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How Your Thoughts And Emotions Can Affect Your Body

Posted: 11/29/2011 7:30 am

Ed remembers having an upset stomach when he was a child and his grandmother asking him if he was having a problem at school. What she knew instinctively we are at last beginning to prove scientifically: that there is an intimate and dynamic relationship between what is going on with our feelings and thoughts, and what happens in the body. A TIME magazine special showed that happiness, hopefulness, optimism and contentment "appear to reduce the risk or limit the severity of cardiovascular disease, pulmonary disease, diabetes, hypertension, colds and upper-respiratory infections," while "depression -- the extreme opposite of happiness -- can worsen heart disease, diabetes and a host of other illnesses."

In Woody Allen's movie "Manhattan," Diane Keaton is breaking up with Woody and wants to know why he isn't angry. "I don't get angry," Allen replies, "I grow a tumor instead."

However, Deb recently had a burst appendix, and she is immensely grateful for the medical intervention that saved her life. So we know that illness is very real, that accidents happen, and how medicine can help. We aren't trying to convince anyone that the sole reason for illness is in our mind. Nor are we saying that by understanding how the mind and body work together that we'll be able to miraculously cure ourselves.

What we believe is that the role of the mind and emotions in our state of health is a vital one and that by understanding this relationship we can claim a greater role in our own well-being. It is only a part of the overall picture, but it is the part that is invariably overlooked.

If we separate an organism into its component parts it can't function. Each piece has a role to play, even if it is a very small role, so if only one part is malfunctioning it will affect the whole. Recently our car broke down. After it was fixed, we were told that it had been just one small wire that had caused the problem, yet the engine could not function properly without it. In the same way, if we ignore the role our feelings and thoughts play we are ignoring one of the most important parts that make up our whole being. And it may be the one that most needs to get fixed.

Generally speaking, we tend to think of our bodies and minds as separate systems and believe they function, for the most part, independently. Yet instinctively we know that is not the whole story. For instance, can you remember the last time you had an interview for a job? Or went on a first date with someone you were really trying to impress? In either case, no doubt you wanted to appear calm and collected but at the same time you were feeling self-conscious and nervous. Can you recall how your body felt? Self-consciousness can tighten your buttock muscles (so you are literally sitting on your tension), you sweat more than usual, may feel slightly nauseated, and you will probably fluff your words, just when you want to appear suave and confident.

In other words, our emotions affect us physically. It might be easy to understand that a scary thought gets our heart beating faster, but it can be harder to realize that loneliness, sadness or depression can also affect us physically, and when it comes to more complex emotions or illnesses few of us consider our emotions to have any relevance.

Understanding the body-mind relationship won't necessarily cure all our physical difficulties, but by learning the language of symptoms and illness we can discover what is being repressed or ignored in our psyche and emotions, and how this is influencing our well-being. From this vantage point we can discover that there is an extraordinarily intimate two-way communication going on between our body and mind that affects both our physical state and our mental and emotional health. Self-reflection and meditation are ways that help us deepen this understanding.

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Ed remembers having an upset stomach when he was a child and his grandmother asking him if he was having a problem at school. What she knew instinctively we are at last beginning to prove scientifical...
Ed remembers having an upset stomach when he was a child and his grandmother asking him if he was having a problem at school. What she knew instinctively we are at last beginning to prove scientifical...
 
 
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Vajara
vajara
11:15 AM on 11/30/2011
No doubt, what affects our body, affects our mind and our emotions are not disciplined without meditation. I work with Injured Warriors and their Families and introduce them to breathing exercises, progressive relaxation, body movement (especially Tai Chi, Kath State Exercises, visualizations, mantras, and mudras. Seems to me that once they develop a daily health routine and work all of their systems, they get better. It is important for care providers to learn health practices and join with their clients in practice so that they can improve the quality of their lives health and relationships.

