By Jordan Gray
I promise to see into your soul on a daily basis.
I promise to ask you how your day was and give you all of the presence of attention at my disposal.
I promise to always take good care of myself and to lean on others for support.
I promise to come to you for support when I need it.
I promise to take regular trips with you because the world is waiting for us to hold hands in front of it.
When you’ve taken on more than you can handle, I promise to stand by your side and take some of the weight off of your shoulders.
I promise to put effort into date nights, our connection, and our sex life.
I promise to constantly grow and evolve with you in our relationship, as that is how I define love.
I promise to share the truth in my heart with you, every day.
I promise to always be available for the difficult conversations, even in the middle of the night.
I promise to remind you exactly what it is that I love about you, as often as you will listen.
I promise to never criticize you in front of our friends or family.
I promise to put my head on your beating heart when we’re old and wrinkly everywhere.
I promise to love you when you don’t feel like you can get out of bed... and I promise to love you when you don’t feel like getting into bed.
I promise to love you, even when you’re being a jerk. And I promise to love you so much that I will tell you when you’re being a jerk.
I promise to have your back, no matter what.
I promise you, from this day moving forward, I will never be lazy in loving you.
You have my word.
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