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Medical Marijuana Lights Up Child Custody Court

Posted: 09/26/11 05:10 AM ET

Amid the flurry of accusations in child custody disputes, allegations of marijuana use rank high on the list. Until recent years, the court's position on this subject was easy to predict since judges and child custody evaluators maintained a zero tolerance policy toward smoking pot. In child custody cases within the greater Denver area, attorneys routinely admonished our clients that even if you're smoking only when the kids are with the other parent, enjoying a Rocky Mountain high is illegal, ill-advised and potentially devastating to your parenting time request. In court, when one parent cried marijuana, the other parent was ordered to a drug testing facility for a hair follicle test or random urinalysis. If the offending parent flunked the drug test, the next visit with their ten year old just might be under the supervision of a local agency.

Flash forward to 2011. The soup du jour is medical marijuana, and MM dispensaries have been sprouting up like weeds throughout the Denver/Boulder area and the entire country. Since implementation of Amendment 20, which amended the Colorado Constitution to recognize medical marijuana, the MM business has flourished. According to a recent report from The Daily, Denver now has more MM dispensaries than Starbucks and at least 125,000 Colorado residents have a license to smoke MM. If smoking irritates the lungs, one can always opt for medicated pizza or cheesecake at the edible outlet. In a state which is otherwise known for its healthy, fit and youthful population, a surprising number of people now require regular medication for the treatment of sore joints, chronic pain or additional physical ailments.

While Colorado is particularly fertile ground for growers and users of MM, all indications are that the legalization of medical marijuana is becoming a national phenomenon. A recent report from ProCon.org states that sixteen states plus Washington DC now have laws legalizing medical marijuana. According to the See Change Strategy report of March of 2011, the medical marijuana industry nationwide is a $1.7 billion dollar market with 24.8 million potential customers. In Phoenix, Arizona, where voters approved medical marijuana last fall, a local big box store which does not sell marijuana but which specializes in hydroponic equipment for marijuana growers is commonly referred to as the "Walmart of Weed."

The explosion in medical marijuana has caused a corresponding relaxation in the national attitude about use of this drug with or without an MM license. All of this poses new questions and challenges for the courts in cases where one parent's allegation of substance abuse is solely related to marijuana. If a parent is a card-carrying marijuana patient, does this give the parent a carte blanche license to take their medication before or during their court ordered parenting time? Since the doctor's prescription for this medicine has no specific dosage, can the court rationally determine that a particular patient is over-medicating? When one parent's use of marijuana is undisputed, is that conduct sufficient to order supervised parenting time or must the accusing parent also establish that unsupervised parenting time would endanger the children's physical health or emotional development?

The latter question was answered by the Colorado Court of Appeals in the 2010 case of Marriage of Parr, 240 P.3d 509 (Colo.App.Div.1 2010). At the time of their divorce, the parties' parenting plan required the father to take ongoing UA's to show that he did not return to marijuana use. Shortly after the divorce, dad got his MM license. Dad filed a motion to waive the drug testing and, when it was denied, mom filed a motion to restrict dad's parenting time. One year later, after dad had been exercising unsupervised parenting time for the past eighteen months, the trial court ordered dad back to supervised parenting time with mandatory hair follicle testing. The Colorado Court of Appeals reversed this portion of the trial court's order upon a finding that the trial court could not require supervised parenting time for dad based solely on his marijuana use without a specific finding that dad's conduct endangered the child physically or impaired the child's emotional development as set forth in C.R.S. §14-10-129(1)(b)(I). Since Colorado follows the Uniform Dissolution of Marriage Act, it is likely that the Parr case will be cited as legal precedent in other states which have legalized medical marijuana. (Note that the Parr decision does not address the parties' property settlement but the rumor is that mom was awarded the house and dad got the potato chips.)

