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A Female Episcopal Priest Visits a Mormon Temple (PHOTOS)

Posted: 04/22/2012 8:00 am

As I stood in front of the new Mormon Temple in Liberty, Mo., it struck me as ironic that close to 175 years ago, Mormons were forced out of this same state.

Whereas the Missouri public once urged their governor to force Joseph Smith and his followers out of the area surrounding Kansas City, Mormons began to return to the region in the 1900s, eventually gathering in such large numbers that the Church organization decided the region needed a temple.

Which is why I came to visit.

Latter Day Saints restrict temple access to members of their denomination who have proven themselves to be faithful and dedicated adherents. Because Mormons believe temples are the most sacred places on earth, one needs to be prepared to enter them by being an active member of the Church. (In contrast, chapels, where Mormons hold Sunday worship, are open to everyone. Temples are used only for certain rituals and are not open on Sunday so that Mormons can be at their chapel services.)

When a new temple is built, anyone may enter prior to its dedication. So, always curious to learn about the faith of others, I didn't want to miss an opportunity to see a site normally closed off to an Episcopal priest like myself.

My visit seemed all the more timely because Mormons have been in the news a lot lately, and so have their temples. Elizabeth Smart recently married her husband in a temple in Hawaii during a ceremony called a sealing, in which the couple and close Mormon friends and family gather together to witness God joining the couple together for time and all eternity. In less complimentary news, Elie Wiesel took Mitt Romney to task for his faith's practice of baptisms of the dead, which also take places within temple walls.

These headlines, in addition to my own curiosity, motivated my visit to the new temple in Kansas City, and with my curiosity came some questions:

What does a Mormon temple look like, and what happens inside it?

Would I feel God's presence in this space, even though it's not a space that's sacred for me?

Before I go any further -- and because I know it's the question at the front of your mind, dear reader -- no one tried to convert me. In fact, everyone was very welcoming. Members volunteered en masse, clad in pressed suits and dresses. They offered guided tours, bent down to put protective boots onto my feet so my shoes wouldn't dirty the carpeting, and offered me a chewy snickerdoodle at the end of the tour. They showed me every space from changing rooms to sealing rooms where marriages take place and answered every question I asked, no matter how challenging or controversial.

And in the end, yes, I did have a God moment.

But I'm getting ahead of myself.

Mormons go to temples to be close to God. Much like the ancient Jewish people believed God lived at the heart of the temple in Jerusalem, Mormons believe that followers can meet God most intimately in the temple. The reasons they visit temples vary: In addition to having their marriages sealed in the temple, Mormons also have sealing ceremonies that unite parents and children for time and all eternity. Others come to participate in baptisms of the dead, which are intended to be used only for deceased family members of active Mormons, though the Church acknowledged in the wake of Elie Wiesel's comments that others -- such as Anne Frank -- have had baptisms performed on their behalf. These baptisms are not intended to convert the deceased but rather to give them a choice in the afterlife to embrace the revelation of Mormonism: Assuming an afterlife exists, the baptized deceased are free to say yes or no as they please. Finally, Mormons come to the temple to receive their endowment, a ritual ceremony where followers make promises to God and receive knowledge about God.

Unlike a cathedral, which is primarily composed of one large worship space, a Mormon temple has a variety of smaller rooms that serve different purposes. There are sealing rooms and rooms for men and women to change into white clothes (every male or female Mormon who enters a dedicated temple wears the same white clothing) and instruction rooms where individuals learn about God in preparation for receiving their endowments.

It was in these rooms, and the final Celestial Room, where I caught a glimpse of God.

You see, as part of our final stop on the tour, our guide took us to a room with a mural of the Missouri countryside painted by a local artist. The room had earthy colors, browns and greens and rows of cushioned seats. This was the first instruction room. From there, we took a step up -- as if ascending closer to heaven -- and entered a second room, similar to the first in shape and size but all white. This was the second instruction room. When we left that room, we took another step up and entered the Celestial Room, a space designed to give those who sit in it a foretaste of heaven.

It was a simple room yet ornate at the same time, all white with sparkling crystal chandeliers, large mirrors, and plump sofas and chairs reminiscent of those that must have existed in Joseph Smith's day. Our guide asked us to be silent and said we were welcome to sit wherever we liked and take a moment to pray. So I sat down on a sofa that seemed to envelop me, folded my hands on my lap and closed my eyes.

