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What Are the Emotional Drivers of Our National Unraveling?

Posted: 08/11/11 09:59 PM ET

The S&P downgrade of the U.S. credit rating has spawned increased criticism and analysis of President Obama's apparent reluctance -- or inability -- to confront the Republican opposition or push for major investment in infrastructure and jobs. Among the most vocal are Labor Secretary Robert Reich, psychologist Drew Westen, and MSNBC's Chris Matthews.

All of them offer good, concrete recommendations for how Obama could demonstrate the leadership and a clear action program that his supporters have been waiting and longing for. They offer plausible explanations of why he isn't doing that. More broadly, it's also useful to understand what fuels a growing sense of unraveling throughout our country (a current poll finds 79% dissatisfied with our political system); and, increasingly, around the globe.

One way to do that is by recognizing some psychological drivers of the polarization -- around the role of government, and in the opposition to forging reasonable, compromise-based solutions to problems. I think a major psychological source originates in people's responses to the crumbling of an overall way of life that's pretty much predominated throughout the 20th Century -- in business and at work; in personal life goals and relationships; and in social and public policy. It's themes are embracing self-interest and selfishness; domination of some groups by others; and control of resources by the few at the expense of the larger society's needs.

That worked fairly well in the 20th Century; or at least it was accepted, with all its inequities. But today, people sense that their old way of life just isn't working. And it's not. Today, we're plunging headfirst into a new reality -- and no leader has really articulated it or helped people understand how to deal with it.

That is, the world is transforming in ways that require shifting away from the short-term self-interest that's defined our way of life. The 21st Century world -- the post-9-11, post-2008-economic-meltdown world -- is highly interconnected, unstable and fluid. For example, economic strategist Umair Haque has pointed out that our business, social and economic institutions have become obsolete; they are set of ideas inherited from the industrial age of the 20th century. He argues that they no longer work for business, people, society, or the future. The old "business as usual" model has outgrown the old paradigm of short-term growth, competition at all costs, adversarial strategy, and pushing costs onto future generations. What he describes about business can also apply to values and behavior in personal lives.

And on a larger scale, Fareed Zakaria emphasizes that the new era is one in which the United States will no longer dominate the global economy, orchestrate geopolitics, or overwhelm cultures. He sees the "rise of the rest" -- the growth of countries like China, India, Brazil, and Russia -- reshaping the world. That shift, in turn, poses a new challenge of how the U.S. can understand and thrive in a rapidly changing international climate.

Success and stability in the new, evolving era requires letting go of the old mentality and orientation that was driven primarily by self-interest and its ultimate expression, greed; and instead, creating ways to serve the larger, social good. That means some form of sacrifice for the greater benefit of all lives.

The Psychological Impact
Dealing with these shifts can have frightening impact. Any highly disruptive change can result in feeling unmoored and uncertain about your future. The values, beliefs and vested interests that we've acquired and absorbed have brought material success to many, and stirred aspirations in others. But we've reached a tipping point in that respect. A culture that's valued and rewarded accumulating the fruits of business success and the resources of the planet for oneself; for purposes of primarily self-interest -- whether individuals or corporations -- is not adaptive to the needs of the 21st Century world.

The new reality is that giving primacy to self-interest in the way that's predominated in personal and public life will undermine both individual and societal wellbeing. Recognizing this can open the door to creative solutions to problems based more on an orientation to the common good. Or, it can generate very regressive, unhealthy, fear-based responses.

That is, when the values you've absorbed, believed in and lived for; and have defined who you are -- including what a successful life is supposed to be -- no longer work as they have, that creates conflict. You have practical problems (how do I deal with this, or restore my life to how it's always worked?) and psychological problems: fearing loss of identity, of self-worth. Helplessness in the face of unknown forces. Unanticipated stress or insecurity in your relationships. Confusion or fear about the influx and expectations of people who think, behave, look and believe differently from what you've always known and are accustomed to.

