Gay Space Cannot Be Straight Women's Safe Space Until It's Safe For Those Who Are Gay

Gay Space Cannot Be Straight Women's Safe Space Until It's Safe For Those Who Are Gay
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The massacre of 49 people in Orlando's Pulse nightclub evoked grief, shock, anger, and guilt. Guilt about the thoughtless revelry of privilege I had engaged in the night before.

Friday had been a long day at the end of a long week. I was alone in New York City and I needed an ear to bend, a shoulder to lean on, and a friend guaranteed to make me laugh even against my will, so I speed-dialed Michael Arceneaux. Brilliant, beautiful, hilariously irreverent, and a decade my junior, I indulge an adoring friendship with Michael complete with late-night texts, smooching emojis, and shared worship of Beyoncé.

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