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The Trouble (And Blessing) of Lent

Posted: 03/ 7/11 09:40 PM ET

Let's face it. Lent is in trouble.


Let me explain. Most of us have favorite holiday seasons. For some it's Christmas, with the family get-togethers and presents. For others it's the Fourth of July and summer, filled by a sense of national pride and beach vacations to boot. But each year at just about this time, it strikes me that very few of us would pick Lent, a season that seems to most of us as grim as the weather that usually attends it.

Think about it: crossing off days on the calendar until Ash Wednesday; leaving work just a little early, saying "I've got to get my Lenten shopping done;" advertisements on billboards and television reading "only 12 more days 'til the day of Ashes;" or little kids going to bed, asking their parents, "How much longer 'till Lent is here?" It just doesn't happen.


The trouble with Lent, I think, is fairly clear. It's buried right in the heart of the primary reading for Ash Wednesday, from the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 6: "And when you fast, do not look dismal, like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces so as to show others that they are fasting. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward. But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face, so that your fasting may not be seen by others but by your Father who is in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you." (Sigh) Actually, you don't have to read the whole verse, as the brunt of the problem of Lent is in the first four words, "And when you fast...." 

And when you fast?! C'mon. Except for the occasional crash diet before summer vacation, who fasts anymore?

And there it is in a nutshell, you see, the trouble with Lent: it feels like this strange, weirdly anachronistic holiday that celebrates things we don't value and encourages attitudes we don't share. No wonder that each year fewer and fewer churches observe this age-old (fourth century!) tradition -- it's too old-fashioned, too "Roman," too medieval for many contemporary Christians to handle.


So let's face it. Lent is in trouble. I mean, even among those traditions that do honor the season, rarely is there the same kind of enthusiasm or expectancy which greets Advent. Notice we don't sponsor Lenten Adventures for our kids; we don't have an Adult Lenten Dinner and Party. We don't pine to sing Lenten hymns ahead of time. Lent is in trouble.

I don't know, maybe it's that there are no presents at the end, and no fun and games along the way. Or maybe it's that Lent asks us to give up things. I mean, my word, haven't we had to sacrifice enough already to get our kids through college, to save for retirement, to put that new roof on the house, thank you very much. Why should we give up anything more for Lent?

Or maybe it's the themes of Lent that trouble us. Penitence. Sacrifice. Contemplation. These are the words of Lent, and I, for one, have a hard time believing they were popular even with the Puritans (you remember, the folks that actually held competitions to see who could resist the greatest temptation or avoid the most pleasure) let alone now.

Lent, I'm telling ya, it's in trouble. And so each year, as I listen to my non-Lent-observing friends knock it as "works theology" and my Lent-observing friends complain about it as a pain in the @&!, the same question inevitably demands loudly to be answered: Why Lent? I mean, who really needs it?

But you know what? Each year, whatever my feelings approaching Lent may be, the same answer comes whispering back: I do. Just maybe, I need Lent. Just maybe I need a time to focus, to get my mind off of my career, my social life, my next writing project -- and a hundred other things to which I look for meaning -- and center myself in Meaning itself.

Just maybe I need a time (is 40 days really enough?) to help clear my head of the distractions which any involved life in this world will necessarily bring and re-orient myself towars the Maker of all that was given for my pleasure and which I have let become merely distracting.

Maybe I need the opportunity (and perhaps deep down I crave the chance!) to clear my eyes of the glaze of indifference and apathy which comes from situation after situation where I feel nearly helpless so that I can fasten my eyes once more on the almost unbearable revelation of the God who loves God's children enough to take the form of a man hanging on a tree.

And maybe, just maybe -- and this takes the greatest amount of imagination of them all -- just maybe Lent really isn't mine to do with whatever I please. Perhaps Lent isn't even the Church's to insist upon or discard at will. Maybe Lent isn't any of ours to scoff at or observe. Maybe Lent is God's. Maybe Lent is God's gift to a people starved for meaning, for courage, for comfort, for life.

