How To Get Through The Recession With Less Depression

Recession Depression Quiz

Does your stomach churn when you read the latest news?

Did you have trouble sleeping last night?

Are you obsessively checking your news sources throughout the day?

Are you angrier or more fearful than normal?

* If your answer is yes to any of these questions, you are experiencing the emotional effects of the recession.

Many people have been laid off from their jobs, lost a substantial percentage of their assets and countless families have lost the opportunity to own homes.

Even if you're one of the lucky ones, and your home, job and bank account are intact; you may still be feeling emotional trauma, fear or anxiety. The emotional trauma and paralyzing fear we experience may leave us unable to make wise decisions, block us from seeing things clearly, or hold us back as we try to move forward.

The threat of recession, and the hardships that usually accompany one, can put us in our own psychological recession, an emotional state in which we feel extremely vulnerable to economic hardship, leading to a grim view of the present, and an even more depressing view of the future. This gloomy mindset causes anxiety, depression, and a sense of being powerless. When we're anxious and depressed, our fear and despair replaces any optimism and faith that we had.

Use these tips to break out of this cycle and survive through the rough times:

Take Control
Stress is based on feeling out of control. Taking a small positive action demonstrates that you are in charge and will lower your stress level. You don't have to solve the entire situation today - just take one small step toward making it better. One step you can take is to speak up. Let your local and state representatives know how you want your tax dollars spent. Here is a link for you to find and email your congressional representatives.

http://www.webslingerz.com/jhoffman/congress-email.html

I did it last night. It takes under five minutes, and sure feels good. Please share this link, and ask your friends to speak up as well. Remember, this is your money and your government.

Stay Focused
Be realistic about your fears surrounding your job security. If you still have your job, how likely is it really that you'll be laid off? Remain grounded so that the fear over losing your job doesn't become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Being chronically fearful leaves one too exhausted to be creative and innovative. Since we expect the worst to happen, we see no reason to continue to give our jobs are all, and we become less productive, which in turn could actually place our job in jeopardy. It's important to stay focused and productive.

Set Limits for Your Media Intake
Fear sells, mayhem boosts ratings, and the media thrives on bad news. Nothing increases viewers like a good disaster. Don't buy into the fear and anxiety. If you find your pulse quickening when you watch television or read The Huffington Post, don't do it before you go to bed. Studies show that you will sleep better with less news intake late at night. Focus your mind on what is upbeat and positive.

Practice Gratitude
We all have reasons to be thankful. Even if your world has been turned upside down by a recession, find something, no matter how small, and focus on your gratitude for that. Feelings of gratitude have been shown to lift a mood, and completely change an outlook.

Take Care of Yourself
Now, more than ever, you need to take care of your mind, body, and soul. Take some down-time to refresh and renew you.

Breathe. Take in a deep breath. Let it out. Now, breathe in infinite good. Exhale self-doubt. Do this three times so you feel more open.

Ask. Ask for support. Don't let shame stop you. You'll be surprised how much others want to help you through life's challenge.

Rest Up. Allow yourself to get the sleep you need. Your body needs more rest when you are dealing with large amounts of stress.

Be Kind. Gentleness never hurt anyone. Be tender with yourself. Forgive yourself. Remind yourself that you are more precious than any possession.
Mind Your Mind. Don't allow yourself to dwell in gloom. Push the pause button and redirect yourself. Call a friend, go for a walk or tell a joke.

Thank Yourself. Thank yourself for making a positive step, big or small.

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Ask Eli a question at [e-mail] or go to www.elidavidson.com to send her what you are doing to turn around your challenge, fear, and effects of the recession?

Eli Davidson is a nationally recognized executive coach and motivational speaker.

Her book, Funky to Fabulous: Surefire Success Stories for The Savvy, Sassy and Swamped, (Oak Grove Publishing) has won three national book awards.

Comments

[ColinF]

awe inspiring

[EliDavidson]

Anti Stress sounds like just the ticket for the current environment.

[Eli Davidson - Huffpost Blogger]

Let's see if I have gone from Funky to Fabulous and have my HP Blogger tag.

[EliDavidson]

Dear Corock,
So well said!

Thank you for contacting your representatives. I am doing the same. My bet is that they could use our support to take courage and do what will serve our country in the long term.

Hmmm...Tea sounds like a fine idea.

[Corock]

I'm thinking that everyone in my district must be taking your advice. The website for my congressman is refusing to load. Does this mean that the web-gods are trying to solve are economic problems and are to busy for me. Does this mean that my entire district is rising up with indignation.. or with support?
Maybe it just means I should make a cup of tea, turn off the cable news for a bit and feel compassion for everyone who feels trapped on a downhill slide.