Like Dante, who saw God face to face but had no words to describe the encounter, I have few words to describe what I felt in that moment. But I can say this: While it did not convert me, nor did it make me want to be a Mormon, the silence and peace I felt reminded me of the many other times I've felt close to God, whether in an Episcopal cathedral, in a clear, warm ocean or in my ratty old car. And because of that, I came to understand why temples exist and why they are so important to Mormons across the world.

And along the lines of Mormons being across the world: As I wrote earlier, Mormons were ironically driven out of Liberty, Missouri and the surrounding region nearly 175 years ago. It cannot be lost on those who visit the new temple that almost two centuries later, Mormons are often still held in suspicion by society, but they are far from being as vulnerable as they were in their early years. They are building stronger foundations every day, and striving, as they do so, to catch a glimpse of heaven.

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As I stood in front of the new Mormon Temple in Liberty, Mo., it struck me as ironic that close to 175 years ago, Mormons were forced out of this same state. Whereas the Missouri public once urged th...
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11:18 PM on 05/20/2012
I didn't want to leave a comment for just those who are not happy with my church, when I said that it was easy to "love opinions like these, isn't it," I meant it as a reminder that we follow the same commandment other Christians do, we shouldn't just love our friends, but everyone.
There are those who have the opinion that the leaders are just doing public relations work when they tell us we are suppose to do only our direct line of ancestors. They say to themselves, why would the Lord give us a commandment that slows the work down, we need to give everyone the chance to accept baptism, right?! My mother is one of them. I reminded her, and let me remind you that the when the brethren make a statement like this, its a commandment. The Lord will respect the prayerful desires of his Father's children.
I just hope, I really do hope, that those not of our church who have a hard time with the ordinances we do for our dead and possibly theirs because we are all connected eventually to Adam and Eve, that you soften your hearts, believe that we are being sincere and loving, not only to them, but to those who brought them into this world and have now left it. That you would have a change of heart at least to the degree that you would allow us the honor of bringing your families' names to the temple.
09:28 PM on 05/20/2012
Beautiful article, thank you Danielle. It would be great if everyone would just pick up their Bible and
study 1 Corinthians 15:29; then ask themselves, why did the great apostle Paul say that? Then pray
about it.
08:53 PM on 05/20/2012
Thank you for sharing your candid feelings of our temple. I came close to marrying an Episcopal young man (engaged three years). I still enjoy your Christmas Eve services, but it wasn't enough for me to give up an eternal marriage, which I enjoy with my husband of 33 years.

I didn't want to be as the angels in heaven, so I waited; it was a long wait for a 26 year-old virgin male, I'll tell ya, but it has been so worthwhile. We wake up each day smiling and in love. Our children call us blessed, and have followed worthwhile paths, all contributing to the world in humanitarian service.

No matter what you profess to believe or not believe, there was a time we all followed Jesus Christ. You are all my brothers and sisters. We were all created by God. Most of you believe otherwise, and that's fine, but I know a day will come when we will all worship Him together again.

As every Mormon knows, we are saved ONLY through the grace of Jesus Christ. Our works are pitiful, and wouldn't get us back to our heavenly home-we do them because working for the glory of His kingdom is a good thing. I love EVERYONE, and it saddens me to read the anger posted here. Jesus would never speak unkindly toward any other person or belief system.