If it is, if we can imagine that Lent is not ours at all but is wholly God's, then maybe we'll also begin to recall, at first vaguely but then more strongly, that we, too, are not ours at all, but are wholly God's -- God's own possession and treasure.

Seen this way, Lent reminds us of whose we are. The "sacrifices," the disciplines, these are not intended as good works offered by us to God; rather, they are God's gifts to us to remind us who we are, God's adopted daughters and sons, God's treasure, so priceless that God was willing to go to any length -- or, more appropriately, to any depth -- to tell us that we are loved, that we have value, that we have purpose.

Yes. I need Lent. I need an absence of gifts so that I might acknowledge the Gift. I need a time to be quiet and still, a time to crane my neck and lift my head, straining to hear again what was promised me at Baptism: "You are mine! I love you! I am with you!"

I need Lent, finally, to remind me of who I am -- God's heir and Christ's co-heir -- so that, come Easter, I can rejoice and celebrate with all the joy, all the revelry, all the anticipation, of a true heir to the throne.

And so yes, I need Lent. And to tell you the truth, I suspect that you do, too. You see, if Lent is in trouble, it's only because we're in trouble, so busy trying to make or keep or save our lives that we fail to notice that God has already saved us and has already freed us to live with each other and for each other all the rest of our days. And so we have Lent, a gift of the church, the season during which God prepares us to behold God's own great sacrifice for us, with the hope and prayer that, come Good Friday and Easter, we may be immersed once again into God's mercy and perceive more fully God's great love for us and all the world and in this way find the peace and hope and freedom that we so often lack.

 
 
 
Let's face it. Lent is in trouble.
 Let me explain. Most of us have favorite holiday seasons. For some it's Christmas, with the family get-togethers and presents. For others it's the Fourth of July...
Let's face it. Lent is in trouble.
 Let me explain. Most of us have favorite holiday seasons. For some it's Christmas, with the family get-togethers and presents. For others it's the Fourth of July...
 
 
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remnant0888
04:49 PM on 03/12/2011
Lent was and is a teaching tool gone very badly astray.
Lent is COMMEMORATING the 40 days Jesus fasted in the desert, the 40 years the Jews walked in the wilderness.
It is not fasting from anything. It is walking to HIM.
I was raised catholic but left for a closer walk with JESUS.
But even after leaving I always give JESUS something during Lenten times.
Something between He and I.
I am still waiting on WHAT to give HIM this year, although I think I know.
I dislike intently that people drink and get drunk and then fast "candy" ...
And worse yet they thru wrong teaching think that God cares.
Or is will bring them closer to HIM.
NO, This year give Jesus something that says:
"I love you Jesus more than my own life.
I want to know you more than I know my friends.
I want to belong to YOU!"

Lent is one's heart coming closer to God; by giving God our whole heart!
May Jesus on that day in the future ... say to all of you:
"welcome My child to My kingdom"
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NYC123
08:31 AM on 03/11/2011
Jesus never ask man to celebrate Lent, neither both, Christmas and Easter, especially in their current pure marketing formats! Jesus asked man to remember "his ransom sacrifice for man!" Jesus impalement allows man to be reconciled with God and given the opportunity for everlasting life on a paradise earth! Call it God's 4th. of July!
03:17 PM on 03/10/2011
By St. John Chrysostom
The value of fasting consists not in abstinence only from food, but in a relinquishment of sinful practices, since one who limits his fasting only to an abstinence from meat is one who especially disparages it. Do you fast? Give me proof of it by your works. If you see a poor man, take pity on him! If you see a friend enjoying honor, do not envy him. For let not the mouth only fast, but also the eye, and the ear, and the feet, and the hands, and all members of our bodies. Let the hands fast by being pure from avarice. Let the feet fast by ceasing from running to forbidden spectacles. Let the eyes fast by being taught never to fix themselves rudely upon handsome countenances.
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For it would be an instance of the highest absurdity to abstain from meats and unlawful food because of the fast, but with the eyes to feed on what is forbidden. Do you eat flesh? Do not feed on licentiousness by means of the eyes. Let the ear fast also. The fasting of the ear is not to receive evil speaking and calumnies. "You shall not receive an idle report," it says. Let also the mouth fast from foul words. For what does it profit if we abstain from birds and fish, and yet bite and devour our brethren?
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roninroshi
Oni ni Kanabo (鬼に金棒 )
07:14 PM on 03/09/2011
Lent a short term describing the eating of lentil's for 40 days before Easter...an event that goes back to the ancient church probably started by the desert fathers...eating fish on friday was a papal law developed to help keep the fishermen in business...to many folks eating meat and the fishing trade was suffering...maybe Pope Leo handed this one down...not sure.
12:10 PM on 03/09/2011
Wonders if the Catholic Church would give up molesting little boys for lent.

