David Segal

David Segal

Posted: November 12, 2009 10:45 AM

Rhode Island Governor Vetoes Bill To Let Gay Partners Arrange Each Other's Funerals

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"Quack, quack," goes the lame duck. Donald Carcieri, elected for his unsurpassed avuncularity, is in the death throes of his pathetic governorship of Rhode Island. In an especially violent spasm on Tuesday, he vetoed a bill that would have allowed domestic partners (gay or straight) to claim the body of a deceased partner, and make funeral arrangements therefor.

A persistent foe of civil rights and civil liberties, Carcieri has gone after immigrants (he's not terribly fond of those who've moved here from Latin America, but seems to have a particular disdain for Cambodian and Laotian refugees), Native Americans, and poor people generally. In 2004 he pushed "anti-terrorism" legislation which would have made it illegal to, as the Providence Journal put it at the time:


display foreign flags in a way that suggests other countries are superior to the United States; "speak, utter or print" statements supporting anarchy; or speak in favor of overthrowing the government.

That he has it out for gay people is unsurprising, but his detest for them seems to have peaked in the last year or so. Since spring, and until last week's regression by Maine, Rhode Island was conspicuously the only New England state to bar gay marriage. The governor has dug in his heels, recently keynoting a fundraiser for the so-called Massachusetts Family Institute, whose ethos is as such:

MFI does not consider homosexual behavior to be merely an alternate lifestyle or sexual "preference"; it is an unhealthy practice and destructive to individuals, families and society. Our compassion for those plagued by same-sex attraction compels us to support the healing of those who wish to change their behavior. MFI strongly opposes any efforts by political activists to normalize homosexual behavior and all attempts to equate homosexuality with benign characteristics such as skin color, or the "gay rights" movement with the civil rights movement.

Today he meets with local gay activists to explain why he insisted on visiting with such bigots. The timing couldn't be better, for on Tuesday he issued that cruel veto of legislation borne of a tragedy which befell a constituent of mine, whose partner of nearly two decades committed suicide in the summer of 2008. For on the order of a month, Mark Goldberg was unable to to claim the body of his partner -- who didn't even have any other next of kin.

Mark deserves credit for trying to use his personal misfortune to better the lives of others, while poised to see no personal reward. (If we dare be so crass as to call the simple right to bury or cremate a loved one's remains a "reward.") The legislation passed overwhelmingly: 63-1 in the House, and 35-0 in the Senate, with even the fiercest opponents of gay marriage understanding that to support the bill was but to affirm a basic human decency. But Carcieri didn't see it that way, asserting, "This bill represents a disturbing trend over the past few years of the incremental erosion of the principles surrounding traditional marriage, which is not the preferred way to approach this issue."

Additionally, according to the Providence Journal:

He took issue with the definition of a domestic partner as "a person who, prior to the decedent's death, was in an exclusive, intimate and committed relationship with the decedent" for at least a year, saying a year "is not a sufficient duration to establish a serious bond between two individuals ... [relative to] issues regarding funeral arrangements, burial rights and disposal of human remains."

The backlash has been encouragingly sharp and robust, with news of the veto dominating the local media and garnering national attention, and with more than 83% of respondents to the Providence Journal's online poll opposing Carcieri's action: The good people of Rhode Island are far more empathetic than the heartless governor whom they've twice ushered into office.

Thankfully, gay marriage is on the horizon in Rhode Island: Carcieri's obstinacy has made for an insurmountable hurdle at present, but all of the major candidates who vie to succeed him come January 2011 are supportive of gay marriage. The Democrat-dominated Assembly will likely oblige them. As sad and disconcerting as the governor's action was, its extremity may help our cause, as moderates seek to distance themselves from the dark core of bigotry that binds together much of the anti-gay rights movement, underscored this week by Donald Carcieri's veto pen.

 
"Quack, quack," goes the lame duck. Donald Carcieri, elected for his unsurpassed avuncularity, is in the death throes of his pathetic governorship of Rhode Island. In an especially violent spasm on ...
"Quack, quack," goes the lame duck. Donald Carcieri, elected for his unsurpassed avuncularity, is in the death throes of his pathetic governorship of Rhode Island. In an especially violent spasm on ...
 
