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The Real Secret to Staying Healthy for Life (Part 2)

Posted: 08/07/2012 5:59 am

What is the best way to ensure that you will remain healthy your whole life? America has led the world in medical research that gave rise to the best advice on how to prevent lifestyle disorders. This trend has only increased, and the evidence for it has kept mounting. Up to 90 percent of cancers may be preventable, for example, a complete turn around from a decade ago. Lifestyle changes would reduce the rates of overweight, heart disease, Type 2 diabetes, and stroke as well. If more people actually complied with the recommended changes, general health would take a leap ahead.

But that isn't my focus. As important as it is to take care of yourself, letting your body take care of you is the real secret.

In the last post two things were crucial to giving your body the best chance to do what it was designed to do: survive and thrive at any age. Here I want to deal with the first critical ingredient: Create a matrix for a positive lifestyle. You can't make positive choices for the rest of your life without an environment that makes those choices easy, natural, and enjoyable.

The flaw in the whole prevention movement has been non-compliance. We are a nation suffering from an epidemic of obesity, turning more and more sedentary despite the good advice, which is constantly drummed into our heads. Unless they've been hibernating, everyone knows that long-term health depends upon a sensible diet and moderate physical exercise every day. As a first step, let's stop thinking in terms of discipline and self-control altogether. Some people are prevention saints. They consume only one tablespoon of total fat per day in their diet, because that's the ideal amount for heart health. They ignore wind and rain to get in five hours of vigorous exercise a week. Saints are inspiring to the rest of us, but deep down they are also discouraging because they remind us that we are a hundred miles from being saintly ourselves.

Change without force is certainly possible. What you need is to create a matrix for making better choices. By matrix I simply mean your setup for daily living. Everyone has a matrix already. Some people live inside a setup that makes positive choices much easier than it is for others. A cupboard that doesn't contain any snack foods would be part of such a matrix. A house without a television or video games would be another, but you aren't being good to yourself by jogging every day because you have no entertainment at home. In the end the physical side is secondary. A matrix is more substantial and sustainable.

The real key is to live in an environment where the mind feels free to choose the right thing instead of being compelled by habit and inertia to choose the wrong thing.

Matrix for a Positive Lifestyle:

  • Have good friends.

  • Don't isolate yourself.

  • Sustain a lifelong companionship with a spouse or partner.

  • Engage socially in worthwhile projects.

  • Be close with people who have a good lifestyle -- habits are contagious.

  • Follow a purpose in life.

  • Leave time for play and relaxation.

  • Keep up satisfying sexual activity.

  • Address issues around anger.

  • Practice stress management.

  • Deal with the reactive mind's harmful effects: When you have a negative reaction, stop, stand back, take a few deep breaths, and observe how you're feeling.


These items have been well correlated with longevity. One thing that links them is very basic: Success comes when people act together; failure tends to happen alone. A spouse or life partner who keeps an eye on your diet ("Haven't you already eaten a cookie today? Have a carrot!") is better than wandering the supermarket aisles alone and impulsively grabbing a week's worth of frozen dinners. A friend who goes to the gym three times a week gives you more incentive than all the promises you make to yourself as you watch Sunday Night Football. It's important to establish your matrix early and keep it going. Studies have shown that losing a spouse can suddenly lead to isolation, depression, higher risk for disease, and ultimately shortened life span. But if you have a wider social network beyond your spouse, you have a cushion against these baleful influences.

The other items on the list should be perused carefully, asking yourself honestly how you can improve your matrix. The goal is to practice what is good for you while making everything as effortless as possible. This only happens with positive reinforcement. The good news is that as you change your lifestyle, you are training your brain in a positive direction. In time, all the right choices become second nature. Research has shown that the best way to be happy is to make each day happy. The same holds true for the highest state of health, which is well-being. Build it day by day and the results will last a lifetime.

Your outer environment is only half the story. In the final post I'll discuss the second key to lifelong good health, which is to create the right inner environment, a journey that begins with making the mind-body connection as strong as possible.

(To be continued.)

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What is the best way to ensure that you will remain healthy your whole life? America has led the world in medical research that gave rise to the best advice on how to prevent lifestyle disorders. This...
What is the best way to ensure that you will remain healthy your whole life? America has led the world in medical research that gave rise to the best advice on how to prevent lifestyle disorders. This...
 
 
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Punks
05:01 PM on 08/08/2012
Good piece.

