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The Wonders of Summer

Posted: 07/15/10 04:38 PM ET

"Then followed that beautiful season ... Summer ... 
Filled was the air with a dreamy and magical light; and the landscape 
lay as if new created in all the freshness of childhood.
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-- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow


For kids everywhere, summertime means freedom! School's out and books are left behind. Shedding heavy clothes, it's time to spend days outdoors running barefoot on the warm ground, climbing apple trees and splashing in water. While I was growing up, nothing said summer more than our family's first trip of the season to the beach. What a welcomed escape from the overheated Bronx, a cement furnace where even the fire hydrant fountain sprays sizzled on the sidewalk. While my parents packed the striped towels, Coppertone lotion, transistor radio, chicken drumsticks and coleslaw, I ransacked my jumbled closet to find tin pails for the best sandcastles ever, and of course I couldn't forget my favorite oft-patched inflatable rubber dinosaur.

We'd trail up the New England Turnpike in our apple red V-8 '64 Pontiac Bonneville to Sherwood Island on the Connecticut shore. As we got closer, the marshy scent of salt water filled my nose. I couldn't wait to get out of the car, dashing for the splash and rumble of the waves. Maybe I'd catch a starfish! And then we'd go to the concession stand for some crispy fries and gooey saltwater taffy.

Those were days when signs were still posted at the beach advising ladies in high-healed Audrey Hepburn shoes to kindly not walk the sun softened tar and asphalt boardwalk. My mom wore smart flat sandals. I also recall the extravagant rubber bathing caps women wore at the beach up till the early 1970's. It seems strange today, but they didn't like to get their hair wet, since they went to the beauty parlor just once a week for a "rinse and set." But oh, those skull tight caps, topped with fantasy flowers, butterflies and frills in day-glo colors -- waterproof bouquets fit to impress Neptune himself!

Over the years, my summers have brought crackling fireworks and proud parades, ice cream floats, sweet peach cobbler and strawberry rhubarb pie at cookouts, a fair share of misadventures in camping and family road trip vacations that are stories by themselves. Happily, for kids today being outdoors still means play time, and lots of it; as ever packing all the joys of summer into baseball games, swimming, skate boarding, kite flying and more. Like many others, I've enjoyed these glorious days of reverie, like days lyrically described in Dandelion Wine, the autobiographical fantasy recounting a memorable mystery-filled summer of author Ray Bradbury's childhood. It remains a perfect summer read.

But now, I am no longer entirely a kid, and like most people, I don't expect to be able to take two or three months off to play in the middle of the year. At the height of my corporate life, someone asked me "Aren't you just too busy to live?" Me, too busy to live? It was hard to face the truth. But I was busy springing forth, dynamically active in the corporate world, acquiring, building and dutifully being a good consumer, to the point where life, when I bothered to notice, was starting to feel like a runaway treadmill. It was, perhaps, the season for those things.

So what then is summer to me these days? What can it be for all of us who still have a bit of the kid still in us? I may be turning 50, but I am in the prime of my life, with so much more good to come. Why not take our cues from nature? Summer smooths the restless heart and the sun's rays are a balm for the battered spirit. The days are luxuriously long now, with as much as 15 or 16 hours of daylight. I too have taken to rising earlier, so as to be outside for a good morning walk, my border collie Kyla in tow, before the heat starts to climb. I can still get some exercise in, answer work emails, and shower and eat, before 9 a.m. I balance my work schedule with time for hobbies like gardening, reading and play, and yes, even time for love.

If it is a weekend, I may write for about 5 hours, until my eyes cross and typos tell me it's time to stop. Then, it's time for a lazy afternoon. But I know I am not lazy, so much as I am resting, and deeply recharging. As Henry James said, "Summer afternoon, summer afternoon, for me the two most beautiful words of the English language."

I've heard that on summer solstice, you can balance an egg on its point, and tradition says that in the summer, you can measure the temperature by counting the times cicadas buzz every 15 seconds. Though I'm grown up now, I'm still enchanted by dragonflies. I imagine them to be celestial emissaries between dimensions, intricate air streamed jewels from an art nouveau atelier. Recently a spry turquoise dragonfly let me stoke his lacy wings. I held my breath in wonder.

In summer, I find nature at her peak, resting for a moment after the vigorous growth of spring. From this high place, my view is full and wide. The trees and valleys are richly green, and the sun glistening water welcoming and warm. I'm enjoying meals with produce grown seasonally and locally. I make iced tea with my own lavender and organic fresh mint. All around me, I notice gardens bursting with bright pink colors of crepe myrtles, orange day lilies, lilac and burgundy rose of Sharon, and sweet scented phlox. In my own yard, cabbage sized Victorian hydrangeas are a living memento from my grandparent's day.

