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The Faces of HIV in Zambia, Part 1: Meeting Connie

Posted: 07/24/2012 2:10 pm

In May, Debra Messing went to Zambia on a trip with PSI and Alere, the largest manufacturer of HIV testing technology. While there, she met with families, communities, health ministers, and doctors to learn about what HIV interventions are producing results on the ground -- and what gaps need to be filled. This week, Debra is in Washington, D.C., to participate in the 2012 International AIDS Conference. Below is the first in a series of three personal journal entries that she wrote while in Zambia.

Sunday, May 20: JoyFM radio show in Lusaka

The plane descended through the clouds, and I could see the city of Lusaka from my window seat. I began to think about the people I'll meet this week: people who are helping prevent HIV in Zambia, people who are living with HIV and thriving thanks to treatment and support services, people who are suffering and stigmatized. It had been two years since my last trip with PSI, so I was feeling excited and nervous.

Nervousness quickly turned to awe when I met Connie.

Along with colleagues from PSI and my new friends from Alere who are traveling with me (they are donating 1 million HIV testing kits to PSI -- more about them later), Connie and I were guests on the radio show of Mannasseh Phiri (a vegetarian, pig farmer, doctor, AIDS activist, radio host, and columnist... for real), which educates Zambians about HIV. Mannesseh is an amazing host, and Connie is just full of fire and passion. Her story is one of the most difficult and compelling I have heard. The two make an inspired team.

Connie had three children, but unbeknownst to her, she was HIV-positive. All three children died of AIDS complications because she didn't know her HIV status. That was also the reason she didn't take the medication that would have prevented her children from getting HIV. After a long and very difficult struggle to regain her mental and physical health, Connie became a formidable figure in Zambia, fighting to educate anyone and everyone who would listen about HIV, and giving support to those who are affected by it. She turned her pain and loss into something very powerful. I felt it as I sat next to her. I was determined that this woman be my friend and teacher.

On the radio show she spoke with people calling in, and she answered questions coming in by text. She was so comfortable and direct. She joked and put people at ease. I really enjoyed watching her.

My friends from Alere are here discussing a campaign called Make (+) More Positive. The campaign is about reducing HIV stigma and letting people know that you can live a healthy and productive life regardless of your status. The great part of the campaign is that for every "like" on Make (+) More Positive's Facebook page, or for every new follower on the Twitter page, one HIV testing kit is donated.

I thought about the campaign as I sat next to Connie. She is a living example of everything the campaign is about. I'm going to work on her becoming a very visible part of this effort. She is, in every way, an empowered woman. She's confident and outspoken. She doesn't dance around sensitive topics because they might make people uncomfortable. She thinks if we are going to stop HIV, we need to be able to talk about safer sex openly and honestly. I agree. I wish every woman had her confidence. Heck, I wish I had that kind of confidence. I'm seeing Connie again later this week to meet one of the support groups she is a part of, and I'm so glad. I can't wait!

I'm in Zambia this week as an ambassador for the global health organization PSI, representing their local program, Society for Family Health (SFH). I'm here to see and learn how "combination prevention" can help to stop the spread of HIV. From what my PSI colleagues have told me, it's actually common-sense stuff: When multiple interventions are used together, the likelihood of HIV transmission is greatly reduced. I plan to observe, absorb, and let the many people I meet this week be my teachers.

To be continued...

