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Why I'm a Straight Christian Fighting for Gay Rights

Posted: 07/31/2012 6:07 pm

A few Saturday's ago, my husband and I spent our afternoon in the fellowship hall of St. Luke's Community Church. As Christians, it's not uncommon for us to spend part of our weekends gathered with people at a place of worship. What was different about this church gathering was that we didn't read the Bible, sing hymns or talk about God. Instead, we read a handout detailing the next step for passing bill 2012-296, the addendum to Jacksonville, Fla.'s Human Rights Ordinance that would protect gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender citizens from discrimination in housing, employment and public accommodations.

The meeting was emotional. Everyone was frustrated, but working to retain hope after being dealt setback after setback. Despite the bill being introduced in May, then discussed in multiple City Council meetings over the past two months, the members have not yet voted. Worse, the bill was quietly removed from agenda at the latest City Council meeting last Tuesday, meaning the discussion is now moved into committees, away from the public. It appears the community is no longer able to voice their support or opposition.

While many local and worldwide leaders have voiced their support, including former mayor John Delaney and Archbishop Desmond Tutu, our current Democratic mayor Alvin Brown has stayed mostly silent on the issue.

At the church meeting, the community leaders talked about staying strong in the face of the verbal attacks hurled from the opposition. Often times these insults and prejudices come from Jacksonville citizens, but sometimes they come from the Council Members themselves. Members like Councilwoman Kimberly Daniels, who publicly asked on the record, "sexual orientation ... could it be orientated to, other types, like animals?"

Statements like that are why I don't blame some people for their anger over the city's inability to pass the bill. People like the man sitting near my husband and I in the fellowship hall. "It's 2012" he said, "Why are we still letting them treat us like second class citizens? We should be in the streets!" His anger was directed at the Jacksonville churches and conservative religious community, who have been the strongest opponents of the bill. "It's not a religious issue" someone else said, "it's an economic one." Quietly, I thought to myself, I disagree.

To me, this is undoubtedly a religious, Christian issue. As a self-proclaimed follower of Christ, I have tried my hardest to adhere the teachings of Jesus. From my reading of Scripture, there is little doubt in my mind what side He would take for this issue.

He would stand with the persecuted.

In parable after parable, Jesus is shown to care about the people who all others have given up on. He hung out with the tax collectors, publicly acknowledged women and children (which no men at the time did), and treated the homeless, sick and elderly with respect. He surrounded himself with people who had been hurt by the pompous religious elite, the Pharisees.

In Jacksonville, the people who are abhorred by the religious Pharisees of today are the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender individuals that this bill legally protects.

These modern day Pharisees claim this an issue of "legalizing a sinful lifestyle," failing to acknowledge that what two consenting adults do behind their doors should be none of their (or the governments) business. This is not about "lifestyle" at all. It's about blatant discrimination and legal prejudice, that they are hideously using Jesus as a reason to uphold.

Thanks to the wisdom of our forefathers, sin should have nothing to do with our laws. That's what the separation of church and state is for, and that's why religion is not only a terrible reason to allow legal prejudice, but an invalid one as well.

So why should I as a Christian be concerned with changing this, or any law, if other religious people can't use Jesus as a justification for policing their morality?

Because unlike the Jacksonville conservative religious community, LGBT residents are not trying to force their beliefs on anyone. All they're asking for is a city where they can work, live and be treated with dignity.

If I've learned anything from the Bible, it's that what Jesus was most concerned with was people. Treating ALL people with love, kindness and respect, and teaching his followers to do the same. Knowing that, I cannot stay silent while others are trying to use Jesus as a justification for their prejudice.

Thankfully, I am not the only Christian in Jacksonville who feels this way. A group of pastors and religious leaders has come together to urge the City Council to pass the bill. Hopefully their voices will have an impact on those members of the Council who are using their faith as a justification to discriminate. Maybe if more Christians, locally and elsewhere, would add their voices to this debate the bill would have a better chance of passing.

Like Jesus and many of his followers, I hate injustice. Because of that, I will not stop fighting with my LGBT brothers and sisters until this bill is passed, and Jacksonville joins the 160 other cities that offer legal protections for the community that I love and respect.

 

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12:57 AM on 08/29/2012
So...if they are doing things behind closed doors...how do you know if someone is homosexual or not? Her statement totally invalidates her whole argument. if its "behind closed doors" no one will know!

"sin should have nothing to do with our laws"? Hmm, REALLY? how about the sin of murder? or stealing? or lying? throw those out too?

