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The Bible Is Pro-Birth Control

Posted: 03/ 6/2012 7:11 pm

Not many in the current debate realize that the Bible contains a book that celebrates non-reproductive sex and features substances used by ancient women for birth control. The book, Song of Songs (also known as Song of Solomon or Canticles), is a dialogue of love and sexual passion associated with King Solomon. It depicts a woman and a man (it's not clear that the man is Solomon) who desire each other and see each other in secret. Yet, it is not clear that they are married, children are not mentioned as a goal of their love, and their dialogue is laced with mentions of materials that we know were used in ancient Egypt, Mesopotamia and/or Greece to prevent pregnancy. A biblically based morality linked with the Song of Songs need not oppose, but could promote use of birth control as part of caring, monogamous sexual relationships, whether within marriage or not.

To be sure, many have associated the biblical Song of Songs with marriage (it's frequently used for Christian pre-marriage counseling), and there are indications that the lovers it depicts wish that they were married. The man calls his love "my bride" (e.g. 4:8, 9), and she sings that "I am my love's and he desires me" (7:11). Nevertheless, toward the end of the book the female lover still cannot openly express her affection for him (8:1). Overall, the book positively depicts a couple pursuing a love that is not approved by society. It begins with the woman wishing that the man would "kiss me with the kisses of his mouth," and soon she is inviting him to her bed of spices. The lovers do not live together, but instead must meet outdoors (e.g. 1:17) or in a parent's bedroom (3:4; 8:2), and there is no clear view yet of starting a family. In the process, the lovers mention a number of spices (e.g. pomegranates, honey, myrrh, spikenard) that Athalya Brenner points out in her book "The Intercourse of Knowledge: On Gendering Desire and 'Sexuality' in the Hebrew Bible" (Leiden: Brill, 1996, 72-89) were used by ancient women to prevent pregnancy.

Perhaps most importantly, the book does not suggest anywhere that their sexual relationship is wrong. Their love leads to suffering at points, especially for the woman (5:2-6). Nevertheless, Song of Songs celebrates their unsanctioned sexual passion. At the same time the book repeatedly urges caution in engaging in such love, especially through a repeated urging not to "awaken or arouse love until love is ready" (2:7; 3:5; 8:4). Later, the woman sings of how "Love is strong as death, jealousy as harsh as Sheol" (8:6). Thus love is a powerful, sometimes dangerous thing. Such power should not be played with. It is not to be taken lightly. Nevertheless, as one of my students at Union Theological Seminary, Elizabeth Bukey, pointed out, "it's easier to list what the Song does not teach. It does not say you've got to be married. It doesn't say men should dominate women and it doesn't get worked up about which particular sexual acts are OK." Instead, the book stresses that one must take care in deciding when "to awaken or arouse love." Perhaps one aspect of that care would be in following the example of the woman of the Song of Songs and taking precautions, when needed, not to have unplanned children. Say, using effective birth control.

Of course, we now know much more than ancient women did about how to prevent birth. Moreover, studies also suggest that birth control lowers medical costs for women by preventing expensive unwanted pregnancies, and unwanted pregnancies also can add to broad societal costs which all taxpayers pay. Therefore, one might say that the issue now is not protecting the religious freedom of religious employers who want to impose costs of birth control on students and employees. Instead, it is an issue of protecting the religious rights of those who have no problem with birth control (some even seeing the Song of Songs as a religious endorsement of that position). People who affirm the use of birth control (including out of religious conviction) should not have to pay the extra medical and societal expenses incurred when women are excluded from good access to birth control by religious authorities opposed to it.

In sum, one might get the impression from recent debates that Christianity, or the Bible more specifically, has only one position on sexuality. Yet, closer study of texts like the Song of Songs reveals that things are much more complicated.

