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Unmarried Women: This Election's Holy Grail

Posted: 11/04/07 09:33 PM ET

During the run-up to the 2004 election, I traveled around the country in support of John Kerry. Day after day on the road, I was blown away by the unbelievable women I met. From Hollywood to Hoboken, I saw first hand that this country is made-up of amazing women who do their best to make their lives and the lives of those around them better. These women care deeply about health care, the War, national security, education and the environment, and they have the potential to bring these issues to the forefront of political debate.

Yet, in the last presidential election, 20 million eligible unmarried women did not vote, making unmarried women the largest group of non-voters in the country. For whatever reason (and there are many) they have opted out of the electoral process. In part I think this is because they do not feel that those running for office are communicating with them. In part it is because these women do not realize the power they have to communicate with those seeking higher office by voting in large numbers. If they use their voices they will have a profound effect on who becomes the next resident of this country.

The truth is these 20 million women have become the Holy Grail for both parties. For the first time in history, the majority of US households are headed by someone who is not married and a whopping 24% of the US population is unmarried women. The face of our nation is truly changing.

Everyone is talking to them now. But are they listening?

Women's Voices. Women Vote has been listening to these women and finding innovative ways to motivate them since 2000 when they began trying to understand why so many single women weren't voting. This year I took part in their new voter mobilization PSA campaign called "20 Million Reasons".

Today we are one year, almost to the day, away from the '08 presidential election and Women's Voices Women Vote is kicking off this national campaign to inspire and activate unmarried women to register and vote.

Watch the first in a series of provocative and patriotic public service announcements I participated in from WVWV here:

The odds are pretty good that you are or have been an unmarried women. The odds are even better that you know an unmarried woman or two. So, how about joining us at WVWV.org? Share this video, register online and encourage the unmarried women in your life to register and vote. Women have a lot of power. More so that we often realize. In our day-to-lives, we are mothers, daughters, teachers, doctors, scientists, nurses. We are police officers, fire fighters, factory workers and yes, actors. But, we are also the deciders if we choose to be. We are who we've been waiting for. Imagine the possibilities...
 
 
 
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Over40
04:11 PM on 11/11/2007
I'm single, over-50, early retiree and I think the ad is great and much needed. I've been somewhat flabbergasted to see younger women seemingly turn their backs on all the rights that were fought for and instead go back to the 50's model of empty-headed housewife instead of developing themselves into mature, intelligent, capable, independent individuals who earn (and demand) the right to be taken seriously and would not accept less than this.
And, actually, this could be said of all of us - the preoccupation with silly entertainment, gossip, etc. etc. that has so overtaken the media and public discourse these days so harms our country and its citizens - distracting us from becoming more and better informed and able to make better choices and not being fooled by the disinformation out there. Kudos to Christine for writing this, I am a big fan.
09:25 AM on 11/11/2007
Twenty million voting eligible, unmarried women did not vote?

No wonder rich old white guys have been getting away with all of this devastation. The thugs and bullies of our current administration, and their equally scheming loyal opposition, want you to stay home. They want you to believe you do not count. They want Us all to believe We do not count.

AND LADIES, IF YOU DO NOT VOTE, THEN YOU DO NOT COUNT.

Apparently, you are not aware that one vote, on one day, can change the entire course of a nation.

Your day has appeared on the horizon.

Prepare for it.
08:15 AM on 11/11/2007
BOTH PARTIES SAY THEY LOVE THE FAMILY, BUT THE POLICIES SAY OTHERWISE.. CHILDREN ARE NOT AN OPTION FOR MANY.. LOW PAYING JOBS, LACK OF HEALTHCARE, CHILD SUPPORT GARNISHMENT AND AFDC BUREAUCRACY NIGHTMARES MAKE THIS OPTION VERY UNPALATABLE.
04:58 PM on 11/07/2007
I am an unmarried 63 year old lady who has been a political activist, voted for years and now is exhausted and hopeless for the future of America. I am so disgusted that I am seriously considering moving to France where I speak the language and can at least get decent health care in my old age.
Americans are cowards who are afraid to stand up to their corrupt government.
11:25 PM on 11/05/2007
I am not a single woman, nor a married one. My partner, composer Tomas Hradcky and myself stay together by choice. These last seven years it has been working out just great, warts and all. Yep, no family values at all, just a happy household of two people and lots of spoiled rescued animals.

Tomas has a perfect voting record, and for most of my 45 years I just swung along thinking it was all fine, nothing to worry about. Many years ago the proposition concerning gay marriage motivated me. So what if I did not want to be married, if other people did, they should be able to. So I voted. Being a native from Los Angeles, I still kept swinging along, quite certain that it would pass, no problem.

I guess that was the day I woke up.

I have been voting ever since, we only missed one local issue due to a nasty car accident that left me prone for quite some time.

My problem this year is I am losing my mind. I am so angry at Nancy Pelosi for "Impeachment is off the Table", I am so angry that Condi Rice is a minority woman in a high position under THIS administration - I cannot even read HuffPost anymore - I have been ignoring it because I start to rant. I just logged on today because I felt a little behind, and the decision is coming up.

