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Christopher Cocca

Christopher Cocca

Posted: April 12, 2010 07:40 PM

Conan O'Brien's Golden Rule

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The late night exile of Conan O'Brien ended Monday with a tweet: "The good news: I will be doing a show on TBS starting in November! The bad news: I'll be playing Rudy on the all new Cosby Show." (For members of Jay Leno's audience, a translation: Coco's kidding about the Cosby thing). Starting in November, O'Brien will helm a new 11PM talk show from Monday to Thursday. That this news came the same day O'Brien's highly anticipated Legally Prohibited From Being Funny on Television tour begins seems like sweet justice.

I confess to looking for redemptive narratives in everything. When Conan went off the air in January, it wasn't with the cynicism I thought he'd earned the right to:

"All I ask is one thing, and I'm asking this particularly of young people that watch: Please do not be cynical. I hate cynicism, for the record it's my least favorite quality. It doesn't lead anywhere. Nobody in life gets exactly what they thought they were going to get. But if you work really hard and you're kind, amazing things will happen."

He was all bangs and no whimpers. And now he's back.

I was 13 when Conan debuted in David Letterman's old slot on NBC. The morning after the first Late Night With Conan O'Brien aired, my Civics teacher, 26 at the time, proceeded to use parts of Conan's topical monologue for our lessons. I've been a Conan fan from day one, and I'm in that demographic: the smallest tail end of Generation X, too young to have been a real 90's slacker but old enough to understand what made Letterman (and Conan) so funny. In the days leading up to O'Brien's departure 17 years later, my thirtieth birthday drew closer. I'd rung in 2010 eager for the 2000s to be over, to take my twenties with them, and I was getting pretty sick of my own postmodern cynicism. It hadn't lead anywhere.

My religious status on Facebook has been, since January, "Work Hard, Be Kind, Amazing Things Will Happen." I don't mean it in some karmic way or in opposition to everything I learned in Divinity School about good works and grace. But as a mantra for a generation that's perhaps taken too long already to see the worth in sincerity, I think it works. It works for me.

Hard work and sincerity seem also to work for Conan. His road show exists primarily to keep his staff employed during their stint in late night limbo. Conan's new deal at TBS, which moves George Lopez to midnight, happened only after Lopez reached out to convince Conan he was on board. O'Brien reportedly refused wanting to reproduce the same hard feelings his situation at NBC (a network he spoke fondly of in his finale, after all) spread across late night.

I've been working hard at the New Sincerity. It's risky and it leaves you vulnerable, sure, but I think it's worth it. Conan didn't say anything about jealously, though. My sister bought her boyfriend tickets to the road show for his own thirtieth birthday. I haven't seen mine. So not cool.

 

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The late night exile of Conan O'Brien ended Monday with a tweet: "The good news: I will be doing a show on TBS starting in November! The bad news: I'll be playing Rudy on the all new Cosby Show." (For...
The late night exile of Conan O'Brien ended Monday with a tweet: "The good news: I will be doing a show on TBS starting in November! The bad news: I'll be playing Rudy on the all new Cosby Show." (For...
 
 
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10:27 AM on 04/14/2010
Has Conan become the new Prophet of Information Age -- or is it that this article should just be in the "Entertainment" section? Just asking.
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rf dude
Just an average Man of Bronze - now in Steel!
12:33 AM on 04/14/2010
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Yeah, as in "Gimme the gold, keep your fricken rules"...
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SilentSolidarity
So what do you need? Besides a miracle.
05:32 PM on 04/13/2010
I hope he learns how to be funny until November.
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spyboyz
when in doubt...twirl
10:14 AM on 04/14/2010
I hope you learn to be kind
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DinNM
I'm 57 and I do as I damn well please!
03:43 PM on 04/13/2010
Uncle Bob, in answer to your question, I can only guess that it has something to do with Conan being Irish-Catholic by upbringing. I too am Irish but was NOT raised catholic.. In any case, I respect him for the graceful way he handled the Leno/NBC debacle. And, yes, though I may not "get" all of his humor I DO think he is typical Irish--funny in a GOOFY way. We Irish are like that.
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cameron d
Good Guys Win
01:40 PM on 04/13/2010
When it comes to cynicism I always follow the words of the late, great, George Carlin: "the real cynics are the ones who tell you everything's gonna be all right."

I've gone through life with those words and it makes everything a little easier.
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MountPanic
03:55 PM on 04/13/2010
Great line.

I can tell that one is going to get regular play in my repertoire.
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Social Construct
Go left, young man.
06:50 PM on 04/13/2010
Leave it to the great George Carlin to spot the absolute, and ironic, truths of our culture.
As far as Mr. O'Brien is concerned, the few jibes I had heard from him about his final week or two at NBC were mostly cynicism wrapped in humor. Guess that's different. I have only respect for Conan, but his ideas of what cynics are is a bit different than mine.
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Christopher Cocca
Director of Mission, First Presbyterian Church of
01:36 PM on 04/13/2010
quick housekeeping note: there was a great comment here from "Jason" that I accidentally deleted. Am trying to bring it back.
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Uncle Bob
Darwin loves you.
01:03 PM on 04/13/2010
I have to ask, why in the world is this in the "religion" section? Because Conan is nice....?
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TheWM
aka The Wrong Monkey
06:09 PM on 04/13/2010
My guess: because 1) "Golden Rule" is in the title and 2) whoever sorts the articles at HP is overworked.
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GDWhiteman
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11:44 AM on 04/14/2010
Odd as it may seem to some, Uncle Bob, some Christians are really nice people and more than a little intelligent too. They don't whine but just keep trying to do the right thing from a sincere heart. .
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Uncle Bob
Darwin loves you.
10:49 PM on 04/14/2010
Holy cow GD, you are reading so much into my question I'm not even sure if you deserve refuting.

If we are going to assume any hint of following the golden rule is a display of heart felt christian beliefs, then by golly, every single person on the planet is a christian!

Absolutely absurd. Which is why I asked the question.
02:49 AM on 04/13/2010
Since this whole Leno/O'Brien dust-up began, I have a new-found respect for Conan. He seems like a regular guy, a gentleman who treats his people with magnanimity. He doesn't seem "full of himself", like too many celebrities. His humor often eludes me, but that's beside the point. I appreciate the way he has taken care of his crew.
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Nick Pirce
08:21 PM on 04/12/2010
Mr. O'Brien's cable maneuver follows those by other celebrities who made their bones working on broadcast TV. Oprah Winfrey has ruled daytime broadcast TV for years, but last year opted to start her own cable network with Discovery Communications. That network, OWN, is slated to launch in January of 2011. More recently, Martha Stewart, whose fortunes in syndicated TV were waning, unveiled a pact with cable's Hallmark Channel that will put her in a significant portion of that cable outlet's on-air content.

And over the years, many TV staples -- "Monday Night Football" among them -- have moved from broadcast to cable
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Christopher Cocca
Director of Mission, First Presbyterian Church of
12:30 AM on 04/13/2010
indeed. and it looks like Conan may bring his production company to TBS/Time Warner. No official word on that, though.

A move to cable makes a lot of sense for Conan. It's where his demo is.