I suggest Ms Timbol write about something intelligent next time.
12:00 AM on 08/12/2012
The blind leading the blind here it appears. Reading the comments I clearly see a blatant lack of reading comprehension regarding the Bible and ability to rightly divide the word of truth. From someone saying that the men of sodom were ONLY GUILTY for trying to "gang rape" the angels, because it wasn't "consensual", to denial that the Bible even mentions homosexual behavior as wrong. Talk about ridiculous! LOL It's almost unbelievable how horribly "daft" someone could be to come to these conclusions given the blatantly obvious reading of the text. Here's a link that provides a refutation of Mathew Vines argument that there are "gay christians" by Dr. James White. He destroys all such nonsense arguments and claims that Mathew Vines asserts, and they are the same as I've read in the comments here. http://www.aomin.org/aoblog/index.php?itemid=5086
11:12 AM on 08/08/2012
thank you for an amazing story! i wished more of the religious community around here thought as you.
09:04 PM on 08/05/2012
I am an atheist and I love the way this person thinks. I've also seen many Christians defending gay rights in the comments, and I thank you for that. I'd like to remind all of you, however, that bible interpretations are essentially opinions. Debate won't change most minds. My argument for why Christians shouldn't vote against gay rights (regardless of bible interpretation) is as follows:

The constitution guarantees a separation of church and state, so that everyone could practice their own belief if they choose to, but no one is forced to participate in any belief system. As a Christian, how would you feel about being subjected to Laws from the Muslim or Jewish religions? You would be giving up many types of food, forced to fast for some periods of time, and various other things, for no reason at all, because they are of a different religion. This applies to Christianity as well. I would think it unfair to force Christians to follow Islamic laws, and it is equally unfair for our nation to have to follow Christian rules.

Because your reason for voting against homosexual marriage lies in your religion beliefs, you should vote to allow it, or at least not vote, simply because you must see that it is wrong to subject an entire nation with many different religions and some with no religion to the rules of your religion. A vote against gay marriage is a vote for theocracy and religious tyranny.
01:00 AM on 08/29/2012
Where does the constitution "guarantee a separation of church and state"??
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mykelb
12:07 AM on 08/03/2012
The same Christ who said, "But those mine enemies, which would not that I should reign over them, bring hither, and slay them before me." Luke 19:27

Excuse me if I pause to throw up a little. Your fake deity has inflamed the masses for 2000 years of hatred against those who exercise freedom of conscience which is a hallmark of our US Constitution. Your kind have been murdering us for 2000 years. You can take your megalomaniacal genocidal Jesus and shove him so far up your bum you needn't ever use a toilet again.
04:42 PM on 08/06/2012
ummm. Fake deity? Its obvious u have not researched the claims of Christ nor the reliability of the N.T. documents. Your anger has blinded you to the evidence which u ahve not researched
01:18 PM on 08/20/2012
lol
11:45 PM on 08/02/2012
LGBT people deserve liberty and freedom from oppression, but there is a point at which they impact on others. Emily, you write that "LGBT residents are not trying to force their beliefs on anyone.", but you also write that "bill 2012-296 ... would protect gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender citizens from discrimination in housing ..." This sounds like someone who wishes to rent a room of their house has no choice in whether the tenants engage in gay sex. If the home owner is a conservative Christian who believes that the Bible states that homosexual sex is sinful (Romans 1, 1 Corinthians 6 etc), then does this bill potentially force them to house activities against their conscience? Note that various scriptures indicate that a homeowner may be judged by god according to their household (2 John 1:10, 1 Timothy 3:12, Deuteronomy 7:26).
05:50 AM on 08/03/2012
You mean like if the people with the houses are inhospitable as Jesus implied that the sin of the people of Sodom was to be inhospitable to strangers said in Matthew 10:14-15:
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ThomasRyanAlex
08:43 PM on 08/05/2012
Thankfully Sodom and Gomorrah had nothing to do with consensual homosexual relationships; only rape of males by other males.
08:23 PM on 08/05/2012
Rental codes do not effect a private owner that lives in the same home like a duplex. They can discriminate against almost anyone for any reason. But, if you are running a rental business you cannot discriminate.
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frommyeyes
04:33 PM on 08/02/2012
Thanks for the great article. While I believe gay rights are civil rights, this does not mean that many other people don't use Christianity as their weapon of choice to keep others down. Having allies that are Christian can only help and there are many gay Christians who suffer within their communities, who need support, who need their families to be talked to and who appreciate that other Christians DON'T feel the same way as so many of the ones who proclaim "love the sinner, hate the sin". Just because she supports them as a Christian does not mean she does not believe in their civil rights. They are not mutually exclusive. Did Martin Luther King feel that way? Having said all of that, I agree with her. The message Jesus gave was to love and to leave all judgement up to God. I for one, am glad it's not my responsibility to pass judgement. I'll leave it in the hands of someone who no doubt knows better than me.
05:51 AM on 08/03/2012
Dr. Kings late wife was in full support of gay civil rights.
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HabeusPorpoise
2 wrongs are only the beginning
04:19 PM on 08/02/2012
The Bible mentions helping the poor somewhere between 300 to 500 times (depending on your version). It mentions homosexuality fewer than a dozen times. Maybe we're focussing our energies on the wrong thing.
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Patricia Brush
01:02 PM on 08/05/2012
Actually, it never mentions homosexuality, neither by word or by concept in the original language tests. What it does say is that you shouldn't have sex that is part of idol worship, and you shouldn't have sex that is abusive, coercive or violent. The fact that it makes these requirements of heterosexuals way more times than it does of homosexuals seems to be overlooked.
04:48 PM on 08/06/2012
Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
01:09 AM on 08/29/2012
right...it does not originally say "homosexual"...it just says that a man having sex with another man is sin. whatever it is that you're adding to or taking away from Gods Word is...well...wrong too.
Please, show us ONE place where God condones men having sex with men and blesses that act.
Conversely, marriage and family is ALWAYS mentioned as between a man and a woman. Even divorce is mentioned between man and woman.
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HabeusPorpoise
2 wrongs are only the beginning
04:12 PM on 08/02/2012
As soon as ANYONE here can adequately follow the Sermon on the Mount; I'll listen to their interpretations of Leviticus.
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JDuck
Until we know the equal we'll never feel the free.
12:47 AM on 08/06/2012
What's your version?
01:20 AM on 08/02/2012
I believe the term you are looking for "fulfilled" ("alla plerosai" in the Greek). It seems exceedingly unlikely that "invalidation" would be applicable here.