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Visiting with people living with HIV at an HIV support center (photo by Zoeann Murphy)

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Meeting Irene, who is living with HIV, and her children (photo by Zoeann Murphy)

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Getting tested for HIV (photo by Zoeann Murphy)


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lisac3333
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10:57 AM on 07/29/2012
I can't imagine anyone Wanting to have babies when they are not able to provide for them or have a disease they will pass on to their children. These people need to get together and talk about a government for their country that encourages Birth Control, Condoms, sex as being something special that belongs to the individual, education and respect for one another as human beings.
04:56 PM on 07/25/2012
I'm sorry it took having 3 children before she realized she had aids and medicine was available to her. I think start with CONDOMS which most of the time would serve as birth control and keep aids from being transferred to each other and of course for the ones who just go ahead; glad there is medication.
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Squiriferous
Annoying everybody on Huffington Post since 2011
04:14 AM on 07/25/2012
AIDS in Africa? Played out. How 1990s can you get?
09:34 PM on 07/24/2012
I really Like Debra Messing and I like the concept behind Make (+) More Positive. Good common sense and spreading the information in a place that desperately needs it.

Good for you Debra. Using your celebrity for a worthy cause. Let me get on over to that facebook page :)
06:50 PM on 07/24/2012
Great article. I didn't know Debra Messing was involved so much in this type of work. It's very nice to read such a positive message on such a horrible disease.

Just a few hours ago I became aware of some of the good results of one of our patients here in the clinic. He is African and has had HIV since childhood. His CD4 count was 22 and is now up to 1250 (normal is 500-1500). Also, the virus has become undetecable in his blood. We gave him a bunch of vitamins and supplements along with his regular medication.

These supplements include: Standard Olive Leaf Extract (1, 3 times daily), Rhodiola Forte (1 TID), Superior Rhododendrum Caucasium (1 TID), Increased water intake (body weight/2= x ounces per day), 1/2 teaspoon unrefined salt 2 times daily in water, Green Detox (100mg) (or 8 Brasil nuts a day), Unique B12 sublingual (1 a day under the tongue), Vitamin D3 (10,000 IU/day), Coconut oil (2 tablespoons daily), One ounce a day of Collodial Silver (we get the kind made in Weatherford, Texas. Patient swished it in mouth for 60 seconds, then swallowed), and Formula 44 multivitamin (2 or 3 daily).

I just got this news today, so it's so wonderful to read about others being helped. Hopefully this post will help someone else get some information that can help them with this horrible virus.
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Enrique Iglesias
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06:29 PM on 07/24/2012
Lusaka, Zambia; a City that is known for it thievery and no matter how much you give or try to protect it; I can guarantee that it will get stolen... Lusaka has a Sister City in Japan, and the road from the Airport to the Center of Town was not paved; so, the good Sister City said: We'll pay for the road to be paved and it will increase the tourist traffic and you will be better off for it... Well, they sent the money and six months later asked the Head of Tourism how he like the road; and he said; its the same as someone stole the money; so, the good Sister City sent more money and six month later the same answer... The flew in their own engineers, equipment, workers, material, etc., and built the damn road... Its two lanes in and out... my wife organized for a orphanage, bed, bedding, clothing, etc., when we came back two weeks later; it was all gone and the kids were sleeping on the dirt again... the only way to protect your investment in Zambia is to have your own private army with AK47's and people that know how to use them...We have a Safari Ranch on Lake Kariba; and that's how we deal with the poachers...
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Squiriferous
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04:16 AM on 07/25/2012
You cannot help people who are unwilling to help themselves. They need to nuke Africa and start over again.
04:09 PM on 07/24/2012
I celebrate Debra's writing this and sharing the Zambia experience. I have one similar awakening myself. Many people famous and not so famous should have experiences such as these and write about them. Unless we write about those experiences those people remain "them's and those's"... We have problems, Africa has problems, heck Asia has problems as well. Together we need to see it, talk about it and then venture to help change/fix it. - Rob
Sallyosally
Do unto others . . .
03:27 PM on 07/24/2012
I like Debra Messing. Very much. I really do. But she didn't have to go Zambia to learn about AIDS. She could have gone to any large city in America. But then, she probably wouldn't have gotten as much publicity. Plus, can the adoption of a black baby be far behind? Black babies seem to be white actresses new purses (I saw that on AOL somewhere and thought it quite apt). AIDS lives in America, and I don't know, maybe I'm wrong, but don't we have a responsibility as Americans to solve our own problems first? BTW, you will notice the pretty white actresses (except Sandra Bullock) adopt from Africa instead of black American babies. And don't get me started on the black actors/actresses who DON'T adopt disadvantaged black babies. (Yeah, why is that?)
04:34 PM on 07/24/2012
HIV/AIDS is a much bigger issue in Africa and other parts of the developing world than it is in the United States. To say AIDS "lives in America" is a pretty gross inaccuracy.