Then I'll try that congressman again.

[EliDavidson]

Dear Fleaba,
Whether today is the beginning of a recession or depression- you are the person who is in charge of how you react to your outer circumstances. I speak from experience. I

n 18 months I lost my marriage, business and health leaving me with $88,000 of credit card debt. One bleak morning I realized I had a choice. I could remain in my deep funk or take a small step to feel better. That small step lead to another in a positive direction. All those small steps began to create a momentum and have lead to a far richer life than the one that I 'lost.'

I invite you to take a small action in a positive direction today. Take a walk, call a friend. or help someone in need. Please let me know how it worked for you.

[fleaba]

Nice advice and while some of it is good,I have to say that it sounds really naive. This is more than a recession....it's the beginning of a huge depression. But that's just my opinion.

[67bug]

But we very little control over this. We don't yet know what the outcome will be, so why wallow when we can try to stay focused on the positive things in our lives - - sometimes you have to dig deep to find them, but there must be at least one thing that you can have feelings of gratitude for, no matter how small it may be.

[EliDavidson]

Aren't you smart to take yourself to a place that calms you. I agree with you completely. Having grown up on a farm in Kansas, I find that being in nature is very healing. So, I am about to go for a hike. I hope that you will continue to share the tips that work for you.

[67bug]

I think it's also important not to worry about things that we have no control over. I have little control ( I can vote) over the election, so I am not going to worry about it. All of your tips are great, I plan to use them! I find that going to a beautiful place helps to calm me, be it a park or rose garden or a relaxing little cafe.

[EliDavidson]

Boy, I could use a trip to Costa Rica...it sounds like a wonderful place.

[jjdillon]

I feel that one of the best ways to de-stress is to meditate. Take the focus off the outside world and spend a little quiet time.
Every year I sponsor a Costa Rica retreat that teaches you to get back to the life you desire. Please visit me at http://www.healthylivingandbalance.com/life_empowerment.html
There is no place on this retreat for depression or the reality of the recession.

Joyce Dillon

[EliDavidson]

Thank you for sharing.

[NickyD]

Simplify and don't bank at WaMu... :) at least if your on the west coast!

[dadw5boys]

BULL YOU BETTER KEEP ANS EYE ON THE NEWS INCASE !

Paulson said " if they don't act soon this suckers is going down"

He meant the economy !!!!!!

[hypnotoad72]

Stay Focused
Be realistic about your fears surrounding your job security. If you still have your job, how likely is it really that you'll be laid off? Remain grounded so that the fear over losing your job doesn't become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Being chronically fearful leaves one too exhausted to be creative and innovative. Since we expect the worst to happen, we see no reason to continue to give our jobs are all, and we become less productive, which in turn could actually place our job in jeopardy. It's important to stay focused and productive.

Set Limits for Your Media Intake
Fear sells, mayhem boosts ratings, and the media thrives on bad news. Nothing increases viewers like a good disaster. Don't buy into the fear and anxiety. If you find your pulse quickening when you watch television or read The Huffington Post, don't do it before you go to bed. Studies show that you will sleep better with less news intake late at night. Focus your mind on what is upbeat and positive.

Practice Gratitude
We all have reasons to be thankful. Even if your world has been turned upside down by a recession, find something, no matter how small, and focus on your gratitude for that. Feelings of gratitude have been shown to lift a mood, and completely change an outlook.
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You are absolutely right!

[hypnotoad72]

>>Stay Focused
Be realistic about your fears surrounding your job security. If you still have your job, how likely is it really that you'll be laid off? Remain grounded so that the fear over losing your job doesn't become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Being chronically fearful leaves one too exhausted to be creative and innovative. Since we expect the worst to happen, we see no reason to continue to give our jobs are all, and we become less productive, which in turn could actually place our job in jeopardy. It's important to stay focused and productive.

Set Limits for Your Media Intake
Fear sells, mayhem boosts ratings, and the media thrives on bad news. Nothing increases viewers like a good disaster. Don't buy into the fear and anxiety. If you find your pulse quickening when you watch television or read The Huffington Post, don't do it before you go to bed. Studies show that you will sleep better with less news intake late at night. Focus your mind on what is upbeat and positive.

Practice Gratitude
We all have reasons to be thankful. Even if your world has been turned upside down by a recession, find something, no matter how small, and focus on your gratitude for that. Feelings of gratitude have been shown to lift a mood, and completely change an outlook.