Or maybe 40 days without damning gay people to hell or actively fighting to restrict their rights.

Hmm or how about 40 days without telling people not to use condoms.

This Lent thing could be cool after all.
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Treehuggindirtworshiper
“Dum Spiro, spero- As long as I breathe, I hope.
02:06 PM on 03/09/2011
Well you'd have to follow "Judge not lest ye be judged." So you might want to reconsider.
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helioszephyr
What do you mean by "micro"?!
05:31 PM on 03/11/2011
... as you might reconsider also... you just "judged".
09:10 AM on 03/09/2011
One of the things that I have tried, repeatedly, to do during Lent is to refrain from eating chocolate. I have never succeeded in staying away from it for 40 days. While this may be a trivial thing to do, it has taught me some things about life and about God. First, it has forced me to look for other things in life that bring joy. While it seemed painful at times, a sacrifice, it made me look for other things in life that could replace the thing that I desired.

From another approach it also has called on me to look for God, first in help to refrain from chocolate, and then to look for God in my life and the life of others. Lent for me has become a time to look for God, It has become a time to be deliberate about living a life that does require sacrifice, penance and seeking. It has become that time when I am deliberate about being mindful of God, not about striving for merit or righteousness. It is a time of being thankful and peaceful, and trying to see what God sees. Lent is a time of renewal, ending in the promise of hope.
08:48 PM on 03/08/2011
Lent is not in trouble. I mention Lent coming up, and have for a while (not proselytizing,
"believe it or not" ...) -- as in, "5 more days until y'all better not be talking about big red steaks and beer" sort of way -- and guess what? Many people are RELIEVED. Maybe if I broadcasted that my beliefs are "right", people would object, but when I just mention it in conversation, I'm met with a lot of relief and a lot of disclosure of peoples' own Lenten beliefs and plans.
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Indigo1941
Time traveler.
08:30 PM on 03/08/2011
Lent. Toasted cheese sandwiches and tomato soup. Mmmmmmm.
As for the Resurrection and the Rest Of It, Osiris rises!
08:43 PM on 03/08/2011
And about a dozen others who were born of a virgin on Dec. 25, worked miracles, died and were resurrected after three days and then ascended to heaven.
08:02 PM on 03/08/2011
I don't need Lent,
I don't need Easter,
I don't need to fall on my knees
To kiss the Holy Father's ring.
I don't need holy men,
I don't need holy books,
I don't need my sins forgiven
By some mythical man in the sky.
I don't need fairy tales
To help me get through life;
I only need my children's smiles
And the love of my wonderful wife.
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
08:25 PM on 03/08/2011
They shall see and not understand, they will listen and not hear, even if someone should tell them, they will not listen. Woe to them.
08:40 PM on 03/08/2011
Tell me something that makes sense and I'll be all ears.
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helioszephyr
What do you mean by "micro"?!
05:32 PM on 03/11/2011
yes, this would apply to you.
08:53 PM on 03/08/2011
I'm a very devout "believer" type, but those last two lines, I hope, are universal. Cool.
09:04 PM on 03/08/2011
Thank you Angel.
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
08:02 PM on 03/08/2011
Lent begins tomorrow. I will attend 7 AM Mass on Ash Wednesday and receive the ashes on my forehead. I will eat little each day, and no meat on Ash Wednesday,as well as all Fridays during Lent, and especially on Good Friday I will eat only 1 meal each day, and when needed 2 light snacks. Lent is about doing Penance for our sins, and to demonstrate that we are truly sorry for the sins we have each commited that made it necessary that The Messiah should die to save mankind from their sins.