In the wake of the Parr decision, attorneys and litigants in child custody disputes have some measure of guidance when addressing one parent's accusation regarding the other parent's marijuana use. If you're the parent who is seeking supervised parenting time for your pot smoking partner, whether or not they have an MM license, be prepared to present credible and specific evidence that the other parent's conduct endangers the child's physical health or emotional development. If you're the smoking parent, your first and arguably best approach in a child custody dispute is to do a cost/benefit analysis of the situation and "Just say no" to future marijuana use. When that's not a viable option, be ready to show a strong pattern of competent, child-focused parenting along with evidence that your consumption of marijuana has never endangered your child. That said, if your testimony lacks conviction and you're sinking fast under a blistering cross examination, you may have to switch gears at the end and employ the defense of a former president, "I didn't inhale".

 
Amid the flurry of accusations in child custody disputes, allegations of marijuana use rank high on the list. Until recent years, the court's position on this subject was easy to predict since judges...
Amid the flurry of accusations in child custody disputes, allegations of marijuana use rank high on the list. Until recent years, the court's position on this subject was easy to predict since judges...
 
 
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09:47 PM on 10/08/2011
Humans have been altering their state of consciousness with drugs for thousands of years. There are cave paintings of what many archeologists believe to be psychedelic mushrooms, and ancient artifacts depicting opium poppies. Pacific islanders have been using Kava Kava for centuries, if not longer. Evidence of the inhalation of cannabis smoke can be found in the 3rd millennium BCE, as indicated by charred cannabis seeds found in a ritual brazier at an ancient burial site in present day Romania. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO STOP THIS WITH WORDS WRITTEN ON PAPER (LEGISLATION). The "War Against Drugs" is a harmful, costly, unabashed failure. What is called for is well thought out regulation aimed at HARM REDUCTION.
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NickandMurcia Sapoznick
People are the money and we are purposely divided
03:01 AM on 10/04/2011
Second hand smoke caused ADD (proven fact, read up), who wants to take an educated guess with me that second hand marijuana smoke causes.... ?? Wait what was I saying? oh yeah something about kids or some kind of child abuse....man. or something... er... something, wait what huh? I mean child abuse is like wrong or something. Was I supposed to coach little league today or was that last... like... um ... week. Crap where junior? Did I forget to pick him up from school or did i forget to be a parent? Can't remember.
11:40 PM on 09/28/2011
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manfrommars
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09:52 AM on 09/28/2011
No No! Lock everybody up! Only evil people smoke marijaunna.
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RMForbes
Ask me about industrial hemp
01:28 PM on 09/28/2011
That's were the profit is, in our fast growing for profit prison industry. Invest now in America's number 1 growth industry and earn your fortune at the expense of unwashed masses. /snark
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joeyfoto
“Écraser l'infamie!”
01:43 PM on 09/28/2011
manfrommars wrote; "No No! Lock everybody up! Only evil people smoke marijaunna­."

Yes, because prohibition works so well & because Americans can afford to keep paying for failure.

There is a sound reason for that, or at least an explanation that sounds good:
"A fool and his money are soon parted."
09:38 AM on 09/28/2011
As someone who suffers from chronic pain, I think is it ridiculous for anyone to use the crutch of marijuana and claim it is to help with the pain. There are far more other ways to manage pain rather than getting high. Breathing smoke of ANY kind is not good for anyone and I think it is disgusting how people try to justify the need to get high as a medical one.
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RMForbes
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01:34 PM on 09/28/2011
Everyone of the legal pharmaceutical pain relief medications have serious side effects including death from overdose. You cannot overdose on cannabis and cannabis has no adverse side effects. The only way you can die from cannabis use is to be shot in a drug raid by a drug enforcement officer. About 1000 people die every year from overdose of aspirin.
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NickandMurcia Sapoznick
People are the money and we are purposely divided
03:13 AM on 10/04/2011
There is a very real adverse side effect from marijuana, IF I COULD ONLY REMEMBER WHAT IT WAS? Oh well I'm gonna sit on the couch now and watch the propaganda channel. like... live simple.... so like... others can like.... simply live, and stuff....man.

Hay where did our infrastructure go, if only I could... like... remember where I put it...man. Did... somebody...like... smoke it away? Couldn't be?!?!?!?!?!?