These new conflicts and fears can result in two unproductive and unhealthy responses:

First, Fears and threats can create a powerful emotional backlash that overwhelms reason, judgment and empathy. That is, strong fears can activate the "primitive" part of the brain, the amygdala, and drive you into the classic "fight" or "flight" response: Either run away from the danger, or attack it.

Such powerful emotional responses overwhelm the functioning of the frontal lobes and pre-frontal cortext, regions of the brain associated with our inborn capacity for judgment, rational problem-solving, flexibility, and the capacity for organized thinking. They can inhibit the expression of the inborn capacities for empathy and altruism.

Regarding the latter, research finds that social class can also inhibit empathy when it's linked with excessive self-interest. A recent study found that upper class people demonstrate less empathy than lower class people. The two groups have the same innate capacity for empathy, but it appears that upper class people tend to be more lulled into self-absorption and selfishness, while members of the lower classes, who deal more with survival within diminished economic and work opportunities, may be more "connected" empathically to others' emotional and material needs.

The second response to fears and threats, when they activate more primitive "fight or flight" behavior, is seeking the "safety" and "security" of escapist solutions. For example, retreating into a fantasy land of outright denial of what's changing in front of your eyes; or attempting to destroy those who represent it.

That can lead to viewing the "other" with fear, resentment, irrational anger, or refusal to compromise around differences for a common goal. Or, aggressive assault to destroy that which embodies the changes that threaten your way of life. We see all three at work in the fear-based responses to the massive changes underway, especially the growing need to serve the greater good, not just one's own selfish interests.

  • Escapism, such as expressed by those who speak about the need to "take back America;" or isolationist, cult movements and conspiracy theories.
  • Aggressive actions intended to intimidate and render impotent, if not destroy outright, the opposition or those who embody various feared changes -- gays, immigrants, minorities, or those who advocate eliminating tax loopholes and ending tax breaks for the ultra-rich
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Our Absentee Leadership
Understanding some of the psychological threads of our current crisis points to three leadership needs:

  • The need to confront and expose destructive, irrational and extreme ideological goals that are promoted as a desirable agenda; and clearly repudiate them
  • The need to address and articulate with empathy the concerns, fears and sense of loss of people drawn to the Tea Party movement, or others who advocate solutions that fail to serve the common good. Help them see a different path that will benefit themselves and others.
  • The need to clearly articulate the programs and actions required of all -- in individual lives, in communities, and in national policies that will build long-term well being, growth and security for the society.

Much of the current criticism of Obama is that he does none of those very well.

And that's a lost opportunity, because showing the way towards greater wellbeing for all is not only consistent with the best of American values; it's essential to survive and thrive in this tumultuous era.

Douglas LaBier, Ph.D., a business psychologist and psychotherapist, is Director of the Center for Progressive Development in Washington, D.C. You may contact him at dlabier@CenterProgressive.org.

 
 
 

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Loyal Whig
"Some animals are more equal than others."
07:07 AM on 08/21/2011
The problem is not the vocal minorities it is the apathetic majority of voters. The reason for their apathy is they know, it doesn't matter who is in charge Republicans or Democrats, they will always take care of themselves their families and their rich friends.

