the mentality of the young workforce. They see the unhappiness of their parents and/or superiors and are choosing a different route. It's not that they are unwilling to pay their dues; they are just unwilling to pay them at a place that is not worth the investment.

Rather than being annoyed by Gen Y's thirst for passion, managers and recruiters should learn to quench it. If you can learn and find ways to incorporate their passion into their job, you will be impressed with their performance. Better yet, if you can find a Gen Yer who is passionate about what you are passionate about, you've got gold. Keep in mind that Gen Yers can be a bit noncommittal; changing what they are passionate about as frequently as they change their Facebook profile picture, so it's incumbent on older generations to keep them engaged. Now you might say, "Why is it my job to keep them engaged? I have enough work to do!" Consider that by working to engage them, you too will become more passionate about your work. Let's face it, the old way of doing the same job the same way day after day is on its way to extinction. Reinvention and innovation are where we are headed. Gen Y knows this and are discovering ways to get there.
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Gen Y is a unique generation with the same naivety and self-focus that is typical of the first decade in adult life. The characteristics that often give them a bad reputation, especially in context of work, are not necessarily their fault. Generally, they were over-parented, over-praised and overstimulated. They are doing the best they can given where they have come from. And now they are entering a grownup world created by preceding generations that is not so inviting. In a decade or two this is all going to fall on their shoulders, so why not celebrate and encourage what makes them unique, and quite possibly the ones who are going to change things for the better.

 
 
 

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At the end of a recent interview I did for an article on Gen Y, the twentysomethings of today, the reporter said to me, "Out of all the people I interviewed, you are the only one who had anything posi...
At the end of a recent interview I did for an article on Gen Y, the twentysomethings of today, the reporter said to me, "Out of all the people I interviewed, you are the only one who had anything posi...
 
 
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Courtenay Jones
01:32 AM on 09/02/2010
numbers 6 & 7 are RUBBISH...i don't really like how self-absorbed our generation is. kinda takes away from the open-mindedness when one starts thinking the world revolves around numero uno.
12:08 AM on 08/11/2010
I hate labels....I really do....
Sloane rangers, Hipsters, Generation lost, generation y, emos, punks, hippies, baby boomers...........Why is it that anyone and everyone needs to be stereotyped based on their behavior or dressing or the year they were born ?

You say generation Y are the curious, wanting to get free types....Well who in their 20 isn't ?
The counterculture generation with their free love slogans and joint smoking anti war ideals were in the 60s,the suited money obsessed yuppie kids also had their own worldly ideals in the 80s.

It is more to do with genetics and the way of life than blatant stereotypes-When you are young you are prone to take risks, as you grow old and realize that life is tougher than expected you settle down................My blabbering is not for this article which is pretty well put but its a gross stereotype none the less.......I have seen generation Y'ers who hate technology and embrace the wilderness and live in the 50s and 60s inside their heads.
I am 24 but I do not wish to be a part of any "generation" or subculture-Let me be who I am as an Individual and not let society and trends govern me
12:40 AM on 08/11/2010
How many times can I say that I agree with you. A 19 year old member of "Gen Y" who probably fits the stereotype of a "Gen Xer" more than anything.
02:00 PM on 08/10/2010
I will try not to repeat much of what has been said in response to this article. I just have to say, as a "Gen Yer", that I don't appreciate this sort of focus on generalizations and stereotypes, whether positive or negative. Give us a chance and treat us like adults rather than assuming that we were coddled and still need to be. Not all of us were given much attention or praise or much of anything by adults. Many of us haven't had the privilege to travel outside of the country, let alone international backpacking. They are generalizations and stereotypes, but it would be better if I went to a job interview without the interviewer having some preconceived notion of who I am based on my age. I would show the same respect to you even if you do mention bad music that I have never heard of before.
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HerrMonk
Fighter, Trainer, Nat.Sec.Consultant, Libertine
07:10 PM on 08/09/2010
Why do we need to be defended?

I think a lot of the criticism is right on. I went to a top-tier private college (feel free to take shots at me for saying it), and half the kids in my graduating class four years later are still "playing" college (and not in the good way, like working on their PhD, in the living in a nasty apartment with four other sloppy kids, asking their parents for money and smoking pot all day/drinking all night kind of way).