I agree it should be decriminalized but still regulated, and no i don't know how, and neither does anyone else. There is no perfect solution for an imperfect problem.
07:07 AM on 09/28/2011
I think the problem with marijuana use (and also with the use of drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, coffee, and any other mood or mind-altering substance) is that the world we live in today needs our best, and those substances, in my experience, tend to dull, dumb, and sedate us. I've seen it first-hand, and it's not pretty.

Argue for your limitations and they are yours...
09:29 AM on 09/28/2011
When I see the term "the world we live in today" I immediately shut off all ability to take the writer seriously. How is the world we live in today different than the world we lived in last week? The world we live in today requires more sensibilities than the world we lived in two years ago.

Are you advocating a return to prohibition that includes coffee and cigarettes? Do you ever go to parties? Please stay out of the voting booth.
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01:44 PM on 09/28/2011
She probably saw the intoxicant level chart released by the Federal government over a decade ago showing that cannabis has an intoxicating ability just one level higher than coffee and tobacco which most people do not even consider intoxicants. She had to include them to include cannabis. But I will always disagree with the whole authoritarian mind set that the function of government is to control populations. We are supposed to be a free society where we should have both the responsibility and the right to make these choices for better or for worse.
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manfrommars
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09:54 AM on 09/28/2011
Boy did you ever hit the nail on the head. Because we all know that alcohol does none of those things. Unfortunately the devol made them legalize alcohol and now 99% of the population is lying drunk in the street.
05:30 AM on 09/28/2011
I VOTE CANNABIS!!!! NOT THE RAPPER JUST THE HERB!! LETS GO REEFER LETS GO!!!!!! (clap,clap clap)
02:35 AM on 09/28/2011
All very interesting here!
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02:23 AM on 09/28/2011
It's shameful that greed and corruption has deprived cannabis from modern society even though it has been our most valuable commodity for 10,000 years, even before we had the wheel. Cannabis can relieve a mild headache better than aspirin. An average of 1000 people die each year from overdose of aspirin but nobody dies from an overdose of cannabis. The real reason cannabis is prohibited is not its intoxicant or pharmacological benefits. Cannabis was made illegal because of its non-intoxicant cousin hemp. Every part of the hemp plant is useful and has more than 25,000 documented uses. Planting hemp as a rotation crop on just 6% of American lands could supply 100% of our energy needs and almost completely eliminate our dependance on fossil fuels and end deforestation to produce paper. The reason we have a war on pot is because there are powerful moneyed interests too invested in competing commodities. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nu7q_-R5NX0 watch this documentary to learn the history of cannabis and the story of the late Jack Herer.
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coolhandfreak
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01:00 AM on 09/28/2011
Everything in moderation. You have judges and cops going out for cocktails and driving intoxicated yet a few puffs of happy smoke now and then and you are the reincarnation of Ghengis Khan. Insane in the membrane if you ask me. Hypocrisy is King!!!.
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07:27 PM on 09/27/2011
There's a few things that don't add up about the federal government's decision to keep marijuana a Schedule I drug.
There are 4 living federal medical marijuana card holders under the CIND program, ended by GHWB in 1992. They receive 300 marijuana cigarettes a month directly from the federal government for medical purposes, and have for decades.
Washington DC, a federally controlled non-state, has legal medical marijuana.
In 1976 a federal judge, in the ruling that led to the creation of CIND, said "Medical evidence suggests that the medical prohibition is not well-founded." Quite the well-aged precedent - it's been around longer than I have.