The heat of the day draws me under a shady tree. I watch fat white clouds drift across the sky, and the shadows of sycamores lengthen on the lawn. Drowsy bees stumble over buttercups. The days are full and the heat warms my skin. Even in this seeming stillness of an afternoon siesta, with Aaron Copland's music of the heartland playing gently, I feel excitement about life.

Summer afternoons invite me into the fullness of feeling present. I just have to slow down and look around me, and truly take some time to live. Cicadas and bullfrogs join in concert under a starlit sky, and playful fireflies guide me home to a place of wonder. It is in this moment that I am flooded with the sudden awareness of my aliveness. Yes, I am alive, ALIVE! So are you, and knowing it plum tingles! I just have to take the time to listen to the song. I pause and breathe deeply in. There is so much beauty in the world.

Summer's ecstatic and unexpected pleasures counterbalance the occasional bitterness of life. No quiet simple moment is too small. Even the ephemeral beauty of an all too short-lived summer season can be held on to in our hearts. It can fill us, nourish us with strength to produce a joy-filled harvest as we dress for the next season of our lives. And despite what winds or winter frost that may yet come, we will remain inspired and warmed by summer's glow.

 
 
 
 
 
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11:42 PM on 08/10/2010
I count nice coincidences among my favorite things, and how wonderful to return from a summer getaway and find further reminder of the song of summer to help sustain my most memorable summer moments. How can I forget? But I do! And am so grateful for your helping me draw the deep breath of summer fruits and flowers, and deeper still, to inhale/exhale from my soul.
Many Blessings! Brett
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11:57 AM on 08/11/2010
Brett, I often think that a great part of the experience we share on earth has to do with our natural surroundings... things out of our personal control that seem to follow some template or higher order their own... Our modern world offers material comforts, longer life spans, and entertainment of all sorts...all which have their place, but year in and year out, I remain fascinated by the cycles and wonders I find in nature. Where money, cars, clothes etc can be fun, I find a timeless and soulful centering in nature. Thanks for sharing your words.
10:42 AM on 08/10/2010
What a beautiful and inspiring piece. I'm old enough to remember those bright, flowered bathing caps, and using tin cans for sand castles...Not much time for vacations these days, as we face some challenges in our lives, but I feel as though I'm enjoying a bit of summer vicariously through your writing...Thank you for that. :) ~ Carolee
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12:24 PM on 08/11/2010
I know, with the tight economy, extended vacations may be on hold, but I have found in my own life that it's possible to take little "vacations" for a day or two, nearby... or even take a certain amount of time off during the day for myself.. to refresh my spirit, and get centered again. These moments help me to realize that there is more to life than just the daily grind.
03:03 PM on 08/03/2010
My vision of mid summer is a flat corn field that stretched as far as the eye could see under a star lite sky with million of bright stars touching the horizon line of the earth filled with fireflys hovering over the rustling corn stalks touching their silk by the millions.

I can see in my mind my beautiful Aunt Donna with periwinkle blue smiling eyes shelling real peas in the pod from the next door farm on her porch at her Michgan lake house.
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Christopher Radko
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04:43 AM on 08/09/2010
Thanks for sharing this midsummer memory... evenings in the heartland... the simple activities that say "I am here. I am in this moment, with all my heart." I can see your Aunt's smiling periwinkle eyes too, and I know they warm your heart. Even today, spread out among vast corn fields and the deep cobalt night sky, people spend quiet evenings enjoying shooting meteors, remarking with awe, "Wow! Did you see that one? It sure sparkled, didn't it!"
09:58 PM on 07/24/2010
"Yes, I am alive, ALIVE! So are you, and knowing it plum tingles! I just have to take the time to listen to the song. I pause and breathe deeply in. There is so much beauty in the world."

I am so deeply touched by this writing. The last two years have been very difficult for me..and this phrase is the very blood that is running through me...