Again, thank you, Danielle. I wanted you to know I have felt God in your church, too.
05:44 PM on 05/20/2012
Danielle, great article, you have demonstrated that people can enjoy and respect others' beliefs even when they vary, sometimes greatly, from your own. You have friend here because of that.
Okay, everyone brace yourselves, yes, I'm Mormon. My comment above was sincere and totally biased (How can that be???). Any article that gives a hat's off to what I believe in, I'm for. Its easy to love opinions like these, isn't it. So what I am going to say next, maybe politically correct and yet, may cut to the heart. Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you.
All of you who want to teach us the truth about the Christ of the Bible, do so. Give us a view of the love you have for Him, I'm all ears for it, no, seriously! I'm only asking that when we disagree on something and that "other guy" tries to stir something up in you and your words are no longer about what it is you love about the Savior, but how we are completely off our rocker, that you take a step back, repeat the mantra above,"Love your enemies, do good to them that curse you, by baptizing your ancestors, and bless them that curse you, by forgiving them for spiritually trampling on your great grandparents grave, and dig deep for that testimony of yours in Christ and share it with love.
05:23 PM on 05/13/2012
LDS myself, I did not know what was ahead of me as I read your article, which was emailed to me....beautifully written and with such an open mind, one wishes all religions could be so tolerant, nay even positive, about researching another belief and not making unfair, unjust and downright rude commments---as so many people do around the world. God Bless You...I am subscribing to your blog.
11:42 PM on 05/08/2012
This was a very well written and thoughtful article. I appreciate such good writing and thoughtful observations. We would all do well to be like this author.
06:47 PM on 05/05/2012
It is so refreshing to hear from someone who, though of another faith, embraces what sanctity can be found in another religions' s sacred place. An open heart and an open mind, just what God and Christ have asked of us, thank you for your inspiring example.
04:39 PM on 05/05/2012
Bravo! There's is nothing like the peace that can come from worship in the Lord's holy house.
04:24 PM on 05/05/2012
Hmmmm. Danielle Tumminio, reading this great article has me not only seeing their faith in a new light but yours as well. Thanks for making me think.
11:26 AM on 05/05/2012
I am here in the city of David, Panama and I'm thankful to God for people like you.Thank you for your awesome article about our Church's Temples. Thank you for being kind and for having an open mind toward our faith. Perhaps others will follow your example.
God bless you always.
Solomon Urriola
Republic of Panama
10:23 AM on 05/05/2012
Open heart, open mind...........and she comes away with a new appreciation of the LDS faith. I wish more people would have the same attitude. It's amazing when a person can feel the spirit and love of Jesus Christ when they do enter the temple with modern prejudices.............
01:34 AM on 05/05/2012
Several years ago my wife and I took a trip to Paris. We went to the Cathedral of Notre Dame. As believing and practicing Mormons we went as tourists. There were signs asking for reverence as this was a place of worship. I immediately felt that this was a sacred place. Even though I have different beliefs than the those that worship there I realized that this was a place for worship of Heavenly Father. I know the Lord appreciates and hears those who worship him sincerely. Unfortunately there were many there that just didn't understand what reverence means. I am a supporter of Mitt Romney and I am worried on many levels. If he is elected I hope he does a great job and that after all is said and done that he be remembered as a honorable man and oh yeah he is Mormon.
03:07 PM on 05/03/2012
Thank you so much for your article! I am glad you took the time to visit one of our temples, that you felt welcome, and that you had a sacred moment with God there. They are beautiful, sacred buildings dedicated to the Lord--a quiet haven for those who enter. May God bless you for your faith and for your love and respect for those of other beliefs. I've spent a lot of time studying the religions of the world and have found that there are many more similarities than there are differences--and most (if not all) of those religions are full of regular, everyday people who love God and who are trying to do what's right. May we all spread a little more love and understanding :)
02:07 AM on 05/03/2012
Is a "religion" whose "god" is so merciless as to deny a father to witness his daughter's marriage because he is not a "member" and not allowed into the temple --a "religion"? To condone causing pain like that to someone is right? I don't think so...
10:18 AM on 05/05/2012
Was this marriage about you and your husband or is it about your daughter and her husband? I bet your daughter would ahve loved to have her father.
04:48 PM on 05/12/2012
I know it's difficult to understand. I've been on both sides. One time I hated all organized religions and the LDS church was on top of that list. Now, I've been a member for 12 years. But, I had had similar arguments as what you mentioned.

The couple getting married had a choice: they could have been married civilly in the chapel so all could be there, then, at another time, be sealed in the temple. It takes extra effort to do it that way, but it is their choice.

That said, I understand it would be nice if at least immediate non-member family members would be allowed to the marriage/sealing as long as they are reverent and respectful as I'm sure most would be.
11:53 AM on 05/02/2012
As a member of the LDS church, I began Ms. Danielle Tumminio's article with some trepidation. Thank you for not only being fair but for being kind.