Granted, there's a lot of propaganda out there on both sides of the argument, but the double-standard of the federal government alone is mind boggling.
06:32 PM on 09/27/2011
First... call weed a drug when you call sugar, tobbacco, coffee, tea, chocolate cola and alcohol drugs. Until then its produce and a natural unadulterated product at that. Second the government should stay the hell out of parenting. except in cases of EXTREME abuse Foster homes and supervised visits only make it worse for the children Third.. Weed should be legal cause its safer than any thing i mentioned above (with the possible exception of tea) People smoking weed are less prone to violence and I suggest actually drive better than so called sober people. Legalizing. It would help to cut the deficit. Since about 35 % of all arrest are for weed, we could legalize and layoff 35% of all police .court personel prison staff etc. and if taxed( its california #1 cash crop) we could generate 100s of billions to right this ship wrecked economy
06:10 PM on 09/27/2011
The govt. cant keep this up forever anyway and they know it. Marijuana has to come out of the category they have it in, or get out of the war on drugs altogether. For one, it's breaking the bank and the ship is already sinking. I say let the people have there weed and play drug wars with the real threats like coke, meth, etc. I will do my part come voting day.
06:05 PM on 09/27/2011
Whereas it should. Having a doper for a parent--isn't conducive to a strong and moral upbringing. More likely, the kid is going to perceive it as acceptable behavior and start doing a long, slow spiral to mediocrity and apathy. "Cannabis" as medicine? Please. If you are a stoner and you want "medical marijuana" that bad...stooping to the level of trying to claim a legitimate medical condition so you can buy weed is juvenile. Grow up. There are bazillions of drugs more effective at relieving symptoms of nausea or any other reason someone would concoct to smoke it. Grow the hell up...smoking marijuana is something that an angst-ridden teen would do in 9th grade to "stick it to their parents." The effective chemical compounds in marijuana have been isolated for years in pill form...however, "screw that" apparently...the stoners want to SMOKE IT---because they can't get the right kind of high by ingesting pills. These people are pathetic...the only people more pathetic are the apologists for the stoners.,,desperately clutching for any fraudulent bit of information relating to some witch-doctor, homeopathic nonsense to try to fortify their arguments.
06:44 PM on 09/27/2011
I think if you took an anger management class it might help you with your problems.
06:46 PM on 09/27/2011
You need to burn one and relax!
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05:40 PM on 09/27/2011
Contemptuous ignorance, concerning the legitimate medical benefits of cannabis, permeates this article. Does anyone think we'd have come this far in advancing patient's rights, if the medical benefits of cannabis were not indisputable?

Having worked on San Francisco's medical marijuana initiative and California's statewide initiative, this article exemplifies the uphill battle that reason has in penetrating the discussion.

Anyone who witnessed the wasting sickness of a generation of AIDS patients reversed by the medicinal use of cannabis, would demonstrate more respect for this plant. The fact that cannabis is being prescribed for less life-threatening ills reflects the lack of will in US society to continue to destroy people's lives to enforce an unenforceable marijuana prohibition — it doe not diminish the significance of cannabis as medicine.

There's no drug on the planet that can not be misused or abused, but focus on marijuana in a divorce is usually an attempt to harm an ex-spouse rather than to protect a child. As a parent, I would be more concerned about the use of alcohol for which there's no such presumption of harm or intrusive "hair-testing."

As a journalist, I would prefer to see research adequate to understanding the complexities of a significant social issue, rather than snide and contemptuous comments about a drug that is responsible for advancing the survival and improving the quality of life for so many people.

Joey Tranchina, M.A., since 1989, founding co-director
California Drug Policy Reform Coalition
05:57 PM on 09/27/2011
Thank You Joey. Excellent Post..
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02:07 AM on 09/28/2011
So very correct and I must add a great post. I got very sick with a nerve disease some years ago and was on some very serious pain killers, while in Canada I tried some marijuana and it worked so much better and covered all of my pain for so much longer, but upon returning to the states I was unable to continues it's use and had yo use my other medications. Unfortunately for me I still have pain but now I am in a state where they won't even give me the meds I had before so now I have pain and nothing to help me cope with it, but I manage some days are worse then others, but I get by!
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02:55 AM on 09/28/2011
Thank you, goserenee1, for having the decency to tell your story.

It is the voice of patients that have won these victories for medical cannabis, across the country. As a drug policy reform advocate, politicians in Sacrament and DC know that I have a political position on the abject failure of US drug policy and the need for reform.

It has been patients, like you, honestly relating their personal experience of medical benefits from the use of cannabis, that has changed the minds and hearts of millions of people and thousands of politicians in both parties.

Sorry that your situation is not being addressed.

#227 Fanned for sharing your experience... Again, thank you...jt