"The stone that was rejected, has become the corner stone."

May the Peace of the Lord be with you all.
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gregory57
Micro-bio, was one of my favorite classes.
07:14 PM on 03/08/2011
One spring I gave up Lent for Lent, and never looked back.
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
07:56 PM on 03/08/2011
You Will !
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Tabuism
07:13 PM on 03/08/2011
Going vegan is a decision that makes perfect sense for the Lenten season.

Christians around the world have observed the forty days leading up to Easter Sunday as a period of repentance and discipline since the second century A.D. Although practices related to Lent have changed over the years, it is viewed by many as a time to make sacrifices as a way to identify with Christ’s suffering, and to make a symbolic break with material and worldly concerns.

Recently, many people have shifted that focus, though; they view Lent as a time not just to eliminate certain behaviors but as an opportunity for adding new positive behaviors.

If you’re thinking about going vegan for Lent, you can consider the choice from both these perspectives.

Going vegan may mean “giving up” foods that you enjoy, but it also means embracing a lifestyle that reduces animal suffering and that celebrates an ethic of justice for all creatures.

Veganism also honors the health of the human body—the “temple of the soul.” And it makes a big contribution toward protecting the earth and its resources.

Going vegan for Lent - National vegan | Examiner.com http://www.examiner.com/vegan-in-national/going-vegan-for-lent?CID=examiner_alerts_article#ixzz1G3YzPKup
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Salty too
Give me Liberty or give me death.
06:35 PM on 03/08/2011
Lent is not Christian, it is Roman Catholic. Nowhere in scripture are Christians told to practice this. This is religion at it's best. Ceremony for the sake of ceremony, Ritual. Man made stuff. I believe it is a "type " of the mark of the beast.
04:16 PM on 03/09/2011
Just FYI, Catholics ARE Christians :)
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Salty too
Give me Liberty or give me death.
04:54 PM on 03/09/2011
I was raised Roman Catholic and when I got old enough I read the bible and got saved. Some Catholic are christian yes. The Roman Catholic church is not. The RCC teaches salvation through their church. The pope has said many times recently that you must be catholic to get to heaven. The RCC puts more value on their man made rules than the bible. The old catholic church killed many christians for not renouncing Christ and joining the church. Most of the Catholic doctrine is completly against what the bible teaches. And most of that in very important doctrine. Just for one. The bible says that we can come boldly to the throne of God, that Jesus is our way to the Father. The RCC teaches that Mary is our go-between. Such BS. Nowhere in the bible does it ever say to upl'ift Mary or any other person except Christ. Man made BS. No man caqn forgive sin. The RCC teaches that it can forgive sin and requiers you to say "Hail Mary's" and pay penntence. Again man made BS. I could fill pages with the stuff that the RCC teaches that is completly against biblical teaching. The RCC teaches you must have "works" to get into heaven. The bible says " For by grace are ye saved through faith and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast". The RCC has no say in that whatsoever.
06:22 PM on 03/08/2011
Lent is alive and well in the Eastern & Coptic Orthodox Churches; McDonald's in Cyprus and Egypt, for instance, serve special fasting foods devoid of meat & dairy products (which is saying something for McDonalds!).

I think it's interesting that as Christianity becomes more commercialized in the states, more people don't see the need for lent and/or see it as archaic. Many Christians outside the states (orthodox, once again) fast for more than 200 days out of the year, including wednesdays and fridays. I think writing "who fasts anymore?" is very american/euro-centric. I'm actually sort of shocked by this article - is it representative of Christianity in America or just this one viewpoint?
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ascension
07:26 PM on 03/08/2011
Thank you!!!!!!!!!
05:18 PM on 03/08/2011
It'll be a year tomorrow that I gave up cigarettes for Lent. Even if you don't believe, you can make the season your own.