 
 
 
 
 
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03:57 PM on 04/24/2012
Just because the book doesn't mention the procreation of children does it say that its pro birth control. It is pro marital pleasure and intimacy.
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03:50 PM on 04/24/2012
"It depicts a woman and a man (it's not clear that the man is Solomon) who desire each other and see each other in secret. Yet, it is not clear that they are married"

The book states that the man is Solomon more than a few times, so it is very clear. The eastern way of telling stories is different than ours so the text is not necessarily in chronological order but there is a wedding in the book between Solomon and the woman. Pretty clear that they are married.
09:25 PM on 03/21/2012
THere has always been some natural birth control. Foe example, total breastfeeding for up to several years was natural then and prevented women from ovulating for quite a while.
The rhythm method was no doubt used and perhaps pessories, which were a type of IUD. And Jesus did not follow the old law of the submissive woman,he had female followers who played a big part in ministering. He forgave sins that the old law said should require stoning and such.
People like Santorum want to bring in a theocracy. A church run state. This is exactly what the pilgrims came here to get away from. It's unconstitutional. Funny that many things right wingers want are controlling people's lives, which is darn big government. I think this talk about women and birth control is a red herring. Maybe they know that we are all tired of war and they want to get into it big with Iran. This also thats the heat off of protecting the 1% too.
11:37 AM on 03/10/2012
And just how many Angels can dance on a pin? How much pretzel logic, denial and convolutions of reason is required before self fogiveness and self congratulatory smugness give way to the realization that it's all on us. Carrot and stick rationale for doing good or bad is infantile. Perhaps it was Vonnegut that stated it so simply "Be Nice". Elain Pagels has a new book on Revelation also wrote The Gnostic Gospels. Fascinating scholorship and not at all preachy. As Eric Hoffer concluded many years ago True Believers need no proof and will accept no facts outside their belief system . Believe what you will just don't be so annoying. Research and thinking are rightious. Belief is not knowledge.
01:49 PM on 03/09/2012
In this modern time, still so much ignorance’s humans taken the bible, whatever is the name, so literally, when the bible is book of mythologies and lies, it’s a manual of terrorisms of religions, whichever is the fate. . .
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10:28 AM on 03/09/2012
I can't believe we are still allowing policy to be influenced by 12th Century folklore. It would be interesting to be alive 1000 years from now when achaeologists go through our texts and electronic archives and see how Christians who believed a corpse re-animated after 3 days in a cave ridiculed Scientologists for believing in aliens. The only difference between the Bible and Harry Potter is that Harry Potter is closer to reality.

Also, - the Christian Taliban who are controlling the conversation are either ignorant of or are being openly dishonest about America being founded on "Christian Values". All one would have to do is take 15 or 20 minutes to research our founding and they'll realize the Framers wanted freedom FROM religion most of all. The right-wing talking heads and evangalists are trying to re-write history.

Christian talking heads and the absurd, oppressive dogma they've imposed on otherwise free people is what drive me to Atheism. The doubling-down on their rhetoric and their hate might just drive me to Islam.

I didn't before have a problem with Christians and their crackpot beliefs because I understood people need faith. But since they are becomming more and more like their Islamic extremist counterparts, I'm no longer going to be silent. Christianity amd their treasonous power-grab needs to be dealt with.
09:31 AM on 03/09/2012
Re: David Carr's The Bible Is Pro-Birth Control using the book of Song of Solomon.
Those who have not been regenerated by God are unfit to handle the scriptures. The text is not about birth control or about sexual intercourse [2 Peter 1:20 knowing this first, that no prophecy of Scripture is of any private interpretation,]. It is allegory about God as the Husband of Israel and Israel as His bride. The period under which Solomon was King, Israel flourished and was at peace with God and its neighbours. To pervert the truth of the text to impose contraception on organizations/people against its/their conviction is to deceive the public.
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09:58 AM on 03/09/2012
"Those who have not been regenerated by God are unfit to handle the scriptures."

..and those who are cultists should not read unsupervised.
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04:37 PM on 03/11/2012
Precisely.
03:57 PM on 03/09/2012
Song of Solomon is not a Prophetic Book, so 2 Peter 1:20 doesn't apply.

The Prophetic Books of the Old Testament are: Isiah, Jeremiah, Lamentations, Ezekiel, Daniel, Hosea, Joel, Amos, Obadiah, Jonah, Micah, Nahum, Habakkuk, Zephaniah, Haggai, Zechariah, and Malachi.