I am at a true loss for words....Thank you.
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10:57 PM on 07/24/2010
I am not advocating difficulty, as I have had plenty of my own, but I can say that it truly makes you stronger, and more compassionate as well. There really is so much beauty in the world, and that which we see corresponds intimately to who we are inside... the beauty behind the exterior... the beauty of the heart in you. The heart that keeps your life, your creative expression alive, right now! Like the song goes, "The summer knows, the summer's wise, she sees the doubts, within your eyes... And so she takes her summer time, tells the moon to wait, and the sun to linger, twists the world 'round her summer finger... Let's you see the WONDER of it all... And if you've learned your lesson well, there's little more for her to tell. One last caress, it's time to dress for fall."
When words fail, there's always the song of summer.
07:56 PM on 07/24/2010
Christopher, I've never read a post more enchanting or one that invoked childhood memories of summers like this one did. This brought me to tears; while I smiled. God has given you such a special gift with words as He has in so many other areas of your life. You have the ability to transport others to the time and place you describe, and it even seems that you are standing right there beside us through all the use of brilliant imagery. You, my special friend, are one of this world's most precious treasures, and I'm so grateful for all of the darkness that you've snuffed out through all of the glorious light that you continue to shine. Love you, brother.
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09:50 PM on 07/24/2010
Kirk, Thanks for this enthusiasm! It's about joy and fun in the sun, for sure, but it's also about how the present and most immediate moment gets lived. We are all here, together, side by side, this summer... The sun's rays fall on all people, thankfully, and in this physical fact we are connected, equally able to receive this natural fullness of life. It's a season of abundant life in nature, and for us a gift, if we pause long enough to receive it, of being able to recharge our physical energy through our natural environment, and in the stillness of a summer afternoon spent outdoors, also refill our inner well. That's the wonder of summer!
09:58 PM on 07/23/2010
Nicely done, Christopher!
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09:34 PM on 07/24/2010
Glad to hear it, Paul... thanks! I originally called this piece "Summer Song." But the title was changed to "The Wonders of Summer" by the editors whom I feel must have thought that it suggested more practical use for the reader. I like the word "wonder" which, in your new book "I AM THE WORD" is aptly explained: "Wonder is a belief in what can be possible... when you go into wonder of, you are actually lifting your frequency and you are imagining something you did not believe possible." To that I would add you are co-creating with the Universe, not just imagining, but actually imaging into reality. When at the height of summer, when all of nature is incredibly alive, in this silent hour, so too can our senses and reception of life be heightened.
02:22 PM on 07/22/2010
What a wonderful article, Christopher. It will inspire everyone who reads it to journey back to the summers of our childhood. For me it a summer afternoon in the backyard with a little white wicker rocker, my sister and I so small that we fit together in it as our mother in her red and blue apron (which now hangs in my kitchen) snaps pictures. Today summer is a Victorian porch and my great niece 1 0 month old Sylvia sitting in the same little white rocker. You are right there is so much beauty in the world and little Sylvia who already is taking music classes has been called joyful. That is one of my favorite words! Christopher, you gave the world so much with your beautiful ornaments (my 10 foot Christmas tree is all Radko ornaments from years of collecting). Now, this part of your life's journey I believe is to inspire the world with your observations and words. You are one of my favorite people.
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Christopher Radko
04:00 PM on 07/22/2010
I am humbled by your kind words... I will try to live up to them. Happily, I enjoy what I do... Many are inspired to revisit their past summers. That's the first step, seeing proof that joy was possible then. But sparks from yesterday's embers are only valuable to us if they can light the heart flames of today. My point is to rekindle the knowing of what this year's summer can be... fully alive, tingly alive... with ample energy to soothe, recharge and enliven our experience in this very moment, today. Thank you. Your encouragement is greatly appreciated!
12:31 PM on 07/22/2010
Darn, you didn't forget the fireflies. Few things pass unnoticed on your watch!
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Christopher Radko
01:44 PM on 07/22/2010
The details of the moment, like dragon flies, and fireflies, and the colors and shapes of the plants that surround me serve as markers, ways to keep me present, in this moment, and very alive. It's in this moment - where else? - that I can experience the fullness of my life. And as long as life may be, it might still be too short, so I choose to do the most with what I know I have for sure... this forever moment in time. Thank you for noticing, too!
12:30 PM on 07/22/2010
Ah summer! And don't forget the fireflies. One landed on me the other night in Central Park and the memories started flooding in.
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Christopher Radko
01:39 PM on 07/22/2010
TK- glad you are soaking in the summer warmth and sunshine... and in an urban dizzyfying place like New York City... Years ago, in Central Park, I had the same experience with a dragon fly... they are right friendly there! So recharge those batteries, your inner self, and enjoy the rest of your year, refreshed with summer warmth in your core.