Harry Reid can't stand the smell of the American People. We can depend on Harry to have our best interest at heart as long as he doesn't have to smell us.
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Ann Bedingham
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02:11 PM on 08/18/2011
Absolutely spot on article on the transformation we are facing! Unfortunately, change comes through chaos. Hopefully we will move into the "new world" with a more spiritual (not religious) rooted value system.
12:51 PM on 08/17/2011
Thanks for your reply, Douglas. I'm sort of new at the HP process...how do I access your past articles? Bev Winters
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Douglas LaBier
09:40 AM on 08/18/2011
At the top of any article, click on my name (next to my picture), then on the page that opens, scroll down and you will see on the left a list of my recent posts, that you can click on. Then, further down, on the right, in small print, is a listing of all of my posts. Thanks for asking!
09:49 AM on 08/18/2011
Thanks much!
03:20 PM on 08/16/2011
How exciting! Thank you Douglas for your amazing contribution. It is my experience that by the time something is finally being written about, explained and expressed for all to hear, see and ingest ... it has hit a threshold way past the individual, here and there, "beginning" of these thoughts and feelings, and is now somewhere on the cusp of inevitable transition. For those of us contributing in the ways we can and following news, bloggers, comments, etc., there is an interesting thing happening. Things are converging, overlapping and being revealed, such that a coalescence is forming in the collective minds of many. For those who are involving themselves, because they see it is time and that opportunity is at hand, it is important to push ever harder and awake those around us. Send these articles and blogs to your FB and Twitter, etc. I am thrilled and filled w hope about the direction we are CAUSING to happen through articles like this and so many others coming from all needed directions, speaking to those who are listening. This article should open so much for many, I am excited to see the progress of this serendipitous opportunity the government standoffs have created. It no longer matters what they are feeling and doing as Douglas has explained, the people are now understanding.
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Douglas LaBier
09:22 AM on 08/17/2011
Thanks for your comments! I do think that massive transformation is brewing, today, and have tried to write about that in some of my previous posts, about the rise of the common good; why the right-wing fears the future, and others.
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GoogleAlphaPublishing
nothing, nobody, not a representative
01:09 PM on 08/16/2011
Wow! Fantastic blog post. Thank you, Donald.
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Douglas LaBier
09:23 AM on 08/17/2011
Thanks -- note that my name is Douglas, however, not Donald :)
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GoogleAlphaPublishing
nothing, nobody, not a representative
12:20 PM on 08/17/2011
Sorry. Thanks, Douglas.
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humanbeing-rick
Born in the USA 1947
11:51 AM on 08/13/2011
There is also psychological damage caused by knowingly committing wrongs and exploiting your fellow man. The capitalists have to turn off their conscience and replace it with man made ideology, however one can only fool yourself for so long...
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humanbeing-rick
Born in the USA 1947
11:45 AM on 08/13/2011
Yes, there is a profound psychological impact from being robbed & pillaged by the aristocrats of global capitalism year after year, after year, after year, after year, after year, after year...
It is a severe negative impact on all the non-privileged people who were not so lucky, in other words, the other 90-98% of us! I am mad as he## about our own self-imposed destruction by the few!
07:03 AM on 08/13/2011
Historically, global power always moves westward. First China, then to Europe, then to the Americas and now back to China...this is nothing new.

To the psychological points: you need to understand that at the root of the Democratic party are envy & greed. They are a party who believe taking is better than working.
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humanbeing-rick
Born in the USA 1947
11:47 AM on 08/13/2011
Fact: The Democratic party has historically been the party of the working people of America.
The Republicans represent the elitists that sit on their fat ends all day!
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Douglas LaBier
04:18 PM on 08/13/2011
@ luapmi2 - Comments such as you made about the Democratic Party are not conducive to reasonable discussion -- the same if they had been made about Republicans. Perhaps present your point of view and what it's based on, rather than just an extreme characterization!
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SageFire
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09:26 PM on 08/12/2011
I have to say that even though there are many posts on this thread of which I disagree with the content this has been literally the best thread I have ever read here on HP. Such beautiful discourse by all sides. What a pleasure. Thank you all!
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Douglas LaBier
04:18 PM on 08/13/2011
@SageFire - for the most part, I agree!
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ignacio sanabria
Mirror synapses at work
08:26 PM on 08/12/2011
People vote on emotions, not on common sense. Unfortunately.
05:25 PM on 08/12/2011
Among Douglas la Bier's many insights, America's disgust is reflected in the Post poll finding that 78 percent of us are dissatisfied with the political system. No wonder! Congress has increasingly politicized every decision for more than a decade reaching the pinnacle (pit?) with the argument over the debt ceiling. President Obama, who I worked hard to elect, has shown no real leadership. Many of us are to the point of now working against the re-election of all incumbents. I feel they should all be very careful because a third party may be on the horizon. Maybe some kind of Phoenix Party will rise from the ashes of the Democratic Party and Republican Party. Imagine a political party whose candidates pledge to serve only two terms. A party that only accepts contributions from individuals, not PACs or corporations or stealth political organizations. I feel moderate Americans would flock to such a party. Is there such an animal out there?
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EcnelisDoogod
B the change you want 2C
05:22 PM on 08/12/2011
Not sure why my original post was blocked, but let me try again.