Solomon was certainly no prophet.
10:35 AM on 03/10/2012
Your response is off topic. David Carr's The Bible Is Pro-Birth Control using the book of Song of Solomon is butchery of this Book which is an allegory written by Solomon about God as the Husband of Israel and Israel as His bride and the beautiful relationship that existed during his reign.
07:07 PM on 03/11/2012
You do not know what a Prophet is. Solomon was the wisest man the ever lived. This is what God granted him based on his prayer. Who is someone that speaks for God or gives His message?

Regardless, of your misunderstanding of the word Prophet, your response is off topic. David Carr's The Bible Is Pro-Birth Control using the book of Song of Solomon is butchery of this Book which is an allegory written by Solomon about God as the Husband of Israel and Israel as His bride and the beautiful relationship that existed during his reign.
06:25 PM on 03/08/2012
Song of Songs is one of my favorite books of the Bible. I've read it several times before and have been able to interpret different aspects differently each time. This has given insight to explore to some questions I have had about this book. Yet some aspects seem to stretch some ideas, but Christianity is a faith that celebrates both questions and discussions and this article allows that dialogue to happen.
09:32 AM on 03/09/2012
The text is not about birth control or about sexual intercourse [2 Peter 1:20 knowing this first, that no prophecy of Scripture is of any private interpretation,]. It is allegory about God as the Husband of Israel and Israel as His bride. The period under which Solomon was King, Israel flourished and was at peace with God and its neighbours.
03:00 PM on 03/21/2012
Oh, so it's ALLEGORICAL birth control, then? Preventing allegorical babies? Why would he include it, if this is all allegory? Because it's a symbol of... what exactly?

Your defense makes no sense.
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03:56 PM on 04/24/2012
I disagree, its about the love that a married man and woman should have for each other. God speaks only one time in the entire book and He states that He is pleased with the married man and woman being together intimately. If you are apart of God's chosen people, do you want God doing the physical things to you that is described in this book? didn't think so.
05:25 PM on 03/08/2012
My understanding of the Song of Songs is that it is the love between Israel (woman) and God, as personified by the Temple (man). V. 15: His legs are like marble columns.
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03:21 PM on 03/08/2012
another example of well intended but flawed eisegesis.
02:19 PM on 03/08/2012
just said down and read song of solomen. If you read the entire thing, the girl is revealed as being a pre-pubescent child and specifically affirms in the last passages that she is not sexually active. If this passage supports anything it is the evangelical view( I am not evangelical). I really resent an author purposfully twisting what is written to further his agenda. I believe that he couldn't have actually understood the passages this way honestly. David Carr you are simply a liar.
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01:18 PM on 03/08/2012
Once again, someone's own interpretation of the Bible. That's why I don't believe in it. Was written by man and rewritten how many times by man. Do what you know in you heart and mind are right and you will be ok. If you believe in a truly loving God he is not going to punish you.
12:57 PM on 03/08/2012
Wow. There's no argument here. The only thing that comes close would be the assertion that myrrh, pomegranate, etc. are well-known birth-control methods of the time. And even this would only have been remotely convincing with a couple of sources showing this to be the case. Sorry, but you lost me with this one.
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Let's be critical of rhetoric
12:09 PM on 03/08/2012
I am glad this article was written but there is also a problem. It begs for authority and moreover from an ancient text which is lacking two thousand years of trial and error. (plus or minus)

If it helps those who consider the bible authoritative in spite of its contradictions with itself and known facts to consider something new then that is better than nothing.However, it cannot be used in this way without suggesting its authority. Authority which has been and can be used to support all kinds of disastrous policy.
11:55 AM on 03/08/2012
I'm glad the author points out information within the bible that the GO(T)P never refers to: in fact, they contradict it... as Christians (go figure).

However, we still live in America, which is not yet a tyrannical religious oligarchy, so we don't rely on religion to determine what is law or not. We rely on the Constitution. At least I keep writing and saying that in hopes that the idea won't die.