Paul explicitly condemns "arsenokoitēs" - those "who sleep with men" [as with women] -independently of the Levitical laws. You can take any of several revisionist interpretations, but these would not be in keeping with the understanding of the term by near contemporary speakers of the language.

What I do understand about "Christ is the end of the law" - "telos" can refer to the point at which something ceases, but I think it better read as "purpose". Telos gar nomou Cristos can be quite readily read as "The purpose of the law is Christ" without any failure to comprehend. You are free to take a different reading, but this is my understanding of the question.

Until I am convinced by better scholarship or other means, I shall have to humbly maintain the understanding of the various passages cited that has been prevalent for the past 2000 years. Odds that a revisionist position would better understand the text than those who natively spoke that language centuries ago are rather slim. It would be intellectually dishonest for me to change my beliefs just because they are unpopular or disputed.

As one of the fundamentalists (in the strict theological sense): believing another person to be committing a particular sin is no reason for persecution or hate, but for compassion and grace - like any other dispute.
02:33 PM on 08/02/2012
Exactly. The people that think that they need to interpret the scripture to fit their "faith" are wrong. Christianity does not condone homosexuality and never has. Its not worth arguing about its just not there. If you are for gay rights you are not a true Christians. Simple. Jesus taught love and to love all people but hate the sin. BTW, hatred and violence towards the LBGT people is not a Christian thing either.

This is one of the most true, valuable and honest statements Ive read in a long time:

"Until I am convinced by better scholarship or other means, I shall have to humbly maintain the understanding of the various passages cited that has been prevalent for the past 2000 years. Odds that a revisionist position would better understand the text than those who natively spoke that language centuries ago are rather slim. It would be intellectually dishonest for me to change my beliefs just because they are unpopular or disputed."
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HabeusPorpoise
2 wrongs are only the beginning
04:06 PM on 08/02/2012
I hope the doctrinaire Christians are aware of these other banned activities:
http://www.11points.com/books/11_things_the_bible_bans,_but_you_do_anyway
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Patricia Brush
01:19 PM on 08/05/2012
The Bible does not condemn homosexuality. The word is not in the Bible in the original language texts, and the concept is not discussed. Words were available in Hebrew and Greek that could have been used, but they weren't. Since the Bible doesn't mention it, and neither does Jesus, it's a bit of a stretch to say that Christianity doesn't condone it. I'm talking about the following of Christ, not organized religions calling themselves Christian, many of whom have strayed very far from what Jesus' instructions were.