"Change without force is certainly possible."

Perhaps listening to your intuition should be on the top of the list.
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Neal M. Blitz
10:56 AM on 08/08/2012
Very True. Thank you
09:39 AM on 08/08/2012
Working with people with chronic and life threatening conditions, I update our handout Healing the Whole Person: Ways to Increase Well-Being http://healingwhole.blogspot.com/2012/03/healing-whole-person-ways-to-increase.html every March. Interesting to see how many similarities there are between the Healing Whole list and this one.
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Lisa Arends
Author, wellness coach, and teacher
05:35 AM on 08/08/2012
At times when my life has been stressful and out of balance, I literally follow a matrix each week. I have categories for exercise, nutrition, social contact, fulfilling work, sleep, play, and self-care. I also have my life mission statement and my weekly goal (which can be anything I want to focus on) at the top. It helps me to recognize where I am out of balance and gently nudges me back towards centered.
http://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com
07:28 PM on 08/07/2012
The Thought Police are here. From "Seven Spiritual Laws of Success" to health department lackey. I suppose it's the price of success, but I crave for some of your previous psycho-spiritual deep think, instead of just throwing your credentials around mirroring things so many others say.
01:43 PM on 09/06/2012
They are indeed. One group is the Totalists.
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David4FreePress
I am a volunteer, Tong Ren distant energy healer.
06:17 PM on 08/07/2012
Your suggestions are all energetic practices, which I am happy to see.
It is just too bad that no one in Western medicine is willing to give credit to the thousands of years of Eastern energy work that has already been developed.
Maintain positive energetic relationships with people to stimulate our own energy flow.
Worthwhile projects and purpose in life connect us to a greater good.
Relaxation can be achieved by meditation.
Letting go of anger and stress are well known practices.
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Jill Lawson
12:26 PM on 08/07/2012
I am deeply saddened to see people (especially family) live their lives caught in a matrix of doubt, negativity, and victim consciousness. Why do some people choose happiness and others choose to stay stuck? Anyone have an answer?
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Gina Ryder
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03:55 PM on 08/10/2012
Hey Jill! That's a REALLY great question. Thanks for commenting. I wonder if people who choose to stay stuck were raised in negative environments? Or maybe they operate in the thought process that things can't be changed? Without solid self reflection, I've seen some people just sort of just exist and react to situations while others actively pursue happiness through their lifestyle on a daily basis. I also wonder if being negative overtime creates so much bad energy that (at a subconscious level) feels like the norm? What are your thoughts? It is really sad though. Have you ever seen a "stuck" person completely change?
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Jill Lawson
06:35 PM on 08/16/2012
Thanks Gina. I haven't witnessed any negative people I know change from being negative to happy, but I have met happy people who have said they used to be negative, or were brought up in a negative environment and somehow (will or circumstance) changed their perspective! Maybe negativity is an addiction? Something that creates a feedback loop that is hard to stop due to some chemical reaction? Lots to ponder. Thanks for your reply!
05:33 PM on 08/15/2012
To respond to Gina's question below, visiting 12 Step addiction recovery meetings, I met lots of "stuck" people who completely changed. It's an inspiration! It takes a lot of effort, though. So back to Jill's question, why do some choose happiness and others stay stuck? I think it is awareness of a choice. Someone in denial will tell himself he has no choices, it's not his fault or in his control. That way he protects himselves from choosing that difficult effort. Someone with a little bit of self-awareness will see other choices and take responsibility for making a choice. Maybe she will decide happiness is worth the personal effort required.
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Jill Lawson
06:36 PM on 08/16/2012
How come some people don't believe they have a choice? Are they just too hard-wired for emotional pain?
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Becca Chopra
Holistic counselor, yoga/meditation instructor
12:15 PM on 08/07/2012
Great list of items to peruse. Still, if we're non-compliant with diet and exercise, changing our lives in other ways may also meet resistance. Our subconscious minds want to keep the status quo, and we need to change our unconscious patterns that we've learned to rely on, but which may actually be working against us. There's a great mind-body technique called Dynamind where your conscious mind can direct your subconscious to change negative patterns, or increase positive ones; perhaps Deepak will be addressing this type of work in Part 3. If you'd like to see how to use Dynamind, check out
http://www.thechakras.org/chakra-secrets.html.
Namaste!
Becca Chopra, author of The Chakra Diaries and Chakra Secrets
10:21 AM on 08/07/2012
I love this!