The age of consumerism has brought us here. We have lots of stuff, and indeed 70% of our GDP is consumer driven. But the constant badgering for our attention and money has taken its toll. The empty promises of what will make us happy has brought despair about ourselves and the world around us. We are starving for the truth, but all we get are more commercials.

The truth is that we are emotional meat-bags that can be tricked into voting against our own interests. The truth is we have been studied and analyzed so that all our buttons are exposed for pushing. Not only are the generalization of our species and culture understood, but individually we are so constantly monitored that we can't escape the analysis, predictability, and most importantly the easily sheepling by those who control the knowledge gathering.

Freud and his nephew Edward Bernays knew that reason is NOT the primary motivator, and made a lot of money selling their ideas to corporations and governments. Take a look at this BBC documentary on how women women were tricked into smoking (once considered taboo).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsUM1AtqS1I

And good luck in trying to fight the appeal to your ego.
nothingchanges
too soon old, too late smart
04:23 PM on 08/12/2011
Personal opinion.

Many politicians have discovered that it's FAR easier to "go for the gut" then appeal to the head.

Why bother with formulating and presenting a reasoned debate, when you can demonize some characteristic, position, or statement of your opponent and engender hatred on sight?

In today's politics, it doesn't even have to be true...............it just has to work.

"I am a firm believer in the people. If given the truth, they can be depended upon to meet any national crisis. The great point is to bring them the real facts." (Abraham Lincoln)

Old Abe never could have even conceived of "Fox News".
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Douglas LaBier
04:20 PM on 08/13/2011
Good points, thanks!
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EcnelisDoogod
B the change you want 2C
04:17 PM on 08/12/2011
So we are starving for the truth? The truth is we are emotional meatbags that can be tricked into voting against our own interests. The truth is we have been studied and analyzed so that all our buttons are exposed for pushing. The truth is that our government has such widespread surveillance that each and everyone of us are thoroughly analyzed, extremely predictable, and most importantly easily herded.

Freud and his nephew Edward Bernays knew this, and made a lot of money selling their ideas to corporations and governments. Take a look at this BBC documentary on how women were tricked into smoking (once considered taboo).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsUM1AtqS1I

And good luck in trying to fight the appeal to your ego.
jhNY
Mercy.
12:51 PM on 08/12/2011
I would argue that the next historical epoch is at least as likely to be characterized by population loss as by cooperation. Food sources are under immense environmental pressure, and overall, are dwindling even today, as the amount of arable land diminishes due to changing environmental conditions. We have reached peak production levels of our next most indispensable commodity, oil, and were we to discover huge new fields, would only exacerbate the environmental damage already evident as a result of its burning.

The fiat-based monetary system is likewise under terrific and ultimately insurmountable attack-- the price of gold today is as an expression of investors' wishes to hold wealth in some comparatively durable form, but it is also a market assessment of the value of our currency, which is trending uniformly negative. The prospect of the dollar's loss of value is not only frightening, it is likely to cause major political and economic disruptions, possibly to the point of massive violence, throughout the world.

Finally, as our population reaches its maximum possible under current conditions, we have penetrated environments and obscure areas of the earth wherein disease may reside such that we have no resistance to whatsoever. The polar ice masses are melting off too, releasing into the oceans microbes that have been dormant for many thousands of years, to which we may also have little or no resistance.