I really enjoy and appreciate your articles as they are supportive and healthy for all of us. http://jerryvestinjuredwarrior.com
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
03:36 AM on 12/02/2011
Vajara - great comment! Thank you!
It's people like you & comments like yours that make blogging fun & worthwhile!
Treasure yourself,
Ed
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Vajara
vajara
09:43 AM on 12/02/2011
Thanks, Ed....you are a valuable health professional and very important during these catestrophic wars, devastating economic conditions for most of us and the lack of leadership to improve life, health and relationships on our planet. You and Deb speak to these challenging times.
09:26 AM on 11/30/2011
Thanks for this reminder. I know when I am in CHAOS my energy is zilch. When I take the time to calm my mind, everything just flows with a great deal of ease. Love this!
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
02:51 PM on 11/30/2011
FANNED & FAV'D
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
09:41 PM on 12/04/2011
the more we are aware - the more we can meditate which is actually paying attention then things become less chaotic!
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khanti
Cultivator
11:31 PM on 11/29/2011
Very true. Perhaps in your next article you can touch on how trapped emotions can affect your body and health - just a suggestion.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
06:06 AM on 11/30/2011
Thank you khanti - I will mention it to Deb
always happy when you appear!
In the dharma,
Ed
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
09:42 PM on 12/04/2011
our next blog on Tues will help people understand more about bodymind!
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khanti
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10:26 AM on 12/05/2011
Gary Speed a great footballer committed suicide not long after I posted the earlier comment. Depression is a curable mind disease.
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susanbsbi
Slave to 3 cats
09:34 PM on 11/29/2011
I am a cancer patient and I am well aware that emotions upsets the body functions. I step back when I have anything ups sets my mind and take a few deep breaths. I let my mind go blank, and let my body take over. In about an hour i am back to being a whole person. What help come to this realization is "The Book of Secrets". It was given to me by another patient in the hospital.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
06:08 AM on 11/30/2011
good that you pay attention with awareness - when we relax into the moment it can only be beneficial.
Meditation & relaxation are good friends to have!
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sophie M
ANTI WAR./animal rescue
08:25 PM on 11/29/2011
someone stole my car last night.......right out of my driveway.
i am struggling not get depressed
nothing and no one can make it ok.
i am so broke, and i have so many animals........
i went shopping yesterday morning, bought 10 bags of purina dog food,
picked up my mail...a months worth of mail,
i had a file folder in the car, my 2010 income tax return..........
all gone now.
i have no car and no money and no job and no hope.
i have hanging on a thread......
why did someone have to steal my car?
i am so sad.......trying not to get depressed.
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dpkjj
Peace on Earth
11:58 PM on 11/29/2011
So sorry, Sophie. I send you healing prayers.
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sophie M
ANTI WAR./animal rescue
05:21 PM on 11/30/2011
thank you.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
06:11 AM on 11/30/2011
wow - what an unbelievable stressful situation! if nothing else just breathe - do your best-
try to find help in your area -
everyone send loving vibs
Be strong you need all the help you can get!
don't give up!
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sophie M
ANTI WAR./animal rescue
05:22 PM on 11/30/2011
thank you.
05:21 PM on 11/29/2011
I'm interested in knowing what the specifics are when it comes to hypothyroidism and our emotions. I was diagnosed with congenital hypothyroidism and have struggled to control my emotions and feelings my entire life, and at 15 I was diagnosed with Social Anxiety Disorder. Since I lost my insurance coverage 4 years ago, unfortunately I have not had access to my medication. I'm reaching 30 now, and I find myself far more susceptible to anxiety attacks and depression, which in turn leads me to be sick and much more tired more often than most people. I work very hard within my own mind to control what's happening to my body-- I have carefully watched my diet, made sure I had good outlets to release the over-abundance of anxiety or depression when those pangs hit me, but I'm terrified as to how all this will affect my body later on, if it's not taking its toll already. I am constantly struggling to define what is really happening to me, and what can be considered hypochondriac thoughts that come about when I hit certain stages of depression. I realize that I need my meds to be able to fully control what's going on.

To cut to the point, I know better than most how my emotions define what my health will look like.
05:03 PM on 11/29/2011
In Ayurveda, emotions correspond to chakras, organs and the endocrine system ( and hence the lymphatic system). For example, anger lives in the liver, trust oin the gall bladder and grief in the lungs. This way of thinking has been around for centuries... Balancing our emotions helps us to stay healthy!
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
06:17 AM on 11/30/2011
meditate- meditation is your best friend -
when you are aware - truly aware
you can see deeply-

by the way the chakra system is not physical -
it is whole different understanding in India than here in the USA-
it is not understood properly in the western world
I trained in India in 1968 - been teaching over 42 years!
If you like & want to know more see our website - contact me:

EdandDebShapiro.com
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
11:02 AM on 11/30/2011
The chakra system has it's foundation in yoga.
Emotions do not correspond to chakras-
emotion is related to the Swadishtana Chakra or second level -
where did all this misinformation arise from-
sad to say I have not met many prctitioners
who have the least knowledge or understanding-
of what the chakras are!
Jai Guru!
Swami Brahmananda Saraswati (Ed Shapiro)
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04:29 PM on 11/29/2011
There is definetely a connection between emotions and sickness. I believe it was anger that caused me Graves Disease in 2007 and recent relapse in May of this year.