I think part of our problem is that the baby-boomers (our parents) were so (relatively) affluent, and in general kept their work at the office (even if they traveled a lot) that there's a generation of kids used to a six-figure standard of living, with no concept of what it takes to make that kind of money. Instead, we'd rather just invent the next facebook.
07:52 AM on 08/10/2010
First of all, I want to thank the author for this post because it caught the essence of my generation that people seem to ignore. I was employed by bitter Boomers who constantly told me to not try so hard. They did not like my ambition or optimism in the workplace. It became for me.

In response to HerrMonk: Clearly, the Gen-Yers you discuss are the normal bunch of wealthy brats that happen in any generation. My friends and I were mostly lower middle class (our parents earned way less than six-figures) which means all or most of our student loans went on our backs. Most of us worked through school and had to make sacrifices to work unpaid internships. This posting definitely describes us. Maybe the lazy people who you describe are the ones who get the amazing jobs and employers complain about. Maybe employers should give chances to real Gen-Y workers instead of someone who parents have connections.
12:56 AM on 08/11/2010
I think it's a relatively narrow group of people you're speaking of. Personally (I'm 19), my parents were Gen Xers (mom's 41), and never had a lot of money until within the last three years or so (Still, only my stepfather brings in 6 figures, and barely at that.). My parents were divorced (cue the stereotypical Gen X "latchkey kid" description), and I spent much time growing up with my grandparents because my mom/stepfather were often at work. Perhaps this is due to having grown up in the south, but things were still quite "old fashioned": they still paddle in schools (though I still got tagged and drugged for ADHD) and the belt is normal at home, riding bikes and in the back of pickup trucks was the norm, as was playing outside for hours a day, I didn't have consistent internet/computer access at home until I was 15 (though the playstation(2) were constant companions, as I didn't have cable TV in the room), I worked hard outside and had many chores (I'm told by bosses I have an excellent work ethic.); I certainly wouldn't consider my sister or I as having been coddled (though my half-sister, at 11, has had a much different experience; things seem to be changing).

Personally, I attend a state school on academic scholarship and, if this miserable economy permits, will hold a job while doing so, as I hate asking my parents for money.
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02:22 PM on 08/09/2010
Thoughtful posts. Those of us who didn't have a label for our generation also were not inundated with the constant influx of negativity. When I was in my twenties and thirties there was no internet, there were a handful of crappy gossip magazines out there, but not like there is today. They're stuffed in our faces at the market check-out, the second we go to check an article or the news on line, etc. Negative, stupid, pointless article, headline after headline after headline. I'm sick of it! I kept cable out of my house when I raised my children, kept negative sexual stereo typing magazines out of my house. But now..kids, people, the masses of the Western World see it everywhere they go! I blame media number 1 on this, and number 2, I blame those that support it financially. Without a market, it would hopefully just fade away, sending a message, that we're better than this and we want better than this. Maybe they'd stop selling it, if we stop buying it.
12:11 PM on 08/09/2010
educational institutions have miserably failed the US students. Only the foreign students on Visas get a real education, colleges are too busy turning kids who can vote into 'activists'. There is no time for learning when you're having 'meetups', parties etc
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HerrMonk
Fighter, Trainer, Nat.Sec.Consultant, Libertine
07:04 PM on 08/09/2010
It's true: undergrad has become to new high-school + lots more partying and drugs.
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Courtenay Jones
01:41 AM on 09/02/2010
thats a silly premise. what is wrong with turning people into activists? there is much to protest for right now.

silly silly silly. but even if there wasn't colleges don't fail us in that way/arent trying to turn everyone into activists.
11:30 AM on 08/09/2010
I am 29 and on 10/10/10 I will be turning 30. I have to state that through my 20’s I found myself still absorbing the world and at the same time trying to figure out who I was and who I would spend my life striving to be. With all of the daily challenges of life at that age at times it feels hard to find your comfort zone. Since I was 15 I have been filling up notebooks with product ideas. So my time was spent striving to bring my product ideas to the marketplace (now at 136). As I leave my 20’s I am now the Creator & Leader of The LONG LIVE ALL PEOPLE!™ Movement. If more 20 year olds spent their time trying to make our world a greater place the world would be a greater place. I believe the media outlets and government have to give 20 something’s some-thing to do. A positive engaged activity list that will keep young people occupied and improving.