US infection rate is less than 1% of the adult population. African infection rates range about 20%, and they have a higher population.

In the US, almost everyone is educated about HIV, we screen our blood banks, people with HIV receive antiviral therapy that extends their lives and quality of life greatly, people are educated about safe sex practices, ect.

This isn't to say that the disease is not a problem in the US. But not being able to recognize the magnitude of difference between US HIV and African HIV just speaks to how insulated you are as an American about the rest of the world.
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lisac3333
Farm Lady
11:01 AM on 07/29/2012
Fis your own house first before venturing out to fix others. America has so many problems already that we could use all the help we can get
Sallyosally
Do unto others . . .
02:59 PM on 08/02/2012
Matt: Not only do I recognize the "magnitude of difference between US HIV and African HIV," I maintain that it is not, and should not be an American priority.  After 30 years of AIDS knowledge, it is not up to the USA to spread the word about how to avoid HIV in Zambia.  Zambian officials should be spreading the word.  And it's not America's fault if they don't.  And I'm not anywhere close to being on the far right in politics.   To me, it's just common sense. 
05:03 PM on 07/24/2012
Hi. I read your comment and thought I should try to reply, respectfully, to your question, maybe not with a comprehensive, complete answer, but with a reasoning that has no intention of diminishing the importance that HIV-related issues has in all global societies. Unfortunately, I do not know the situation of HIV prevention and HIV+ treatment in US - I am not American and I do not live there; I am a Brazilian, living in South America where we also fight strongly against HIV-related problems.
My reasoning is that, in comparison with the resources (medical, social, economical - even with most of us facing a distressing global financial crisis) African countries have been devastated by HIV without enough global notice. These countries, by comparison, are virtually resourceless: they lack doctors, hospitals, basic medicines (imagine specific ones, such as anti-virals for HIV, for instance), and an asset that is extremely important in this situation: INFORMATION. You see, the mother lost three children because she was not even aware of her situation. Giving visibility to such a devastating problem in Africa does not cancel the efforts we need to make in our own countries. The AIDS problem is a present and pressing one, maybe be more in Africa than in our own countries. While we center fire only in our own people, what should be done with those who does not have the political, economic, medical leverage we have?
Sallyosally
Do unto others . . .
08:45 PM on 07/24/2012
I hear what you are saying. (But I am curious why South Africa, not a third world country, doesn't provide more support to these HIV-riddled countries in the same continent.)  We ARE very rich, as a country, in comparison to Africa and other third world countries.  We do provide our enormous resources to other countries in need.  Enormous resources.  We can't fund the whole world forever.  We are having serious problems in this country, not just with AIDS and HIV-positive patients but with jobs and healthcare.  We give, give, give to the whole world, and truthfully, I don't see where we get much back, not even respect.  Why hasn't Zambia provided education for it's children in it's children, since the AIDS epidemic became common knowledge, so that they can become doctors and nurses and learn to take care of their citizens themselves?  Why can't they provide their own health teams to go into the areas hardest hit and give care and warning?  Don't you realize how many years AIDS has been a problem there?  At some point, a country - any country - needs to meet most of it's own needs.  At some point, the problem of AIDS awareness and treatment is Zambia's to solve.  It has been 31 years since AIDS was first diagnosed.  31 YEARS!  I think that is a salient point to make.  When is it reasonable to expect Zambia to take care of Zambia?  How many dollars have been sent there already?