I am going to vote, but I have to be honest. I am so furious with the whole game that I constantly write angry letters to Congress telling them I am switching parties, or not voting at all.

I am furious because I am so sad about what we have become, and I feel powerless. And I do think we are toast, it is over, this administration has killed America.

But I am going to vote, because I can.

I hope the rest of the women would also.

Thanks Christine, and everyone else in the video.

Kelly Mahan Jaramillo
10:47 PM on 11/05/2007
Hilary and Rudi can say that they have walked
in their shoes.
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StephieL
Writer, music lover, book reader
09:24 PM on 11/05/2007
I'm a happily unmarried woman, and I find that the politicians who go out on the stump consistantly make their election pitches toward the "soccer moms" and "SUV/NASCAR dads" while ignoring the fact that unmarried women (and men) do exist, and even though we don't wear a ring on the third finger of our left hands doesn't mean that we're to be relegated to the status of second (or third) class citizens just because we've either chosen not to marry, or we're single due to other circumstances.

After having heard the Presidential beauty pageant candidates from our alleged two-party system, none of them are qualified (with the exception of Dennis Kucinich) to adequately deal with the real economic issues which are affecting the nation's citizens. Unmarried people are often hit the hardest by massive economic upheavals, and because we're not married, it's extremely difficult to obtain any type of assistance, because married people and familes get a higher priority, while the unmarrieds are left to fend for themselves the best way they can. Perhaps it's because our patriarchial society views unmarried people as "socially inferior" to married people, and when you live in a nation which gives lip service to marriage and family -- but not necessarily life service, as indicated by our nation's high divorce rate -- if you're not married, you don't exist.

I'm considering supporting Kucinich ... but I can not support Hillary Clinton, Barack Obama, Rudy Giuliani (whom I call "Rudy Ghoul-iani") or any of the other Presidential beauty pageant contestants, because they're going to keep swimming the backstroke across the football field in order to please the "soccer moms" and "SUV/NASCAR dads" while leaving those of us who aren't married out in the cold.
06:38 PM on 11/05/2007
Voting is one thing, Christine. The fall of western civilization is another. Why are there so many unmarried woman? Why does media preach that you have to be thin, young and single to count? Why are traditional families a thing of the past? Will top 1% fame and fortune save us?

We are being outpopulated across the globe. In Russia they must hold national holidays to have kids. Here we are addicted to vicarious visuals as we demonize procreation and replace it with safe sex, alternative lifestyles or abstainance and a culture of violence & death.

Fearing the worst, our leaders are selling the US to the 3rd world while they have all the kids and we pretend that money, war and bombs will protect us. Our downfall isn't just bad politics. Media is destroying we the people.

In 50 years this country will be history. The elite who worship materialism already know this. That's why they are selling the US to the 3rd world so they can wield their power and count their money while we become extinct.

Menawehile, while we're busy wondering why women are strong and men are wimps, NeoCon Neros and Caligulas rule a falling Western Rome. But they'll all be reincarnated into a world they helped destroy. What's fair is fair.
06:29 PM on 11/05/2007
I am wondering if the #1 reason (of so many) people don't register to vote (which is not quite the same thing as voting) is as a way to avoid jury service.

Am I right? What reforms could eliminate this disincentive to voting?

Anyone?

-A single man
05:49 PM on 11/05/2007
My God! Every Republican running is aqainst legalized abortion and attempts to equalize the work place. If only a few percentage of the single women, who would benefit most from a win over the ultra-conservatives, would vote this election, it could represent a Democratic landslide. Don't have the attitude that it doesn't matter which side wins. That was Ralph Nader's line and seems to resurface each election.
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xenubarb
Nebulon V
03:54 PM on 11/05/2007
Vote, fine.
But who do we have to vote FOR?

A bunch of power hungry clowns with no spines?
Same as it ever was...Republicrats. I can't tell the humans from the pigs any more.
03:14 PM on 11/05/2007
"If they use their voices they will have a profound effect on who becomes the next resident of this country."

...*heh*
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hootie1fan
A liberal, educated, Catholic Yankee living in AL
02:57 PM on 11/05/2007
If we vote, we will be heard.

If we don't then we get what we deserve.
02:33 PM on 11/05/2007
I am a single mom, a successful business owner and a democrat. Guess what -- there is no way I will vote to nominate Hillary. Can you believe that?!

I'm really tired of being considered a member of her "base". I would like a woman to be president, but I'm not going to vote for her just because she's a woman. That would just be shallow. And I know I'm not the only one...
01:45 PM on 11/05/2007
Great article. In general, approx. 49-50% of registered voters vote during an election. In one recent election, Bill Clinton received votes from 24% of the eligible voters in the US and won.

These women need to get out and vote. If you can't get out, get an absentee ballot.

Limbaugh created the catch phrase "soccer mom" one year and both parties went ga ga over it. Maybe someone can create a catch phrase for the unmarried single head of household voter this time around.