LONG LIVE ALL PEOPLE! â„¢
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Red45
We can turn the tide
02:52 PM on 08/09/2010
Very thoughtful post. Most of us go through these things almost the same way you did but your ability to stay focused on making the world a greater place instead of getting self-absorbed is admirable. Keep up the good work, Marc. You're on a positive, productive track and I'm sure you'll be successful at whatever you do.
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08:54 AM on 08/09/2010
OK, so my daughter is now 13. What generation is she?
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09:29 AM on 08/09/2010
Answered my own question: New Boomer or Millenial.
08:28 AM on 08/09/2010
Can't wait till more stuff on my igeneration, mostly in our childhood and teens, starts coming out...
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Courtenay Jones
01:45 AM on 09/02/2010
lol...
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hoocheekoo
07:17 AM on 08/09/2010
Everyone should have a passion to fulfill their dreams and meet their purpose. However, we sometimes have to take on some things we don't want to in order to get there. What's important is that we support one another in the pursuit of those dreams, particularly young people. I'm a Boomer and odds were against me getting a college education growing up. But I worked two jobs that were offered by people who saw my passion for an education and I achieved my goal. I couldn't have done it without them. I love Generation Y when I'm around them. I see their greatest strength as their insight and they should be listened to more. I also see them as a generation interested in some of the same issues we were as youngsters so I think they can be Boomer Buddies if we enlist them. They care about the environment, they're anti-war, they're compassionate and caring people who will give when asked. I see a lot to like and I'm hopeful. I'm still a little puzzled by Generation X and the contribution they're making but that could be more my problem. I like to think every generation brings something to the table.
06:17 AM on 08/09/2010
Generation X will suffer as will Y due to the recent economic collapse. Fortunately Gen X has already started their 401ks and will have SSI when all is said and done. Gen-Yers will have to work hard and not get the six figure jobs their degrees dictate, they will know what it was like for the "Greatest Generation" as they will work harder than ever before and hopefully be able to persevere. This is the worst economic situation since the depression and I hope for my son who will be in the Gen Z category that he will have the opportunity that baby boomers/my parents/his grandparents had.
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Miss Ann Thrope
Left or right-wing, it's all the same bird
08:36 AM on 08/09/2010
I'm a Gen-Xer and I must say I am not nearly as optimistic that my RRSPs and CPP (the Canadian equivalents to 401ks and SSI) will be around when I'm 65. Just because I've put my hard-earned money into them, doesn't mean they will be worth anything, especially if the dollar collapses.
06:40 AM on 08/10/2010
GenX is getting screwed just like everyone who is not a boomer. GenX will not get SS and neither will anyone who comes after the almighty boomers. They'll come up with a different way, but it won't be a 401k.
06:01 AM on 08/09/2010
hey, why does this comment keep not getting posted?

ok, let me try again

(its hard when i dont know what i'm saying that keeps getting me comment from being allowed to be seen)

is there a glitch in the system, perhaps?

its a fair statement that i'm making

ok, let me try yet again...

nothing personal

but gen x is waaay cooler than gen y

(although, having said that, the black chick in "they are just cool to be around" is super beautiful !
07:01 AM on 08/09/2010
I hope your proud of yourself.
07:50 AM on 08/09/2010
well, i am pretty awesome

so... yeah
08:57 AM on 08/09/2010
Lol it got posted a million times! Whenever you post a comment just wait a while, it doesn't always show immediately
05:39 AM on 08/09/2010
hey, why does this comment keep not getting posted?

is there a glitch in the system?

its a fair statement.

ok, let me try again...

nothing personal

but gen x is waaay cooler than gen y

(although, having said that, the black chick in "they are just cool to be around" is super beautiful !
05:37 AM on 08/09/2010
nothing personal...

but gen x is waaay cooler than gen y

(although, having said that, the black chick in "they are just cool to be around" is super beautiful !
05:36 AM on 08/09/2010
nothing personal....

but gen x is waaay cooler than gen y

(although, having said that, the black chick in "they are just cool to be around" is super hot !