It's not about interpreting the scripture to fit your faith. It's about reading it to find what it truly says, unclouded by preconceptions.
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HabeusPorpoise
2 wrongs are only the beginning
04:02 PM on 08/02/2012
Okay, so men cant lie with men, find any rule about lesbians in the Bible... I dare you.
10:29 PM on 08/02/2012
Many Christians consider Romans 1:26 to portray lesbian sex as sinful for Christians.
12:39 AM on 08/02/2012
Emily, I don't know how old you are? you seem young, but you're amazingly wise for your age. And I'm so greatful that you chose to speak up for what you see as Christ like living. Thank you:)
05:07 PM on 08/06/2012
The Christ being promoted today is not the Christ of the N.T. The Christ today is tolerant, benign and does not judge anyone; He never condemns sin and is a divine santa claus allowing people to choose their sin and wink at it.
Jesus did love sinners and reached out to them but he did discriminate and he did speak against sin; infact listen to what sweet little Jesus said:
Murder

21 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder,[a] and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ 22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister[b][c] will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’[d] is answerable to the court. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell.
05:09 PM on 08/06/2012
Murder

21 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder,[a] and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ 22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister[b][c] will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’[d] is answerable to the court. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell.
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
12:29 AM on 08/02/2012
True Christianity ?
08:24 PM on 08/01/2012
"From my reading of Scripture, there is little doubt in my mind what side He would take for this issue."

That is nice, but your reading of Scripture is contrary to the great weight of authority for the entire history of the Christian religion. So why, exactly, should others believe that your reading is right, and the reading of past theologians and the entire Christian tradition is wrong?
09:11 PM on 08/01/2012
And that, boys and girls, is why holy books are a notoriously poor source of morality. If you try hard enough you can probably read into it anything you want.
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Phyllis Copeland
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02:47 AM on 08/02/2012
Let me be your first fan!! Internet high five! :-D
07:13 AM on 08/02/2012
And Christ's message were contrary to the great weight of authority for the history of Judaism that formed the Pharisee and Sadducee elites.
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JDuck
Until we know the equal we'll never feel the free.
12:49 AM on 08/06/2012
"So why, exactly, should others believe that your reading is right, and the reading of past theologians and the entire Christian tradition is wrong? "

Then let's avoid all of Christianity alltogether.

Give full legal rights to gays.
05:16 PM on 08/06/2012
This isnt a christian thing. Its called the law of God written within the hearts of man. Christians or non christians know certain things to be wrong based on God's laws written in the heart; murder, stealing, lying etc..People know instinctively that men and women belong together. Biology demonstrates this. People also know, despite what media and gays want us to believe, that homosexuality goes against God's intednded design. Gays can never reproduce. Never. Its not God's design!
The founding fathers knew this when they signed the declaration of independence. They said we hold these truths to be self evident. They believe they had inalienable rights that were being violated. They did not appeal to Bible but the law written in everyones heart
01:15 AM on 08/29/2012
what legal "rights" do they not have that everyone else has?
should pedophiles be given full legal rights as well? how about rapists?
07:03 PM on 08/01/2012
When you fight for something which goes against nature of what God intends you arent fighting for the helpless you are shaking your fist at God. Loving others is much different then fighting for something which goes against Gods law
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Norman Dostal
08:05 PM on 08/01/2012
but God made gay people too (if he exists) so what the hell are you talking about?
12:37 AM on 08/02/2012
So who created gays? Who preserves gays? And if their creation is against God's laws then why were they created? Has anyone in your church stopped to think that maybe this issue is just another way of God testing your capability to love beyond judgement? Maybe this is nothing but a test for all Christians to see if they can adhere to that ultimate and most beautiful teaching of all time.....do unto others.
04:57 PM on 08/06/2012
God created man. Man sinned and as a result people are born with sinful bents like drunkeness, violence and homosexuality. The issue is does one act on those bents. There is not a shred of proven scientific evidence thats conclusive that people are born with a gay jean. We may be born with tendencies. People act on their tendencies.
06:11 PM on 08/01/2012
"Jesus ministered to the marginalized however no where did He accept sinful behavior and it's important to make that distinction. Jesus in the parables invited people to conversion and inclusion into God's Kingdom. That has always been the theme of the parables. Conversion requires a change in behavior."
Sinful sexual behavior, which I define as that which hurts other people, isn't exclusively homosexual. How many unwanted and abused children are produced by heterosexuals?