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So, since he says that 1 year is not enough time to establish a relationsh­ip... does that mean that hetero couples who meet/marry/pass away within a year shouldn't have the right either?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:44 AM on 11/17/2009
- ranchero42 I'm a Fan of ranchero42 25 fans permalink
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If it walks like a right-winger, talks like a right-wing­er...

That must confuse the heck out of Fox. If he had passed that law about attempting to overthrow the government; Fox would have been removed from basic cable in Rhode Island?

People write laws in every state with a cloudy (and therefore actionable) definition.

Republicans are simultaneously funny AND scary; unfulfilled circus clowns, all.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:54 PM on 11/13/2009
- mercury613 I'm a Fan of mercury613 43 fans permalink
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As terrible as this is for gay and lesbian people in RI, there is one positive thing that comes out of this: it exposes same-sex marriage opponents as the hyp0crites and li@rs they are.

This is not -- nor has it ever been -- about the word "marriage" or protecting its sanctity. This is about the Christian Taliban dehumanizing gay and lesbian people and forcing their religious view on the rest of us. Period.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:48 PM on 11/13/2009
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It is amusing how those who claim that it is a "Myth of a Gay Apartheid" !!

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:39 AM on 11/13/2009
- David Segal - Huffpost Blogger I'm a Fan of David Segal 2 fans permalink

We may indeed override vetoes, but the decision to do so is made by the leadership of the General Assembly, and is far from automatic.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:38 AM on 11/13/2009
- JDinBalt I'm a Fan of JDinBalt 4 fans permalink

So is the leadership planning to attempt an override of the veto? With so much of an outcry it would seem like a logical thing to do.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:15 AM on 11/18/2009
- LCLA I'm a Fan of LCLA 22 fans permalink
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If the bill passed by such overwhelming margins, why can't the Rhode Island legislature vote to override the veto?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:39 AM on 11/13/2009
- Gidster I'm a Fan of Gidster 221 fans permalink
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Someone please tell me how this is in the context of 'Protecting traditional marriage"?

Because this seems to be aimed solely at denying same sex couples anything and everything!

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:12 PM on 11/12/2009

The Governor's actions are ghoulish.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:29 PM on 11/12/2009
- LindaFS I'm a Fan of LindaFS 4 fans permalink

See Rep Ferri's scathing letter to the Gov on Pam's House Blend: www.pamshouseblend.comm). LOVE the way he ends the letter:

"In short, no one elected you to serve as the state's moral compass. Just as George Wallace stood before the doors of the University of Alabama, you find yourself on the wrong side of history. Your decision yesterday to deny some Rhode Islanders the same rights and dignities as their friends and neighbors is shameful and history will judge you harshly."

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:41 PM on 11/12/2009
- Konnie I'm a Fan of Konnie 19 fans permalink

um, didn't the voters know who this %^& was when they voted for him? didn't anyone know his
views? is this his first term? what do the locals have to say about his actions? didn't think
R.I.enders were that weird.....­.....more info please.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:27 PM on 11/12/2009

Makes no sense whatsoever. Why not let them plan funerals for their partner? I must say it again - makes no sense whatsoever.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:36 PM on 11/12/2009
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So the Italian flag I display on my house during our annual festa would have been illegal?

Compassionate conservative christian.­..........­.WWGWBD?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:57 PM on 11/12/2009
- Gidster I'm a Fan of Gidster 221 fans permalink
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Yes, and no bad mouthing the government, unless it is Republicans bad mouthing Democrats, that's OK I guess....

>Facepalm

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:11 PM on 11/12/2009
- phlashba I'm a Fan of phlashba 14 fans permalink

And who let his people in?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:39 PM on 11/12/2009
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So, can they override vetoes in Rhode Island?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:10 PM on 11/12/2009
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Excellent question. HuffPo eds, we have major hole in this piece.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:27 PM on 11/12/2009
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Democrats controll their Legislature, so yes.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:12 PM on 11/12/2009

The actions of this governor are simply obscene.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:47 AM on 11/12/2009
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