As I get older I realize that I can only control how I react and feel about life and its ups and downs so I have stopped expecting the ideal outcomes every time which ironically I find have made me much freer and happier.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
11:12 PM on 11/30/2011
No appointment no disappointment
03:32 PM on 11/29/2011
I wish I had started meditation when I was 15. Now I remember how my back and legs used to hurt on exam days without any physical activity. better late than never.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
06:19 AM on 11/30/2011
Yup - better late than never
there is only-
now!
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03:13 PM on 11/29/2011
It is well known that the brain scan of a happy person is different from that of an unhappy one. We also know that the brain communicates with the body, and that a little stress can be inspirational, while severe stress can cause illness. In fact, we call these "stress diseases". Heart disease, high blood pressure, ulcers and migraines are a few examples.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
11:13 PM on 11/30/2011
very true!
02:16 PM on 12/01/2011
It is estimated that stress accounts for 90% of disease which is why stress management is part of what I teach in my first medical hypnosis session.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
03:38 AM on 12/02/2011
You are right on!
03:10 PM on 11/29/2011
When we are under stress or suffering emotional pain our bodies use up neurotransmitters and vitamins much more quicky and can become depleted, and this can lead to physical symptoms as well as more serious emotional problems like depression and anxiety.

If you look at it in reverse, taking supplements to fix the physical problems (the deficiency of neurotransmitters and vitamins) can also cure the depression and anxiety.

http://www.gethelpfordepression.info/
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
04:36 AM on 12/02/2011
Thank you for your comment!
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01:40 PM on 11/29/2011
It sounds like you're recovering from that burst appendix, Deb. That's good to hear.

Science is beginning to prove what the field of psychology has long understood, that connections between our thoughts and what happens in our bodies are all too real.

As I was taught as a child, "Who's the boss of your body? Your mind. Who's the boss of your mind? You."

Or at least that's the theory.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
03:30 AM on 12/01/2011
Yes!
01:39 PM on 11/29/2011
Yes thoughts and emotions affect the human body. Meditation is one way, to quiet the thoughts, but , using the three principles of Mind, Consciousness and Thought direct you into your true self to experience the wisdom of the ages. Its simpler, quicker, accurate and free.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
05:19 PM on 11/29/2011
Hey grannymaui
We are talking about true meditation which is pure awareness & is direct knowing
Meditation is awareness of 'Radiant Emptiness'

check our book

BE THE CHANGE
foreword by
Tha Dalai Lama
www.EdandDebShapiro.com

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Olivia Rosewood
12:56 PM on 11/29/2011
What a fascinating post. Thank you. I hope that Deb is on the mend, and making a fast recovery from her burst appendix.

I first got into meditating and alternative medicine to try to deal with psoriasis and asthma which came in with me at my birth. I am so grateful for my journey, because it opened me up to many amazing practices and traditions. And because my physical issues were persistent, I went into meditation and energetics deeply.

However, what I came to realize only recently is that many of my health issues, as well as my children's, stem from exposure to harsh chemicals dumped by the U.S. Army on an island in Maryland where my childhood home was located.

So, while I can't undo my mutated DNA and a predisposition to certain physical issues, it IS true that healthy, positive life, thoughts, and foods are helpful. In short, I am aware of the contributions of not only my inner world, but our collectively created outer world, as well.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
03:33 AM on 12/01/2011
Yes environment is another factor in the bodymind connect-

Your blogs are great!
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jannas2cents
12:56 PM on 11/29/2011
It's sooooo true. After trying for two years to get my mortgage with Chase bank modified I developed coronary artery disease and have had two angioplasties and one angiogram and numerous trips to the ER and now take a handfull of cardiac meds every day. I've never had high blood pressure -- in fact, my BP was always lower than normal. Stress definitely takes its toll on our minds and bodies and I see the consequences firsthand. It's a very helpless feeling to have so little control over my finances which in turn affects my overall health and wellbeing. Now I struggle not to be that angry, bitter person.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
04:37 AM on 12/02/2011
Good understanding - thanks for your comment!