10:43 PM on 07/21/2010
christopher's writing fills me with hope, joy and optimism during this uncertain climate....no pun intended! how refreshing to be reminded of the simple, and universally accessible, life-giving and soul-stirring resources available to all of us each and every day.
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Christopher Radko
11:06 PM on 07/21/2010
Julie, I truly couldn't have said it better, or in less words... Yes, the economical and political climate is uncertain, but the sun rises each day regardless... and the summer warms our bones and invites us out to play, and to refresh our selves... Come what human caused drama may, we always have the choice to find our own center, our space of calm and nourish that essential part of who we are.... and take those summer moments for ourselves through out the day, even in other seasons... In this case the best things in life really are free, and most healthful to our spirit... celebrating the fullness of life in nature and seeing it reflected within us... alive at this everlasting moment... one eternal moment of presence...
11:01 PM on 07/20/2010
Thanks, Christopher for this wonderful homage to my favorite season. I have similiar childhood memories. Growing up in Yonkers, our "official" start of summer was a trip to Glen Island Beach in New Rochelle. My mom would pack up sandwiches, chips and fruit. Did you ever notice how fruit ALWAYS tastes better at the beach? We'd listen to WABC 77 Radio and sing along to all of our favorite songs while people watching and running in and out of the waves. Did you ever notice how you always got the best night's sleep after a day at the beach? Hah! Thanks for bringing this all back to me and helping me remember the simpler times and to appreciate the warm and wonderful days of summer '10! Summer is as important for me now as it was when I was a kid.I look forward to your future posts! And I'm dying to taste that lavender mint iced tea!
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Christopher Radko
11:34 PM on 07/20/2010
It's great to read your comments, Joanne... Yes, somehow, almost all food tastes better at the beach. It's as though our senses are more alive there, in that primal place, where the sun and surf mix with the sand and waves... All that fresh air certainly brought on a good night's sleep... And summer is back again, with all the fun, longer days, and fullness of nature at her peak. These are not just a distant memories from the past, they are here, today, to enthrall us, to wake us up, and say, hey you, you're alive!!
07:40 PM on 07/20/2010
I NEVER DREAMED YOU'D LEAVE IN SUMMER....One of my favorite songs...But summer for me is filled with the memory of my father putting me to bed as a toddler with a different summer song. My lullabye was SUMMERTIME from Porgy & Bess. My father would sing it to me so soulfully, with an undertone of sadness, that one night, it moved me to tears. He asked: Why are you crying? Did you think your Daddy would leave you. Daddy will never leave you!...But he did...I was 38 years old when, early one morning, I wathced my father SPREAD HIS WINGS AND TAKE TO THE SKY. More than middle-aged now, summer still has that faint,soulful sadness of my daddy singing me a lullybye.
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Christopher Radko
08:59 PM on 07/20/2010
Thank you for sharing this... Wow, the parting ... leaping off from the highest peak of the year, up into the the sky... Clearly, with the love you both shared, you can see your father not only in summer sunsets, but with loving eyes that remember, you can see him alive in the summer sunrises... and of course, in you... Though the sadness of a loved one's loss may never quite leave, I think the heart of this season can also help you celebrate his life.
05:17 PM on 07/20/2010
I find your writing about Summer season so touching! Please get inspired as I am interested in reading your articles. Bearhugs.
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Christopher Radko
05:48 PM on 07/20/2010
Ricky, that's an open invitation to everyone to let summer inspire each of us, with its many signs and signals, reminding us that we are so wondrously and completely alive, tingly alive, sunshine sparkling on water alive, in this moment! Don't put off living until tomorrow. Fill up the inner reserves. Now is the time.
03:55 PM on 07/20/2010
So tranquil yet precise spirit of summer conveyed with flowing words, from childhood senses to grown up nostalgic yet alive and full experience of summer energy. Beautiful article, thank you Christopher.
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Christopher Radko
05:44 PM on 07/20/2010
Thank you, Miriam... you really get it... summer is not just about nostalgia for days gone by, pretty pictures of when we were kids.. Summer is super alive, right now, and we can absorb this presence and fullness of nature at her peak, and let it inform us, and make us whole again. It's about living fully in the present, restored to our own inner fullness, and appreciating the beauty of how that is reflected to us in our surroundings.
01:10 PM on 07/20/2010
This is just wonderful! Thank you for the childhood summer at the beach that I never got to have, and an apt reminder to savor every moment of my adult ones!

I too enjoy Dandelion Wine. It is to Summer, as Bradbury's Something Wicked This Way Comes is to Autumn.
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Christopher Radko
01:43 PM on 07/20/2010
Absolutely, Jules... I reminisce about summers past especially for how they can remind me how to make the most of this summer, this moment of my ALIVENESS! So, today, off to the beach with you... even if metaphorically, take a little time for yourself, a little summer moment in your day.... It soothes, it refreshes, it fills you up again.